Follow-up on Uppayas

[Guest guest]

Our dearest Priya ji,

 

Hope the winter season is treating you well and you are in the best

of health. I hear that the temperature in Delhi is extremely low-

please keep yourself warm.

 

I have been doing the uppayas you have suggested and need some

further help.

 

1. For my happy married life you had suggested that I keep a silver

dibbi with 7 pieces of silver immersed in ganga-jal/rain-water. Where

should I keep this dibbi? Currently it is in my bed-room.

 

2. Square piece of silver which is 70 grams: this was given to me by

sister right after we got legally married. You had suggested that my

father could give me another one after kanya-daan, once we have the

religious ceremony. Due to some family issues, we may not be having a

religious ceremony/wedding. Do you think it is okay? Should my father

still give me the square piece of silver when I see him next time I

go to India? My mother is currently visiting me, so please let me

know if there is something she can do. Where should I keep the piece

of silver?

 

3. My husband and I do not seem to have any luck with making friends,

Priya ji. I know that this may sound like a trivial problem, but

living so far away from family, one only has friends to turn to and

we cannot seem to make any. We would like to know other families

becuase otherwise my fear is that when boredom sets in, the mind

turns to negative things which is what happened in my last marriage.

I'm very fearful of that and would like to have close friends we can

mingle with. Right now most of the time we are by ourselves and alone.

 

 

 

Kindest regards,

Neena

[Guest guest]

Dear Neena,

 

[ 1 ] Keeping it in the bed room is just fine.

[ 2 ] The piece of silver given to you by your sister is good

enough. Keep it wrapped in a yellow cloth anywhere safely. Yes if

your father gives a piece too, keep it with the piece given to you

by your sister.

[ 3 ] For making friends, you could recite the beej mantra for Venus

as many times a day as you can. Get the text and the audio from the

files.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " Neena " <n_arora04

wrote:

>

> Our dearest Priya ji,

>

> Hope the winter season is treating you well and you are in the best

> of health. I hear that the temperature in Delhi is extremely low-

> please keep yourself warm.

>

> I have been doing the uppayas you have suggested and need some

> further help.

>

> 1. For my happy married life you had suggested that I keep a silver

> dibbi with 7 pieces of silver immersed in ganga-jal/rain-water.

Where

> should I keep this dibbi? Currently it is in my bed-room.

>

> 2. Square piece of silver which is 70 grams: this was given to me

by

> sister right after we got legally married. You had suggested that

my

> father could give me another one after kanya-daan, once we have the

> religious ceremony. Due to some family issues, we may not be

having a

> religious ceremony/wedding. Do you think it is okay? Should my

father

> still give me the square piece of silver when I see him next time I

> go to India? My mother is currently visiting me, so please let me

> know if there is something she can do. Where should I keep the

piece

> of silver?

>

> 3. My husband and I do not seem to have any luck with making

friends,

> Priya ji. I know that this may sound like a trivial problem, but

> living so far away from family, one only has friends to turn to and

> we cannot seem to make any. We would like to know other families

> becuase otherwise my fear is that when boredom sets in, the mind

> turns to negative things which is what happened in my last

marriage.

> I'm very fearful of that and would like to have close friends we

can

> mingle with. Right now most of the time we are by ourselves and

alone.

>

>

>

> Kindest regards,

> Neena

>