Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Dear Svetlana, In order to hold on to a relationship you need to : [ 1 ] Feed a little rice to the birds every day. [ 2 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by you. Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or throw them away. [ 3 ] Once a week, offer at a temple a little rice and sugar for 13 weeks regularly. I hope these upaya help you retain a relationship. Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Something has happened which is both strange yet familiar to me in > my life. > > I think I had mentioned to you that in 1999 I had a broken > engagement when the guy just suddenly and without reason changed his > mind. I also had a boyfriend before that who also suddenly changed > his mind about me. This is one of the major reasons why I was so > reluctant to get out of marriage, as horrible as it was, because I > had no confidence that any guy would stay with me. Last month, I > started the divorce process and was starting to look forward to a > new life with the guy whose horoscope I had sent you below. We > talked a few times over the last month, and everything seemed to be > fine, but then suddenly he stopped calling or responding to my > calls. He just told me that he has changed his mind and that he was > thinking of getting engaged to someone else. He does not even know > her and she is someone his parents have proposed. > > I am hurt and baffled. Priyaji, > Is there something in my horoscope that indicated this kind of > abandonment? Is there some upay for this? > Are there any upay I can do to correct this situation? > Should I stop my divorce process? Although my husband and I have > not lived together for 4 years, I don't know if I have the courage > to be all alone and single again. > > Please, please advise. > > Best regards, > Svetlana > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Sweta, > > > > [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of leading > > your own life. > > [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both of you > > match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Pranam. > > > > > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in doing > the > > > upayas. > > > > > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided to > get > > a > > > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has approached > > my > > > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced soon. > > > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > > > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as follows: > > > September 14th > > > 6.20 p.m. > > > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > > > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my horoscope > and > > > when will that likely be? > > > > > > Regards, > > > Svetlana > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my > best > > to > > > > try and make it work. > > > > > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, > and > > a > > > > very Happy New Year! > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Sweta > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { > > dahi } > > > as > > > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could > get > > > the > > > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, > > every > > > day > > > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful > of > > > Juar > > > > { > > > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these > > upayas > > > > last > > > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would > you > > > > > suggest > > > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned that > > you > > > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can > you > > > > > please > > > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the effects > of > > > my > > > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to > save > > > your > > > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, > then > > I > > > am > > > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an > > > earthen > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } > > each > > > day > > > > > > for > > > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > > sprinkling > > > > > a > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > particular > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana Shah > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, and > > it > > > > > seems > > > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more > > > confused > > > > > I > > > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being > > alone > > > > all > > > > > > my > > > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I > have > > > been > > > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that > any > > > man > > > > > > will > > > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so > much > > > > > > emotional > > > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have > > been > > > > > trying > > > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have > not > > > been > > > > > > able > > > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do some > > > > upayas, > > > > > > and > > > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you please > > > > suggest > > > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am going > > to > > > > > visit > > > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is > > > anything I > > > > > > can > > > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I would > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then > > > something > > > > > will > > > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa ho " > > > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata > ho " > > > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will > have > > a > > > > very > > > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman he > > > might > > > > > > even > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in > > your > > > > > > > husband's > > > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya > > therefore > > > I > > > > > do > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you have > to > > > > > decide > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > > > > > relationship. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. Yes, > > you > > > > will > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes > > matched > > > > > > > properly. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to solve > > the > > > > > > > problem. > > > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As regards > > his > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because he > is > > > very > > > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been > > completed > > > > > last > > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have > > > helped > > > > my > > > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his > > > attitude > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it > is > > > > > helpful, > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy changed > > his > > > > mind > > > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel > > like > > > > it " . > > > > > > My > > > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy > who > > I > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to > get > > > > > > married, > > > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August > 2002. > > > > There > > > > > > > were > > > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly > > > attached > > > > > to > > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is > > their > > > > only > > > > > > > child > > > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience of > > the > > > > > broken > > > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we > > should > > > > not > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after > > marriage. > > > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a > very > > > cold > > > > > > city > > > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my family > > in > > > the > > > > > US > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his > nature > > > > > started > > > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to continue > > > living > > > > > as > > > > > > > if > > > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other women > or > > > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a > > couple > > > > > like > > > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even > having > > > any > > > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to the > > > extreme > > > > > > > cold, > > > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or job > > > there. > > > > > By > > > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked me > to > > > > leave > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress of > > the > > > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been > > > visiting > > > > > him > > > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the > > relationship > > > > > > intact, > > > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. Last > > > year, > > > > he > > > > > > was > > > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to > give > > it > > > > > > another > > > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but it > > has > > > > been > > > > > a > > > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits > me. > > > All > > > > > the > > > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living > alone > > > for 3 > > > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I > > feel > > > > > scared > > > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? My > > > > husband > > > > > > > says > > > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is > there > > > any > > > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or > with > > > > > anyone > > > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his > attachment > > > to > > > > > me? > > > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his > > mother? > > > I > > > > > do > > > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once > > > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud and > > not > > > of > > > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my > > nose > > > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently > > > reminded > > > > of > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your group. > > > Would > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If > yes, > > > is > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be > done > > > with > > > > > > > silver > > > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu > kal > > > > > doesn't > > > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the priest > > and > > > let > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that only > > you > > > > > place > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with > > mushrooms > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I > realize > > > that > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the immersion, > > it > > > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead > uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple > > with > > > > milk > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the > temple, > > > since > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you > can > > > leave > > > > > in > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and > put > > it > > > in > > > > > > > front > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the > > > offering, > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious > > time > > > and > > > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya when > > you > > > > are > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your time > > and > > > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas > > correctly, > > > I > > > > > had > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 days > > > regular > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I keep > > > going > > > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of mushrooms > > in > > > the > > > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first before > > > > > offering. > > > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand it > > > over > > > > to > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of > our > > > > > > concern. > > > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each > day > > > for > > > > 5 > > > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. > > Going > > > to > > > > > the > > > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a > > > knocking > > > > > > sound > > > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > Svetlana > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in the > > sea, > > > or > > > > > > does > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can I > > put > > > the > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? Is > > > there > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that the > > bag > > > > will > > > > > > > most > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end of > > the > > > > > day. > > > > > > Is > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja > > > nariyal > > > > > > looks > > > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the > > coconut > > > > that > > > > > > > makes > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should > > bring > > > in > > > > > a > > > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an > > > earthen > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with butter > at > > > any > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja nariyal > > > along > > > > > > with > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your > > advice > > > is > > > > > an > > > > > > > act > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you suggested > > > except > > > > > for > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next > > week. > > > I > > > > > did > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed the > > > badam > > > > > > upayya > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the > milk > > > on > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is there > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a happy > > > life? > > > > > > Based > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some defect > in > > > my > > > > > own > > > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe > > just > > > how > > > > > > > weary > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. > It > > it > > > > > very > > > > > > > odd > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love suddenly > > > loses > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > > > > > suggesting > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files and > > read > > > > the > > > > > > > rules > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last > > kitchen > > > > fire > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not > > use > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree root > > and > > > > keep > > > > > > it > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok > > tree. > > > One > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big tree, > > and > > > > the > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that grows > > > into a > > > > > > huge > > > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of copper > > > snakes > > > > > on > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole > almonds > > > with > > > > > > > shell} > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day > bring > > > back > > > > > > home > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds > out > > of > > > > > those > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. > No > > > one > > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been > struggling > > > for > > > > > so > > > > > > > many > > > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can > > help. > > > > > > Things > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and > me. > > I > > > > > need > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th > > > > November, > > > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new > > > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted February 1, 2007 Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 Dear Priyaji, Thank you so much for your prompt and kind response, as always. Some clarifications: [1] For upay #1, should the rice be cooked? [2] For upay #3, should I go to the temple the same day every week? [3] For upay #3, what should I do if a week is missed due to period/travel? [4] For upay #3, should the rice be cooked, and what quantity should I offer of the rice and sugar? Should the rice and sugar be mixed together? [5] I feel like these troubles in my personal life have been plaguing me since 1995. What do you think is the cause of it and can it be permanently corrected? [6] I would like to request you for a mantra which I should focus on during my prayers. [7] On my job front, the job which I had interviewed for last month has been offered to me. Thank you so much for your guidance and blessings in this. As I start my new job, is there something I can do to ensure stability and success? Best regards, Svetlana , " " < wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > In order to hold on to a relationship you need to : > > [ 1 ] Feed a little rice to the birds every day. > [ 2 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by you. > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or throw > them away. > [ 3 ] Once a week, offer at a temple a little rice and sugar for 13 > weeks regularly. > > I hope these upaya help you retain a relationship. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Something has happened which is both strange yet familiar to me in > > my life. > > > > I think I had mentioned to you that in 1999 I had a broken > > engagement when the guy just suddenly and without reason changed > his > > mind. I also had a boyfriend before that who also suddenly > changed > > his mind about me. This is one of the major reasons why I was so > > reluctant to get out of marriage, as horrible as it was, because I > > had no confidence that any guy would stay with me. Last month, I > > started the divorce process and was starting to look forward to a > > new life with the guy whose horoscope I had sent you below. We > > talked a few times over the last month, and everything seemed to > be > > fine, but then suddenly he stopped calling or responding to my > > calls. He just told me that he has changed his mind and that he > was > > thinking of getting engaged to someone else. He does not even > know > > her and she is someone his parents have proposed. > > > > I am hurt and baffled. Priyaji, > > Is there something in my horoscope that indicated this kind of > > abandonment? Is there some upay for this? > > Are there any upay I can do to correct this situation? > > Should I stop my divorce process? Although my husband and I > have > > not lived together for 4 years, I don't know if I have the courage > > to be all alone and single again. > > > > Please, please advise. > > > > Best regards, > > Svetlana > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Sweta, > > > > > > [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of > leading > > > your own life. > > > [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both of > you > > > match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Pranam. > > > > > > > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in doing > > the > > > > upayas. > > > > > > > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided to > > get > > > a > > > > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has > approached > > > my > > > > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced soon. > > > > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > > > > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as follows: > > > > September 14th > > > > 6.20 p.m. > > > > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > > > > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my horoscope > > and > > > > when will that likely be? > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my > > best > > > to > > > > > try and make it work. > > > > > > > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this group, > > and > > > a > > > > > very Happy New Year! > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Sweta > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds { > > > dahi } > > > > as > > > > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He could > > get > > > > the > > > > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare ground, > > > every > > > > day > > > > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a handful > > of > > > > Juar > > > > > { > > > > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these > > > upayas > > > > > last > > > > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. Would > > you > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned > that > > > you > > > > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. Can > > you > > > > > > please > > > > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the > effects > > of > > > > my > > > > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " " > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt to > > save > > > > your > > > > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a change, > > then > > > I > > > > am > > > > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in an > > > > earthen > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with shell } > > > each > > > > day > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire by > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > particular > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > Shah > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, > and > > > it > > > > > > seems > > > > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the more > > > > confused > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of being > > > alone > > > > > all > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I > > have > > > > been > > > > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence that > > any > > > > man > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so > > much > > > > > > > emotional > > > > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I have > > > been > > > > > > trying > > > > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I have > > not > > > > been > > > > > > > able > > > > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do > some > > > > > upayas, > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you > please > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am > going > > > to > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is > > > > anything I > > > > > > > can > > > > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I > would > > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then > > > > something > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti jalataa > ho " > > > > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka banata > > ho " > > > > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will > > have > > > a > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other woman > he > > > > might > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations in > > > your > > > > > > > > husband's > > > > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya > > > therefore > > > > I > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you > have > > to > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled the > > > > > > > relationship. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. > Yes, > > > you > > > > > will > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes > > > matched > > > > > > > > properly. > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to > solve > > > the > > > > > > > > problem. > > > > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As > regards > > > his > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because > he > > is > > > > very > > > > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been > > > completed > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you have > > > > helped > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his > > > > attitude > > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if it > > is > > > > > > helpful, > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of my > > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy > changed > > > his > > > > > mind > > > > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't feel > > > like > > > > > it " . > > > > > > > My > > > > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a guy > > who > > > I > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant to > > get > > > > > > > married, > > > > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August > > 2002. > > > > > There > > > > > > > > were > > > > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is overly > > > > attached > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he is > > > their > > > > > only > > > > > > > > child > > > > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience > of > > > the > > > > > > broken > > > > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that we > > > should > > > > > not > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after > > > marriage. > > > > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in a > > very > > > > cold > > > > > > > city > > > > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my > family > > > in > > > > the > > > > > > US > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his > > nature > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to > continue > > > > living > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > if > > > > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other > women > > or > > > > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as a > > > couple > > > > > > like > > > > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even > > having > > > > any > > > > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to > the > > > > extreme > > > > > > > > cold, > > > > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or > job > > > > there. > > > > > > By > > > > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked > me > > to > > > > > leave > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the stress > of > > > the > > > > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been > > > > visiting > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the > > > relationship > > > > > > > intact, > > > > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. > Last > > > > year, > > > > > he > > > > > > > was > > > > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to > > give > > > it > > > > > > > another > > > > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but > it > > > has > > > > > been > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never visits > > me. > > > > All > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living > > alone > > > > for 3 > > > > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but I > > > feel > > > > > > scared > > > > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my > life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these problems? > My > > > > > husband > > > > > > > > says > > > > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is > > there > > > > any > > > > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him or > > with > > > > > > anyone > > > > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his > > attachment > > > > to > > > > > > me? > > > > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his > > > mother? > > > > I > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you once > > > > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud > and > > > not > > > > of > > > > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get my > > > nose > > > > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently > > > > reminded > > > > > of > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your > group. > > > > Would > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? If > > yes, > > > > is > > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be > > done > > > > with > > > > > > > > silver > > > > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The rahu > > kal > > > > > > doesn't > > > > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the > priest > > > and > > > > let > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that > only > > > you > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > Svetlana > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with > > > mushrooms > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I > > realize > > > > that > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the > immersion, > > > it > > > > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead > > uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the temple > > > with > > > > > milk > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the > > temple, > > > > since > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what you > > can > > > > leave > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me and > > put > > > it > > > > in > > > > > > > > front > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted the > > > > offering, > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is that > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your precious > > > time > > > > and > > > > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya > when > > > you > > > > > are > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > Svetlana > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your > time > > > and > > > > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas > > > correctly, > > > > I > > > > > > had > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 > days > > > > regular > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I > keep > > > > going > > > > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of > mushrooms > > > in > > > > the > > > > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first > before > > > > > > offering. > > > > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to hand > it > > > > over > > > > > to > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none of > > our > > > > > > > concern. > > > > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple each > > day > > > > for > > > > > 5 > > > > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different temples. > > > Going > > > > to > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a > > > > knocking > > > > > > > sound > > > > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > Svetlana > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in > the > > > sea, > > > > or > > > > > > > does > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, can > I > > > put > > > > the > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? > Is > > > > there > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that > the > > > bag > > > > > will > > > > > > > > most > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the end > of > > > the > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > Is > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each day? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the pooja > > > > nariyal > > > > > > > looks > > > > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the > > > coconut > > > > > that > > > > > > > > makes > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they should > > > bring > > > > in > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in an > > > > earthen > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with > butter > > at > > > > any > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja > nariyal > > > > along > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. Your > > > advice > > > > is > > > > > > an > > > > > > > > act > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you > suggested > > > > except > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting next > > > week. > > > > I > > > > > > did > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed > the > > > > badam > > > > > > > upayya > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle the > > milk > > > > on > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is > there > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a > happy > > > > life? > > > > > > > Based > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some > defect > > in > > > > my > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot describe > > > just > > > > how > > > > > > > > weary > > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal life. > > It > > > it > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > odd > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love > suddenly > > > > loses > > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I am > > > > > > suggesting > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files > and > > > read > > > > > the > > > > > > > > rules > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last > > > kitchen > > > > > fire > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do > not > > > use > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree > root > > > and > > > > > keep > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of Ashok > > > tree. > > > > One > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big > tree, > > > and > > > > > the > > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that > grows > > > > into a > > > > > > > huge > > > > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of > copper > > > > snakes > > > > > > on > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole > > almonds > > > > with > > > > > > > > shell} > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day > > bring > > > > back > > > > > > > home > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds > > out > > > of > > > > > > those > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow > cloth. > > No > > > > one > > > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been > > struggling > > > > for > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > many > > > > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you can > > > help. > > > > > > > Things > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate and > > me. > > > I > > > > > > need > > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is 12th > > > > > November, > > > > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the new > > > > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted February 1, 2007 Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 Dear Svetlana, [ 1 ] It is raw rice grain. [ 2 ] No. You can go on any day of the week [ 3 ] If you apprehend that you might miss it for some week, keep at home a few rice grains rinsed in milk. This will ensure the continuity. That lost week will not be counted though. [ 4 ] It is raw rice grain again. You can take a handful of both. [ 5 ] The effort is to eliminate these troubles. Lets hope for the best. [ 6 ] you can recite any Mantra for Lord Shiv or Goddess parvati. Lord shiv / Goddess Parvati is your Ishta devta [ 7 ] I am happy that you have got the job.Worshipping Lord Hanuman will bring stability in job. Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Dear Priyaji, > > Thank you so much for your prompt and kind response, as always. > > Some clarifications: > [1] For upay #1, should the rice be cooked? > [2] For upay #3, should I go to the temple the same day every week? > [3] For upay #3, what should I do if a week is missed due to > period/travel? > [4] For upay #3, should the rice be cooked, and what quantity should > I offer of the rice and sugar? Should the rice and sugar be mixed > together? > [5] I feel like these troubles in my personal life have been > plaguing me since 1995. What do you think is the cause of it and > can it be permanently corrected? > [6] I would like to request you for a mantra which I should focus on > during my prayers. > > [7] On my job front, the job which I had interviewed for last month > has been offered to me. Thank you so much for your guidance and > blessings in this. As I start my new job, is there something I can > do to ensure stability and success? > > Best regards, > Svetlana > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > In order to hold on to a relationship you need to : > > > > [ 1 ] Feed a little rice to the birds every day. > > [ 2 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > you. > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > throw > > them away. > > [ 3 ] Once a week, offer at a temple a little rice and sugar for > 13 > > weeks regularly. > > > > I hope these upaya help you retain a relationship. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Something has happened which is both strange yet familiar to me > in > > > my life. > > > > > > I think I had mentioned to you that in 1999 I had a broken > > > engagement when the guy just suddenly and without reason changed > > his > > > mind. I also had a boyfriend before that who also suddenly > > changed > > > his mind about me. This is one of the major reasons why I was > so > > > reluctant to get out of marriage, as horrible as it was, because > I > > > had no confidence that any guy would stay with me. Last month, > I > > > started the divorce process and was starting to look forward to > a > > > new life with the guy whose horoscope I had sent you below. We > > > talked a few times over the last month, and everything seemed to > > be > > > fine, but then suddenly he stopped calling or responding to my > > > calls. He just told me that he has changed his mind and that he > > was > > > thinking of getting engaged to someone else. He does not even > > know > > > her and she is someone his parents have proposed. > > > > > > I am hurt and baffled. Priyaji, > > > Is there something in my horoscope that indicated this kind of > > > abandonment? Is there some upay for this? > > > Are there any upay I can do to correct this situation? > > > Should I stop my divorce process? Although my husband and I > > have > > > not lived together for 4 years, I don't know if I have the > courage > > > to be all alone and single again. > > > > > > Please, please advise. > > > > > > Best regards, > > > Svetlana > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Sweta, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of > > leading > > > > your own life. > > > > [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both of > > you > > > > match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Pranam. > > > > > > > > > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in > doing > > > the > > > > > upayas. > > > > > > > > > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided > to > > > get > > > > a > > > > > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has > > approached > > > > my > > > > > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced soon. > > > > > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > > > > > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as > follows: > > > > > September 14th > > > > > 6.20 p.m. > > > > > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > > > > > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my > horoscope > > > and > > > > > when will that likely be? > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do my > > > best > > > > to > > > > > > try and make it work. > > > > > > > > > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this > group, > > > and > > > > a > > > > > > very Happy New Year! > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Sweta > > > > > > --- In > , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little curds > { > > > > dahi } > > > > > as > > > > > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He > could > > > get > > > > > the > > > > > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a father. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare > ground, > > > > every > > > > > day > > > > > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a > handful > > > of > > > > > Juar > > > > > > { > > > > > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed these > > > > upayas > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. > Would > > > you > > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had mentioned > > that > > > > you > > > > > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. > Can > > > you > > > > > > > please > > > > > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the > > effects > > > of > > > > > my > > > > > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " " > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt > to > > > save > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a > change, > > > then > > > > I > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in > an > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with > shell } > > > > each > > > > > day > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire > by > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > Shah > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my situation, > > and > > > > it > > > > > > > seems > > > > > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the > more > > > > > confused > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of > being > > > > alone > > > > > > all > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, I > > > have > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence > that > > > any > > > > > man > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me so > > > much > > > > > > > > emotional > > > > > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I > have > > > > been > > > > > > > trying > > > > > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I > have > > > not > > > > > been > > > > > > > > able > > > > > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to do > > some > > > > > > upayas, > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you > > please > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am > > going > > > > to > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there is > > > > > anything I > > > > > > > > can > > > > > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I > > would > > > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, then > > > > > something > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti > jalataa > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka > banata > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife will > > > have > > > > a > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other > woman > > he > > > > > might > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the combinations > in > > > > your > > > > > > > > > husband's > > > > > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya > > > > therefore > > > > > I > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you > > have > > > to > > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled > the > > > > > > > > relationship. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. > > Yes, > > > > you > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the horoscopes > > > > matched > > > > > > > > > properly. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to > > solve > > > > the > > > > > > > > > problem. > > > > > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As > > regards > > > > his > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it because > > he > > > is > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been > > > > completed > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you > have > > > > > helped > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in his > > > > > attitude > > > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know if > it > > > is > > > > > > > helpful, > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background of > my > > > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy > > changed > > > > his > > > > > > mind > > > > > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't > feel > > > > like > > > > > > it " . > > > > > > > > My > > > > > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a > guy > > > who > > > > I > > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was reluctant > to > > > get > > > > > > > > married, > > > > > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in August > > > 2002. > > > > > > There > > > > > > > > > were > > > > > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is > overly > > > > > attached > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he > is > > > > their > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > child > > > > > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad experience > > of > > > > the > > > > > > > broken > > > > > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that > we > > > > should > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after > > > > marriage. > > > > > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer in > a > > > very > > > > > cold > > > > > > > > city > > > > > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my > > family > > > > in > > > > > the > > > > > > > US > > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his > > > nature > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to > > continue > > > > > living > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > if > > > > > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other > > women > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything as > a > > > > couple > > > > > > > like > > > > > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or even > > > having > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due to > > the > > > > > extreme > > > > > > > > > cold, > > > > > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends or > > job > > > > > there. > > > > > > > By > > > > > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he asked > > me > > > to > > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the > stress > > of > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have been > > > > > visiting > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the > > > > relationship > > > > > > > > intact, > > > > > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. > > Last > > > > > year, > > > > > > he > > > > > > > > was > > > > > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him to > > > give > > > > it > > > > > > > > another > > > > > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, but > > it > > > > has > > > > > > been > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never > visits > > > me. > > > > > All > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been living > > > alone > > > > > for 3 > > > > > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, but > I > > > > feel > > > > > > > scared > > > > > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my > > life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these > problems? > > My > > > > > > husband > > > > > > > > > says > > > > > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and is > > > there > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him > or > > > with > > > > > > > anyone > > > > > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his > > > attachment > > > > > to > > > > > > > me? > > > > > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by his > > > > mother? > > > > > I > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you > once > > > > > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver ring/stud > > and > > > > not > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > Svetlana > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to get > my > > > > nose > > > > > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was recently > > > > > reminded > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your > > group. > > > > > Would > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? > If > > > yes, > > > > > is > > > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it be > > > done > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > silver > > > > > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The > rahu > > > kal > > > > > > > doesn't > > > > > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the > > priest > > > > and > > > > > let > > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary that > > only > > > > you > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > Svetlana > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with > > > > mushrooms > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I > > > realize > > > > > that > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the > > immersion, > > > > it > > > > > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead > > > uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the > temple > > > > with > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the > > > temple, > > > > > since > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what > you > > > can > > > > > leave > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me > and > > > put > > > > it > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > front > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted > the > > > > > offering, > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is > that > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your > precious > > > > time > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the upaya > > when > > > > you > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > Svetlana > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your > > time > > > > and > > > > > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas > > > > correctly, > > > > > I > > > > > > > had > > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 > > days > > > > > regular > > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I > > keep > > > > > going > > > > > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of > > mushrooms > > > > in > > > > > the > > > > > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first > > before > > > > > > > offering. > > > > > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to > hand > > it > > > > > over > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is none > of > > > our > > > > > > > > concern. > > > > > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple > each > > > day > > > > > for > > > > > > 5 > > > > > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different > temples. > > > > Going > > > > > to > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes a > > > > > knocking > > > > > > > > sound > > > > > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal in > > the > > > > sea, > > > > > or > > > > > > > > does > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, > can > > I > > > > put > > > > > the > > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the bag? > > Is > > > > > there > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry that > > the > > > > bag > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > most > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the > end > > of > > > > the > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > Is > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each > day? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the > pooja > > > > > nariyal > > > > > > > > looks > > > > > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. the > > > > coconut > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > makes > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they > should > > > > bring > > > > > in > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms in > an > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with > > butter > > > at > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja > > nariyal > > > > > along > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. > Your > > > > advice > > > > > is > > > > > > > an > > > > > > > > > act > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you > > suggested > > > > > except > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting > next > > > > week. > > > > > I > > > > > > > did > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I completed > > the > > > > > badam > > > > > > > > upayya > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle > the > > > milk > > > > > on > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is > > there > > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a > > happy > > > > > life? > > > > > > > > Based > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some > > defect > > > in > > > > > my > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot > describe > > > > just > > > > > how > > > > > > > > > weary > > > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal > life. > > > It > > > > it > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > odd > > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love > > suddenly > > > > > loses > > > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. I > am > > > > > > > suggesting > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the files > > and > > > > read > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > rules > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the last > > > > kitchen > > > > > > fire > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do > > not > > > > use > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree > > root > > > > and > > > > > > keep > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of > Ashok > > > > tree. > > > > > One > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big > > tree, > > > > and > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that > > grows > > > > > into a > > > > > > > > huge > > > > > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of > > copper > > > > > snakes > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole > > > almonds > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > shell} > > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day > > > bring > > > > > back > > > > > > > > home > > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 > almonds > > > out > > > > of > > > > > > > those > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow > > cloth. > > > No > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been > > > struggling > > > > > for > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > many > > > > > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you > can > > > > help. > > > > > > > > Things > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate > and > > > me. > > > > I > > > > > > > need > > > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is > 12th > > > > > > November, > > > > > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the > new > > > > > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted March 16, 2007 Report Share Posted March 16, 2007 Om Dear Priyaji, I have completed the upaya for the almonds, and am feeding birds regularly, and am going through the 13 weeks vist to temple. However, I just found out the guy who had proposed marriage to me has fixed his marriage date elsewhere. It has been a real shock to me and I am finding it hard to cope with the mental anguish and loneliness due to the divorce process with my husband, and now this. Priyaji, can you please help me? I need your blessings and guidance to help me in love and marriage. Is there anything else I can do? Is there any upay to change his mind? Regards, Sveta , " " < wrote: > > Dear Svetlana, > > [ 1 ] It is raw rice grain. > [ 2 ] No. You can go on any day of the week > [ 3 ] If you apprehend that you might miss it for some week, keep at > home a few rice grains rinsed in milk. This will ensure the > continuity. That lost week will not be counted though. > [ 4 ] It is raw rice grain again. You can take a handful of both. > [ 5 ] The effort is to eliminate these troubles. Lets hope for the > best. > [ 6 ] you can recite any Mantra for Lord Shiv or Goddess parvati. > Lord shiv / Goddess Parvati is your Ishta devta > [ 7 ] I am happy that you have got the job.Worshipping Lord Hanuman > will bring stability in job. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > Thank you so much for your prompt and kind response, as always. > > > > Some clarifications: > > [1] For upay #1, should the rice be cooked? > > [2] For upay #3, should I go to the temple the same day every week? > > [3] For upay #3, what should I do if a week is missed due to > > period/travel? > > [4] For upay #3, should the rice be cooked, and what quantity > should > > I offer of the rice and sugar? Should the rice and sugar be mixed > > together? > > [5] I feel like these troubles in my personal life have been > > plaguing me since 1995. What do you think is the cause of it and > > can it be permanently corrected? > > [6] I would like to request you for a mantra which I should focus > on > > during my prayers. > > > > [7] On my job front, the job which I had interviewed for last > month > > has been offered to me. Thank you so much for your guidance and > > blessings in this. As I start my new job, is there something I > can > > do to ensure stability and success? > > > > Best regards, > > Svetlana > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > In order to hold on to a relationship you need to : > > > > > > [ 1 ] Feed a little rice to the birds every day. > > > [ 2 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > > you. > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > throw > > > them away. > > > [ 3 ] Once a week, offer at a temple a little rice and sugar for > > 13 > > > weeks regularly. > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you retain a relationship. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > Something has happened which is both strange yet familiar to > me > > in > > > > my life. > > > > > > > > I think I had mentioned to you that in 1999 I had a broken > > > > engagement when the guy just suddenly and without reason > changed > > > his > > > > mind. I also had a boyfriend before that who also suddenly > > > changed > > > > his mind about me. This is one of the major reasons why I was > > so > > > > reluctant to get out of marriage, as horrible as it was, > because > > I > > > > had no confidence that any guy would stay with me. Last > month, > > I > > > > started the divorce process and was starting to look forward > to > > a > > > > new life with the guy whose horoscope I had sent you below. > We > > > > talked a few times over the last month, and everything seemed > to > > > be > > > > fine, but then suddenly he stopped calling or responding to my > > > > calls. He just told me that he has changed his mind and that > he > > > was > > > > thinking of getting engaged to someone else. He does not even > > > know > > > > her and she is someone his parents have proposed. > > > > > > > > I am hurt and baffled. Priyaji, > > > > Is there something in my horoscope that indicated this kind of > > > > abandonment? Is there some upay for this? > > > > Are there any upay I can do to correct this situation? > > > > Should I stop my divorce process? Although my husband and I > > > have > > > > not lived together for 4 years, I don't know if I have the > > courage > > > > to be all alone and single again. > > > > > > > > Please, please advise. > > > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > Svetlana > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sweta, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of > > > leading > > > > > your own life. > > > > > [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both > of > > > you > > > > > match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > Pranam. > > > > > > > > > > > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in > > doing > > > > the > > > > > > upayas. > > > > > > > > > > > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided > > to > > > > get > > > > > a > > > > > > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has > > > approached > > > > > my > > > > > > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced > soon. > > > > > > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > > > > > > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as > > follows: > > > > > > September 14th > > > > > > 6.20 p.m. > > > > > > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > > > > > > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my > > horoscope > > > > and > > > > > > when will that likely be? > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do > my > > > > best > > > > > to > > > > > > > try and make it work. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this > > group, > > > > and > > > > > a > > > > > > > very Happy New Year! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > Sweta > > > > > > > --- In > > , " " > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little > curds > > { > > > > > dahi } > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He > > could > > > > get > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a > father. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare > > ground, > > > > > every > > > > > > day > > > > > > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a > > handful > > > > of > > > > > > Juar > > > > > > > { > > > > > > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed > these > > > > > upayas > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. > > Would > > > > you > > > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had > mentioned > > > that > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. > > Can > > > > you > > > > > > > > please > > > > > > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the > > > effects > > > > of > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt > > to > > > > save > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a > > change, > > > > then > > > > > I > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in > > an > > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with > > shell } > > > > > each > > > > > > day > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire > > by > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my > situation, > > > and > > > > > it > > > > > > > > seems > > > > > > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the > > more > > > > > > confused > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of > > being > > > > > alone > > > > > > > all > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, > I > > > > have > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence > > that > > > > any > > > > > > man > > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me > so > > > > much > > > > > > > > > emotional > > > > > > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I > > have > > > > > been > > > > > > > > trying > > > > > > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I > > have > > > > not > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > able > > > > > > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to > do > > > some > > > > > > > upayas, > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you > > > please > > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am > > > going > > > > > to > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there > is > > > > > > anything I > > > > > > > > > can > > > > > > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I > > > would > > > > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, > then > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti > > jalataa > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka > > banata > > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife > will > > > > have > > > > > a > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other > > woman > > > he > > > > > > might > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the > combinations > > in > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > husband's > > > > > > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya > > > > > therefore > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you > > > have > > > > to > > > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled > > the > > > > > > > > > relationship. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. > > > Yes, > > > > > you > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the > horoscopes > > > > > matched > > > > > > > > > > properly. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to > > > solve > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > problem. > > > > > > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As > > > regards > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it > because > > > he > > > > is > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > Svetlana > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been > > > > > completed > > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you > > have > > > > > > helped > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in > his > > > > > > attitude > > > > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know > if > > it > > > > is > > > > > > > > helpful, > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background > of > > my > > > > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy > > > changed > > > > > his > > > > > > > mind > > > > > > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't > > feel > > > > > like > > > > > > > it " . > > > > > > > > > My > > > > > > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a > > guy > > > > who > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was > reluctant > > to > > > > get > > > > > > > > > married, > > > > > > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in > August > > > > 2002. > > > > > > > There > > > > > > > > > > were > > > > > > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is > > overly > > > > > > attached > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he > > is > > > > > their > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > child > > > > > > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad > experience > > > of > > > > > the > > > > > > > > broken > > > > > > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that > > we > > > > > should > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after > > > > > marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer > in > > a > > > > very > > > > > > cold > > > > > > > > > city > > > > > > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my > > > family > > > > > in > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > US > > > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his > > > > nature > > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to > > > continue > > > > > > living > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > if > > > > > > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other > > > women > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything > as > > a > > > > > couple > > > > > > > > like > > > > > > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or > even > > > > having > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due > to > > > the > > > > > > extreme > > > > > > > > > > cold, > > > > > > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends > or > > > job > > > > > > there. > > > > > > > > By > > > > > > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he > asked > > > me > > > > to > > > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the > > stress > > > of > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have > been > > > > > > visiting > > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the > > > > > relationship > > > > > > > > > intact, > > > > > > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. > > > Last > > > > > > year, > > > > > > > he > > > > > > > > > was > > > > > > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him > to > > > > give > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > another > > > > > > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, > but > > > it > > > > > has > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never > > visits > > > > me. > > > > > > All > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been > living > > > > alone > > > > > > for 3 > > > > > > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, > but > > I > > > > > feel > > > > > > > > scared > > > > > > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my > > > life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these > > problems? > > > My > > > > > > > husband > > > > > > > > > > says > > > > > > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and > is > > > > there > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him > > or > > > > with > > > > > > > > anyone > > > > > > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his > > > > attachment > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > me? > > > > > > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by > his > > > > > mother? > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you > > once > > > > > > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver > ring/stud > > > and > > > > > not > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > Svetlana > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to > get > > my > > > > > nose > > > > > > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was > recently > > > > > > reminded > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your > > > group. > > > > > > Would > > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? > > If > > > > yes, > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it > be > > > > done > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > silver > > > > > > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The > > rahu > > > > kal > > > > > > > > doesn't > > > > > > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the > > > priest > > > > > and > > > > > > let > > > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary > that > > > only > > > > > you > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > Svetlana > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with > > > > > mushrooms > > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I > > > > realize > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the > > > immersion, > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead > > > > uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the > > temple > > > > > with > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the > > > > temple, > > > > > > since > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what > > you > > > > can > > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me > > and > > > > put > > > > > it > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > front > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re-adjusted > > the > > > > > > offering, > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is > > that > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your > > precious > > > > > time > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the > upaya > > > when > > > > > you > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your > > > time > > > > > and > > > > > > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas > > > > > correctly, > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > had > > > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 > > > days > > > > > > regular > > > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I > > > keep > > > > > > going > > > > > > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of > > > mushrooms > > > > > in > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first > > > before > > > > > > > > offering. > > > > > > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to > > hand > > > it > > > > > > over > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is > none > > of > > > > our > > > > > > > > > concern. > > > > > > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple > > each > > > > day > > > > > > for > > > > > > > 5 > > > > > > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different > > temples. > > > > > Going > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes > a > > > > > > knocking > > > > > > > > > sound > > > > > > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal > in > > > the > > > > > sea, > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > does > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, > > can > > > I > > > > > put > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the > bag? > > > Is > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry > that > > > the > > > > > bag > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > most > > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the > > end > > > of > > > > > the > > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > > Is > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each > > day? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the > > pooja > > > > > > nariyal > > > > > > > > > looks > > > > > > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. > the > > > > > coconut > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > makes > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they > > should > > > > > bring > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms > in > > an > > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with > > > butter > > > > at > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja > > > nariyal > > > > > > along > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. > > Your > > > > > advice > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > an > > > > > > > > > > act > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you > > > suggested > > > > > > except > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting > > next > > > > > week. > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > did > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I > completed > > > the > > > > > > badam > > > > > > > > > upayya > > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle > > the > > > > milk > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is > > > there > > > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a > > > happy > > > > > > life? > > > > > > > > > Based > > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some > > > defect > > > > in > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot > > describe > > > > > just > > > > > > how > > > > > > > > > > weary > > > > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal > > life. > > > > It > > > > > it > > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > odd > > > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love > > > suddenly > > > > > > loses > > > > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. > I > > am > > > > > > > > suggesting > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the > files > > > and > > > > > read > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > rules > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the > last > > > > > kitchen > > > > > > > fire > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. > Do > > > not > > > > > use > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree > > > root > > > > > and > > > > > > > keep > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of > > Ashok > > > > > tree. > > > > > > One > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big > > > tree, > > > > > and > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that > > > grows > > > > > > into a > > > > > > > > > huge > > > > > > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of > > > copper > > > > > > snakes > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole > > > > almonds > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > shell} > > > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each > day > > > > bring > > > > > > back > > > > > > > > > home > > > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 > > almonds > > > > out > > > > > of > > > > > > > > those > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow > > > cloth. > > > > No > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been > > > > struggling > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > > many > > > > > > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you > > can > > > > > help. > > > > > > > > > Things > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul-mate > > and > > > > me. > > > > > I > > > > > > > > need > > > > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is > > 12th > > > > > > > November, > > > > > > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the > > new > > > > > > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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Guest guest Posted March 17, 2007 Report Share Posted March 17, 2007 Dear Sveta, There is no upaya which could make him change his mind. As regards any new upaya that I could suggest, I haven't got any new upaya for you. However you could recite this mantra in order to hold on to some one you love : Kama devaaya vidmahe pushpabanaya dheemahi. Tanno ananga prachodayaat Sincerely, Priya , " svetlana.shah " <svetlana.shah wrote: > > > Om > > Dear Priyaji, > > I have completed the upaya for the almonds, and am feeding birds > regularly, and am going through the 13 weeks vist to temple. > However, I just found out the guy who had proposed marriage to me has > fixed his marriage date elsewhere. It has been a real shock to me and > I am finding it hard to cope with the mental anguish and loneliness > due to the divorce process with my husband, and now this. > > Priyaji, can you please help me? I need your blessings and guidance > to help me in love and marriage. Is there anything else I can do? Is > there any upay to change his mind? > > Regards, > Sveta > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > [ 1 ] It is raw rice grain. > > [ 2 ] No. You can go on any day of the week > > [ 3 ] If you apprehend that you might miss it for some week, keep at > > home a few rice grains rinsed in milk. This will ensure the > > continuity. That lost week will not be counted though. > > [ 4 ] It is raw rice grain again. You can take a handful of both. > > [ 5 ] The effort is to eliminate these troubles. Lets hope for the > > best. > > [ 6 ] you can recite any Mantra for Lord Shiv or Goddess parvati. > > Lord shiv / Goddess Parvati is your Ishta devta > > [ 7 ] I am happy that you have got the job.Worshipping Lord Hanuman > > will bring stability in job. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > Thank you so much for your prompt and kind response, as always. > > > > > > Some clarifications: > > > [1] For upay #1, should the rice be cooked? > > > [2] For upay #3, should I go to the temple the same day every week? > > > [3] For upay #3, what should I do if a week is missed due to > > > period/travel? > > > [4] For upay #3, should the rice be cooked, and what quantity > > should > > > I offer of the rice and sugar? Should the rice and sugar be mixed > > > together? > > > [5] I feel like these troubles in my personal life have been > > > plaguing me since 1995. What do you think is the cause of it and > > > can it be permanently corrected? > > > [6] I would like to request you for a mantra which I should focus > > on > > > during my prayers. > > > > > > [7] On my job front, the job which I had interviewed for last > > month > > > has been offered to me. Thank you so much for your guidance and > > > blessings in this. As I start my new job, is there something I > > can > > > do to ensure stability and success? > > > > > > Best regards, > > > Svetlana > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > In order to hold on to a relationship you need to : > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Feed a little rice to the birds every day. > > > > [ 2 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole almonds with shell} at any > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each day bring back home from the > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 almonds out of those offered by > > > you. > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow cloth. No one should eat or > > > throw > > > > them away. > > > > [ 3 ] Once a week, offer at a temple a little rice and sugar for > > > 13 > > > > weeks regularly. > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya help you retain a relationship. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > Something has happened which is both strange yet familiar to > > me > > > in > > > > > my life. > > > > > > > > > > I think I had mentioned to you that in 1999 I had a broken > > > > > engagement when the guy just suddenly and without reason > > changed > > > > his > > > > > mind. I also had a boyfriend before that who also suddenly > > > > changed > > > > > his mind about me. This is one of the major reasons why I was > > > so > > > > > reluctant to get out of marriage, as horrible as it was, > > because > > > I > > > > > had no confidence that any guy would stay with me. Last > > month, > > > I > > > > > started the divorce process and was starting to look forward > > to > > > a > > > > > new life with the guy whose horoscope I had sent you below. > > We > > > > > talked a few times over the last month, and everything seemed > > to > > > > be > > > > > fine, but then suddenly he stopped calling or responding to my > > > > > calls. He just told me that he has changed his mind and that > > he > > > > was > > > > > thinking of getting engaged to someone else. He does not even > > > > know > > > > > her and she is someone his parents have proposed. > > > > > > > > > > I am hurt and baffled. Priyaji, > > > > > Is there something in my horoscope that indicated this kind of > > > > > abandonment? Is there some upay for this? > > > > > Are there any upay I can do to correct this situation? > > > > > Should I stop my divorce process? Although my husband and I > > > > have > > > > > not lived together for 4 years, I don't know if I have the > > > courage > > > > > to be all alone and single again. > > > > > > > > > > Please, please advise. > > > > > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sweta, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] You are perfectly justified in thinking in terms of > > > > leading > > > > > > your own life. > > > > > > [ 2 ] The kundali of the gentleman matches very well. Both > > of > > > > you > > > > > > match 27 gunas and there is no dosh either. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Pranam. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You were right, my husband is not taking any interest in > > > doing > > > > > the > > > > > > > upayas. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Things are pretty bad between us and I have almost decided > > > to > > > > > get > > > > > > a > > > > > > > divorce. One guy who I have known for many years has > > > > approached > > > > > > my > > > > > > > family, saying that he will marry me if I get divorced > > soon. > > > > > > > a. Is is wrong for us to even consider this? > > > > > > > b. Would it be a good match? His birth details are as > > > follows: > > > > > > > September 14th > > > > > > > 6.20 p.m. > > > > > > > Cheverly, Maryland, USA > > > > > > > c. Is there an indication of a second marriage in my > > > horoscope > > > > > and > > > > > > > when will that likely be? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your time and counsel. I will do > > my > > > > > best > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > try and make it work. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > God Bless You for your kindnesses to everyone in this > > > group, > > > > > and > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > very Happy New Year! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > Sweta > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " " > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svet, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you can make him do the upaya, then ask him to : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Get from his grand father / father a little > > curds > > > { > > > > > > dahi } > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > a gift and let him offer this dahi at any temple. He > > > could > > > > > get > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > dahi from any elderly person who loves him like a > > father. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Pour a few drops of cow urine onto the bare > > > ground, > > > > > > every > > > > > > > day > > > > > > > > > for 43 days regularly. > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Keep in the South West corner of the house a > > > handful > > > > > of > > > > > > > Juar > > > > > > > > { > > > > > > > > > millets }in an iron bowl. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for your suggestions. I had completed > > these > > > > > > upayas > > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > month, per your suggestions in October/November. > > > Would > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > > > that I do them again? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In your last message of December 1, you had > > mentioned > > > > that > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > thought that my husband should also do some upayas. > > > Can > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > please > > > > > > > > > > suggest some for him to do that might enhance the > > > > effects > > > > > of > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > efforts? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Sveta, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few more upaya as a last attempt > > > to > > > > > save > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > marriage. If these upaya do not bring about a > > > change, > > > > > then > > > > > > I > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > afraid I can't do any thing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river/lake 9 mushrooms kept in > > > an > > > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer at a temple 5 whole almonds { with > > > shell } > > > > > > each > > > > > > > day > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > 10 days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Every night extinguish the last kitchen fire > > > by > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. Do not use that > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , Svetlana > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have thought long and hard about my > > situation, > > > > and > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > seems > > > > > > > > > > > like the more I think about what I should do, the > > > more > > > > > > > confused > > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > > get. On the one hand, I have an intense fear of > > > being > > > > > > alone > > > > > > > > all > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > life if I was to divorce him. Earlier in my life, > > I > > > > > have > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > > > harshly let down in love and I have no confidence > > > that > > > > > any > > > > > > > man > > > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > > want to marry me. On the other hand, he gives me > > so > > > > > much > > > > > > > > > > emotional > > > > > > > > > > > pain in my day to day life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, how do I make the right decision? I > > > have > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > trying > > > > > > > > > > > to make that decision for a few years now, and I > > > have > > > > > not > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > > able > > > > > > > > > > > to hear God's answer clearly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I asked my husband if he would be willing to > > do > > > > some > > > > > > > > upayas, > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > he said that he may consider doing some. Can you > > > > please > > > > > > > > suggest > > > > > > > > > > > some upayas that I can easily get him to do? I am > > > > going > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > > > him and my in-laws in a few days. Also, if there > > is > > > > > > > anything I > > > > > > > > > > can > > > > > > > > > > > do regarding his attachment towards his mother, I > > > > would > > > > > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > > > > > the advice. Perhaps if he will do the upayas, > > then > > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > > change for the better. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > Sveta > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > " shukra aurat ho kismat maari,aag grahasti > > > jalataa > > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > " lagan parayee aurat mandi, patang shukra ka > > > banata > > > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > " chalan nali ho jab gandi, jail-khana tak paata > > > ho " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- will destroy the married life and the wife > > will > > > > > have > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > > > unlucky and destitute, if he goes after other > > > woman > > > > he > > > > > > > might > > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > > jailed for it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > So says the Lal Kitab for one of the > > combinations > > > in > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > husband's > > > > > > > > > > > > kundali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Your husband will not be willing to do any upaya > > > > > > therefore > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > > see much hope in this relationship.Therefore you > > > > have > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > > yourself as to what you want to do. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now your queries : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No it is not your nature which has spoiled > > > the > > > > > > > > > > relationship. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] I do not think this marriage will survive. > > > > Yes, > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > > happy with any one provided you get the > > horoscopes > > > > > > matched > > > > > > > > > > > properly. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Your doing the upaya alone is not going to > > > > solve > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > problem. > > > > > > > > > > > > Actually the upaya have to be done by him. As > > > > regards > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > to his mother, it is difficult to break it > > because > > > > he > > > > > is > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > > > aggressively attached to his mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > Svetlana > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your reply. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With God's blessings, all the upayas have been > > > > > > completed > > > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a lot of faith in your remedies as you > > > have > > > > > > > helped > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > sister. I have not yet seen any improvement in > > his > > > > > > > attitude > > > > > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > > > > > the completion of the upayas. So, I don't know > > if > > > it > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > helpful, > > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > > I thought I would give the specific background > > of > > > my > > > > > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In 2000, I had a broken engagement. The boy > > > > changed > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > mind > > > > > > > > > > > > suddenly and with no reason other than " I don't > > > feel > > > > > > like > > > > > > > > it " . > > > > > > > > > > My > > > > > > > > > > > > parents and I kept looking, and in 2001, I met a > > > guy > > > > > who > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > > > dating (we were both in the US). He was > > reluctant > > > to > > > > > get > > > > > > > > > > married, > > > > > > > > > > > > but he finally agreed and we got married in > > August > > > > > 2002. > > > > > > > > There > > > > > > > > > > > were > > > > > > > > > > > > many obvious problems with his nature (he is > > > overly > > > > > > > attached > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > > > > mother and has been spoiled by his parents as he > > > is > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > > child > > > > > > > > > > > > and very smart). However, due to my bad > > experience > > > > of > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > broken > > > > > > > > > > > > engagement before, my parents and I thought that > > > we > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > be > > > > > > > > > > > > too picky, and hopefully he would improve after > > > > > > marriage. > > > > > > > > > > > > Immediately after marriage, he got a job offer > > in > > > a > > > > > very > > > > > > > cold > > > > > > > > > > city > > > > > > > > > > > > in Canada. I left a very high paying job and my > > > > family > > > > > > in > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > US > > > > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > > > > we could both move there. When we got there, his > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > started > > > > > > > > > > > > getting worse instead of better. He wanted to > > > > continue > > > > > > > living > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > if > > > > > > > > > > > > he was still single. He did not meet with other > > > > women > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > anything, but he did not want to do anything > > as > > > a > > > > > > couple > > > > > > > > > like > > > > > > > > > > > > keeping a nice house, going out together, or > > even > > > > > having > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > physical relations. My health deteriorated due > > to > > > > the > > > > > > > extreme > > > > > > > > > > > cold, > > > > > > > > > > > > and because I was sad at not having any friends > > or > > > > job > > > > > > > there. > > > > > > > > > By > > > > > > > > > > > > November 2003 I became very depressed and he > > asked > > > > me > > > > > to > > > > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > go back to the US as he could not handle the > > > stress > > > > of > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > situation. I went back, and since then I have > > been > > > > > > > visiting > > > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > > > every 2/3 months in order to try and keep the > > > > > > relationship > > > > > > > > > > intact, > > > > > > > > > > > > but there is not effort or desire from his side. > > > > Last > > > > > > > year, > > > > > > > > he > > > > > > > > > > was > > > > > > > > > > > > really pushing for divorce, but I convinced him > > to > > > > > give > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > another > > > > > > > > > > > > chance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents have always been very supportive, > > but > > > > it > > > > > > has > > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > very hard few years for us. My husband never > > > visits > > > > > me. > > > > > > > All > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > effort is from my side and I have now been > > living > > > > > alone > > > > > > > for 3 > > > > > > > > > > > > years. My parents think I should get divorced, > > but > > > I > > > > > > feel > > > > > > > > > scared > > > > > > > > > > > > that if I left him I would remain single all my > > > > life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, my questions are: > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.is it my nature that is causing these > > > problems? > > > > My > > > > > > > > husband > > > > > > > > > > > says > > > > > > > > > > > > I am over-sensitive and argumentative. > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. Do you think this marriage can survive and > > is > > > > > there > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > prospect of a happy married life for me with him > > > or > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > anyone > > > > > > > > > > > > else? > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Will these upayas help in increasing his > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > me? > > > > > > > > > > > > Is there any way I can decrease the control by > > his > > > > > > mother? > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > > love him still. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > His birth details are: > > > > > > > > > > > > > DOB: January 31, 1974 > > > > > > > > > > > > > Place of birth: Providence, Rhode Island, USA > > > > > > > > > > > > > Time of birth: 7.35 a.m. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry for the detailed message, and thank you > > > once > > > > > > > again. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes you can get it done. Wear a silver > > ring/stud > > > > and > > > > > > not > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > gold. > > > > > > > > > > > > > You can get it done on any day convenient to > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > Svetlana > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much Priyaji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A few years ago, an astrologer told me to > > get > > > my > > > > > > nose > > > > > > > > > > pierced. > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did not do it at that time, but I was > > recently > > > > > > > reminded > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > because of another posting last week in your > > > > group. > > > > > > > Would > > > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > > > > advice that it is something I should get done? > > > If > > > > > yes, > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > particular auspicious day for that? Should it > > be > > > > > done > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > silver > > > > > > > > > > > > > or gold stud/ring? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Seeking your blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] The mushroom upaya is done well. The > > > rahu > > > > > kal > > > > > > > > > doesn't > > > > > > > > > > > > effect > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Good, you did the lead pieces upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] No problem, give the offering to the > > > > priest > > > > > > and > > > > > > > let > > > > > > > > > > him > > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before the deity. It is not necessary > > that > > > > only > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before the deity. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I did the upayya of immersing the pot with > > > > > > mushrooms > > > > > > > > > last > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Tuesday afternoon, and only afterwards did I > > > > > realize > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > time > > > > > > > > > > > > > > when I bought the mushrooms and did the > > > > immersion, > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > was " rahu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > kaal " time. Is that uppaya okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have completed the dry naariyal and lead > > > > > uppaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have started the 13 days visit to the > > > temple > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter. On the first day when I went to the > > > > > temple, > > > > > > > since > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > priests here are very particular about what > > > you > > > > > can > > > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, the priest took the mixture from me > > > and > > > > > put > > > > > > it > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > > front > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Lord Ganesha for me. I went and re- adjusted > > > the > > > > > > > offering, > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > initial placing was done by the pandit. Is > > > that > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much in advance for your > > > precious > > > > > > time > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It would be better to start the > > upaya > > > > when > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > > > not > > > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to have your periods. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, thank you, again, for your > > > > time > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > effort. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In order to make sure I do the upayyas > > > > > > correctly, > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > had > > > > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > question: If I get my period during the 13 > > > > days > > > > > > > regular > > > > > > > > > > > visit > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple, should I take a break, or should I > > > > keep > > > > > > > going > > > > > > > > > > > > > continuously? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can immerse the pot of > > > > mushrooms > > > > > > in > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > sea. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Mix the milk and the butter first > > > > before > > > > > > > > > offering. > > > > > > > > > > > > Yes, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > place > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it before any idol, you do not have to > > > hand > > > > it > > > > > > > over > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > priest. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Well what they with it afterwards is > > none > > > of > > > > > our > > > > > > > > > > concern. > > > > > > > > > > > We > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it to the God in full faith. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Yes, you have to go to the temple > > > each > > > > > day > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > 5 > > > > > > > > > > > days > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > regularly. You can go to different > > > temples. > > > > > > Going > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is not neccessary. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 5 ] Yes, it is the same. Dry and makes > > a > > > > > > > knocking > > > > > > > > > > sound > > > > > > > > > > > > when > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shaken. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > Shah > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I had a few questions: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1. Can I immerse the pot and nariyal > > in > > > > the > > > > > > sea, > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > does > > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to be in a river only? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. When offering the milk and butter, > > > can > > > > I > > > > > > put > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > milk > > > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > butter in a plastic bag and offer the > > bag? > > > > Is > > > > > > > there > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > diety I should offer it to? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Here in the US temples, I worry > > that > > > > the > > > > > > bag > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > > most > > > > > > > > > > > > > > likely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > just get thrown into the garbage at the > > > end > > > > of > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > > > Is > > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > okay? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 4. Should I go to the same temple each > > > day? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 5. Can you please describe what the > > > pooja > > > > > > > nariyal > > > > > > > > > > looks > > > > > > > > > > > > > like? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Is it different than the lakkad (i.e. > > the > > > > > > coconut > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > makes > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > knocking sound when you shake it?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > With best regards. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do the following upaya. I hope they > > > should > > > > > > bring > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > change. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Immerse in a river 9 mushrooms > > in > > > an > > > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > > pot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Offer a little milk mixed with > > > > butter > > > > > at > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > temple > > > > > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 13 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > days regularly. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] immerse in a river 4 dry pooja > > > > nariyal > > > > > > > along > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > pieces > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lead { a metal }. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > > > , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you so much for your advice. > > > Your > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > an > > > > > > > > > > > act > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ultimate generosity to us. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have done all the upayyas you > > > > suggested > > > > > > > except > > > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sita > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ashok > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > root one, which I should be getting > > > next > > > > > > week. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > did > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > copper > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ssnales uppaya in August, I > > completed > > > > the > > > > > > > badam > > > > > > > > > > upayya > > > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > September > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 12th, and am continuing to sprinkle > > > the > > > > > milk > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > burners > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > each > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > night. My situation is much the same. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priyaji, I wanted to ask if there is > > > > there > > > > > > > > > something > > > > > > > > > > > > > > terribly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > wrong > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my horoscope that is preventing a > > > > happy > > > > > > > life? > > > > > > > > > > Based > > > > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > horoscope, do you think there some > > > > defect > > > > > in > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > > > > nature > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > causing this? Priyaji, I cannot > > > describe > > > > > > just > > > > > > > how > > > > > > > > > > > weary > > > > > > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the chain of events in my personal > > > life. > > > > > It > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > > odd > > > > > > > > > > > > > but > > > > > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seems that anyone I start to love > > > > suddenly > > > > > > > loses > > > > > > > > > > their > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > attachment > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I ask for your advice and blessings. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ***************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Svetlana, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have gone through your horoscope. > > I > > > am > > > > > > > > > suggesting > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > few > > > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which might help you. Go to the > > files > > > > and > > > > > > read > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > rules > > > > > > > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > before doing them. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every night extinguish the > > last > > > > > > kitchen > > > > > > > > fire > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sprinkling > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > few drops of milk over the burner. > > Do > > > > not > > > > > > use > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > particular > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > burner > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > till the next morning. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Get a piece of Sita Ashok tree > > > > root > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > keep > > > > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > pooja > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > sthan. There are two varieties of > > > Ashok > > > > > > tree. > > > > > > > One > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > drooping > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > branches and doesn't grow into a big > > > > tree, > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > grows > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a huge shady tree. The one that > > > > grows > > > > > > > into a > > > > > > > > > > huge > > > > > > > > > > > > > shady > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > tree > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > is > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > known as Sita Ashok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] Immerse in a river a pair of > > > > copper > > > > > > > snakes > > > > > > > > > on > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > sunday > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] Offer 10 sabut baadam { whole > > > > > almonds > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > shell} > > > > > > > > > > > > at > > > > > > > > > > > > > > any > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple for 5 days regularly. Each > > day > > > > > bring > > > > > > > back > > > > > > > > > > home > > > > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > temple , as blessed prasaad , 5 > > > almonds > > > > > out > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > those > > > > > > > > > > > > > offered > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keep them at home tied in a yellow > > > > cloth. > > > > > No > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > > should > > > > > > > > > > > > > eat > > > > > > > > > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > throw > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them away. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , " svetlana.shah " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <svetlana.shah@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Kindest Priyajee, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am 32 years old and have been > > > > > struggling > > > > > > > for > > > > > > > > > so > > > > > > > > > > > many > > > > > > > > > > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > personal relationships. I hope you > > > can > > > > > > help. > > > > > > > > > > Things > > > > > > > > > > > > have > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > taken > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for the worst between my soul- mate > > > and > > > > > me. > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > need > > > > > > > > > > > your > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > advice > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > smoothen my love-life. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will be highly obliged, Priya ji. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My specifics are Date of Birth is > > > 12th > > > > > > > > November, > > > > > > > > > > > 1973; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 1.29pm; > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Moga, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Punjab. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Many thank-yous, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Svetlana > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get your email and more, right on the > > > new > > > > > > > .com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > How low will we go? 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