Guest guest Posted February 27, 2008 Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 Friends, We are all very fortunate to have generous friends like Shri Vijay Arora ( an old time forum member from New Jersey) who has shared with me some LalKitab related notes from his father ( The late, Shri Maharaj Arora who had the privilege of being close to Pt. Rup Chand jee.) While sifting through his father's papers, Sh. Arora found a note that had been dictated by Pt. Rup Chand jee. Both Mr. Arora and I had some difficulty reading the handwritten Urdu so we had Sh. Raj Pal Verma (another member of our forum from New York) decipher the writing for us. Pt Jee has suggested that the following three things MUST be given to a bride in dowry or as a gift at the time of marriage: 1. A palang (bed) for the use of the newly married ("palang - vaaste aulaad ke" ) 2. "paraat - daulat, ann paanee ke liye" (paraat is a utensil used for kneading wheat) 3. "gaagar, peetal kee jis kaa moonh ghade jaisa ho, us mein paanee, yaa kucch aur Daal kar rakhen, lekin daal naheen." A brass pitcher, not to be kept empty. Can be partially filled with water or, something else (example: a handful of rice) but not to be filled with lentils of any kind. The fourth precaution: A strainer (chhalanee, colander) MUST NOT be given in dowry or as a gift to the bride (thanks, Yograj jee) These general remedies should be suggested to all the brides. Vijay jee, thanks again for sharing. Respectfully, Rajinder Bhatia Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2008 Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 Thanks Rajinder jee.... pleae keep telling us these paarently small but very meaningful rememdies. Looking forward to more such postings from you and other learned members. REgards astro studentRajinder Bhatia <rajinderbhatia2002 wrote: Friends, We are all very fortunate to have generous friends like Shri Vijay Arora ( an old time forum member from New Jersey) who has shared with me some LalKitab related notes from his father ( The late, Shri Maharaj Arora who had the privilege of being close to Pt. Rup Chand jee.) While sifting through his father's papers, Sh. Arora found a note that had been dictated by Pt. Rup Chand jee. Both Mr. Arora and I had some difficulty reading the handwritten Urdu so we had Sh. Raj Pal Verma (another member of our forum from New York) decipher the writing for us. Pt Jee has suggested that the following three things MUST be given to a bride in dowry or as a gift at the time of marriage: 1. A palang (bed) for the use of the newly married ("palang - vaaste aulaad ke" ) 2. "paraat - daulat, ann paanee ke liye" (paraat is a utensil used for kneading wheat) 3. "gaagar, peetal kee jis kaa moonh ghade jaisa ho, us mein paanee, yaa kucch aur Daal kar rakhen, lekin daal naheen." A brass pitcher, not to be kept empty. Can be partially filled with water or, something else (example: a handful of rice) but not to be filled with lentils of any kind. The fourth precaution: A strainer (chhalanee, colander) MUST NOT be given in dowry or as a gift to the bride (thanks, Yograj jee) These general remedies should be suggested to all the brides. Vijay jee, thanks again for sharing. Respectfully, Rajinder Bhatia Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 palang iss liye diya jata hai ki aulad ki barkat ho aur ghar ke bajurago ka saya/haath sar par rahe. kyonki jab bhee brhspati (jupiter) 11 house mein ho ya varshphal mein aye tab pita ke palang par sone ke liye kaha jata hai ( brhspati-surya mushtarka ke liye bhee yehi upay hai. agar ho sake to jo bed diya ja raha hai dahej mein uss par ladki ka pita ek do din use karke de to achha hai. lekin aajkal dahej bazar se lekar seedha ladke ke ghar bhej dete hain agar sirf bed/palang apne ghar lakar aur usko ladki ka pita use karke de to yeh aur bhee achha hai. agar mein galat hoon to mafi chahta hoon , lekin mein to sabko yehi kehta hoon ki bed par ek/do din sokar ladki ko de. dhanyawad. , Laiba Khan <worthseeing2003 wrote: > > Thanks Rajinder jee.... pleae keep telling us these paarently small but very meaningful rememdies. Looking forward to more such postings from you and other learned members. > > > REgards > > astro student > > Rajinder Bhatia <rajinderbhatia2002 wrote: > Friends, > We are all very fortunate to have generous friends like Shri Vijay Arora ( an old time forum member from New Jersey) who has shared with me some LalKitab related notes from his father ( The late, Shri Maharaj Arora who had the privilege of being close to Pt. Rup Chand jee.) While sifting through his father's papers, Sh. Arora found a note that had been dictated by Pt. Rup Chand jee. Both Mr. Arora and I had some difficulty reading the handwritten Urdu so we had Sh. Raj Pal Verma (another member of our forum from New York) decipher the writing for us. > > Pt Jee has suggested that the following three things MUST be given to a bride in dowry or as a gift at the time of marriage: > > 1. A palang (bed) for the use of the newly married ( " palang - vaaste aulaad ke " ) > 2. " paraat - daulat, ann paanee ke liye " (paraat is a utensil used for kneading wheat) > 3. " gaagar, peetal kee jis kaa moonh ghade jaisa ho, us mein paanee, yaa kucch aur Daal kar rakhen, lekin daal naheen. " A brass pitcher, not to be kept empty. Can be partially filled with water or, something else (example: a handful of rice) but not to be filled with lentils of any kind. > The fourth precaution: > A strainer (chhalanee, colander) MUST NOT be given in dowry or as a gift to the bride (thanks, Yograj jee) > > These general remedies should be suggested to all the brides. > > Vijay jee, thanks again for sharing. > > Respectfully, > Rajinder Bhatia > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > > > > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Dear Bhatia Ji, Thanks always,for posting such interesting and useful mails. Regards Rajeev K Khattar , Rajinder Bhatia <rajinderbhatia2002 wrote: > > Friends, > We are all very fortunate to have generous friends like Shri Vijay Arora ( an old time forum member from New Jersey) who has shared with me some LalKitab related notes from his father ( The late, Shri Maharaj Arora who had the privilege of being close to Pt. Rup Chand jee.) While sifting through his father's papers, Sh. Arora found a note that had been dictated by Pt. Rup Chand jee. Both Mr. Arora and I had some difficulty reading the handwritten Urdu so we had Sh. Raj Pal Verma (another member of our forum from New York) decipher the writing for us. > > Pt Jee has suggested that the following three things MUST be given to a bride in dowry or as a gift at the time of marriage: > > 1. A palang (bed) for the use of the newly married ( " palang - vaaste aulaad ke " ) > 2. " paraat - daulat, ann paanee ke liye " (paraat is a utensil used for kneading wheat) > 3. " gaagar, peetal kee jis kaa moonh ghade jaisa ho, us mein paanee, yaa kucch aur Daal kar rakhen, lekin daal naheen. " A brass pitcher, not to be kept empty. Can be partially filled with water or, something else (example: a handful of rice) but not to be filled with lentils of any kind. > The fourth precaution: > A strainer (chhalanee, colander) MUST NOT be given in dowry or as a gift to the bride (thanks, Yograj jee) > > These general remedies should be suggested to all the brides. > > Vijay jee, thanks again for sharing. > > Respectfully, > Rajinder Bhatia > > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2008 Report Share Posted March 6, 2008 Respected Bhatia Ji, We are grateful to you and Vijay Arora ji for sharing this useful information with us. Please convey my gratitude to Vijay Ji on behalf of the group. Your guidance is an important factor of our studies. Regards Nirmal Kumar Bhardwaj , Rajinder Bhatia <rajinderbhatia2002 wrote: > > Friends, > We are all very fortunate to have generous friends like Shri Vijay Arora ( an old time forum member from New Jersey) who has shared with me some LalKitab related notes from his father ( The late, Shri Maharaj Arora who had the privilege of being close to Pt. Rup Chand jee.) While sifting through his father's papers, Sh. Arora found a note that had been dictated by Pt. Rup Chand jee. Both Mr. Arora and I had some difficulty reading the handwritten Urdu so we had Sh. Raj Pal Verma (another member of our forum from New York) decipher the writing for us. > > Pt Jee has suggested that the following three things MUST be given to a bride in dowry or as a gift at the time of marriage: > > 1. A palang (bed) for the use of the newly married ( " palang - vaaste aulaad ke " ) > 2. " paraat - daulat, ann paanee ke liye " (paraat is a utensil used for kneading wheat) > 3. " gaagar, peetal kee jis kaa moonh ghade jaisa ho, us mein paanee, yaa kucch aur Daal kar rakhen, lekin daal naheen. " A brass pitcher, not to be kept empty. Can be partially filled with water or, something else (example: a handful of rice) but not to be filled with lentils of any kind. > The fourth precaution: > A strainer (chhalanee, colander) MUST NOT be given in dowry or as a gift to the bride (thanks, Yograj jee) > > These general remedies should be suggested to all the brides. > > Vijay jee, thanks again for sharing. > > Respectfully, > Rajinder Bhatia > > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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