Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 Dear Friends, I need advice on a crucial decision of my life.I plan to go for a divorce at the age of 37.I have been married for 5 years now,but not consummated the marriage & dont have any kidsas I am not attracted to my wife and gotmarried under forced circumstances.However,I am worried to death that even if I do get divorce by 38 and remarry , I may have my first and 2nd child by 39 & 41 yrs in second marriage.Do u think having kids so late is OK cos by the time the kids will be around 27 yrs & 25 yrs respectively I will be about 66yrs which is too old may not even be alive to settle down their life.Any thoughts and advice from all are welcome to give me confidence and clarity to go ahead. My details are Male ,DOB 04-03-72 POB Shillong(Meghalaya),India, TOB 0745 am, Wife DOB = 09-04-77 TOB =0657 am , POB = coimbatore(Tamilnadu),India Date of Marriage = 09-02-2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 Dear "musicbuff08" musicbuff08 Getting attracted to ur wife is not the basic reason u r looking for a divorce. Marital life is a responsibility & it needs to be followed on certain self agreed understanding between the spouses. The problem with u is that u are attracted to different women & u see women as a sense enjoyment object. This is also u r seeing in ur wife, thus leading to dissatisfied sexual life, hence the depressed state. U hv venus/mars conjunction in the lagna with mangal in its own mool trikona rashi which makes u more prone to sense satisfaction in marital life, rather than taking it as a responsibility. Their is nothing like no yog for children, but due to aspect of mangal & surya in ur respective charts give miscarraige/abortion. U also being manglic will always give friction & disturbed marital life. Having children at an older age is not a problem at all. What u need is to sit down sincerely, talk to ur spouse & get it sorted out. U also need to discipline urself & mend ur ways & be more matured & responsible in ur approach. Remember one thing, God helps those who help themselves. GOD BLESS YOU HARESH(HARRY)NATHANI VEDIC ASTOLOGER CELL +919867214103 (MUMBAI,INDIA) "musicbuff08" <musicbuff08 Sent: Tuesday, 17 February, 2009 3:44:50 PM Advice for divorce and remarriage Dear Friends,I need advice on a crucial decision of my life..I planto go for a divorce at the age of 37.I have been married for 5 yearsnow,but not consummated the marriage & dont have any kidsas I am not attracted to my wife andgotmarried under forced circumstances.. However,I amworried to death that even if I do get divorce by 38 and remarry , Imay have my first and 2nd child by 39 & 41 yrs in second marriage.Do u think having kids so late is OK cos by the time the kids will be around27 yrs & 25 yrs respectively I will be about 66yrs which is too oldmay not even be alive to settle down their life.Any thoughts andadvice from all are welcome to give me confidence and clarity to go ahead.My details are Male ,DOB 04-03-72 POB Shillong(Meghalaya) ,India, TOB0745 am,Wife DOB = 09-04-77 TOB =0657 am , POB = coimbatore(Tamilnad u),IndiaDate of Marriage = 09-02-2004 Bollywood news, movie reviews, film trailers and more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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