Kind atten: Prabhakar ji / Bhatia ji

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Respected Sirs,

I've read the messages posted by vandanaji. The faith she has in you

is tremendous. Her faith has inpired me to approach you for any help

you would be kind enough to offer me. My situation is almost

suicidal now. Could you please guide me so that I may also be able

to sort out some of my problems. My details are as follows:

D.O.B: 23 Dec 1972

T.O.B : 02:45 AM

P.O.B : New Delhi

 

Husband's details:

D.O.B : 3 Sep 1970

T.O.B : 05:50 PM

P.O.B : Rae Barelli

 

My questions are:

1. it is a second marriage for both of us. a love marriage. i had an

affair with my husband for 5 years (1990-1995) before he married his

1st wife but we could not get married then. We got married on 3 feb

2004. I found out in 2005 that he has not yet divorced his 1st wife.

Now he spends alternate days in both houses. I know he is not

physical with his 1st wife but he cannot bring himself to leave his

children. neither can he leave me. I don't want to divorce him

either. Kindly suggest how I can have a normal married life where he

stays with me everyday and I do not have to share him. I know this

is selfish on my part but I donot know what to do. I'm almost

suicidal but I cannot leave him. He is not even willing to tell his

first wife or parents that he has married me although both his

brothers know. Will he ever have the courage to leave his 1st wife

or atleast tell her and his parents about our marriage? If yes, when

can I expect this to happen? the deatails of his 1st wife are:

D.o.B: 25 July, 1975

T.o.B: 07:13 PM

Place: Delhi

 

2. We have been trying to concieve for 2 years now without success.

Medically both of us are fit. Somebody told me my Saturn is in 8th

house, so I cannot have children. Please advice. Also if I have

children, when can I expect?

 

Your suggestions in the above matter shall be highly appreciated and

religiously adhered to.

Thanks a million.

Regards

Ruchi