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Dear IM,

 

Your husband seems to have the a renunciate's (sanyasa) chart, with 5

planets in one house, ketu in the 12th house and the 10th house and

lord afflicted. In your chart though your heart (4th) and values (9th)

cannot be questioned, may be it is your speech(2nd house which is

seriously afflicted along with the 2nd lord)which lets you down. Also

for you, gain is measured in material terms (11th house with 11th lord

saturn(materialistic) in it ), which may not fit in with your

husband's.

 

A detailed look will follow

 

regards

arun

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5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see the chart of

tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

 

regrds

viswanath

 

arun <savitarcyber wrote:

Dear IM,

 

Your husband seems to have the a renunciate's (sanyasa) chart, with 5

planets in one house, ketu in the 12th house and the 10th house and

lord afflicted. In your chart though your heart (4th) and values (9th)

cannot be questioned, may be it is your speech(2nd house which is

seriously afflicted along with the 2nd lord)which lets you down. Also

for you, gain is measured in material terms (11th house with 11th lord

saturn(materialistic) in it ), which may not fit in with your

husband's.

 

A detailed look will follow

 

regards

arun

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Viswanath,

 

I'm sure you won't mind sharing the data for tipu sultan to enable a

comparison of the two charts.

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

 

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" Astrologer_vishy Nair " <astrologervishy_nair

<jyotish-vidya >

Thursday, September 13, 2007 10:20 PM

Re: Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see the chart of

tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

 

regrds

viswanath

 

arun <savitarcyber wrote:

Dear IM,

 

Your husband seems to have the a renunciate's (sanyasa) chart, with 5

planets in one house, ketu in the 12th house and the 10th house and

lord afflicted. In your chart though your heart (4th) and values (9th)

cannot be questioned, may be it is your speech(2nd house which is

seriously afflicted along with the 2nd lord)which lets you down. Also

for you, gain is measured in material terms (11th house with 11th lord

saturn(materialistic) in it ), which may not fit in with your

husband's.

 

A detailed look will follow

 

regards

arun

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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PS: Apologies, I was called away before I could add the reference from

Parashara regarding yoga for ascetism...

 

BPHS Ch79 http://jyotishvidya.com/ch79.htm states that a yoga for ascetism

is formed when four or more planets (with strength) occupy a single bhava.

Of course other conditions in the horoscope need to support this for it to

come to fruition.

 

It would be interesting to compare the two charts :-)

___________

 

 

Viswanath,

 

I'm sure you won't mind sharing the data for tipu sultan to enable a

comparison of the two charts.

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

 

-

" Astrologer_vishy Nair " <astrologervishy_nair

<jyotish-vidya >

Thursday, September 13, 2007 10:20 PM

Re: Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see the chart of

tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

 

regrds

viswanath

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respected Viswanath

 

please refer, stanza one, chapter fifteen of Varaha Mihira's Brihat

jataka where it states that four or more planets in one house

produces pravarajya yogas.

Of course as you rightly pointed out, no one condition can be

isolated and a conclusion drawn from it. ketu's presence in the 12th

with an afflicted 10 house (our field of action)lends support to

sanyasa. The fact that Sun (leo is where 5 planets congregate)is

strongest in shadbala and the final dispositor of all the other

planets puts the focus on leo. Here we can assume that whatever

yoga's exist in leo will have a strong influence in the native's

life. The 11th house is house of gains and also has the capacity to

give us great gains in the field of spirituality. Sun is also the

natural significator of the self and the atma and its strength,

though probably not good for the external world gives us spiritual

authority.

I was also wondering at the combined aspect of two malefics Saturn

and Mars on the Lagna. Both Saturn and Mars are debility cancelled

planets. But Saturn is a Raja Yoga Planet (4th and 5th Lordship)and

Vargottama. Saturn is a spiritualizing planet and directly aspects

the Lagna (body, the way others percieve us), and the fourth house

(home and happiness).

Venus has links with the 6th (conjunction with 6th lord jupiter), the

8th (its own lordship) and the 12th (conjunction with 12th Lord

mercury), definitely not good for worldly life. Also, there are only

malefics in the quadrants. With the Lagna (body) and moon (mind)

afflicted / weak, the focus of this horoscope centers around the sun,

the strongest planet.

All the above may have contributed to the native having left home.

 

 

Regards

arun

jyotish-vidya , Astrologer_vishy Nair

<astrologervishy_nair wrote:

>

> 5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see the

chart of tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

>

> regrds

> viswanath

>

> arun <savitarcyber wrote:

> Dear IM,

>

> Your husband seems to have the a renunciate's (sanyasa) chart, with

5

> planets in one house, ketu in the 12th house and the 10th house and

> lord afflicted. In your chart though your heart (4th) and values

(9th)

> cannot be questioned, may be it is your speech(2nd house which is

> seriously afflicted along with the 2nd lord)which lets you down.

Also

> for you, gain is measured in material terms (11th house with 11th

lord

> saturn(materialistic) in it ), which may not fit in with your

> husband's.

>

> A detailed look will follow

>

> regards

> arun

 

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Arun Jee

 

Thank you for the basic analysis of our charts.

 

You are quite correct about my heart, value and speech and I would

like to know what can be done to improve my speech, i.e. make me talk

sweetly than being bluntly honest.

 

Re. my husband's sanyas and leaving home...it doesnt sound right

until now. I don't know if it might or might not be applicable in his

old age. For now, he's enjoying his life, drinks smokes, eats good

food...has 2 wives (I am the 2nd one) and when he leaves me, he goes

to his first wife. Eerytime he leaves me he vows never to return, but

nevertheless he returns citing that he knows I am very good at heart

and that he will never cause me and our daughter sorrow again.

 

Can I request you and other learned astrologers to please analyse our

charts further and clarify my doubts about my queries.

 

I would request Wendy Jee and Prashant Jee (Astrodesk) also to please

spend a few moments in analysing our charts.

 

Thanks a lot.

 

Ice Maiden

 

jyotish-vidya , " arun " <savitarcyber wrote:

>

> respected Viswanath

>

> please refer, stanza one, chapter fifteen of Varaha Mihira's Brihat

> jataka where it states that four or more planets in one house

> produces pravarajya yogas.

> Of course as you rightly pointed out, no one condition can be

> isolated and a conclusion drawn from it. ketu's presence in the

12th

> with an afflicted 10 house (our field of action)lends support to

> sanyasa. The fact that Sun (leo is where 5 planets congregate)is

> strongest in shadbala and the final dispositor of all the other

> planets puts the focus on leo. Here we can assume that whatever

> yoga's exist in leo will have a strong influence in the native's

> life. The 11th house is house of gains and also has the capacity

to

> give us great gains in the field of spirituality. Sun is also the

> natural significator of the self and the atma and its strength,

> though probably not good for the external world gives us spiritual

> authority.

> I was also wondering at the combined aspect of two malefics Saturn

> and Mars on the Lagna. Both Saturn and Mars are debility cancelled

> planets. But Saturn is a Raja Yoga Planet (4th and 5th Lordship)and

> Vargottama. Saturn is a spiritualizing planet and directly aspects

> the Lagna (body, the way others percieve us), and the fourth house

> (home and happiness).

> Venus has links with the 6th (conjunction with 6th lord jupiter),

the

> 8th (its own lordship) and the 12th (conjunction with 12th Lord

> mercury), definitely not good for worldly life. Also, there are

only

> malefics in the quadrants. With the Lagna (body) and moon (mind)

> afflicted / weak, the focus of this horoscope centers around the

sun,

> the strongest planet.

> All the above may have contributed to the native having left home.

>

>

> Regards

> arun

> jyotish-vidya , Astrologer_vishy Nair

> <astrologervishy_nair@> wrote:

> >

> > 5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see

the

> chart of tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

> >

> > regrds

> > viswanath

> >

> > arun <savitarcyber@> wrote:

> > Dear IM,

> >

> > Your husband seems to have the a renunciate's (sanyasa) chart,

with

> 5

> > planets in one house, ketu in the 12th house and the 10th house

and

> > lord afflicted. In your chart though your heart (4th) and values

> (9th)

> > cannot be questioned, may be it is your speech(2nd house which is

> > seriously afflicted along with the 2nd lord)which lets you down.

> Also

> > for you, gain is measured in material terms (11th house with 11th

> lord

> > saturn(materialistic) in it ), which may not fit in with your

> > husband's.

> >

> > A detailed look will follow

> >

> > regards

> > arun

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Unlimited freedom, unlimited storage. Get it now

> >

> >

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Dear IM,

 

///I would request Wendy Jee and Prashant Jee (Astrodesk) also to please

spend a few moments in analysing our charts.///

 

Unfortunately I haven't been able to find time to even enter your chart/s in

the computer as yet, but, certainly, as soon as time permits, I will do so

:-)

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

 

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" icymaiden2000 " <icymaiden2000

<jyotish-vidya >

Friday, September 14, 2007 5:31 AM

Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

Arun Jee

 

Thank you for the basic analysis of our charts.

 

You are quite correct about my heart, value and speech and I would

like to know what can be done to improve my speech, i.e. make me talk

sweetly than being bluntly honest.

 

Re. my husband's sanyas and leaving home...it doesnt sound right

until now. I don't know if it might or might not be applicable in his

old age. For now, he's enjoying his life, drinks smokes, eats good

food...has 2 wives (I am the 2nd one) and when he leaves me, he goes

to his first wife. Eerytime he leaves me he vows never to return, but

nevertheless he returns citing that he knows I am very good at heart

and that he will never cause me and our daughter sorrow again.

 

Can I request you and other learned astrologers to please analyse our

charts further and clarify my doubts about my queries.

 

I would request Wendy Jee and Prashant Jee (Astrodesk) also to please

spend a few moments in analysing our charts.

 

Thanks a lot.

 

Ice Maiden

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Dear List,

 

With due regards and respect to the fellow members, I do not find any

essence of " Sanyasa " in this chart. This gentlemen is suffering from

extreme " ego " . He knows well what he does. Saturn is transing on his

Moon.

 

Though the combinations for the said yoga is there but the supporting

conditions are not avialable in relevant charts.

 

Regards, C.S. Ravindramani

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dear Mrs Wendy

 

I can always share the birth data etc. But is it worthwhile to pursue a rule

which failed centuries after centuries?

 

It has been proven again and again that these rules are not correct.

 

 

Regards

MK Viswanath

 

 

Wendy Vasicek <jyotish wrote:

PS: Apologies, I was called away before I could add the reference from

Parashara regarding yoga for ascetism...

 

BPHS Ch79 http://jyotishvidya.com/ch79.htm states that a yoga for ascetism

is formed when four or more planets (with strength) occupy a single bhava.

Of course other conditions in the horoscope need to support this for it to

come to fruition.

 

It would be interesting to compare the two charts :-)

___________

 

Viswanath,

 

I'm sure you won't mind sharing the data for tipu sultan to enable a

comparison of the two charts.

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

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" Astrologer_vishy Nair " <astrologervishy_nair

<jyotish-vidya >

Thursday, September 13, 2007 10:20 PM

Re: Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

5 planets in one house does not make one a sanyasi. Please see the chart of

tipu sultan. He was not a sanyasin.

 

regrds

viswanath

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Respected Learned Astrologers

 

I appreciate that my husbad's chart has been the cause for starting a deeper

and detailed discussions in this group about the yogas (or not) for taking

sanyas.

 

While I do not wish to divert you from that subject, I would appreciate if you

could spend a few moment to analyse mine and my husband's charts and respond to

my queries.

 

Also, I refer to Prashant Jee's email about a native being born in a family

due to karmic reasons and mentioning about native's mother. Could it be told

why and up to what extent my husband is affected by his family in his (wrong)

decisions? His father has expired. His mother is alive (who does not believe

niether in honesty nor in keeping up promises) and he has a younger brother -

both of whom have strong hold on my husband and take his decisions for him or

create such circumstances for him to take such decisions.

 

I will highly appreciate response to my queries re my reunion with my husband.

 

Regards

Sangeetha

 

 

 

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Dear Sangeetha,

 

Husband's Chart:

What you say regarding your husband's family (brother and mother) is

reflected well in his horoscope. As we know, mother is seen from 4th along

with Moon (karaka for mother). In your husband's chart, 4th lord Saturn is

debilitated in 7th house of spouse, denoting that Saturn's ability to

deliver good results to that house are nil. This negativity is only

increased with Saturn in vargottama (debilitated in both rasi and navamsa).

 

The aspect of 3rd/6th lord Jupiter, a functional malefic for this chart, is

a further disturbance to smooth/harmonious married life (in regards to

lordship of 3rd). Jupiter's role as karaka for children suggests a tie to

the marriage through your child.

The debilitation of dasa lord Mars (lord of 7th) is a further testament to

the current difficulties in regards to married life.

 

Your Chart:

You too are running dasa of Mars who, in your chart, occupies the 7th house

of marriage. Mars occupies nakshatra of Rahu whilst Venus, dispositor of

both (MA/RA), is debilitated in 6th (12th from 7th). This (again) does not

bode well for happy married life. The aspect of 9th lord Jupiter

(significator of children) is an indication that the child of the marriage

can be a positive influence (for you) in restoring relations with your

spouse.

Note; your husband returned to you around the commencement of Jupiter bhukti

and left again shortly prior to the onset of Saturn bhukti.

 

It is indeed a sad situation and one that's not easily resolved.

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

 

 

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" Ice Maiden " <icymaiden2000

<jyotish-vidya >

Monday, September 17, 2007 11:12 PM

Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

Respected Learned Astrologers

 

I appreciate that my husbad's chart has been the cause for starting a

deeper and detailed discussions in this group about the yogas (or not) for

taking sanyas.

 

While I do not wish to divert you from that subject, I would appreciate if

you could spend a few moment to analyse mine and my husband's charts and

respond to my queries.

 

Also, I refer to Prashant Jee's email about a native being born in a

family due to karmic reasons and mentioning about native's mother. Could it

be told why and up to what extent my husband is affected by his family in

his (wrong) decisions? His father has expired. His mother is alive (who

does not believe niether in honesty nor in keeping up promises) and he has a

younger brother - both of whom have strong hold on my husband and take his

decisions for him or create such circumstances for him to take such

decisions.

 

I will highly appreciate response to my queries re my reunion with my

husband.

 

Regards

Sangeetha

 

 

 

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Ms. Sangeetha,

 

I appreciate your patience. The union and reunion would take place

time and again. I don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration for

certain obvious reasons. I sincerely hope and trust, the

astrologers who have studied Parashara, for sufficient time would

have already found out them and their implications.

 

If you know astrology, see how the dasha sequence operates ever

since, both of you were born. You born with Ketu placed in 8th and

your spouse born with Ketu placed in 12th. Both of your Moons are in

the constellation of Ketu.

 

You both married in the same Mahadasha of Moon. Your Moon is aspected

by the 6th lord Jupiter. The Moon of your spouse is with Jupiter who

is the 6th lord. The 6th lord is the personification of struggles.

Your 5th house of Navamsa has Venus the 7th lord. His 5th lord of

Rasi chart placed in 7th house. The marriage was of your choice.

 

Both of you are enjoying the dasha of Mars now. In the case of your

spouse, Mars is in 12th from Moon and Venus. (From the lagna lord the

7th lord goes to 12th). In your case Mars is in 7th house. (From

the lagna lord the 7th lord goes to 12).

 

Just notice the house of emotions in the chart of your spouse. How

many planets influence that house? Try to understand the role of

Mars. I asked this very question in this same list, " have we

understood the placement of Mars and the implications fully, as

instructed by Parashara, in certain places of chart " , before alleging

a male impartial towards a woman. No reply so far from any one of

the Members of the list. (Do not confuse this part with your query;

it is nothing to do with you.).

 

You have asked certain valid questions to another member. Permit me

to express my views. See the chart of your spouse. Sun is father.

Moon is mother. Mars is brother. Venus is wife. See how they are

influencing the 5th house of emotions of your spouse. Sun stands for

ego, which is placed in the 11th powerfully in his own sign. Moon,

the karaka for mind and mother, is so close with Sun influencing the

5th, resulting in wounded ego. Moon, when powerful and away from

Sun, permits a person to operate under a normal egoistic condition.

 

Consider debilitated 4th lord of mother in the house of spouse, the

7th. Consider the debilitated 7th lord of spouse in the 10th house

of activities and his aspect on 4th house and the 5th house. Now

consider the combined effects of these two planets on the native the

lagna. Consider how they are unable to do the justice towards the

houses they own.

 

The debilitated Mars in the sign of Cancer gives nervousness and

wicked activities to a person. Consider the Jupiter, the sixth lord

along with Moon throwing his muscles on 5th house. Jupiter is the

dispositor of Rahu who is his AD lord. Rahu takes over the 6th

lordship now and he is in 12th from 7th. See where Saturn is

placed. See his transit. Separation is the result.

 

The facts which I am writing here all under the valid rules of

Parashara. They never fail. They operate under modified conditions

from one chart to another. One should have patience to pick them up

before labeling the rules of Parashara fails.

 

Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

watch or witness the happenings in a chart.

 

Regards, C.S. Ravindramani

 

18-Sep-2007 10:14:54 AM

 

jyotish-vidya , Ice Maiden <icymaiden2000

wrote:

>

> Respected Learned Astrologers

>

> I appreciate that my husbad's chart has been the cause for

starting a deeper and detailed discussions in this group about the

yogas (or not) for taking sanyas.

>

> While I do not wish to divert you from that subject, I would

appreciate if you could spend a few moment to analyse mine and my

husband's charts and respond to my queries.

>

> Also, I refer to Prashant Jee's email about a native being born

in a family due to karmic reasons and mentioning about native's

mother. Could it be told why and up to what extent my husband is

affected by his family in his (wrong) decisions? His father has

expired. His mother is alive (who does not believe niether in

honesty nor in keeping up promises) and he has a younger brother -

both of whom have strong hold on my husband and take his decisions

for him or create such circumstances for him to take such decisions.

>

> I will highly appreciate response to my queries re my reunion

with my husband.

>

> Regards

> Sangeetha

>

>

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Dear Wendy Jee

 

Thanks a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts.

 

As re our child - my daughter is very dear to me...she's my life.

But my husband has always seen her as a burden. During my pregnancy

when we got to know I was having a girl (which is what I had prayed

for) my mother-in-law wasn't happy as she wanted a grandson and not a

grand daughter (she already has a grandson from my husband's first

wife) and so tempered my husband's mind to leave me soon after our

daughter was born.

 

My husband always reminds me that its me who wanted a child and not

him and hence I am responsible for looking after her, financially and

otherwise. Last and this time he left, because he didn't want to

bear the financial and other responsibilities of our daughter. We

live abroad (temporarily for some years) and the school fees etc. are

quite a bit. My husband likes to send his money only to his mother

as he feels his responsiblity is only towards her and does not like

to share even half financial responsibilities of our daughter as he

doesnt feel responsible for us. He's happy to play with our daughter

for a little while, etc. as long as he doesn't have to fulfil any

responsibilities towards her (which in my opinion any visitor to my

house will also like to do).

 

Under such present circumstances, could it still be applicable that

our daughter will have any positive influence on my husband.

 

Regards

Ice Maiden

 

jyotish-vidya , " Wendy Vasicek " <jyotish

wrote:

>

> Dear Sangeetha,

>

> Husband's Chart:

> What you say regarding your husband's family (brother and mother)

is

> reflected well in his horoscope. As we know, mother is seen from

4th along

> with Moon (karaka for mother). In your husband's chart, 4th lord

Saturn is

> debilitated in 7th house of spouse, denoting that Saturn's ability

to

> deliver good results to that house are nil. This negativity is only

> increased with Saturn in vargottama (debilitated in both rasi and

navamsa).

>

> The aspect of 3rd/6th lord Jupiter, a functional malefic for this

chart, is

> a further disturbance to smooth/harmonious married life (in regards

to

> lordship of 3rd). Jupiter's role as karaka for children suggests a

tie to

> the marriage through your child.

> The debilitation of dasa lord Mars (lord of 7th) is a further

testament to

> the current difficulties in regards to married life.

>

> Your Chart:

> You too are running dasa of Mars who, in your chart, occupies the

7th house

> of marriage. Mars occupies nakshatra of Rahu whilst Venus,

dispositor of

> both (MA/RA), is debilitated in 6th (12th from 7th). This (again)

does not

> bode well for happy married life. The aspect of 9th lord Jupiter

> (significator of children) is an indication that the child of the

marriage

> can be a positive influence (for you) in restoring relations with

your

> spouse.

> Note; your husband returned to you around the commencement of

Jupiter bhukti

> and left again shortly prior to the onset of Saturn bhukti.

>

> It is indeed a sad situation and one that's not easily resolved.

>

> Best Wishes,

> Mrs. Wendy

> http://JyotishVidya.com

> jyotish-vidya

> ___

>

>

>

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> " Ice Maiden " <icymaiden2000

> <jyotish-vidya >

> Monday, September 17, 2007 11:12 PM

> Re: Help needed with married life problems

>

>

> Respected Learned Astrologers

>

> I appreciate that my husbad's chart has been the cause for

starting a

> deeper and detailed discussions in this group about the yogas (or

not) for

> taking sanyas.

>

> While I do not wish to divert you from that subject, I would

appreciate if

> you could spend a few moment to analyse mine and my husband's

charts and

> respond to my queries.

>

> Also, I refer to Prashant Jee's email about a native being born

in a

> family due to karmic reasons and mentioning about native's mother.

Could it

> be told why and up to what extent my husband is affected by his

family in

> his (wrong) decisions? His father has expired. His mother is

alive (who

> does not believe niether in honesty nor in keeping up promises) and

he has a

> younger brother - both of whom have strong hold on my husband and

take his

> decisions for him or create such circumstances for him to take such

> decisions.

>

> I will highly appreciate response to my queries re my reunion

with my

> husband.

>

> Regards

> Sangeetha

>

>

>

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Dear Ravindramani Jee

 

Thank you a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts and

giving a detailed reading.

 

I do not know astrology...I only know the basic things about

astrology, like what planets are there and what is a house, what is

sade-sati, which dasha I and husband are running, etc.

 

///Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

watch or witness the happenings in a chart.///

 

By being inter-connected do you mean inseperable??? Does it mean our

seperation is always temporary??

 

/// don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration for

certain obvious reasons.///

 

If you do not wish to discuss in in group, maybe you can let me know

separately by email.

 

I am already going throug a lot of stress, which is showing its

effets on my health...your response (either negative or positive) can

only improve my condition and not worsen it. Even if its negative,

at least I know not to wait for my husband and set my mind on my

daughter's future alone.

 

I thank all the astrologers for analysing our charts, but I still

haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion with

my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

whcich I know is full of problems.

 

Thanks a lot again Ravindramani Jee.

 

Regards

Ice Maiden

 

 

 

jyotish-vidya , " ravindramani "

<ravindramani wrote:

>

> Ms. Sangeetha,

>

> I appreciate your patience. The union and reunion would take place

> time and again. I don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

> principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration

for

> certain obvious reasons. I sincerely hope and trust, the

> astrologers who have studied Parashara, for sufficient time would

> have already found out them and their implications.

>

> If you know astrology, see how the dasha sequence operates ever

> since, both of you were born. You born with Ketu placed in 8th and

> your spouse born with Ketu placed in 12th. Both of your Moons are

in

> the constellation of Ketu.

>

> You both married in the same Mahadasha of Moon. Your Moon is

aspected

> by the 6th lord Jupiter. The Moon of your spouse is with Jupiter

who

> is the 6th lord. The 6th lord is the personification of struggles.

> Your 5th house of Navamsa has Venus the 7th lord. His 5th lord of

> Rasi chart placed in 7th house. The marriage was of your choice.

>

> Both of you are enjoying the dasha of Mars now. In the case of

your

> spouse, Mars is in 12th from Moon and Venus. (From the lagna lord

the

> 7th lord goes to 12th). In your case Mars is in 7th house. (From

> the lagna lord the 7th lord goes to 12).

>

> Just notice the house of emotions in the chart of your spouse. How

> many planets influence that house? Try to understand the role of

> Mars. I asked this very question in this same list, " have we

> understood the placement of Mars and the implications fully, as

> instructed by Parashara, in certain places of chart " , before

alleging

> a male impartial towards a woman. No reply so far from any one of

> the Members of the list. (Do not confuse this part with your

query;

> it is nothing to do with you.).

>

> You have asked certain valid questions to another member. Permit

me

> to express my views. See the chart of your spouse. Sun is

father.

> Moon is mother. Mars is brother. Venus is wife. See how they are

> influencing the 5th house of emotions of your spouse. Sun stands

for

> ego, which is placed in the 11th powerfully in his own sign. Moon,

> the karaka for mind and mother, is so close with Sun influencing

the

> 5th, resulting in wounded ego. Moon, when powerful and away from

> Sun, permits a person to operate under a normal egoistic

condition.

>

> Consider debilitated 4th lord of mother in the house of spouse, the

> 7th. Consider the debilitated 7th lord of spouse in the 10th house

> of activities and his aspect on 4th house and the 5th house. Now

> consider the combined effects of these two planets on the native

the

> lagna. Consider how they are unable to do the justice towards the

> houses they own.

>

> The debilitated Mars in the sign of Cancer gives nervousness and

> wicked activities to a person. Consider the Jupiter, the sixth

lord

> along with Moon throwing his muscles on 5th house. Jupiter is

the

> dispositor of Rahu who is his AD lord. Rahu takes over the 6th

> lordship now and he is in 12th from 7th. See where Saturn is

> placed. See his transit. Separation is the result.

>

> The facts which I am writing here all under the valid rules of

> Parashara. They never fail. They operate under modified

conditions

> from one chart to another. One should have patience to pick them

up

> before labeling the rules of Parashara fails.

>

> Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

> astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

> watch or witness the happenings in a chart.

>

> Regards, C.S. Ravindramani

>

> 18-Sep-2007 10:14:54 AM

>

> jyotish-vidya , Ice Maiden <icymaiden2000@>

> wrote:

> >

> > Respected Learned Astrologers

> >

> > I appreciate that my husbad's chart has been the cause for

> starting a deeper and detailed discussions in this group about the

> yogas (or not) for taking sanyas.

> >

> > While I do not wish to divert you from that subject, I would

> appreciate if you could spend a few moment to analyse mine and my

> husband's charts and respond to my queries.

> >

> > Also, I refer to Prashant Jee's email about a native being born

> in a family due to karmic reasons and mentioning about native's

> mother. Could it be told why and up to what extent my husband is

> affected by his family in his (wrong) decisions? His father has

> expired. His mother is alive (who does not believe niether in

> honesty nor in keeping up promises) and he has a younger brother -

> both of whom have strong hold on my husband and take his decisions

> for him or create such circumstances for him to take such decisions.

> >

> > I will highly appreciate response to my queries re my reunion

> with my husband.

> >

> > Regards

> > Sangeetha

> >

> >

>

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My Dear Sangeetha,

 

///Under such present circumstances, could it still be applicable that

our daughter will have any positive influence on my husband.///

 

I'm afraid you have misunderstood what I said. In your husband's chart I had

stated that Jupiter's aspect was a further disturbance to harmonious married

life...see below:

 

I Wrote:

///The aspect of 3rd/6th lord Jupiter, a functional malefic for this chart,

is a further disturbance to smooth/harmonious married life (in regards to

lordship of 3rd). Jupiter's role as karaka for children suggests a tie to

the marriage through your child///

 

In your chart Jupiter's aspect is more favourable (for you)...see below:

 

I Wrote:

///The aspect of 9th lord Jupiter (significator of children) is an

indication that the child of the marriage can be a positive influence (for

you) in restoring relations with your spouse.///

 

During certain periods, favourable for you, your spouse may well return.

However this should not be taken to imply that your husband will necessarily

become more favourably disposed towards your child.

 

I wish I had a remedy that could change things for you. For now all I can do

is try to help you understand. This is not your fault; it's the karma you

both have to play out in this life...

 

As I'm sure you know, Jupiter owning 9th is an auspicious planet for you and

normally I'd recommend his gem without hesitation but even this is a little

complicated as Jupiter, normally neutral to Moon, is Moon's temporary

enemy...Jupiter aspects Moon from Gemini.

 

Please consider also the mutual aspect between JU/MO in light of the fact

that Moon occupies 4th from Venus (husband's mother). Moon is inimically

placed here in the sign of Jupiter. As I said, at the moment, it's a little

complicated in regards to remedies and, unfortunately, my mind is growing

weary at this time of night.

 

Other members, with fresher minds, might care to take a look at this.

 

Best Wishes,

Mrs. Wendy

http://JyotishVidya.com

jyotish-vidya

___

 

 

-

" icymaiden2000 " <icymaiden2000

<jyotish-vidya >

Tuesday, September 18, 2007 10:22 PM

Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

Dear Wendy Jee

 

Thanks a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts.

 

As re our child - my daughter is very dear to me...she's my life.

But my husband has always seen her as a burden. During my pregnancy

when we got to know I was having a girl (which is what I had prayed

for) my mother-in-law wasn't happy as she wanted a grandson and not a

grand daughter (she already has a grandson from my husband's first

wife) and so tempered my husband's mind to leave me soon after our

daughter was born.

 

My husband always reminds me that its me who wanted a child and not

him and hence I am responsible for looking after her, financially and

otherwise. Last and this time he left, because he didn't want to

bear the financial and other responsibilities of our daughter. We

live abroad (temporarily for some years) and the school fees etc. are

quite a bit. My husband likes to send his money only to his mother

as he feels his responsiblity is only towards her and does not like

to share even half financial responsibilities of our daughter as he

doesnt feel responsible for us. He's happy to play with our daughter

for a little while, etc. as long as he doesn't have to fulfil any

responsibilities towards her (which in my opinion any visitor to my

house will also like to do).

 

Under such present circumstances, could it still be applicable that

our daughter will have any positive influence on my husband.

 

Regards

Ice Maiden

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Dear Wendy Jee

 

Thanks a lot again for studying our charts.

 

I do not know how to read (or understand) horoscopes, but I am trying

to understand your messages by reading them over and over again.

 

Your soothing words have had a positive effect on my mind and on my

outlook. I hope I will can remember your words for a long time, at

least I am until out of the present stressful situation.

 

Regards

Sangeetha

 

 

jyotish-vidya , " Wendy Vasicek " <jyotish

wrote:

>

> My Dear Sangeetha,

>

> ///Under such present circumstances, could it still be applicable

that

> our daughter will have any positive influence on my husband.///

>

> I'm afraid you have misunderstood what I said. In your husband's

chart I had

> stated that Jupiter's aspect was a further disturbance to

harmonious married

> life...see below:

>

> I Wrote:

> ///The aspect of 3rd/6th lord Jupiter, a functional malefic for

this chart,

> is a further disturbance to smooth/harmonious married life (in

regards to

> lordship of 3rd). Jupiter's role as karaka for children suggests a

tie to

> the marriage through your child///

>

> In your chart Jupiter's aspect is more favourable (for you)...see

below:

>

> I Wrote:

> ///The aspect of 9th lord Jupiter (significator of children) is an

> indication that the child of the marriage can be a positive

influence (for

> you) in restoring relations with your spouse.///

>

> During certain periods, favourable for you, your spouse may well

return.

> However this should not be taken to imply that your husband will

necessarily

> become more favourably disposed towards your child.

>

> I wish I had a remedy that could change things for you. For now all

I can do

> is try to help you understand. This is not your fault; it's the

karma you

> both have to play out in this life...

>

> As I'm sure you know, Jupiter owning 9th is an auspicious planet

for you and

> normally I'd recommend his gem without hesitation but even this is

a little

> complicated as Jupiter, normally neutral to Moon, is Moon's

temporary

> enemy...Jupiter aspects Moon from Gemini.

>

> Please consider also the mutual aspect between JU/MO in light of

the fact

> that Moon occupies 4th from Venus (husband's mother). Moon is

inimically

> placed here in the sign of Jupiter. As I said, at the moment, it's

a little

> complicated in regards to remedies and, unfortunately, my mind is

growing

> weary at this time of night.

>

> Other members, with fresher minds, might care to take a look at

this.

>

> Best Wishes,

> Mrs. Wendy

> http://JyotishVidya.com

> jyotish-vidya

> ___

>

>

> -

> " icymaiden2000 " <icymaiden2000

> <jyotish-vidya >

> Tuesday, September 18, 2007 10:22 PM

> Re: Help needed with married life problems

>

>

> Dear Wendy Jee

>

> Thanks a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts.

>

> As re our child - my daughter is very dear to me...she's my life.

> But my husband has always seen her as a burden. During my pregnancy

> when we got to know I was having a girl (which is what I had prayed

> for) my mother-in-law wasn't happy as she wanted a grandson and not

a

> grand daughter (she already has a grandson from my husband's first

> wife) and so tempered my husband's mind to leave me soon after our

> daughter was born.

>

> My husband always reminds me that its me who wanted a child and not

> him and hence I am responsible for looking after her, financially

and

> otherwise. Last and this time he left, because he didn't want to

> bear the financial and other responsibilities of our daughter. We

> live abroad (temporarily for some years) and the school fees etc.

are

> quite a bit. My husband likes to send his money only to his mother

> as he feels his responsiblity is only towards her and does not like

> to share even half financial responsibilities of our daughter as he

> doesnt feel responsible for us. He's happy to play with our

daughter

> for a little while, etc. as long as he doesn't have to fulfil any

> responsibilities towards her (which in my opinion any visitor to my

> house will also like to do).

>

> Under such present circumstances, could it still be applicable that

> our daughter will have any positive influence on my husband.

>

> Regards

> Ice Maiden

>

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Dear Ms. Sangeetha,

 

With my little understanding of astrology, your marriage is intact at

least for another 5 to 6 years. I do not see a break in

marriage/wedlock legally or otherwise before that. I agree with Mrs.

Wendy about the condition in which Jupiter is placed in your chart

though I have my own personal reservations about using the gems in

terms of Upayas to mitigate a problem, hence I am not making any

comment about that.

 

Still, it is the very Jupiter keeps your marriage in tact. His

aspect on 7th controls the much of the virulent nature of Mars, who

owns the 8th in your chart. He is in 2nd from Venus. From 7th house

of marriage, Mars aspects your 2nd house of speech. There a malefic

Rahu placed. Hence my simple and practical suggestion to you is

that " keep your tongue under control when you are provoked " . I know

it is very easy to say but to follow. Mars is otherwise known

as " Angaraka " – meaning thereby, he is attributed the

signification, " burning coal " .

 

As you said you don't understand much of astrology, hence the subtle

principles which even I tell you in private, they are not of much use

to you. As a principle I never correspond with anybody privately,

regarding any query of their chart, since astrology is not my

profession.

 

>>>I thank all the astrologers for analyzing our charts, but I still

haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion with

my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

whcich I know is full of problems.>>>

 

I certainly understand your pain. Astrology is so subtle and divine

science, it operates from different levels of layers, and depends on

number of charts, those who are connected with you, and it is not

that you only the reason for what you are undergoing. Hence no

astrologer can give you a Yes or No, an unequivocal answer to you, at

the least; I am not so capable to give you a Yes or No.

 

Yours sincerely, Regards,

 

C.S. Ravindramani.

 

PS: I have a sister, who has two children, we the undivided Hindu

family, takes care of her and raise her two innocent children. The

condition of her is not different from you. Hence I understand your

pain very well in its core.

 

 

This portion is for an astrological student and a beginner, who asked

me in my personal mail box, why I am attaching too much importance to

Mars in a chart. It is not me, it is sage Parashara attached and

allotted such significations to him. He attached so much importance

subtly, not in one place, but in different places of his treaty.

 

I have the chart of my grand mother, who was abandoned by her

husband, who raised my mother all alone. I know the Mars how placed

in her chart I know the dasha of her Rahu.

 

I have the chart of my sister, who was not living permanently with

her spouse. I know the Mars how placed in her chart. I know the dasha

of her Rahu. I know how Rahu is placed in her chart. She tried to

commit suicide thrice. Even the exalted lagna lord in lagna and

Jupiter from 11th cannot give much happiness from marriage. It is

not that everybody would try suicide, simply Rahu in 8th . I know

my daughter who is having Rahu in 8th, her Rahu dasha started just

now. It is not that she is going to commit suicide in her Rahu

dasha. Every chart is unique and different and you can't just throw

the bookish significations on them and get confused. Have patience.

Every card will fall place in its own place in the pursuit of

learning astrology.

 

I know my Mars and I know my Rahu dasha. Mars is yogakaraka for

somebody. For some, he is functional benefic. For some he is the

greatest enemy i.e. greatest enemy to his Lagna Lord.

 

Mars is the Commander. His duty is to plan strategy. Rahu is the

army, he is to fight and decide the course of action. Rahu cannot

start anything fresh on his own from certain point. Mars is the

leveler of the play ground and Rahu have to implement what Mars

shapes in a chart. The seven years of Mars dasha is the base for the

18 years of Rahu. This should be kept in mind, on a simple level,

they are natural malefics. The bottom line is that without

understanding Mars in a chart, you can't judge Rahu dasha. Hence the

dasha sequence plays much importance in a chart and the age of the

native when they start operating.

 

Keep away from the controversies of this aspect on Rahu and Ketu,

whether they have eyes or not. In actual practice, they are

vibrating forces in the heaven. They need no eyes, arms or legs or

what so ever limbs to influence you. Neither the planets are friends

of any other graham nor do they have enmity among them in heavens.

All stipulations are for us to understand them in a systematic

manner. We imperfect astrologers understand them as we are and fight

among ourselves.

 

jyotish-vidya , " icymaiden2000 "

<icymaiden2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Ravindramani Jee

>

> Thank you a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts and

> giving a detailed reading.

>

> I do not know astrology...I only know the basic things about

> astrology, like what planets are there and what is a house, what is

> sade-sati, which dasha I and husband are running, etc.

>

> ///Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

> astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

> watch or witness the happenings in a chart.///

>

> By being inter-connected do you mean inseperable??? Does it mean

our

> seperation is always temporary??

>

> /// don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

> principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration

for

> certain obvious reasons.///

>

> If you do not wish to discuss in in group, maybe you can let me

know

> separately by email.

>

> I am already going throug a lot of stress, which is showing its

> effets on my health...your response (either negative or positive)

can

> only improve my condition and not worsen it. Even if its negative,

> at least I know not to wait for my husband and set my mind on my

> daughter's future alone.

>

> I thank all the astrologers for analysing our charts, but I still

> haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion

with

> my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

> don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

> whcich I know is full of problems.

>

> Thanks a lot again Ravindramani Jee.

>

> Regards

> Ice Maiden

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Dear Mr Ravindramani

 

The Postscript is informative and thought provoking. I only wish you delve and

write more about Mars and Rahu in any chart that you have come across for the

benefit of others. Of course you have written abt ur grandmother sister etc. But

the chart is not given. If it is confidential then I do not insist.

savithri

 

ravindramani <ravindramani wrote:

Dear Ms. Sangeetha,

 

With my little understanding of astrology, your marriage is intact at

least for another 5 to 6 years. I do not see a break in

marriage/wedlock legally or otherwise before that. I agree with Mrs.

Wendy about the condition in which Jupiter is placed in your chart

though I have my own personal reservations about using the gems in

terms of Upayas to mitigate a problem, hence I am not making any

comment about that.

 

Still, it is the very Jupiter keeps your marriage in tact. His

aspect on 7th controls the much of the virulent nature of Mars, who

owns the 8th in your chart. He is in 2nd from Venus. From 7th house

of marriage, Mars aspects your 2nd house of speech. There a malefic

Rahu placed. Hence my simple and practical suggestion to you is

that " keep your tongue under control when you are provoked " . I know

it is very easy to say but to follow. Mars is otherwise known

as " Angaraka " – meaning thereby, he is attributed the

signification, " burning coal " .

 

As you said you don't understand much of astrology, hence the subtle

principles which even I tell you in private, they are not of much use

to you. As a principle I never correspond with anybody privately,

regarding any query of their chart, since astrology is not my

profession.

 

>>>I thank all the astrologers for analyzing our charts, but I still

haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion with

my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

whcich I know is full of problems.>>>

 

I certainly understand your pain. Astrology is so subtle and divine

science, it operates from different levels of layers, and depends on

number of charts, those who are connected with you, and it is not

that you only the reason for what you are undergoing. Hence no

astrologer can give you a Yes or No, an unequivocal answer to you, at

the least; I am not so capable to give you a Yes or No.

 

Yours sincerely, Regards,

 

C.S. Ravindramani.

 

PS: I have a sister, who has two children, we the undivided Hindu

family, takes care of her and raise her two innocent children. The

condition of her is not different from you. Hence I understand your

pain very well in its core.

 

This portion is for an astrological student and a beginner, who asked

me in my personal mail box, why I am attaching too much importance to

Mars in a chart. It is not me, it is sage Parashara attached and

allotted such significations to him. He attached so much importance

subtly, not in one place, but in different places of his treaty.

 

I have the chart of my grand mother, who was abandoned by her

husband, who raised my mother all alone. I know the Mars how placed

in her chart I know the dasha of her Rahu.

 

I have the chart of my sister, who was not living permanently with

her spouse. I know the Mars how placed in her chart. I know the dasha

of her Rahu. I know how Rahu is placed in her chart. She tried to

commit suicide thrice. Even the exalted lagna lord in lagna and

Jupiter from 11th cannot give much happiness from marriage. It is

not that everybody would try suicide, simply Rahu in 8th . I know

my daughter who is having Rahu in 8th, her Rahu dasha started just

now. It is not that she is going to commit suicide in her Rahu

dasha. Every chart is unique and different and you can't just throw

the bookish significations on them and get confused. Have patience.

Every card will fall place in its own place in the pursuit of

learning astrology.

 

I know my Mars and I know my Rahu dasha. Mars is yogakaraka for

somebody. For some, he is functional benefic. For some he is the

greatest enemy i.e. greatest enemy to his Lagna Lord.

 

Mars is the Commander. His duty is to plan strategy. Rahu is the

army, he is to fight and decide the course of action. Rahu cannot

start anything fresh on his own from certain point. Mars is the

leveler of the play ground and Rahu have to implement what Mars

shapes in a chart. The seven years of Mars dasha is the base for the

18 years of Rahu. This should be kept in mind, on a simple level,

they are natural malefics. The bottom line is that without

understanding Mars in a chart, you can't judge Rahu dasha. Hence the

dasha sequence plays much importance in a chart and the age of the

native when they start operating.

 

Keep away from the controversies of this aspect on Rahu and Ketu,

whether they have eyes or not. In actual practice, they are

vibrating forces in the heaven. They need no eyes, arms or legs or

what so ever limbs to influence you. Neither the planets are friends

of any other graham nor do they have enmity among them in heavens.

All stipulations are for us to understand them in a systematic

manner. We imperfect astrologers understand them as we are and fight

among ourselves.

 

jyotish-vidya , " icymaiden2000 "

<icymaiden2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Ravindramani Jee

>

> Thank you a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts and

> giving a detailed reading.

>

> I do not know astrology...I only know the basic things about

> astrology, like what planets are there and what is a house, what is

> sade-sati, which dasha I and husband are running, etc.

>

> ///Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

> astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

> watch or witness the happenings in a chart.///

>

> By being inter-connected do you mean inseperable??? Does it mean

our

> seperation is always temporary??

>

> /// don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

> principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration

for

> certain obvious reasons.///

>

> If you do not wish to discuss in in group, maybe you can let me

know

> separately by email.

>

> I am already going throug a lot of stress, which is showing its

> effets on my health...your response (either negative or positive)

can

> only improve my condition and not worsen it. Even if its negative,

> at least I know not to wait for my husband and set my mind on my

> daughter's future alone.

>

> I thank all the astrologers for analysing our charts, but I still

> haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion

with

> my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

> don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

> whcich I know is full of problems.

>

> Thanks a lot again Ravindramani Jee.

>

> Regards

> Ice Maiden

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Dear Ravindramani,

 

Your post has said volumes.

 

Thank you for this post.

 

Cheers !!!

 

Ash -> <http://www.ashtro.ca> http://www.ashtro.ca

 

_____

 

jyotish-vidya [jyotish-vidya ]

On Behalf Of ravindramani

Wednesday September 19, 2007 1:52 AM

jyotish-vidya

Re: Help needed with married life problems

 

 

 

Dear Ms. Sangeetha,

 

With my little understanding of astrology, your marriage is intact at

least for another 5 to 6 years. I do not see a break in

marriage/wedlock legally or otherwise before that. I agree with Mrs.

Wendy about the condition in which Jupiter is placed in your chart

though I have my own personal reservations about using the gems in

terms of Upayas to mitigate a problem, hence I am not making any

comment about that.

 

Still, it is the very Jupiter keeps your marriage in tact. His

aspect on 7th controls the much of the virulent nature of Mars, who

owns the 8th in your chart. He is in 2nd from Venus. From 7th house

of marriage, Mars aspects your 2nd house of speech. There a malefic

Rahu placed. Hence my simple and practical suggestion to you is

that " keep your tongue under control when you are provoked " . I know

it is very easy to say but to follow. Mars is otherwise known

as " Angaraka " - meaning thereby, he is attributed the

signification, " burning coal " .

 

As you said you don't understand much of astrology, hence the subtle

principles which even I tell you in private, they are not of much use

to you. As a principle I never correspond with anybody privately,

regarding any query of their chart, since astrology is not my

profession.

 

>>>I thank all the astrologers for analyzing our charts, but I still

haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion with

my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

whcich I know is full of problems.>>>

 

I certainly understand your pain. Astrology is so subtle and divine

science, it operates from different levels of layers, and depends on

number of charts, those who are connected with you, and it is not

that you only the reason for what you are undergoing. Hence no

astrologer can give you a Yes or No, an unequivocal answer to you, at

the least; I am not so capable to give you a Yes or No.

 

Yours sincerely, Regards,

 

C.S. Ravindramani.

 

PS: I have a sister, who has two children, we the undivided Hindu

family, takes care of her and raise her two innocent children. The

condition of her is not different from you. Hence I understand your

pain very well in its core.

 

This portion is for an astrological student and a beginner, who asked

me in my personal mail box, why I am attaching too much importance to

Mars in a chart. It is not me, it is sage Parashara attached and

allotted such significations to him. He attached so much importance

subtly, not in one place, but in different places of his treaty.

 

I have the chart of my grand mother, who was abandoned by her

husband, who raised my mother all alone. I know the Mars how placed

in her chart I know the dasha of her Rahu.

 

I have the chart of my sister, who was not living permanently with

her spouse. I know the Mars how placed in her chart. I know the dasha

of her Rahu. I know how Rahu is placed in her chart. She tried to

commit suicide thrice. Even the exalted lagna lord in lagna and

Jupiter from 11th cannot give much happiness from marriage. It is

not that everybody would try suicide, simply Rahu in 8th . I know

my daughter who is having Rahu in 8th, her Rahu dasha started just

now. It is not that she is going to commit suicide in her Rahu

dasha. Every chart is unique and different and you can't just throw

the bookish significations on them and get confused. Have patience.

Every card will fall place in its own place in the pursuit of

learning astrology.

 

I know my Mars and I know my Rahu dasha. Mars is yogakaraka for

somebody. For some, he is functional benefic. For some he is the

greatest enemy i.e. greatest enemy to his Lagna Lord.

 

Mars is the Commander. His duty is to plan strategy. Rahu is the

army, he is to fight and decide the course of action. Rahu cannot

start anything fresh on his own from certain point. Mars is the

leveler of the play ground and Rahu have to implement what Mars

shapes in a chart. The seven years of Mars dasha is the base for the

18 years of Rahu. This should be kept in mind, on a simple level,

they are natural malefics. The bottom line is that without

understanding Mars in a chart, you can't judge Rahu dasha. Hence the

dasha sequence plays much importance in a chart and the age of the

native when they start operating.

 

Keep away from the controversies of this aspect on Rahu and Ketu,

whether they have eyes or not. In actual practice, they are

vibrating forces in the heaven. They need no eyes, arms or legs or

what so ever limbs to influence you. Neither the planets are friends

of any other graham nor do they have enmity among them in heavens.

All stipulations are for us to understand them in a systematic

manner. We imperfect astrologers understand them as we are and fight

among ourselves.

 

jyotish-vidya@ <jyotish-vidya%40>

, " icymaiden2000 "

<icymaiden2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Ravindramani Jee

>

> Thank you a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts and

> giving a detailed reading.

>

> I do not know astrology...I only know the basic things about

> astrology, like what planets are there and what is a house, what is

> sade-sati, which dasha I and husband are running, etc.

>

> ///Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

> astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to helplessly

> watch or witness the happenings in a chart.///

>

> By being inter-connected do you mean inseperable??? Does it mean

our

> seperation is always temporary??

>

> /// don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

> principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration

for

> certain obvious reasons.///

>

> If you do not wish to discuss in in group, maybe you can let me

know

> separately by email.

>

> I am already going throug a lot of stress, which is showing its

> effets on my health...your response (either negative or positive)

can

> only improve my condition and not worsen it. Even if its negative,

> at least I know not to wait for my husband and set my mind on my

> daughter's future alone.

>

> I thank all the astrologers for analysing our charts, but I still

> haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion

with

> my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

> don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

> whcich I know is full of problems.

>

> Thanks a lot again Ravindramani Jee.

>

> Regards

> Ice Maiden

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Dear Ravindramani Jee

 

Thank you again for detailed response.

 

Regards

Sangeetha

 

jyotish-vidya , " ravindramani "

<ravindramani wrote:

>

> Dear Ms. Sangeetha,

>

> With my little understanding of astrology, your marriage is intact

at

> least for another 5 to 6 years. I do not see a break in

> marriage/wedlock legally or otherwise before that. I agree with

Mrs.

> Wendy about the condition in which Jupiter is placed in your chart

> though I have my own personal reservations about using the gems in

> terms of Upayas to mitigate a problem, hence I am not making any

> comment about that.

>

> Still, it is the very Jupiter keeps your marriage in tact. His

> aspect on 7th controls the much of the virulent nature of Mars, who

> owns the 8th in your chart. He is in 2nd from Venus. From 7th

house

> of marriage, Mars aspects your 2nd house of speech. There a

malefic

> Rahu placed. Hence my simple and practical suggestion to you is

> that " keep your tongue under control when you are provoked " . I

know

> it is very easy to say but to follow. Mars is otherwise known

> as " Angaraka " – meaning thereby, he is attributed the

> signification, " burning coal " .

>

> As you said you don't understand much of astrology, hence the

subtle

> principles which even I tell you in private, they are not of much

use

> to you. As a principle I never correspond with anybody privately,

> regarding any query of their chart, since astrology is not my

> profession.

>

> >>>I thank all the astrologers for analyzing our charts, but I

still

> haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion

with

> my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the astrologers

> don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

> whcich I know is full of problems.>>>

>

> I certainly understand your pain. Astrology is so subtle and

divine

> science, it operates from different levels of layers, and depends

on

> number of charts, those who are connected with you, and it is not

> that you only the reason for what you are undergoing. Hence no

> astrologer can give you a Yes or No, an unequivocal answer to you,

at

> the least; I am not so capable to give you a Yes or No.

>

> Yours sincerely, Regards,

>

> C.S. Ravindramani.

>

> PS: I have a sister, who has two children, we the undivided Hindu

> family, takes care of her and raise her two innocent children. The

> condition of her is not different from you. Hence I understand

your

> pain very well in its core.

>

>

> This portion is for an astrological student and a beginner, who

asked

> me in my personal mail box, why I am attaching too much importance

to

> Mars in a chart. It is not me, it is sage Parashara attached and

> allotted such significations to him. He attached so much importance

> subtly, not in one place, but in different places of his treaty.

>

> I have the chart of my grand mother, who was abandoned by her

> husband, who raised my mother all alone. I know the Mars how

placed

> in her chart I know the dasha of her Rahu.

>

> I have the chart of my sister, who was not living permanently with

> her spouse. I know the Mars how placed in her chart. I know the

dasha

> of her Rahu. I know how Rahu is placed in her chart. She tried to

> commit suicide thrice. Even the exalted lagna lord in lagna and

> Jupiter from 11th cannot give much happiness from marriage. It is

> not that everybody would try suicide, simply Rahu in 8th . I

know

> my daughter who is having Rahu in 8th, her Rahu dasha started just

> now. It is not that she is going to commit suicide in her Rahu

> dasha. Every chart is unique and different and you can't just

throw

> the bookish significations on them and get confused. Have

patience.

> Every card will fall place in its own place in the pursuit of

> learning astrology.

>

> I know my Mars and I know my Rahu dasha. Mars is yogakaraka for

> somebody. For some, he is functional benefic. For some he is the

> greatest enemy i.e. greatest enemy to his Lagna Lord.

>

> Mars is the Commander. His duty is to plan strategy. Rahu is the

> army, he is to fight and decide the course of action. Rahu cannot

> start anything fresh on his own from certain point. Mars is the

> leveler of the play ground and Rahu have to implement what Mars

> shapes in a chart. The seven years of Mars dasha is the base for

the

> 18 years of Rahu. This should be kept in mind, on a simple level,

> they are natural malefics. The bottom line is that without

> understanding Mars in a chart, you can't judge Rahu dasha. Hence

the

> dasha sequence plays much importance in a chart and the age of the

> native when they start operating.

>

> Keep away from the controversies of this aspect on Rahu and Ketu,

> whether they have eyes or not. In actual practice, they are

> vibrating forces in the heaven. They need no eyes, arms or legs or

> what so ever limbs to influence you. Neither the planets are

friends

> of any other graham nor do they have enmity among them in

heavens.

> All stipulations are for us to understand them in a systematic

> manner. We imperfect astrologers understand them as we are and

fight

> among ourselves.

>

> jyotish-vidya , " icymaiden2000 "

> <icymaiden2000@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Ravindramani Jee

> >

> > Thank you a lot for your time and effort in reading our charts

and

> > giving a detailed reading.

> >

> > I do not know astrology...I only know the basic things about

> > astrology, like what planets are there and what is a house, what

is

> > sade-sati, which dasha I and husband are running, etc.

> >

> > ///Both of you are so inter-connected by the destiny, what a poor

> > astrologer like me do under such a situation, except to

helplessly

> > watch or witness the happenings in a chart.///

> >

> > By being inter-connected do you mean inseperable??? Does it mean

> our

> > seperation is always temporary??

> >

> > /// don't wish to discuss openly certain astrological

> > principles applicable/involved in the charts, under consideration

> for

> > certain obvious reasons.///

> >

> > If you do not wish to discuss in in group, maybe you can let me

> know

> > separately by email.

> >

> > I am already going throug a lot of stress, which is showing its

> > effets on my health...your response (either negative or positive)

> can

> > only improve my condition and not worsen it. Even if its

negative,

> > at least I know not to wait for my husband and set my mind on my

> > daughter's future alone.

> >

> > I thank all the astrologers for analysing our charts, but I still

> > haven't got any response re my queries in relation to my reunion

> with

> > my husband. I guess that means it is negative but the

astrologers

> > don't want to disappoint me?! Or is it not clear from our charts,

> > whcich I know is full of problems.

> >

> > Thanks a lot again Ravindramani Jee.

> >

> > Regards

> > Ice Maiden

>

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Dear Ms. Savithri,

 

Yes. I have not provided the details of the charts for some obvious

reasons. I have two or three charts in my mind, I would discuss them

with data on the list some time next week please.

 

Regards, C.S. Ravindramani

 

 

jyotish-vidya , SAVITHRI MAHESH

<savithri_mahesh2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Mr Ravindramani

>

> The Postscript is informative and thought provoking. I only wish

you delve and write more about Mars and Rahu in any chart that you

have come across for the benefit of others. Of course you have

written abt ur grandmother sister etc. But the chart is not given.

If it is confidential then I do not insist.

> savithri

>

>

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Dear Mr Ravindramani

 

I happened to go through ur mail again. The mail wherein u have stated about

Mars and Rahu. How the Mars dasa paves way for the succeeding Rahu dasa.

 

Come to think of it I have come across few charts which I would like to share

with u for academic interest and of course I might gain some knowledge when u

interact.

 

This chart is of a male whose Lagna is Tula with Moola nakshatra. Rahu sukra

and sani in vrischika and Mars in Meena. Guru in Kanya.He earned quite well in

last leg of sukra Ravi and Chandra dasa.

 

He was not keeping well during Mars but managed well. Once the Rahu dasa

started I shudder to recall the times he had to go through. He is no more. He is

none other than my only beloved brother. When I saw him suffering my transit

Guru was in eighth.

 

Myself and my sister in law used run after doctors and hospitals. When he was

in ICU we used to sleep on the hospital verandah and it used to be pathetic and

we were not knowing what the next day will be like. He is six years younger to

me.

 

There is another Mars Rahu.chart. The lagna is Meena, Rahu in Karka and Mars

in Simha. This is a young girl. During Mars dasa she was in crucial Intermediate

studies. She fell sick during exams. But wrote her exams was through. She

couldnot get good rank for professional course. She used to get hurt

frequently-like hairline fractures etc. With great difficulty the bright kid

finished her Engineering. Her health and education suffered in Mars dasa.

Perhaps Mars in sixth house has to play his role. In Rahu dasa she got a job

and got a good match. Now married and happy.Well I donot know what further is in

store becaz Rahu dasa is for 18 years. Rahu in Punarvasu and vargothama.

 

regards

savithri

 

ravindramani <ravindramani wrote:

Dear Ms. Savithri,

 

Yes. I have not provided the details of the charts for some obvious

reasons. I have two or three charts in my mind, I would discuss them

with data on the list some time next week please.

 

Regards, C.S. Ravindramani

 

jyotish-vidya , SAVITHRI MAHESH

<savithri_mahesh2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Mr Ravindramani

>

> The Postscript is informative and thought provoking. I only wish

you delve and write more about Mars and Rahu in any chart that you

have come across for the benefit of others. Of course you have

written abt ur grandmother sister etc. But the chart is not given.

If it is confidential then I do not insist.

> savithri

>

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pinpoint customers who are looking for what you sell.

 

 

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Dear Ms. Savithri,

 

Thanks for your interest in this thread. Let us interact certainaly.

I am slightly busy at the moment coming from a hectic tour. Kindly

bear with me.

 

Regards, C.S. Ravindramani.

 

 

jyotish-vidya , SAVITHRI MAHESH

<savithri_mahesh2000 wrote:

>

> Dear Mr Ravindramani

>

> I happened to go through ur mail again. The mail wherein u have

stated about Mars and Rahu. How the Mars dasa paves way for the

succeeding Rahu dasa.

>

> Come to think of it I have come across few charts which I would

like to share with u for academic interest and of course I might gain

some knowledge when u interact.

>

> This chart is of a male whose Lagna is Tula with Moola nakshatra.

Rahu sukra and sani in vrischika and Mars in Meena. Guru in Kanya.He

earned quite well in last leg of sukra Ravi and Chandra dasa.

>

> He was not keeping well during Mars but managed well. Once the

Rahu dasa started I shudder to recall the times he had to go through.

He is no more. He is none other than my only beloved brother. When I

saw him suffering my transit Guru was in eighth.

>

> Myself and my sister in law used run after doctors and hospitals.

When he was in ICU we used to sleep on the hospital verandah and it

used to be pathetic and we were not knowing what the next day will be

like. He is six years younger to me.

>

> There is another Mars Rahu.chart. The lagna is Meena, Rahu in

Karka and Mars in Simha. This is a young girl. During Mars dasa she

was in crucial Intermediate studies. She fell sick during exams. But

wrote her exams was through. She couldnot get good rank for

professional course. She used to get hurt frequently-like hairline

fractures etc. With great difficulty the bright kid finished her

Engineering. Her health and education suffered in Mars dasa. Perhaps

Mars in sixth house has to play his role. In Rahu dasa she got a job

and got a good match. Now married and happy.Well I donot know what

further is in store becaz Rahu dasa is for 18 years. Rahu in

Punarvasu and vargothama.

>

> regards

> savithri

>

>

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