Guest guest Posted September 20, 2007 Report Share Posted September 20, 2007 Dear dada, What were the upaya I had suggested? Which of those you had done? Sincerely, Priya , " dada_ashish " <dada_ashish wrote: > > Dear Priyaji; > > Namaste. I had contacted you in past(about a year and half ago) for > not having any kid after 2 years of marriage, my husband's job, my > weight gain as well as unnecessary expenses (kharch) that we still > keep incurring. > > I and my husband have done all the upayas but the situation is still > same. Recently we are experiencing more problems. > > There is a lot of tension between my in-laws and me because I > currently don't have any kids. There is also lot of tension between > my husband and I. He still does not have a professional job. He was > able to get admission in a university for further studies but he > could not pass the class. I cannot finish my master's degree either > for the last five years. > > We live in the USA and have young white kids as neighbours and > recently they are trying to harass us unnecessarily by intruding in > my car. For some reason they have chosen to target my new car. They > stole a small idol of Ganesh from my new car when my husband forgot > to lock the car. Then second time they sprayed coke and hamburger on > the car. We have not filed for police complaint because we don't want > to get into any legal issues. Is there any upay that we can do to > stop harrasment from them. Our birth details are as follows: > > Wife > > Birth November 6, 1974 at 09:25 PM > Birth Place: Valsad, India > > Husband > > Birth June 19, 1973 at 11:20 PM > Birth Place: Ahmedabad, India > > Also it will be very helpful if you can give us upaya for not having > kids. When will we have kids? > > Is there any upaya for releasing the tension between my husband and I > and my in-laws and I. > > It seems like we don't have energy to do any thing. We don't have > any specific illness but we still don't feel good even health wise. > > When will my husband get a professional job? Will both of us be able > to finish our Master's degree? > > We are very obliged for you help and pray to almighty for your well > being. > > Best Regards, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2007 Report Share Posted September 20, 2007 Dear Priyaji, Here is the list of upays you have suggested to us. Husband It's hard to feed the Dear here in the USA because the zoo people don't let you. But my husband somehow still managed to do it once. He has not repeated it. He did the sun worship upaya for about 3 months and then he stopped doing it. We had asked my in-laws to do the 2nd progeny upay for my husband but they refused. So he did the progeny second upay in May' 2007 when we visited India. I have done all the upays suggested to me up until I went to India, except for the rain water, progeny upay and lethargy. It does not rain here as often and so I was not able to collect rain water for the anger upay and the following Progeny upay. There are no stray dogs where we live and so I could not do that upay also my husband does not want to keep a pet because we are only two people in the house-hold and when we travel, it's extremely hard to take care of the dog. [ d ] Either have a black and white male pup at home as a pet or> > >feed stray dogs on Sunday mornings before sun rise. Also, the honey upay gave me a very itchy feeling in the throat so I stopped that upay. I had tried to remeber to take rice grains to the temple as much as I could but I am sure there are times I might have forgotten and just prayed at the temple. Please help us. Best Regards +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ >Dear,>>First about your husband.>>Career :>>[ 1 ] He must keep a red handkerchief with him.>[ 2 ] As often as he can, he must feed deers in a zoo or a park.>[ 3 ] Every day offer water to the Sun God. Add a little milk and>sugar to the water. Aslo recite the stotra for Sun, as many times as>he can, every day. Get the text and the audio from the file section.>>Progeny :>>His horoscope is even more afflicted than yours. No respite from>there either. therefore :>>[ 1 ] Keep at home two toy dogs of black and white colour.>[ 2 ] He should collect 7 fruits of different varieties, wash them>with the milk of a buffalo , goat and a cow. Bury these fruits near>a cemetery. Do not bring back the digging tool. He should ask either>of his parents back home in India to do this upaya on his behalf.>>Now answers to your queries:>>[ 1 ] If you do the upaya, you might be a mother in the near future.>[ 2 ] Chhalla is a simple ring. And yes the little finger is>the 'pinky' little finger.>[ 3 ] Yes you can continue doing the upaya even during those days.>[ 4 ] Since I am against wearing any kind of gems, I would not be>able to comment on these matters.>>Finally, keep using only one ID when you write to the group.>>Sincerely,>>Priya>>>>>>>>>>>>lalkitabremedies , ><dada_krupa wrote:> >> > Dear Priyaji;> >> > Thank you sooooo... much for the guidance. I will try all the>upays. I> > live in the US and so some of the upays may take a while but I>will try my> > best! I am a little worried regarding having a child. My husband>loves> > kids and desperately wants to have one! Here are his birth>details for his> > job related question!> >> > Birth June 19, 1973> > Birth time: 11:20 PM> > Birth place: Ahmedabad, India> >> > Is there some relief in having a child per his horoscope?> >> > Will having a child at a later age effect my marriage? P.S. this>is a 2nd> > marriage for me but first for my husband.> >> > Also, can you please clarify what a Chhalla is? The little finger>is the> > pinky (last one) correct!> >> > Wear a silver chhalla in the little finger of your right hand.> > The chhalla should be open at the ends i.e. there should be a gap.> >> > Also, all the every day upays like reciting the stotra for Venus>(sukra),> > budh and shani and offering water to sun - can they be done during>the time> > of periods since I am a female?> >> > Are there any other remedies for pleasing god venus like wearing a>diamond> > ring etc?> >> > I am currently wearing the stone for shani around my neck>suggested by some> > astrologer.> >> > Thank you for suggesting remedies and help me ease the pain I>guess of my> > past Karmas.> >> > Sincerely;> >> >> >> > >"pt.bhooshanpriya" <pt.bhooshanpriya> > >lalkitabremedies > > >lalkitabremedies > > >Re: Please suggest a remedy >>> dada Ashish> > >Fri, 28 Jul 2006 08:03:27 -0000> > >> > >Dear Ms,> > >> > >Dear dear me, a long list of problems. I am going to suggest a few> > >upaya for the problems you have mentioned. Read from the file> > >section the rules for upaya before doing them.> > >> > >[ 1 ] Finances :> > >> > >[ a ] Keep at home a little honey in an iron dibbi with a small> > >square piece of silver immersed in the honey.> > >[ b ] Whenever you go to a temple offer a few grains of rice there> > >every time.> > >> > >[ 2 ] Studies :> > >> > >[ a ] Read from the file section article on 'memory' and the other> > >article on 'examinations & interviews'. Do the upaya for> > >concentration, and any other upaya you think you need.> > >[ b ] Recite the stotra for mercury , as often as you can,every>day.> > >Get the text and the audio from the file section.> > >> > >[ 3 ] Lethargy :> > >> > >[ a ] First thing in the morning eat a little honey. This is an> > >upaya and not a medicine.> > >[ b ] Every day offer water to the Sun God. Add a little milk and> > >sugar to the water before offering.> > >> > >[ 4 ] Pregnancy : { Serious }> > >> > >Your horoscope is severely afflicted as far as the progeny is> > >concerned. Severely is a mild word. The Lal Kitab says,> > >> > >" ketu gina phal shukra manda, aulad bhali na lakshmi ho"> > >" phool laga budh beshaq dandi, aulad umra tak shaqqi ho"> > >> > >'Although there will be flower but no fruit, the progeny could be> > >doubtful till the age of 42 years', meaning there might be nothing> > >wrong with you physiologically, and still you may not conceive.> > >Therefore :> > >> > >[ a ] Offer at a temple a little milk mixed with butter for 13>days> > >regularly.> > >[ b ] Wear a silver chhalla in the little finger of your right>hand.> > >The chhalla should be open at the ends i.e. there should be a gap.> > >[ c ] Worship Lord Ganesh every day.> > >[ d ] Either have a black and white male pup at home as a pet or> > >feed stray dogs on Sunday mornings before sun rise.> > >> > >There is no upaya for obesity.> > >> > >[ 5 ] Temper> > >> > >[ a ] Wear a small square piece of silver in a silver chain.> > >[ b ] Keep in your room a little rain water in a bottle with four> > >square pieces of silver immersed in the water.> > >> > >[ 6 ] Husband> > >> > >I can not suggest any upaya without his kundali.> > >> > >[ 7 ] Bad luck since 2002> > >> > >[ a ] You started Venus mahadasha from February 2002. Venus is the> > >lord of the 12th house { house of losses}. Therefore it is not> > >surprising what you are going through financially and otherwise.> > >Therefore recite the beej mantra for Venus 108 times a day. Get>the> > >text and the audio from the file section.> > >[ b ] You are going through the natar dasha of Sun. I have already> > >suggested that you offer water to the Sun God.> > >[ c ] Yes you are going through Shani sade satee also. Read from>the> > >file section the upaya for it and do for Moon in cancer.> > >> > >I hope these remedies might help you> > >> > >Sincerely,> > >> > >Priya> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >lalkitabremedies , "dada_ashish"> > ><dada_krupa@> wrote:> > > >> > > > Dear Priyaji;> > > >> > > > I have few questions which I hope you>will be> > > > able to provide me with some guidance. Also I have not>disclosed> > >my> > > > name here but I am a female seeking help. My birth details are as >follows:>>>>>>> > > > > > Birth November 6, 1974> > > > > > Birth time: 9:25 PM> > > > > > Birth place: Valsad (also known as Bulsar) India> > > >> > > > 1. Is there anything that I can do that will help me be more> > >careful> > > > with finances? i.e. minimize spending, add cautiousness in me,> > >make> > > > me be more careful with money?> > > >> > > > 2. Is there a remedy to motivate me for finishing my studies?> > > >> > > > 3. When I wake up in the morning, I still feel tired and>sometimes> > > > feel like want to just remain in the bed. Is there a remedy to> > >make> > > > me feel more energetic? Sometimes I also get bad dreams like>some> > > > family member being killed etc.> > > >> > > > 4. I have put on so much weight in last 3 years mainly around>the> > > > stomach area. I am unable to get pregnant. Is there a remedy> > >that I> > > > can do to help me become pregnant?> > > >> > > > 5. In last few years, I have seen that I tend to be more angry>and> > > > loose patience over little little things. I repent later but>the> > > > damage is usually done by me being more angry. Is there>anything> > > > that will help me calm down?> > > >> > > > 6. Lastly, my husband does not have a job despite having very> > >good> > > > education. He is been trying since 2 years now but no luck and> > >has> > > > to work labor jobs which frustates him? Is there any remedy>for> > >him> > > > getting a decent professional job?> > > >> > > > 7. All my problems started around 2002. Things just don't>move. Is> > > > that because of the starting of sadesati?> > > >> > > > I appreciate your help and guidance.> > > >> > > > Sincerely.> > > > < wrote: Dear dada,What were the upaya I had suggested? Which of those you had done?Sincerely,Priya , "dada_ashish" <dada_ashish wrote:>> Dear Priyaji;> > Namaste. I had contacted you in past(about a year and half ago) for > not having any kid after 2 years of marriage, my husband's job, my > weight gain as well as unnecessary expenses (kharch) that we still > keep incurring.> > I and my husband have done all the upayas but the situation is still > same. Recently we are experiencing more problems. > > There is a lot of tension between my in-laws and me because I > currently don't have any kids. There is also lot of tension between > my husband and I. He still does not have a professional job. He was > able to get admission in a university for further studies but he > could not pass the class. I cannot finish my master's degree either > for the last five years.> > We live in the USA and have young white kids as neighbours and > recently they are trying to harass us unnecessarily by intruding in > my car. For some reason they have chosen to target my new car. They > stole a small idol of Ganesh from my new car when my husband forgot > to lock the car. Then second time they sprayed coke and hamburger on > the car. We have not filed for police complaint because we don't want > to get into any legal issues. Is there any upay that we can do to > stop harrasment from them. Our birth details are as follows:> > Wife> > Birth November 6, 1974 at 09:25 PM> Birth Place: Valsad, India> > Husband> > Birth June 19, 1973 at 11:20 PM> Birth Place: Ahmedabad, India> > Also it will be very helpful if you can give us upaya for not having > kids. When will we have kids? > > Is there any upaya for releasing the tension between my husband and I > and my in-laws and I.> > It seems like we don't have energy to do any thing. We don't have > any specific illness but we still don't feel good even health wise.> > When will my husband get a professional job? Will both of us be able > to finish our Master's degree?> > We are very obliged for you help and pray to almighty for your well > being.> > Best Regards,>Hiral J. Desai Don't let your dream ride pass you by. Make it a reality with Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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