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Dear Jai,

 

well u have to provide dates wherever u can

say married on divorced on

any issues/abortions miscarriages in it

 

father's death date. approx time.

remarriage.

daughter born on, time, place.

 

one or tow dates of in and out of ur job/s. any relocation if any dates.

 

YES a 2nd marriage was always on ur cards and the troubles u said in it this

also shows u r equally disturbed a person and prone to mood swings and at

times violent too. will cover this when i reply next.

 

Best wishes

 

prashant kumar

 

 

 

On Mon, Jun 30, 2008 at 2:31 AM, jaidixit74 <jaidixit74 wrote:

 

> Dear Shri Prashant Kumar,

>

> Thanks a lot for your response. I've uploaded mine and and my wife's

> photos for your reference.

> Yes my wife's family is better off in terms of finance , social status

> and family bonding.

>

> I do agree that our birth times are seemingly " rounded off " . But this is

> what we received from our parents and unfortunately.

>

> Here is a brief history of my life events. If you feel my birth time

> needs correction please let me know.

>

> Childhood: Normal , carefree, studious. Good academic record.

> Teenage : Fantastic academic record. Troubled relationship with father.

> 1992 - 1996 ( 18 - 22 ): Engineering degree. Below average academic

> record. Not very high scores.

> 1997 - 1999 : Worked in India. Good career.

> 1999 (25 years ): Moved to USA.

> 2002 (28 years ): Got married. Marriage did not work at all because of

> the weird/cruel nature of the girl. Depressed ,reclused and

> disinterested in life

> 2003 ( 29 years ): Father passed away

> 2004 ( 30 years ) : Got divorced.

> 2005 April ( 31 years ) : Got married without getting horoscope matched

> as we were in love with each other. Strained relationship after first

> six months of marriage. Has improved a lot now. Got to know later that

> our horoscopes do NOT match.

> 2007 Nov ( 33 years ) : Birth of my daughter

>

> No major illnesses or accidents. Fairly good health. Average

> finances,Middle class types

>

> Mrs.Wendy,

> Thanks for your consideration and allowing my post to go through.

>

> Regards,

> Jai

>

> In jyotish-vidya <jyotish-vidya%40>, " astro

> desk "

>

> <astro.prashantkumar wrote:

> >

> > Jai

> >

> > ur lagna lord Guru is in a fixed sign in D1, D9 and his dasa starts

> from

> > 12/Mar /09 so by June 24 09 u wud have started ur howward journey. the

> > periods of grahas [planets] in fixed sings will bring u back to base

> or home

> > country for best part, u will still travel on work for short

> durations. it

> > will be a v good period in manyways.

> >

> > is ur wife's family better placed than urs in some ways?

> >

> > many obstacles, indecessive times will be there due to Ashtama sani

> running

> > in ur case, mother's health also may suffer a bit. between 23/2/08 to

> > 12/3/09 in this 13/5/ to 3/7/08 cud be one such period. some trouble

> to

> > vehicles also is possible

> >

> > Mars aspect to 4thhouse, 4th lord is a factor it is placed in 6 in D9

> too.

> >

> > Arundathi's

> >

> > is born in a Lagna sandhi will work on this only if there is some

> verifiable

> > data alsp post both urs and her pictures in the members picture area

> here

> > helps verify lagna features too.

> >

> > I use ramans' ayanamsa so dasa, vargas, dates will differ from others

> in any

> > case lagna is a sandhi [cusp] point

> >

> > for that matter both of urs data seems too good to be born on the dot

> on the

> > hr

> >

> > Best wishes

> >

> > Prashant kumar

> >

> > On Sun, Jun 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM, Jai Dixit jaidixit74 wrote:

> >

> > > Dear Jay,

> > >

> > > I've approved your mail on the off-chance that members might wish to

> offer

> > > their opinion...and also because you've asked one specific question

> > > regarding your location/relocation. However I should remind you that

> this is

> > > a discussion group and not a place to request readings.

> > >

> > > Best Wishes,

> > > Mrs. Wendy

> > > Http://JyotishVidya.com <http://jyotishvidya.com/> <

> http://jyotishvidya.com/>

>

> > > ___________________________

> > >

> > > Dear Jyotishi

> > >

> > > I'm presently residing in USA and have a decent paying job. My wife

> and 7

> > > month daughter are with me here. My wife has a visa issue and if she

> goes to

> > > India she is most likely to be denied a US visa because of the weird

> US

> > > immigration rules. There is no issue if she continues to stay in US

> till I

> > > become a US citizen in July 2010. The problem is she desperately

> wants to go

> > > to India just to meet her family and she has become extremely

> home-sick.

> > > Added to this her mother and I have had major problems when she was

> here in

> > > US. So we are in a situation where neither her parents cannot/will

> not come

> > > visit us or my parents come visit us.

> > >

> > > My plan was to relocate to India permanently once I get US

> citizenship.

> > > Getting US citizenship has lot of advantages like retirement

> benefits,visa

> > > free travel to many countries while still maintaining Indian

> citizenship

> > > etc.

> > >

> > > Now with all said above I need to take a major decision on where I

> need to

> > > e staying. I hope that Jyotish can guide me in making a decision.

> > >

> > > 1)Is it good for me and my wife to relocate to India for good like

> in next

> > > few months thereby giving up US citizenship ? If so how are my

> career

> > > prospects in India in the forthcoming months?

> > >

> > > 2) Are there any chances of my wife getting back to USA if she

> leaves for

> > > India ?

> > >

> > > I have been doing my regular pooja everyday and reciting Navagrah

> sthothra.

> > >

> > >

> > > Birth details

> > >

> > > Jai

> > > Aug 2 1974

> > > 17:00 PM

> > > Bangalore, India

> > >

> > > Arundathi

> > > June 24 1976

> > > 7:30 AM

> > > Bangalore, India

> > >

> > > Thanks in advance,

> > > Jai

> > >

> > >

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Hi manasa,

 

a v good post well constructed and good flow of thought analysis and

articulation.nice to read such good posts after a long time i've seen both

ur subject and language grow side by side.

 

 

Best wishes

 

Prashant kumar

 

On Mon, Jun 30, 2008 at 8:09 AM, m2sangeeth <m2sangeeth wrote:

 

> Dear Jai,

>

> After reading your chart I wish to point out a few things.

> Firstly, we need to understand why you could not come up with a

> decision on your own. A weak moon in natal chart and saturn conjunct

> moon in the 4th house(D-9) explains your melancholic nature/ some one

> easily given to stress; 5th lord mars is weak in natal chart and

> debilitated in navamsa (D-9) indicates your indecisive nature. Even if

> you get advice from the senior members of your family, it seems that

> you get into arguments with them (influence of mars). So finally how

> you form your decisions? You turn to those in the social circle

> (11th) or approach a social group like this. Would you benefit from

> such advises? Let's look into that. Your lagna is aspected by 11th

> lord venus, lagna lord aspecting 7th, 9th and 11th houses.So,

> certainly you would.

>

> In my view, the challenge for you is to understand the

> significations of these houses. 7th house says of relationship in

> general. 9th house signifies father and your current spouse. 11th

> house gains from social circle as well as income. Lagna lord is the

> same as 4th lord which says of your mother. Is it true if I say that

> your mother is the person who has influenced you the most?. What I

> wish to tell you is that, your life is very much relationship

> oriented. It is more important that you learn to adapt to the

> challenges in relationships than anythingelse. How could you learn

> that? Let's have a look at your personality and your approach to

> relationships in general.

>

> Your lagna (dual sign) and 7th house (dual sign) shows that you are a

> dual natured person. The two planets -saturn and venus- in 7th house

> aspecting lagna helps to understand your nature. In my view, at one

> time you are well-groomed, charming and romantic person, at another

> instance you are reserved, cold, stubborn person which is mostly

> hidden. Also,Gemini being your 7th sign, communicating with your loved

> ones is a major issue for you. It's lord mercury in rashi sandhi

> speaks of the errors that could occur with it. You may be easily

> misunderstood and find yourself in agony. Note that if anytime you

> fail in a relationship it is because of your own withdrawal (ketu).

> Remember that it's okay to give in to other person's opinion; that

> would fetch you more love and a happy life. If you find that your

> spouse's view is wrong, learn to put your views across in a calm and

> patient manner. This will definitely help you in forming a decision.

>

> Regards,

> Manasa.

>

> P.S. Praying to lord krishna and meditation would be of great help to

> you in your most difficult times.

>

>

>

 

 

 

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Dear Manasa,

 

I have not looked at Jai's chart at all, but I have read your

interpretation and advice to him with delight. I like how you first

examined why he asks this question to us, and what he would do with

the answer.

 

I particularly like that you find the 7th Lord Mercury in difficulty

and have advised accordingly in relationships.

 

I only know of this chart through your interpretation but would like

to add that a ras-sadhi planet is like a person in the midst of moving

from one house to another. They cannot get anything else done, except

move. So advising about communication issues with relatives and love-

relations is very excellent, and perhaps add something about the need

to stop what he is doing, put everything down, and listen patiently

when close relatives and wife speaks on non-casual things. Don't be

moving place to place while trying to communicate.

 

Associating Ketu with withdrawal is also excellent, IMO.

 

My only disagreement is that the 9th House has something to do with

current spouse. From where do you get that?

 

Yours,

Vic

http://ww.vedicastrologer.net

 

 

On Jun 29, 2008, at 7:39 PM, m2sangeeth wrote:

 

> Dear Jai,

>

> After reading your chart I wish to point out a few things.

> Firstly, we need to understand why you could not come up with a

> decision on your own. A weak moon in natal chart and saturn conjunct

> moon in the 4th house(D-9) explains your melancholic nature/ some one

> easily given to stress; 5th lord mars is weak in natal chart and

> debilitated in navamsa (D-9) indicates your indecisive nature. Even if

> you get advice from the senior members of your family, it seems that

> you get into arguments with them (influence of mars). So finally how

> you form your decisions? You turn to those in the social circle

> (11th) or approach a social group like this. Would you benefit from

> such advises? Let's look into that. Your lagna is aspected by 11th

> lord venus, lagna lord aspecting 7th, 9th and 11th houses.So,

> certainly you would.

>

> In my view, the challenge for you is to understand the

> significations of these houses. 7th house says of relationship in

> general. 9th house signifies father and your current spouse. 11th

> house gains from social circle as well as income. Lagna lord is the

> same as 4th lord which says of your mother. Is it true if I say that

> your mother is the person who has influenced you the most?. What I

> wish to tell you is that, your life is very much relationship

> oriented. It is more important that you learn to adapt to the

> challenges in relationships than anythingelse. How could you learn

> that? Let's have a look at your personality and your approach to

> relationships in general.

>

> Your lagna (dual sign) and 7th house (dual sign) shows that you are a

> dual natured person. The two planets -saturn and venus- in 7th house

> aspecting lagna helps to understand your nature. In my view, at one

> time you are well-groomed, charming and romantic person, at another

> instance you are reserved, cold, stubborn person which is mostly

> hidden. Also,Gemini being your 7th sign, communicating with your loved

> ones is a major issue for you. It's lord mercury in rashi sandhi

> speaks of the errors that could occur with it. You may be easily

> misunderstood and find yourself in agony. Note that if anytime you

> fail in a relationship it is because of your own withdrawal (ketu).

> Remember that it's okay to give in to other person's opinion; that

> would fetch you more love and a happy life. If you find that your

> spouse's view is wrong, learn to put your views across in a calm and

> patient manner. This will definitely help you in forming a decision.

>

> Regards,

> Manasa.

>

>

> P.S. Praying to lord krishna and meditation would be of great help to

> you in your most difficult times.

>

>

> ---

>

>

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Dear Manasa,

 

> Vic, isn't it true that spouse from 2nd marriage has to be seen from

> 9th

> house ?. By current spouse I meant just that. If I am wrong just

> correct me,k.

 

No, I don't think so. We discussed this recently in the group. I'm a

little too busy at the moment to go look for the exact thread, but it

wasn't too long ago. Do you have some new information to support the

idea?

 

Yours

Vic DiCara

http://www.vedicastrologer.net

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