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Dear Sir,

 

One more thing is regarding " Visarajan of Asthi " (

flowers). Bhasm we have done visarjan in Cauvery near

Bangalore. Please tell us where should we do Visarajan

of Asthi. We are thinkinh that my father will take it

to Hardwar. some people are telling Godavari. Please

let us know when and where should we do. I cannot go

as I am supposed not to move.

 

Please guide us sir.

 

Regards

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

>

> --- Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

>

> > vedic group <vedic astrology >,

> > ,

> >

> >

>

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> > Jim <vivluv_2000

> > Mon, 4 Feb 2008 21:03:16 -0800 (PST)

> > [A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available]

> sad

> > demise of mother - please help

> >

> > Dear Gurujans,

> >

> >

> > We are going through a very sad period and I would

> > like to share the sad news that my mother passed

> way

> > for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> > 5.40

> > am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form

> last

> > 10

> > years and since last one and a half months she was

> > constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

> >

> > On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> > after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> > and

> > stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister

> > marriage

> > on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> > call

> > that she is not well and infection occurred. She

> was

> > admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> > infection

> > and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> > pain

> > and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she

> was

> > still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> > not

> > talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm

> her

> > pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> > shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> > toxic water has entered in all the parts of body

> and

> > lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> > lost our mother.

> >

> > I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> > deep yearning to live life inspite of all

> sufferings

> > she was going through. She never wanted to die.

> When

> > last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> > she

> > will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali

> > jati

> > to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna

> hai,

> > mere bachon ka kya hota”

> >

> > But we could not do anything and she passed away.

> I

> > wanted to do lot of things for her but I could

> not.

> > In

> > a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> > not

> > turned up to her expectation and she left with a

> lot

> > of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> > fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> > directly.

> >

> > In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> > perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> > her

> > sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

> >

> > Please guide me.

> >

> > Thanks,

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> > P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> > 83.33E

> > T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Mother - Anju

> >

> > D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> > P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> > T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

> >

> >

> > Father

> >

> > D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> > P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

> >

> >

> > Ankita (elder sister)

> > D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

> >

> > Pallavi (youngest sister)

> > D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

> >

> >

> > Shweta - wife

> >

> > 7th March 1982

> > 9.40 am

> > Kalyan

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Thanks a lot sir.

 

 

How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

 

Please suggest.

 

 

Regards

 

--- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

 

> I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> soul..

> After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> Kapala Sthan_)..

> Regds.

> K.V.Vighnesh

> chennai.

> mbl: 9444961820

> chat id: kvvighnesh

> May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

>

>

> vivluv_2000

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Dear Gurujans,

>

> We are going through a very sad period and I would

> like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> 5.40

> am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> 10

> years and since last one and a half months she was

> constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

>

> On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> and

> stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister

> marriage

> on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> call

> that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> infection

> and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> pain

> and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> not

> talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> lost our mother.

>

> I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> she

> will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali

> jati

> to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> mere bachon ka kya hota”

>

> But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> In

> a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> not

> turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> directly.

>

> In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> her

> sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

>

> Please guide me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Jim

>

> D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> 83.33E

> T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

>

> Mother - Anju

>

> D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

>

> Father

>

> D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

>

> Ankita (elder sister)

> D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

>

> Pallavi (youngest sister)

> D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

>

> Shweta - wife

>

> 7th March 1982

> 9.40 am

> Kalyan

>

>

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Dear Vignesh,

 

I am deeply shocked to read about your mother's sad demise.

May God give her soul a permanent place in his lotus feet.

 

Tatvam-Asi

 

Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

Thanks a lot sir.

 

How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

 

Please suggest.

 

Regards

 

--- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

 

> I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> soul..

> After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> Kapala Sthan_)..

> Regds.

> K.V.Vighnesh

> chennai.

> mbl: 9444961820

> chat id: kvvighnesh

> May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

>

>

> vivluv_2000

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Dear Gurujans,

>

> We are going through a very sad period and I would

> like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> 5.40

> am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> 10

> years and since last one and a half months she was

> constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

>

> On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> and

> stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister

> marriage

> on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> call

> that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> infection

> and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> pain

> and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> not

> talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> lost our mother.

>

> I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> she

> will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali

> jati

> to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> mere bachon ka kya hota”

>

> But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> In

> a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> not

> turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> directly.

>

> In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> her

> sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

>

> Please guide me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Jim

>

> D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> 83.33E

> T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

>

> Mother - Anju

>

> D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

>

> Father

>

> D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

>

> Ankita (elder sister)

> D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

>

> Pallavi (youngest sister)

> D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

>

> Shweta - wife

>

> 7th March 1982

> 9.40 am

> Kalyan

>

>

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Dear Gurujans,

 

 

We are going through a very sad period and I would

like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February 5.40

am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last 10

years and since last one and a half months she was

constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

 

On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine and

stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister marriage

on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a call

that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

admitted and doctors thought it as a normal infection

and took it casually. While she was in tremendous pain

and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was not

talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

lost our mother.

 

I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

last week she was admitted she was so scared that she

will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali jati

to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

mere bachon ka kya hota”

 

But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not. In

a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have not

turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

directly.

 

In this case what all shall I do. What should I

perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make her

sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

 

Please guide me.

 

Thanks,

 

Jim

 

D.O.B.- July 10,1078

P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

83.33E

T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother - Anju

 

D.O.B.- October 18,1960

P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

 

 

Father

 

D.O.B.- April 28,1954

P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

 

 

Ankita (elder sister)

D.O.B.- July 15,1982

P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

 

Pallavi (youngest sister)

D.O.B.-September 9,1988

P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

 

 

Shweta - wife

 

7th March 1982

9.40 am

Kalyan

 

 

 

 

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Dear sir,

 

Thanks for your mail and condolences. Its really tough to accept that

she is not among us. Why this happened? We exoected that she will be

there for some more time and she cane out fine from hospital two days

back. She had a strong will to live and very strong will power and

still it happened to her.

 

Pls let me know what all can be done by me as I have a guilt that I

could not do much for her.

 

Thanks,

 

JIM

 

 

 

vedic astrology , Tatvam-Asi <nameisego

wrote:

>

> Dear Vignesh,

>

> I am deeply shocked to read about your mother's sad demise.

> May God give her soul a permanent place in his lotus feet.

>

> Tatvam-Asi

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Thanks a lot sir.

>

> How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

> cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

> that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

> is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

>

> Please suggest.

>

> Regards

>

> --- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

>

> > I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> > can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> > shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> > soul..

> > After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> > place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> > their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> > ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> > Kapala Sthan_)..

> > Regds.

> > K.V.Vighnesh

> > chennai.

> > mbl: 9444961820

> > chat id: kvvighnesh

> > May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

> >

> >

> > vivluv_2000

> >

> > Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> > Dear Gurujans,

> >

> > We are going through a very sad period and I would

> > like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> > for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> > 5.40

> > am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> > 10

> > years and since last one and a half months she was

> > constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

> >

> > On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> > after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> > and

> > stable. I left for work and my wife's sister

> > marriage

> > on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> > call

> > that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> > admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> > infection

> > and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> > pain

> > and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> > still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> > not

> > talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> > pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> > shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> > toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> > lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> > lost our mother.

> >

> > I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> > deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> > she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> > last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> > she

> > will die and told me that " Beta, Agar main chali

> > jati

> > to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> > mere bachon ka kya hota "

> >

> > But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> > wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> > In

> > a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> > not

> > turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> > of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> > fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> > directly.

> >

> > In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> > perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> > her

> > sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

> >

> > Please guide me.

> >

> > Thanks,

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> > P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> > 83.33E

> > T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

> >

> > Mother - Anju

> >

> > D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> > P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> > T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

> >

> > Father

> >

> > D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> > P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

> >

> > Ankita (elder sister)

> > D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

> >

> > Pallavi (youngest sister)

> > D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

> >

> > Shweta - wife

> >

> > 7th March 1982

> > 9.40 am

> > Kalyan

> >

> >

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Dear Vignesh,

 

Whatever anyone does for his/her mother is never enough.

Just pray and adopt her love and her nature.

You will never be unhappy in life.

That would be your shraddhha to her.

 

Be blessed

 

Tatvam-Asi

 

vivluv_2000 <vivluv_2000 wrote:

 

Dear sir,

 

Thanks for your mail and condolences. Its really tough to accept that

she is not among us. Why this happened? We exoected that she will be

there for some more time and she cane out fine from hospital two days

back. She had a strong will to live and very strong will power and

still it happened to her.

 

Pls let me know what all can be done by me as I have a guilt that I

could not do much for her.

 

Thanks,

 

JIM

 

vedic astrology , Tatvam-Asi <nameisego

wrote:

>

> Dear Vignesh,

>

> I am deeply shocked to read about your mother's sad demise.

> May God give her soul a permanent place in his lotus feet.

>

> Tatvam-Asi

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Thanks a lot sir.

>

> How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

> cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

> that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

> is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

>

> Please suggest.

>

> Regards

>

> --- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

>

> > I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> > can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> > shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> > soul..

> > After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> > place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> > their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> > ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> > Kapala Sthan_)..

> > Regds.

> > K.V.Vighnesh

> > chennai.

> > mbl: 9444961820

> > chat id: kvvighnesh

> > May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

> >

> >

> > vivluv_2000

> >

> > Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> > Dear Gurujans,

> >

> > We are going through a very sad period and I would

> > like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> > for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> > 5.40

> > am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> > 10

> > years and since last one and a half months she was

> > constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

> >

> > On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> > after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> > and

> > stable. I left for work and my wife's sister

> > marriage

> > on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> > call

> > that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> > admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> > infection

> > and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> > pain

> > and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> > still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> > not

> > talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> > pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> > shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> > toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> > lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> > lost our mother.

> >

> > I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> > deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> > she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> > last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> > she

> > will die and told me that " Beta, Agar main chali

> > jati

> > to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> > mere bachon ka kya hota "

> >

> > But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> > wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> > In

> > a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> > not

> > turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> > of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> > fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> > directly.

> >

> > In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> > perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> > her

> > sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

> >

> > Please guide me.

> >

> > Thanks,

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> > P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> > 83.33E

> > T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

> >

> > Mother - Anju

> >

> > D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> > P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> > T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

> >

> > Father

> >

> > D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> > P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

> >

> > Ankita (elder sister)

> > D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

> >

> > Pallavi (youngest sister)

> > D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

> >

> > Shweta - wife

> >

> > 7th March 1982

> > 9.40 am

> > Kalyan

> >

> >

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Dear Sir,

 

One more thing is regarding " Visarajan of Asthi " (

flowers). Bhasm we have done visarjan in Cauvery near

Bangalore. Please tell us where should we do Visarajan

of Asthi. We are thinkinh that my father will take it

to Hardwar. some people are telling Godavari. Please

let us know when and where should we do. I cannot go

as I am supposed not to move.

 

Please guide us sir.

 

Regards

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

--- Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

 

> vedic group <vedic astrology >,

> ,

>

>

A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available

> Jim <vivluv_2000

> Mon, 4 Feb 2008 21:03:16 -0800 (PST)

> [A_Foresight_Prince_of_India_Available] sad

> demise of mother - please help

>

> Dear Gurujans,

>

>

> We are going through a very sad period and I would

> like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> 5.40

> am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> 10

> years and since last one and a half months she was

> constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

>

> On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> and

> stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister

> marriage

> on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> call

> that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> infection

> and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> pain

> and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> not

> talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> lost our mother.

>

> I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> she

> will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali

> jati

> to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> mere bachon ka kya hota”

>

> But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> In

> a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> not

> turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> directly.

>

> In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> her

> sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

>

> Please guide me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Jim

>

> D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> 83.33E

> T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

Mother - Anju

>

> D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

>

>

> Father

>

> D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

>

>

> Ankita (elder sister)

> D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

>

> Pallavi (youngest sister)

> D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

>

>

> Shweta - wife

>

> 7th March 1982

> 9.40 am

> Kalyan

>

>

>

>

>

>

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You can imerse the ashes within this year.. Mind it, Your mother soul is hanging

around for one year.. Not to be in Hurry.. There is smal ritual to b performed

before imersing.

At Badrinath why I sugessted is it is Brahma Kapal sthan. So, immersing the

ahes there is supreme. If you want any help in this regard you can take me to

Badrinath and I will do you the ritual and guide you.. Hardwar and Kanyakumari,

Kasi, Allahabad, Gangothri & Gangasagar. these are all the places you can imerse

the ashes.. It is all upto you and how much your pocket permits.

Also, you can 12 month thithi you can pefom shradh which, will bless you

ultimately.. Especially if you do it at Kasi, Allahabad, Haridwar is very much

important places according to

HINDU Shastras.

If you need any further clarification you can call me I am ready to clarify

you.

Regds.

K.V.Vighnesh

chennai.

9444961820

 

Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

Thanks a lot sir.

 

How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

 

Please suggest.

 

Regards

 

--- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

 

> I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> soul..

> After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> Kapala Sthan_)..

> Regds.

> K.V.Vighnesh

> chennai.

> mbl: 9444961820

> chat id: kvvighnesh

> May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

>

>

> vivluv_2000

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Dear Gurujans,

>

> We are going through a very sad period and I would

> like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> 5.40

> am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> 10

> years and since last one and a half months she was

> constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

>

> On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> and

> stable. I left for work and my wife’s sister

> marriage

> on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> call

> that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> infection

> and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> pain

> and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> not

> talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> lost our mother.

>

> I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> she

> will die and told me that “Beta, Agar main chali

> jati

> to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> mere bachon ka kya hota”

>

> But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> In

> a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> not

> turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> directly.

>

> In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> her

> sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

>

> Please guide me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Jim

>

> D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> 83.33E

> T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

>

> Mother - Anju

>

> D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

>

> Father

>

> D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

>

> Ankita (elder sister)

> D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

>

> Pallavi (youngest sister)

> D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

>

> Shweta - wife

>

> 7th March 1982

> 9.40 am

> Kalyan

>

>

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Dear Sir,

 

Thanks a lot for your help and guidance. I will surely call you for

any help.

 

Thanks Again sir,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

vedic astrology , VIGHNESH K V

<vighneshare wrote:

>

> You can imerse the ashes within this year.. Mind it, Your mother

soul is hanging around for one year.. Not to be in Hurry.. There is

smal ritual to b performed before imersing.

> At Badrinath why I sugessted is it is Brahma Kapal sthan. So,

immersing the ahes there is supreme. If you want any help in this

regard you can take me to Badrinath and I will do you the ritual and

guide you.. Hardwar and Kanyakumari, Kasi, Allahabad, Gangothri &

Gangasagar. these are all the places you can imerse the ashes.. It is

all upto you and how much your pocket permits.

> Also, you can 12 month thithi you can pefom shradh which, will

bless you ultimately.. Especially if you do it at Kasi, Allahabad,

Haridwar is very much important places according to

> HINDU Shastras.

> If you need any further clarification you can call me I am ready

to clarify you.

> Regds.

> K.V.Vighnesh

> chennai.

> 9444961820

>

> Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> Thanks a lot sir.

>

> How long we can wait for immersion of ashes as I

> cannot move for next 12 days and Pandit ji is saying

> that immersion should happen within 10 days. My father

> is planning to go Haridwar tomorrow from Bangalore.

>

> Please suggest.

>

> Regards

>

> --- VIGHNESH K V <vighneshare wrote:

>

> > I am deeply moved your writting. At this hour you

> > can do Anthim Kriya correctly and aptly according to

> > shastras is the only best remedy to satisfy her

> > soul..

> > After a year over you can do shraddh at Gaya, the

> > place where your nearby relatives waiting to get

> > their pindas.. In the mean time you can immerse

> > ashes at Kasi and if possible at Badrinath *(Brahma

> > Kapala Sthan_)..

> > Regds.

> > K.V.Vighnesh

> > chennai.

> > mbl: 9444961820

> > chat id: kvvighnesh

> > May her soul rest in peace. Ohm Namasivaya.

> >

> >

> > vivluv_2000

> >

> > Jim <vivluv_2000 wrote:

> > Dear Gurujans,

> >

> > We are going through a very sad period and I would

> > like to share the sad news that my mother passed way

> > for heavenly abode on last Saturday, 2nd February

> > 5.40

> > am. She was suffering from Kidney failure form last

> > 10

> > years and since last one and a half months she was

> > constantly hospitalized and not keeping well.

> >

> > On Friday 25th January her pulse rate dropped but

> > after 3 days in hospital doctors said she is fine

> > and

> > stable. I left for work and my wife's sister

> > marriage

> > on Monday. On Thursday 31st January I again got a

> > call

> > that she is not well and infection occurred. She was

> > admitted and doctors thought it as a normal

> > infection

> > and took it casually. While she was in tremendous

> > pain

> > and I was not there in Bangalore. On Friday she was

> > still in pain and virtually not in senses. She was

> > not

> > talking to anybody and in the night around 11pm her

> > pulse rate dropped, BP started falling and she was

> > shifted to ICU. There they realized that the whole

> > toxic water has entered in all the parts of body and

> > lungs. They tried but could not do anything and we

> > lost our mother.

> >

> > I would like to also tell you that my mother had a

> > deep yearning to live life inspite of all sufferings

> > she was going through. She never wanted to die. When

> > last week she was admitted she was so scared that

> > she

> > will die and told me that " Beta, Agar main chali

> > jati

> > to kya hota, Mere ko to abhi bohat kuch dekhna hai,

> > mere bachon ka kya hota "

> >

> > But we could not do anything and she passed away. I

> > wanted to do lot of things for her but I could not.

> > In

> > a way I have a deep feeling that somewhere I have

> > not

> > turned up to her expectation and she left with a lot

> > of expectations and desire from me. I am at a big

> > fault. I loved her a lot but never expressed her

> > directly.

> >

> > In this case what all shall I do. What should I

> > perform now? I want to perform all rituals to make

> > her

> > sole happy. Please guide me and help me.

> >

> > Please guide me.

> >

> > Thanks,

> >

> > Jim

> >

> > D.O.B.- July 10,1078

> > P.O.B.- Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh), 25.57N,

> > 83.33E

> > T.O.B.- 18:40 P.M.

> >

> > Mother - Anju

> >

> > D.O.B.- October 18,1960

> > P.O.B.- Bankura (west bengal)

> > T.O.B.- 11:10 A.M

> >

> > Father

> >

> > D.O.B.- April 28,1954

> > P.O.B.-Mau nath bhanjan (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 23:40 P.M

> >

> > Ankita (elder sister)

> > D.O.B.- July 15,1982

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 9:30 A.M.

> >

> > Pallavi (youngest sister)

> > D.O.B.-September 9,1988

> > P.O.B.- Varanasi (uttar pradesh)

> > T.O.B.- 6:40 A.M.

> >

> > Shweta - wife

> >

> > 7th March 1982

> > 9.40 am

> > Kalyan

> >

> >

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