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Dear Pt. Bhooshan Priya,

 

I have always had a very bad relationship with my mother. Not because she

treated me badly

but because I somehow always sided and related to people ( mainly other female

figures) who

would treat me very sweetly nicely and kindly but were not so nice to my mother.

So I was a

very disloyal daughter. I have hurt my mom a lot over the years and I cannot

bring those days

back. By hurting her, I deprived myself of my own mother's love and affection. I

also did a lot

of thing to hurt my younger brother. Instead of having motherly protectivee

instincts towards

him, we would fight. I really regret what I have done and a simple apology

cannot make all

the years of hurt go away. I think that a lot of the academic struggle that I

have had over the

past 8 years has been because of this strained relationship with my mother. A

lot of the

major setbacks in my education have involved female authority figures. I know

this is a

rather odd request, but is there anything that I can do to better relations?

 

My dob is december 13, 1980 time 9:00am place Long Beach California USA.

 

Hope to hear from you soon.

 

Thanks