Guest guest Posted December 21, 2006 Report Share Posted December 21, 2006 Dear Gautam, [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those who might refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both the upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. Yes you have to count your elder brothers family also. [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop earlier and walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare foot to your neighbourhood temple. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more help from > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative and they also > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone in Gaya and i > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute money on my own > and do the upaya. > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have very liking > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they use to bring > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year 2003 i bought a > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by contributing pusp mala > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel committee. In > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently leave for my > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but i found out > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they did it very > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around 3feetx3feetx3feet > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent years people > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the puja they > shift it to safe place. > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token amount and > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind for a > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our institute > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only the living > members or i should count those members also who have died (my > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have also come to > know that there have been some child deaths in our extended family) > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their children and > families of my uncles children. > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go to > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot (which actually > every body do). > > Sincerely > gautam > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, but with > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given you a tough > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give tension. > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri Rin' { it > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the ancestors}. > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not going to > > improve. > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few other upaya > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to the files > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the upaya > > suggested by me. > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended family > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters and > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got the count, get > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses of the two > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give his share, > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { like cement or > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } at a temple. > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be yellowish in > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. Burn these > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen pot, > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the kaudis turn to > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the pot also > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis , no one > > should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis are > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water. > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the way bare foot. > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone piece, 1kg > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { ghara }, once. > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , which > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a river while > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the same day. > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in curtain > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of paneer once. > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its really great to > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so rarely. As of my > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > Thank you again. > > > Sincerely, > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is AM or PM . > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok Misra has been > > my > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in different > > departments, > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I was from > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours 31 minutes 25 > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I came to > > know > > > > that > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every event in life > > and > > > > even > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of my > > birthchart. I > > > > am > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have worked very hard > > > > through > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > substantial. I > > > > am > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to decide what > > to > > > > do > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in Mathematics from > > IIT > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few times in > > medicine > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from cold and > > cough. I > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after I joined > > Art of > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in 10th house of my > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have Matri Rin. The > > only > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I had troubled > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love with a girl. > > But I > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand life will > > become > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very different from > > mine. > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in 2005. But as > > soon > > > > as > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing storm of > > > > troubles. My > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time she had fallen > > and > > > > her > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it again > > broken. My > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in scooter for 3- 4 > > hours > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also faced > > accidents > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > Regards, > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 23, 2006 Report Share Posted December 23, 2006 Dear Guruji, I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I called my mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and my father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my uncles. So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not to send for them because I should contribute on their behalf. My question is 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my extended family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a temple for a puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or just plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they burn properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the upaya. Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr rin. Sincerely Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those who might > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both the > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. Yes you > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop earlier and > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare foot to > your neighbourhood temple. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more help from > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative and they > also > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone in Gaya > and i > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute money on my > own > > and do the upaya. > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have very > liking > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they use to > bring > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year 2003 i > bought a > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by contributing pusp > mala > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel committee. In > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently leave > for my > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but i found > out > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they did it > very > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent years > people > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the puja they > > shift it to safe place. > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token amount > and > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind for a > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our institute > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only the living > > members or i should count those members also who have died (my > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have also come > to > > know that there have been some child deaths in our extended family) > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their children and > > families of my uncles children. > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go to > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot (which > actually > > every body do). > > > > Sincerely > > gautam > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, but with > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given you a > tough > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give tension. > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri Rin' { it > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > ancestors}. > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not going to > > > improve. > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few other > upaya > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to the > files > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the upaya > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended family > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters and > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got the count, > get > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses of the > two > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give his > share, > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { like > cement or > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } at a > temple. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be yellowish > in > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. Burn these > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen > pot, > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the kaudis turn > to > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the pot also > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis , no > one > > > should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis > are > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water. > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the way bare > foot. > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone piece, > 1kg > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { ghara }, > once. > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , which > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a river > while > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the same > day. > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in > curtain > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of paneer once. > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its really > great to > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so rarely. As > of my > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > Thank you again. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is AM or PM . > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok Misra has > been > > > my > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in different > > > departments, > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I was from > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours 31 > minutes 25 > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I came to > > > know > > > > > that > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every event in > life > > > and > > > > > even > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of my > > > birthchart. I > > > > > am > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have worked very > hard > > > > > through > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > > substantial. I > > > > > am > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to decide > what > > > to > > > > > do > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in Mathematics > from > > > IIT > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few times in > > > medicine > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from cold and > > > cough. I > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after I > joined > > > Art of > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in 10th house > of my > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have Matri Rin. > The > > > only > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I had > troubled > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love with a > girl. > > > But I > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand life > will > > > become > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very different > from > > > mine. > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in 2005. But > as > > > soon > > > > > as > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing storm of > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time she had > fallen > > > and > > > > > her > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it again > > > broken. My > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in scooter for 3- > 4 > > > hours > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also faced > > > accidents > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2006 Report Share Posted December 24, 2006 Dear Gautam, [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. But I would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple instead of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in a temple. [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel wood. You do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be done at the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the kaudis burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your convenience. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I called my > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and my > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my uncles. > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not to send > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > My question is > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my extended > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a temple for a > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or just > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they burn > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the upaya. > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr rin. > > Sincerely > Gautam > > > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those who might > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both the > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. Yes you > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop earlier and > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare foot to > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more help from > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative and they > > also > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone in Gaya > > and i > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute money on my > > own > > > and do the upaya. > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have very > > liking > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they use to > > bring > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year 2003 i > > bought a > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by contributing pusp > > mala > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel committee. In > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently leave > > for my > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but i found > > out > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they did it > > very > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent years > > people > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the puja they > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token amount > > and > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind for a > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our institute > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only the living > > > members or i should count those members also who have died (my > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have also come > > to > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our extended family) > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their children and > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go to > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot (which > > actually > > > every body do). > > > > > > Sincerely > > > gautam > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, but with > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given you a > > tough > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give tension. > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri Rin' { it > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > > ancestors}. > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not going to > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few other > > upaya > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to the > > files > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the upaya > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended family > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters and > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got the count, > > get > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses of the > > two > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give his > > share, > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { like > > cement or > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } at a > > temple. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be yellowish > > in > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. Burn these > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen > > pot, > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the kaudis turn > > to > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the pot also > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis , no > > one > > > > should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis > > are > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water. > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the way bare > > foot. > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone piece, > > 1kg > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { ghara }, > > once. > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , which > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a river > > while > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the same > > day. > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in > > curtain > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of paneer once. > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its really > > great to > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so rarely. As > > of my > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is AM or PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok Misra has > > been > > > > my > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in different > > > > departments, > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I was from > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours 31 > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I came to > > > > know > > > > > > that > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every event in > > life > > > > and > > > > > > even > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of my > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > am > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have worked very > > hard > > > > > > through > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > am > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to decide > > what > > > > to > > > > > > do > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in Mathematics > > from > > > > IIT > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few times in > > > > medicine > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from cold and > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after I > > joined > > > > Art of > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in 10th house > > of my > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have Matri Rin. > > The > > > > only > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I had > > troubled > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love with a > > girl. > > > > But I > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand life > > will > > > > become > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very different > > from > > > > mine. > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in 2005. But > > as > > > > soon > > > > > > as > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing storm of > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time she had > > fallen > > > > and > > > > > > her > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it again > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in scooter for 3- > > 4 > > > > hours > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also faced > > > > accidents > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 11, 2007 Report Share Posted January 11, 2007 Dear Guruji, I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple and it is fixed and working. [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's daughter and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested that daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have daughter (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. Please advice. [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get and expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me know how to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also is it safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. Sincerely, Ravi Shankar Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. But I > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple instead > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in a temple. > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel wood. You > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be done at > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the kaudis > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your convenience. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I called my > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and my > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my uncles. > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not to send > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > My question is > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my extended > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a temple for > a > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or just > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they burn > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the upaya. > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr rin. > > > > Sincerely > > Gautam > > > > > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those who > might > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both the > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. Yes > you > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop earlier > and > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare foot to > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more help > from > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative and > they > > > also > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone in > Gaya > > > and i > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute money > on my > > > own > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have very > > > liking > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they use to > > > bring > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year 2003 i > > > bought a > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by contributing > pusp > > > mala > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > committee. In > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently leave > > > for my > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but i > found > > > out > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they did > it > > > very > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent years > > > people > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the puja > they > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token > amount > > > and > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind for > a > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our > institute > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only the > living > > > > members or i should count those members also who have died (my > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have also > come > > > to > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our extended > family) > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their children > and > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go to > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot (which > > > actually > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, but > with > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given you > a > > > tough > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give tension. > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri Rin' > { it > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > > > ancestors}. > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not going > to > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few other > > > upaya > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to the > > > files > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the upaya > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended > family > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters and > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got the > count, > > > get > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses of the > > > two > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give his > > > share, > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { like > > > cement or > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } at a > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be > yellowish > > > in > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. Burn > these > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen > > > pot, > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the kaudis > turn > > > to > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the pot > also > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis , > no > > > one > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis > > > are > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water. > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the way > bare > > > foot. > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone > piece, > > > 1kg > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { > ghara }, > > > once. > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , > which > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a river > > > while > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the same > > > day. > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in > > > curtain > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of paneer > once. > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its really > > > great to > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so rarely. > As > > > of my > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is AM or > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok Misra has > > > been > > > > > my > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in different > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I was > from > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours 31 > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I > came to > > > > > know > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every event > in > > > life > > > > > and > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of my > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have worked > very > > > hard > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to > decide > > > what > > > > > to > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > Mathematics > > > from > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few times > in > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from cold > and > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after I > > > joined > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in 10th > house > > > of my > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have Matri > Rin. > > > The > > > > > only > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I had > > > troubled > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love with a > > > girl. > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand life > > > will > > > > > become > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very different > > > from > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in 2005. > But > > > as > > > > > soon > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing storm > of > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time she had > > > fallen > > > > > and > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it again > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in scooter > for 3- > > > 4 > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also faced > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 12, 2007 Report Share Posted January 12, 2007 Dear Gautam, [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to include the family of your father's brothers, you may. If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn them also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple and it > is fixed and working. > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's daughter > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested that > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have daughter > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. Please advice. > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get and > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me know how > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also is it > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > Sincerely, > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. But I > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple instead > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in a temple. > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel wood. You > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be done at > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the kaudis > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your convenience. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I called my > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and my > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my uncles. > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not to send > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > My question is > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my extended > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a temple for > > a > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or just > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they burn > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the upaya. > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr rin. > > > > > > Sincerely > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those who > > might > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both the > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. Yes > > you > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop earlier > > and > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare foot to > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more help > > from > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative and > > they > > > > also > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone in > > Gaya > > > > and i > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute money > > on my > > > > own > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have very > > > > liking > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they use to > > > > bring > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year 2003 i > > > > bought a > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by contributing > > pusp > > > > mala > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > committee. In > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently leave > > > > for my > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but i > > found > > > > out > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they did > > it > > > > very > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent years > > > > people > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the puja > > they > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token > > amount > > > > and > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind for > > a > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our > > institute > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only the > > living > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have died (my > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have also > > come > > > > to > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our extended > > family) > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their children > > and > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go to > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot (which > > > > actually > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, but > > with > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given you > > a > > > > tough > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give tension. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri Rin' > > { it > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not going > > to > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few other > > > > upaya > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to the > > > > files > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the upaya > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended > > family > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters and > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got the > > count, > > > > get > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses of the > > > > two > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give his > > > > share, > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money thus > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { like > > > > cement or > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } at a > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be > > yellowish > > > > in > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. Burn > > these > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open earthen > > > > pot, > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the kaudis > > turn > > > > to > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the pot > > also > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the kaudis , > > no > > > > one > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where the kaudis > > > > are > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the way > > bare > > > > foot. > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone > > piece, > > > > 1kg > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { > > ghara }, > > > > once. > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , > > which > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a river > > > > while > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the same > > > > day. > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in > > > > curtain > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of paneer > > once. > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its really > > > > great to > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so rarely. > > As > > > > of my > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " " > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is AM or > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok Misra has > > > > been > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in different > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I was > > from > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours 31 > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I > > came to > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every event > > in > > > > life > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of my > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have worked > > very > > > > hard > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to > > decide > > > > what > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > Mathematics > > > > from > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few times > > in > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from cold > > and > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after I > > > > joined > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in 10th > > house > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have Matri > > Rin. > > > > The > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I had > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love with a > > > > girl. > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand life > > > > will > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very different > > > > from > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in 2005. > > But > > > > as > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing storm > > of > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time she had > > > > fallen > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it again > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in scooter > > for 3- > > > > 4 > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also faced > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Dear Guruji, Yesterday I burnt all the yellow kaudis on a rock in the bank of Ulhas river. It was difficult to burn them to ashes. I used 1 kg of charcoal and 1 litre of kerosene oil. It took me more than seven hours. The kaudis were approximately 1 inch in length. After almost all the charcoal turned to ashes, only the outer layer of kaudis was looking like ashes and there were cracks on it. It didn't break or melt. Then I started burning them using only kerosene oil, but nothing much happened. I then manually broken them into pieces using a steel spoon that I carried with me to the place. Again I burnt them using keorsene oil for more than half an hour. At the end part of burning I found that unless I attend to nature's call I will not be able to walk through the rocky shore. I attended it on the other side of the rock. Then I took to the ashes with the earthen pot and put them in the river and then put the earthen pot also into the river. As required nobody passed in front of me till the last. Please let me know if the upaya was completed. Sincerely, Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. > [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their > families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to include > the family of your father's brothers, you may. > If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn them > also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple and > it > > is fixed and working. > > > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's > daughter > > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested that > > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have > daughter > > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. Please > advice. > > > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get and > > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me know > how > > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also is it > > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > > > Sincerely, > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. But I > > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple > instead > > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in a > temple. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel wood. > You > > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be done > at > > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the > kaudis > > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your convenience. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I called > my > > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and my > > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my > uncles. > > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not to > send > > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > > > My question is > > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my > extended > > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a temple > for > > > a > > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or > just > > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they > burn > > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the > upaya. > > > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr > rin. > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those > who > > > might > > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do both > the > > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. > Yes > > > you > > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop > earlier > > > and > > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare > foot to > > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more > help > > > from > > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative > and > > > they > > > > > also > > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone > in > > > Gaya > > > > > and i > > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute > money > > > on my > > > > > own > > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i have > very > > > > > liking > > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i was > > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they > use to > > > > > bring > > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year > 2003 i > > > > > bought a > > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by > contributing > > > pusp > > > > > mala > > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > > committee. In > > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to urjently > leave > > > > > for my > > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, but > i > > > found > > > > > out > > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and they > did > > > it > > > > > very > > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the subsequent > years > > > > > people > > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the > puja > > > they > > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the token > > > amount > > > > > and > > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my mind > for > > > a > > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our > > > institute > > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only > the > > > living > > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have died > (my > > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have > also > > > come > > > > > to > > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our > extended > > > family) > > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their > children > > > and > > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i go > to > > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot > (which > > > > > actually > > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the 2nd, > but > > > with > > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have given > you > > > a > > > > > tough > > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give > tension. > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri > Rin' > > > { it > > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not > going > > > to > > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few > other > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go to > the > > > > > files > > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the > upaya > > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. Extended > > > family > > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married sisters > and > > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got > the > > > count, > > > > > get > > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses > of the > > > > > two > > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give > his > > > > > share, > > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the money > thus > > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { > like > > > > > cement or > > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans etc } > at a > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be > > > yellowish > > > > > in > > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. > Burn > > > these > > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open > earthen > > > > > pot, > > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the > kaudis > > > turn > > > > > to > > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw the > pot > > > also > > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the > kaudis , > > > no > > > > > one > > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where the > kaudis > > > > > are > > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the > water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the > way > > > bare > > > > > foot. > > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a stone > > > piece, > > > > > 1kg > > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { > > > ghara }, > > > > > once. > > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple rings } , > > > which > > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a > river > > > > > while > > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand the > same > > > > > day. > > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing in > > > > > curtain > > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains from. > > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye brows. > > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of > paneer > > > once. > > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its > really > > > > > great to > > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so > rarely. > > > As > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " " > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is > AM or > > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok > Misra has > > > > > been > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in > different > > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as I > was > > > from > > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 hours > 31 > > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. I > > > came to > > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every > event > > > in > > > > > life > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house of > my > > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have > worked > > > very > > > > > hard > > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any thing > > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able to > > > decide > > > > > what > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > > Mathematics > > > > > from > > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few > times > > > in > > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from > cold > > > and > > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food after > I > > > > > joined > > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in > 10th > > > house > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have > Matri > > > Rin. > > > > > The > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I > had > > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love > with a > > > > > girl. > > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could understand > life > > > > > will > > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very > different > > > > > from > > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in > 2005. > > > But > > > > > as > > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing > storm > > > of > > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time > she had > > > > > fallen > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery it > again > > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in > scooter > > > for 3- > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had also > faced > > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Dear Gautam, The upaya is done well. Nothing to be worried about. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > Yesterday I burnt all the yellow kaudis on a rock in the bank of > Ulhas river. It was difficult to burn them to ashes. I used 1 kg of > charcoal and 1 litre of kerosene oil. It took me more than seven > hours. The kaudis were approximately 1 inch in length. After almost > all the charcoal turned to ashes, only the outer layer of kaudis was > looking like ashes and there were cracks on it. It didn't break or > melt. Then I started burning them using only kerosene oil, but > nothing much happened. I then manually broken them into pieces using > a steel spoon that I carried with me to the place. Again I burnt > them using keorsene oil for more than half an hour. > > At the end part of burning I found that unless I attend to nature's > call I will not be able to walk through the rocky shore. I attended > it on the other side of the rock. Then I took to the ashes with the > earthen pot and put them in the river and then put the earthen pot > also into the river. As required nobody passed in front of me till > the last. > > Please let me know if the upaya was completed. > > Sincerely, > Gautam > > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. > > [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their > > families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to > include > > the family of your father's brothers, you may. > > If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn them > > also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > > > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple > and > > it > > > is fixed and working. > > > > > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's > > daughter > > > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested that > > > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have > > daughter > > > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. Please > > advice. > > > > > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get and > > > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me know > > how > > > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also is > it > > > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. But > I > > > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple > > instead > > > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in a > > temple. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel > wood. > > You > > > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be > done > > at > > > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the > > kaudis > > > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your > convenience. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I > called > > my > > > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her and > my > > > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my > > uncles. > > > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said not > to > > send > > > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > > > > > My question is > > > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my > > extended > > > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a > temple > > for > > > > a > > > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. or > > just > > > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure they > > burn > > > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the > > upaya. > > > > > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for pitr > > rin. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of those > > who > > > > might > > > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do > both > > the > > > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are dead. > > Yes > > > > you > > > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop > > earlier > > > > and > > > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down bare > > foot to > > > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some more > > help > > > > from > > > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all cooperative > > and > > > > they > > > > > > also > > > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are alone > > in > > > > Gaya > > > > > > and i > > > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute > > money > > > > on my > > > > > > own > > > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i > have > > very > > > > > > liking > > > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which i > was > > > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though they > > use to > > > > > > bring > > > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year > > 2003 i > > > > > > bought a > > > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by > > contributing > > > > pusp > > > > > > mala > > > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > > > committee. In > > > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to > urjently > > leave > > > > > > for my > > > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, > but > > i > > > > found > > > > > > out > > > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and > they > > did > > > > it > > > > > > very > > > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the > subsequent > > years > > > > > > people > > > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after the > > puja > > > > they > > > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the > token > > > > amount > > > > > > and > > > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my > mind > > for > > > > a > > > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in our > > > > institute > > > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean only > > the > > > > living > > > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have > died > > (my > > > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I have > > also > > > > come > > > > > > to > > > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our > > extended > > > > family) > > > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their > > children > > > > and > > > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if i > go > > to > > > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot > > (which > > > > > > actually > > > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " " > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the > 2nd, > > but > > > > with > > > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have > given > > you > > > > a > > > > > > tough > > > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give > > tension. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms as 'Pitri > > Rin' > > > > { it > > > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of the > > > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are not > > going > > > > to > > > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a few > > other > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. Go > to > > the > > > > > > files > > > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do the > > upaya > > > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. > Extended > > > > family > > > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married > sisters > > and > > > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have got > > the > > > > count, > > > > > > get > > > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the expanses > > of the > > > > > > two > > > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to give > > his > > > > > > share, > > > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the > money > > thus > > > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material { > > like > > > > > > cement or > > > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans > etc } > > at a > > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should be > > > > yellowish > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. > > Burn > > > > these > > > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an open > > earthen > > > > > > pot, > > > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the > > kaudis > > > > turn > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw > the > > pot > > > > also > > > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the > > kaudis , > > > > no > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where the > > kaudis > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the > > water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of the > > way > > > > bare > > > > > > foot. > > > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a > stone > > > > piece, > > > > > > 1kg > > > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot { > > > > ghara }, > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple > rings } , > > > > which > > > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into a > > river > > > > > > while > > > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand > the > > same > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops dealing > in > > > > > > curtain > > > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains > from. > > > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye > brows. > > > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of > > paneer > > > > once. > > > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. Its > > really > > > > > > great to > > > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so > > rarely. > > > > As > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth is > > AM or > > > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok > > Misra has > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in > > different > > > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where as > I > > was > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 > hours > > 31 > > > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), Jharkhand. > I > > > > came to > > > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, every > > event > > > > in > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house > of > > my > > > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have > > worked > > > > very > > > > > > hard > > > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any > thing > > > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not able > to > > > > decide > > > > > > what > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > > > Mathematics > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except few > > times > > > > in > > > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer from > > cold > > > > and > > > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food > after > > I > > > > > > joined > > > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in > > 10th > > > > house > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have > > Matri > > > > Rin. > > > > > > The > > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. I > > had > > > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in love > > with a > > > > > > girl. > > > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could > understand > > life > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very > > different > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl in > > 2005. > > > > But > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started facing > > storm > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some time > > she had > > > > > > fallen > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery > it > > again > > > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in > > scooter > > > > for 3- > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had > also > > faced > > > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Dear Guruji, Thank you for your kind guidence. I am applying haldi tilak between eye brows. walked a few times a part of the way to temple bare foot. I will be completing other upayas advised by you soon. Sicerely Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > The upaya is done well. Nothing to be worried about. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > Yesterday I burnt all the yellow kaudis on a rock in the bank of > > Ulhas river. It was difficult to burn them to ashes. I used 1 kg > of > > charcoal and 1 litre of kerosene oil. It took me more than seven > > hours. The kaudis were approximately 1 inch in length. After > almost > > all the charcoal turned to ashes, only the outer layer of kaudis > was > > looking like ashes and there were cracks on it. It didn't break or > > melt. Then I started burning them using only kerosene oil, but > > nothing much happened. I then manually broken them into pieces > using > > a steel spoon that I carried with me to the place. Again I burnt > > them using keorsene oil for more than half an hour. > > > > At the end part of burning I found that unless I attend to > nature's > > call I will not be able to walk through the rocky shore. I > attended > > it on the other side of the rock. Then I took to the ashes with > the > > earthen pot and put them in the river and then put the earthen pot > > also into the river. As required nobody passed in front of me till > > the last. > > > > Please let me know if the upaya was completed. > > > > Sincerely, > > Gautam > > > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. > > > [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their > > > families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to > > include > > > the family of your father's brothers, you may. > > > If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn > them > > > also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > > > > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple > > and > > > it > > > > is fixed and working. > > > > > > > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's > > > daughter > > > > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested > that > > > > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have > > > daughter > > > > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. > Please > > > advice. > > > > > > > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get > and > > > > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me > know > > > how > > > > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also > is > > it > > > > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. > But > > I > > > > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple > > > instead > > > > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in > a > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel > > wood. > > > You > > > > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be > > done > > > at > > > > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the > > > kaudis > > > > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your > > convenience. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I > > called > > > my > > > > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her > and > > my > > > > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my > > > uncles. > > > > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said > not > > to > > > send > > > > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > > > > > > > My question is > > > > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my > > > extended > > > > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a > > temple > > > for > > > > > a > > > > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. > or > > > just > > > > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure > they > > > burn > > > > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the > > > upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for > pitr > > > rin. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of > those > > > who > > > > > might > > > > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do > > both > > > the > > > > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are > dead. > > > Yes > > > > > you > > > > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop > > > earlier > > > > > and > > > > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down > bare > > > foot to > > > > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some > more > > > help > > > > > from > > > > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all > cooperative > > > and > > > > > they > > > > > > > also > > > > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are > alone > > > in > > > > > Gaya > > > > > > > and i > > > > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute > > > money > > > > > on my > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i > > have > > > very > > > > > > > liking > > > > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which > i > > was > > > > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though > they > > > use to > > > > > > > bring > > > > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year > > > 2003 i > > > > > > > bought a > > > > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by > > > contributing > > > > > pusp > > > > > > > mala > > > > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > > > > committee. In > > > > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to > > urjently > > > leave > > > > > > > for my > > > > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, > > but > > > i > > > > > found > > > > > > > out > > > > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and > > they > > > did > > > > > it > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the > > subsequent > > > years > > > > > > > people > > > > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after > the > > > puja > > > > > they > > > > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the > > token > > > > > amount > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my > > mind > > > for > > > > > a > > > > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in > our > > > > > institute > > > > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean > only > > > the > > > > > living > > > > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have > > died > > > (my > > > > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I > have > > > also > > > > > come > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our > > > extended > > > > > family) > > > > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their > > > children > > > > > and > > > > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if > i > > go > > > to > > > > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot > > > (which > > > > > > > actually > > > > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " " > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the > > 2nd, > > > but > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have > > given > > > you > > > > > a > > > > > > > tough > > > > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give > > > tension. > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms > as 'Pitri > > > Rin' > > > > > { it > > > > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of > the > > > > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are > not > > > going > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a > few > > > other > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. > Go > > to > > > the > > > > > > > files > > > > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do > the > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. > > Extended > > > > > family > > > > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married > > sisters > > > and > > > > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have > got > > > the > > > > > count, > > > > > > > get > > > > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the > expanses > > > of the > > > > > > > two > > > > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to > give > > > his > > > > > > > share, > > > > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the > > money > > > thus > > > > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material > { > > > like > > > > > > > cement or > > > > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans > > etc } > > > at a > > > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should > be > > > > > yellowish > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. > > > Burn > > > > > these > > > > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an > open > > > earthen > > > > > > > pot, > > > > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the > > > kaudis > > > > > turn > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw > > the > > > pot > > > > > also > > > > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the > > > kaudis , > > > > > no > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where > the > > > kaudis > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the > > > water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of > the > > > way > > > > > bare > > > > > > > foot. > > > > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a > > stone > > > > > piece, > > > > > > > 1kg > > > > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot > { > > > > > ghara }, > > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple > > rings } , > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into > a > > > river > > > > > > > while > > > > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand > > the > > > same > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops > dealing > > in > > > > > > > curtain > > > > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains > > from. > > > > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye > > brows. > > > > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of > > > paneer > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. > Its > > > really > > > > > > > great to > > > > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so > > > rarely. > > > > > As > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth > is > > > AM or > > > > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok > > > Misra has > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in > > > different > > > > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where > as > > I > > > was > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 > > hours > > > 31 > > > > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), > Jharkhand. > > I > > > > > came to > > > > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, > every > > > event > > > > > in > > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house > > of > > > my > > > > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have > > > worked > > > > > very > > > > > > > hard > > > > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any > > thing > > > > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not > able > > to > > > > > decide > > > > > > > what > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > > > > Mathematics > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except > few > > > times > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer > from > > > cold > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food > > after > > > I > > > > > > > joined > > > > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in > > > 10th > > > > > house > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have > > > Matri > > > > > Rin. > > > > > > > The > > > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. > I > > > had > > > > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in > love > > > with a > > > > > > > girl. > > > > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could > > understand > > > life > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very > > > different > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl > in > > > 2005. > > > > > But > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started > facing > > > storm > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some > time > > > she had > > > > > > > fallen > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery > > it > > > again > > > > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in > > > scooter > > > > > for 3- > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had > > also > > > faced > > > > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2007 Report Share Posted January 22, 2007 , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > Dear Guruji, I did the upaya of dropping of 121 paneer pieces in the lake. [1] About the upaya of keeping Jau (Barley) covered in a black cloth under the weight of a stone in dark corner, I am bit confused. In the shop both Jau and Barley are available. Jau is actually barley with cover. Which one should I use. Also I have only one room can I put it a almirah's lowest self. [2] About the upaya of immersing the Ghara in a lake. What can be the size of Ghara. Actually I have to bring it from a long distance. Also should I do these upayas in the day time. Or time like 7-9 p.m. is okay. I have one request. I want to suggest the url of this group few of my friends who probably need your kind advice. While explaining my problems I have actually stated many things about my personal life which were probably not required. *Like affair with a girl (though she seems to settled with some other guy) my childhood and other family details. People may get biased opinion about me. I will be gratefull to you if you can kindly delete from your messages these details with which people can identify me with name and work place, line with * etc. I have saved all the details with your replies with me. One of my friend Mr. Tiwari with DOB 31/1/1972 00.45 A.M. (in midnight), Varanasi, is facing lot of problems in his PhD. Also he doesn't seem to get cooperation from his wife Mrs P with DOB 20/03/1973, 11.35 A.M. Mumbai. Recently they have a daughter. Mrs P (wife) actually requested me to contact you. Please suggest some upaya and precautions they should take. Sincerely, Gautam > Dear Guruji, > > Thank you for your kind guidence. I am applying haldi tilak between > eye brows. walked a few times a part of the way to temple bare foot. I > will be completing other upayas advised by you soon. > > Sicerely > > Gautam > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > The upaya is done well. Nothing to be worried about. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > Yesterday I burnt all the yellow kaudis on a rock in the bank of > > > Ulhas river. It was difficult to burn them to ashes. I used 1 kg > > of > > > charcoal and 1 litre of kerosene oil. It took me more than seven > > > hours. The kaudis were approximately 1 inch in length. After > > almost > > > all the charcoal turned to ashes, only the outer layer of kaudis > > was > > > looking like ashes and there were cracks on it. It didn't break or > > > melt. Then I started burning them using only kerosene oil, but > > > nothing much happened. I then manually broken them into pieces > > using > > > a steel spoon that I carried with me to the place. Again I burnt > > > them using keorsene oil for more than half an hour. > > > > > > At the end part of burning I found that unless I attend to > > nature's > > > call I will not be able to walk through the rocky shore. I > > attended > > > it on the other side of the rock. Then I took to the ashes with > > the > > > earthen pot and put them in the river and then put the earthen pot > > > also into the river. As required nobody passed in front of me till > > > the last. > > > > > > Please let me know if the upaya was completed. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their > > > > families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to > > > include > > > > the family of your father's brothers, you may. > > > > If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn > > them > > > > also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > > > > > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple > > > and > > > > it > > > > > is fixed and working. > > > > > > > > > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's > > > > daughter > > > > > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested > > that > > > > > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have > > > > daughter > > > > > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. > > Please > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get > > and > > > > > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me > > know > > > > how > > > > > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also > > is > > > it > > > > > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. > > But > > > I > > > > > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple > > > > instead > > > > > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in > > a > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel > > > wood. > > > > You > > > > > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be > > > done > > > > at > > > > > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the > > > > kaudis > > > > > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel }instead. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your > > > convenience. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I > > > called > > > > my > > > > > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her > > and > > > my > > > > > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my > > > > uncles. > > > > > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said > > not > > > to > > > > send > > > > > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My question is > > > > > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my > > > > extended > > > > > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a > > > temple > > > > for > > > > > > a > > > > > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. > > or > > > > just > > > > > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure > > they > > > > burn > > > > > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the > > > > upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for > > pitr > > > > rin. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " " > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of > > those > > > > who > > > > > > might > > > > > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do > > > both > > > > the > > > > > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are > > dead. > > > > Yes > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop > > > > earlier > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down > > bare > > > > foot to > > > > > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some > > more > > > > help > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all > > cooperative > > > > and > > > > > > they > > > > > > > > also > > > > > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are > > alone > > > > in > > > > > > Gaya > > > > > > > > and i > > > > > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute > > > > money > > > > > > on my > > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i > > > have > > > > very > > > > > > > > liking > > > > > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which > > i > > > was > > > > > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though > > they > > > > use to > > > > > > > > bring > > > > > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year > > > > 2003 i > > > > > > > > bought a > > > > > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by > > > > contributing > > > > > > pusp > > > > > > > > mala > > > > > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > > > > > committee. In > > > > > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to > > > urjently > > > > leave > > > > > > > > for my > > > > > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, > > > but > > > > i > > > > > > found > > > > > > > > out > > > > > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and > > > they > > > > did > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the > > > subsequent > > > > years > > > > > > > > people > > > > > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after > > the > > > > puja > > > > > > they > > > > > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the > > > token > > > > > > amount > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my > > > mind > > > > for > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in > > our > > > > > > institute > > > > > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean > > only > > > > the > > > > > > living > > > > > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have > > > died > > > > (my > > > > > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I > > have > > > > also > > > > > > come > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our > > > > extended > > > > > > family) > > > > > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their > > > > children > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if > > i > > > go > > > > to > > > > > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot > > > > (which > > > > > > > > actually > > > > > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the > > > 2nd, > > > > but > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have > > > given > > > > you > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > tough > > > > > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give > > > > tension. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms > > as 'Pitri > > > > Rin' > > > > > > { it > > > > > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of > > the > > > > > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are > > not > > > > going > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a > > few > > > > other > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. > > Go > > > to > > > > the > > > > > > > > files > > > > > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do > > the > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. > > > Extended > > > > > > family > > > > > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married > > > sisters > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have > > got > > > > the > > > > > > count, > > > > > > > > get > > > > > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the > > expanses > > > > of the > > > > > > > > two > > > > > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to > > give > > > > his > > > > > > > > share, > > > > > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the > > > money > > > > thus > > > > > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material > > { > > > > like > > > > > > > > cement or > > > > > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans > > > etc } > > > > at a > > > > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should > > be > > > > > > yellowish > > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. > > > > Burn > > > > > > these > > > > > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an > > open > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > pot, > > > > > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the > > > > kaudis > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw > > > the > > > > pot > > > > > > also > > > > > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the > > > > kaudis , > > > > > > no > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where > > the > > > > kaudis > > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the > > > > water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of > > the > > > > way > > > > > > bare > > > > > > > > foot. > > > > > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a > > > stone > > > > > > piece, > > > > > > > > 1kg > > > > > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot > > { > > > > > > ghara }, > > > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple > > > rings } , > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into > > a > > > > river > > > > > > > > while > > > > > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand > > > the > > > > same > > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops > > dealing > > > in > > > > > > > > curtain > > > > > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains > > > from. > > > > > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye > > > brows. > > > > > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of > > > > paneer > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. > > Its > > > > really > > > > > > > > great to > > > > > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so > > > > rarely. > > > > > > As > > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth > > is > > > > AM or > > > > > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok > > > > Misra has > > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in > > > > different > > > > > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where > > as > > > I > > > > was > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 > > > hours > > > > 31 > > > > > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), > > Jharkhand. > > > I > > > > > > came to > > > > > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, > > every > > > > event > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house > > > of > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have > > > > worked > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > hard > > > > > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any > > > thing > > > > > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not > > able > > > to > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > what > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > > > > > Mathematics > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except > > few > > > > times > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer > > from > > > > cold > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food > > > after > > > > I > > > > > > > > joined > > > > > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in > > > > 10th > > > > > > house > > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have > > > > Matri > > > > > > Rin. > > > > > > > > The > > > > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. > > I > > > > had > > > > > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in > > love > > > > with a > > > > > > > > girl. > > > > > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could > > > understand > > > > life > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very > > > > different > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl > > in > > > > 2005. > > > > > > But > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started > > facing > > > > storm > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some > > time > > > > she had > > > > > > > > fallen > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery > > > it > > > > again > > > > > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in > > > > scooter > > > > > > for 3- > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had > > > also > > > > faced > > > > > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 Dear Gautam, [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore buy the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara also. [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. after the sunrise and before the sun set. [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes you can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > Dear Guruji, > I did the upaya of dropping of 121 paneer pieces in the lake. > > [1] About the upaya of keeping Jau (Barley) covered in a black cloth > under the weight of a stone in dark corner, I am bit confused. In the > shop both Jau and Barley are available. Jau is actually barley with > cover. Which one should I use. Also I have only one room can I put it > a almirah's lowest self. > > [2] About the upaya of immersing the Ghara in a lake. What can be the > size of Ghara. Actually I have to bring it from a long distance. > > Also should I do these upayas in the day time. Or time like 7-9 p.m. > is okay. > > I have one request. I want to suggest the url of this group few of my > friends who probably need your kind advice. While explaining my > problems I have actually stated many things about my personal life > which were probably not required. *Like affair with a girl (though she > seems to settled with some other guy) my childhood and other family > details. People may get biased opinion about me. > > I will be gratefull to you if you can kindly delete from your messages > these details with which people can identify me with name and work > place, line with * etc. I have saved all the details with your replies > with me. > > One of my friend Mr. Tiwari with DOB 31/1/1972 00.45 A.M. (in > midnight), Varanasi, is facing lot of problems in his PhD. Also he > doesn't seem to get cooperation from his wife Mrs P with DOB > 20/03/1973, 11.35 A.M. Mumbai. Recently they have a daughter. Mrs P > (wife) actually requested me to contact you. Please suggest some upaya > and precautions they should take. > > Sincerely, > > Gautam > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > Thank you for your kind guidence. I am applying haldi tilak between > > eye brows. walked a few times a part of the way to temple bare foot. I > > will be completing other upayas advised by you soon. > > > > Sicerely > > > > Gautam > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > The upaya is done well. Nothing to be worried about. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > Yesterday I burnt all the yellow kaudis on a rock in the bank of > > > > Ulhas river. It was difficult to burn them to ashes. I used 1 kg > > > of > > > > charcoal and 1 litre of kerosene oil. It took me more than seven > > > > hours. The kaudis were approximately 1 inch in length. After > > > almost > > > > all the charcoal turned to ashes, only the outer layer of kaudis > > > was > > > > looking like ashes and there were cracks on it. It didn't break or > > > > melt. Then I started burning them using only kerosene oil, but > > > > nothing much happened. I then manually broken them into pieces > > > using > > > > a steel spoon that I carried with me to the place. Again I burnt > > > > them using keorsene oil for more than half an hour. > > > > > > > > At the end part of burning I found that unless I attend to > > > nature's > > > > call I will not be able to walk through the rocky shore. I > > > attended > > > > it on the other side of the rock. Then I took to the ashes with > > > the > > > > earthen pot and put them in the river and then put the earthen pot > > > > also into the river. As required nobody passed in front of me till > > > > the last. > > > > > > > > Please let me know if the upaya was completed. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes you can count in the unmarried sisters. > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family would include all your brothers and their > > > > > families. Married sisters may not be counted. If you want to > > > > include > > > > > the family of your father's brothers, you may. > > > > > If you have any extra kaudis, do not keep them with you. Burn > > > them > > > > > also in the name of 'bhoole bisare'. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > > I had sent letter to my parents for the count of members of my > > > > > > extended family. I have already donated a wall fan to a temple > > > > and > > > > > it > > > > > > is fixed and working. > > > > > > > > > > > > [1] I was little confused about the inclusion of my brother's > > > > > daughter > > > > > > and cousin sisters in the count. Actually you had suggested > > > that > > > > > > daughter's and married sisters are not counted. I don't have > > > > > daughter > > > > > > (as I am not married) and cousin sisters are not married. > > > Please > > > > > advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > [2] I have also got yellow kaudis. They were difficult to get > > > and > > > > > > expensive. Fortunately I got it. I was lucky. Kindly let me > > > know > > > > > how > > > > > > to count the members of my extended in case of females. Also > > > is > > > > it > > > > > > safe to keep the remaining kaudis with me. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] No pooja is needed to make a donation to any temple. > > > But > > > > I > > > > > > > would advise you to give some items to be used in the temple > > > > > instead > > > > > > > of money to the poojari. You can get some facility added in > > > a > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Wood charcoal is kachcha koyala got by burning fuel > > > > wood. > > > > > You > > > > > > > do not have to go to Nasik for the upaya. The upaya can be > > > > done > > > > > at > > > > > > > the sea shore also. No, you should not use Ghee to get the > > > > > kaudis > > > > > > > burned. You can use Karosen oil { mitti ka tel } instead. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] You can follow any sequence depending on your > > > > convenience. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am far away from my home. For upaya [1] of pitr rin I > > > > called > > > > > my > > > > > > > > mother she said she will send the conntributions for her > > > and > > > > my > > > > > > > > father. It will be difficult to discuss the matter with my > > > > > uncles. > > > > > > > > So for that she wanted to send for them but I have said > > > not > > > > to > > > > > send > > > > > > > > for them because I should contribute on their behalf. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My question is > > > > > > > > 1. I will get the list of names of all the members of my > > > > > extended > > > > > > > > family from my mother. Should i contact the pujari of a > > > > temple > > > > > for > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > puja to make donation in which all the names can be read. > > > or > > > > > just > > > > > > > > plainly i should give the donation to the pujari. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2. For upaya [2] can i use ghee on the kaudis to ensure > > > they > > > > > burn > > > > > > > > properly. I am not aquainted with wooden charcoal. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I will go to nasik since we do not have river in mumbai. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 3. Should i follow the sequence in which you have told the > > > > > upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Can i start applying haldi tilak before doing upaya for > > > pitr > > > > > rin. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " " > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Yes, you can contribute the money on behalf of > > > those > > > > > who > > > > > > > might > > > > > > > > > refuse to contribute. The amount should be enough to do > > > > both > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > upaya suggested for 'pitri rin' > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Extended family does not include those who are > > > dead. > > > > > Yes > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > > have to count your elder brothers family also. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] While going to a temple you could get down a stop > > > > > earlier > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > walk to the temple bare foot. Or you could walk down > > > bare > > > > > foot to > > > > > > > > > your neighbourhood temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for the valuable information. I need some > > > more > > > > > help > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > you. The problem is my uncles are not at all > > > cooperative > > > > > and > > > > > > > they > > > > > > > > > also > > > > > > > > > > try to put my parents into trouble (since they are > > > alone > > > > > in > > > > > > > Gaya > > > > > > > > > and i > > > > > > > > > > am in mumbai). Is it possible that I myself contribute > > > > > money > > > > > > > on my > > > > > > > > > own > > > > > > > > > > and do the upaya. > > > > > > > > > > Also actually, i have an incident of life to share. i > > > > have > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > liking > > > > > > > > > > for lord Ganesha. And students of the hostel in which > > > i > > > > was > > > > > > > > > > accomodated used to neglect the Ganesh puja. Though > > > they > > > > > use to > > > > > > > > > bring > > > > > > > > > > Ganesha idol. nobody used to take care. So in the year > > > > > 2003 i > > > > > > > > > bought a > > > > > > > > > > thermocoal pandal and did puja for ten days by > > > > > contributing > > > > > > > pusp > > > > > > > > > mala > > > > > > > > > > prasad etc on my own with some additions from hostel > > > > > > > committee. In > > > > > > > > > > year 2004 just a day before Ganesh puja I had to > > > > urjently > > > > > leave > > > > > > > > > for my > > > > > > > > > > home after getting the news my mother's leg fracture, > > > > but > > > > > i > > > > > > > found > > > > > > > > > out > > > > > > > > > > that some people took the resposibility for puja and > > > > they > > > > > did > > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > > well. Then in 2005 i bought a Marble temple around > > > > > > > > > 3feetx3feetx3feet > > > > > > > > > > temple and performed puja for ten days. In the > > > > subsequent > > > > > years > > > > > > > > > people > > > > > > > > > > are doing the puja in the same marble temple. after > > > the > > > > > puja > > > > > > > they > > > > > > > > > > shift it to safe place. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [1] please let me know how much can be the > > > > token > > > > > > > amount > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > whether i can contribute on my own. It has been in my > > > > mind > > > > > for > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > > couple of years that in the Devi Padmavati temple in > > > our > > > > > > > institute > > > > > > > > > > idol of Ganesha needs some attention. Kindly advise. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For upaya [2] does the extended family members mean > > > only > > > > > the > > > > > > > living > > > > > > > > > > members or i should count those members also who have > > > > died > > > > > (my > > > > > > > > > > grandfather and grandmother have expired and also I > > > have > > > > > also > > > > > > > come > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > know that there have been some child deaths in our > > > > > extended > > > > > > > family) > > > > > > > > > > Should I also count my elder brothers wife and their > > > > > children > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > families of my uncles children. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please let me know whether upaya [a] is fullfilled if > > > i > > > > go > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > Sidhivinayak temple by bus and stand in queue barefoot > > > > > (which > > > > > > > > > actually > > > > > > > > > > every body do). > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > > > gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] It is not just because of your Saturn in the > > > > 2nd, > > > > > but > > > > > > > with > > > > > > > > > > > saturn the mercury is in the 12th which could have > > > > given > > > > > you > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > tough > > > > > > > > > > > time till the age of 34. Moon in the 11th will give > > > > > tension. > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Yes, you have what the Lal Kitab terms > > > as 'Pitri > > > > > Rin' > > > > > > > { it > > > > > > > > > > > does not mean father's rin, instead means debts of > > > the > > > > > > > > > ancestors}. > > > > > > > > > > > Unless you do the upaya for this rin, things are > > > not > > > > > going > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > improve. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Apart from the 'Pitri Rin' upaya I am suggesting a > > > few > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > to take care of other afflictions in your kundali. > > > Go > > > > to > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > files > > > > > > > > > > > and read the rules of doing remedies, beforeyou do > > > the > > > > > upaya > > > > > > > > > > > suggested by me. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Upaya for Pitra Rin : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Count all the members of your extended family. > > > > Extended > > > > > > > family > > > > > > > > > > > includes the family of your uncles also. Married > > > > sisters > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > daughters are not to be counted in. Once you have > > > got > > > > > the > > > > > > > count, > > > > > > > > > get > > > > > > > > > > > some token subscription from them to meet the > > > expanses > > > > > of the > > > > > > > > > two > > > > > > > > > > > upaya you have to do. In case some one refuses to > > > give > > > > > his > > > > > > > > > share, > > > > > > > > > > > you should put his share from your pocket. Of the > > > > money > > > > > thus > > > > > > > > > > > collected you have to do these two upaya. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Gift at any temple some construction material > > > { > > > > > like > > > > > > > > > cement or > > > > > > > > > > > bricks }, or add some facility { like gifting fans > > > > etc } > > > > > at a > > > > > > > > > temple. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] Buy kaudis { small sea shells } which should > > > be > > > > > > > yellowish > > > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > > colour equal to the number of members counted above. > > > > > Burn > > > > > > > these > > > > > > > > > > > kaudis on kachcha koyala { wood charcoal } in an > > > open > > > > > earthen > > > > > > > > > pot, > > > > > > > > > > > at the bank of a river close to the water. When the > > > > > kaudis > > > > > > > turn > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > ashes, throw the ash into the river and later throw > > > > the > > > > > pot > > > > > > > also > > > > > > > > > > > into the river. Make sure while you are burning the > > > > > kaudis , > > > > > > > no > > > > > > > > > one > > > > > > > > > > > should cross between the water and the place where > > > the > > > > > kaudis > > > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > > > > being burnt. That means burn the kaudis close to the > > > > > water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Other upaya to be done : > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ a ] When ever you go to a temple, walk a part of > > > the > > > > > way > > > > > > > bare > > > > > > > > > foot. > > > > > > > > > > > [ b ] Keep in a dark corner under the weight of a > > > > stone > > > > > > > piece, > > > > > > > > > 1kg > > > > > > > > > > > jau { barley } tied in a black cloth. > > > > > > > > > > > [ c ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake an earthen pot > > > { > > > > > > > ghara }, > > > > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > > > [ d ] Take two shining steel chhalla { simple > > > > rings } , > > > > > > > which > > > > > > > > > > > should be open at the ends. Immerse one of them into > > > a > > > > > river > > > > > > > > > while > > > > > > > > > > > wear the other in the little finger of the left hand > > > > the > > > > > same > > > > > > > > > day. > > > > > > > > > > > Normally you can get such rings with the shops > > > dealing > > > > in > > > > > > > > > curtain > > > > > > > > > > > material. Such rings are used for hanging curtains > > > > from. > > > > > > > > > > > [ e ] Every day apply haldi tilak between your eye > > > > brows. > > > > > > > > > > > [ f ] Immerse in a river / sea / lake 121 pieces of > > > > > paneer > > > > > > > once. > > > > > > > > > > > Throw the pieces one by one into the water. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I hope these upaya will help you. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > > > First of all, thank you for your kind response. > > > Its > > > > > really > > > > > > > > > great to > > > > > > > > > > > > know that you are so close. These events happen so > > > > > rarely. > > > > > > > As > > > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > > time of birth it is 4.31.25 A.M. > > > > > > > > > > > > Thank you again. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > > > , " " > > > > > > > > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Ravi Shankar, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You haven't mentioned whether the time of birth > > > is > > > > > AM or > > > > > > > PM . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Nice to see an IITian. Your Director Prof Ashok > > > > > Misra has > > > > > > > > > been > > > > > > > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > > > colleague at IIT Delhi, of course we were in > > > > > different > > > > > > > > > > > departments, > > > > > > > > > > > > > he was from Chemical & material sciences where > > > as > > > > I > > > > > was > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > > > Linguistics. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > > > > > > > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Shri Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My birth details are date 08/05/1972 time 4 > > > > hours > > > > > 31 > > > > > > > > > minutes 25 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > seconds Place Jamshedpur (Tatanagar), > > > Jharkhand. > > > > I > > > > > > > came to > > > > > > > > > > > know > > > > > > > > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Saturn in second house delays everything, > > > every > > > > > event > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > even > > > > > > > > > > > > > > denies marriage and I have Saturn in 2nd house > > > > of > > > > > my > > > > > > > > > > > birthchart. I > > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > facing all these problems. Even though I have > > > > > worked > > > > > > > very > > > > > > > > > hard > > > > > > > > > > > > > through > > > > > > > > > > > > > > out my life till now, I haven't achieved any > > > > thing > > > > > > > > > > > substantial. I > > > > > > > > > > > > > am > > > > > > > > > > > > > > still striving hard for a career. I am not > > > able > > > > to > > > > > > > decide > > > > > > > > > what > > > > > > > > > > > to > > > > > > > > > > > > > do > > > > > > > > > > > > > > in my life. I have almost completed my PhD in > > > > > > > Mathematics > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > IIT > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Bombay. I have never consumed alcohol except > > > few > > > > > times > > > > > > > in > > > > > > > > > > > medicine > > > > > > > > > > > > > > prescribed by doctors when I used to suffer > > > from > > > > > cold > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > cough. I > > > > > > > > > > > > > > have also given up eating nonvegeterian food > > > > after > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > joined > > > > > > > > > > > Art of > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Living course in January 2003. Due to Ketu in > > > > > 10th > > > > > > > house > > > > > > > > > of my > > > > > > > > > > > > > > birthchart and moon in 12th house I also have > > > > > Matri > > > > > > > Rin. > > > > > > > > > The > > > > > > > > > > > only > > > > > > > > > > > > > > person with whom I can find love is my mother. > > > I > > > > > had > > > > > > > > > troubled > > > > > > > > > > > > > > childhood. Please help me. I had fallen in > > > love > > > > > with a > > > > > > > > > girl. > > > > > > > > > > > But I > > > > > > > > > > > > > > had to come out of it because I could > > > > understand > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > will > > > > > > > > > > > become > > > > > > > > > > > > > > very difficult. Her family background is very > > > > > different > > > > > > > > > from > > > > > > > > > > > mine. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My parents had fixed my marriage with a girl > > > in > > > > > 2005. > > > > > > > But > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > soon > > > > > > > > > > > > > as > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the marriage was fixed may family started > > > facing > > > > > storm > > > > > > > of > > > > > > > > > > > > > troubles. My > > > > > > > > > > > > > > mother was not able to walk and after some > > > time > > > > > she had > > > > > > > > > fallen > > > > > > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > > > > > her > > > > > > > > > > > > > > leg was broken and after six months of surgery > > > > it > > > > > again > > > > > > > > > > > broken. My > > > > > > > > > > > > > > father had to look after her by traveling in > > > > > scooter > > > > > > > for 3- > > > > > > > > > 4 > > > > > > > > > > > hours > > > > > > > > > > > > > > daily as our home was in remote area. He had > > > > also > > > > > faced > > > > > > > > > > > accidents > > > > > > > > > > > > > > several times and ... so on so forth. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ravi Shankar Gautam > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 Dear Guruji, I have done the upaya of dropping 121 paneer pieces (one by one) after sunset around 8 p.m. day before yesterday. I was late after coming from the department. Can I repeat it during the day time. I have got 1 kg Jau(one with the cover intact) and black cloth I will complete the upaya in the morning. I will give the url of the group to my friends. They should ask for the help by themselves. Sincerely, Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore buy > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara also. > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes you > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 Dear Guruji, I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks of Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything happened as adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and the process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as compensation. Sincerely Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore buy > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara also. > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes you > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > Sincerely, > > Priya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2007 Report Share Posted January 24, 2007 Dear Gautam, [ 1 ] Yes, you have to repeat the upaya. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > I have done the upaya of dropping 121 paneer pieces (one by one) after > sunset around 8 p.m. day before yesterday. I was late after coming > from the department. Can I repeat it during the day time. > > I have got 1 kg Jau(one with the cover intact) and black cloth I will > complete the upaya in the morning. > > I will give the url of the group to my friends. They should ask for > the help by themselves. > > Sincerely, > > Gautam > > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore buy > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara also. > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes you > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2007 Report Share Posted January 24, 2007 Dear Gautam, If you feel apprehensive about the upaya whether it was done well or not, in that case you can feed a goat sabut moong { whole moong and not the split dal form} on three wednesdays in a row. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks of > Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything happened as > adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and the > process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). > > Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as compensation. > > Sincerely > > Gautam > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore buy > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara also. > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes you > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2007 Report Share Posted January 24, 2007 Dear Guruji, Sorry for so many questions. This will be most probably last query. Should I do the upaya of feeding goat because the upaya of burning kaudi went till night. Because I do not have any apprehensions if Pitr Rin upaya that I did (inspite of it getting till night) was okay. I was only concerned because I had written you all the details of the Pitr Rin upaya except for the timings. Sincerely, Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > If you feel apprehensive about the upaya whether it was done well or > not, in that case you can feed a goat sabut moong { whole moong and > not the split dal form} on three wednesdays in a row. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks of > > Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything > happened as > > adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and the > > process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). > > > > Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as compensation. > > > > Sincerely > > > > Gautam > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore > buy > > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara > also. > > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes > you > > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2007 Report Share Posted January 24, 2007 Dear Gautam, Since the kaudi upaya was started well before the sun set, the upaya was done well. I had suggested feeding the goat because you had some apprehensions about this upaya being completed well. Since you do not have any such apprehension, you need not feed sabut moong to a goat. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > Sorry for so many questions. This will be most probably last query. > > Should I do the upaya of feeding goat because the upaya of burning > kaudi went till night. Because I do not have any apprehensions if Pitr > Rin upaya that I did (inspite of it getting till night) was okay. > > I was only concerned because I had written you all the details of the > Pitr Rin upaya except for the timings. > > Sincerely, > > Gautam > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > If you feel apprehensive about the upaya whether it was done well or > > not, in that case you can feed a goat sabut moong { whole moong and > > not the split dal form} on three wednesdays in a row. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks of > > > Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything > > happened as > > > adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and the > > > process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). > > > > > > Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as compensation. > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. Therefore > > buy > > > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the shelf. > > > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara > > also. > > > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours i.e. > > > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not answer > > > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. Yes > > you > > > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they need. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2007 Report Share Posted January 25, 2007 Dear Guruji, I am very much thankfull to you for your help. I have completed the upaya of dropping 121 paneer pieces in a lake today at around 3 p.m.. I will be completing the upaya of immersing Ghara within two days (as required bu the rules of doing next upaya after few days). The rule of doing upaya in the day light is now deeply engraved in my mind. I will never forget. I don't know whether I am right or wrong in asking this question. Is it possible to know whether my affair with girl I was saying was real thing or an illusion. Whenever I think by intellect and logic its seems the whole circumstance was so artificially created. I had never ever gone after any girl before. I never had any heart or courage. Now in this case also there seems to be nothing real and I must come out of all emotions and feelings. On the other side, my asthma problem was cured from the time I first came close to her. My luck used to turn around in favour of me. Even the last time when I met her after around two years (she seemed to be the same as ever) many of my problems (including accomodation problem) got solved. Every time I met her I was fully aware of the hard facts (that was against our relationship. Also according to one of your files since Venus is in 3rd house I should marry by parent's choice and blessings). But still I used to get some justification to meet her. I feel really sad to know that I should never even try to meet her. When I see her with some other guy I really feel something very sad happens to me. If you have some time please tell me some upaya so that everything becomes just fine. Sincerely Gautam , " " < wrote: > > Dear Gautam, > > Since the kaudi upaya was started well before the sun set, the upaya > was done well. I had suggested feeding the goat because you had some > apprehensions about this upaya being completed well. Since you do > not have any such apprehension, you need not feed sabut moong to a > goat. > > Sincerely, > > Priya , " aol_gautam " > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > Sorry for so many questions. This will be most probably last > query. > > > > Should I do the upaya of feeding goat because the upaya of burning > > kaudi went till night. Because I do not have any apprehensions if > Pitr > > Rin upaya that I did (inspite of it getting till night) was okay. > > > > I was only concerned because I had written you all the details of > the > > Pitr Rin upaya except for the timings. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Gautam > > > > , " " > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > If you feel apprehensive about the upaya whether it was done > well or > > > not, in that case you can feed a goat sabut moong { whole moong > and > > > not the split dal form} on three wednesdays in a row. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks > of > > > > Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything > > > happened as > > > > adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and > the > > > > process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). > > > > > > > > Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as > compensation. > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > , " " > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. > Therefore > > > buy > > > > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the > shelf. > > > > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara > > > also. > > > > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours > i.e. > > > > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > > > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not > answer > > > > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. > Yes > > > you > > > > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they > need. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2007 Report Share Posted January 26, 2007 Dear Gautam, You have Venus conjunct Mars. In such cases the feelings for love are very intense. One also expects that the other person should also reciprocate the feelings with the same intensity. In some cases when the other person fails to respond with the same intensity, the problem arises. Your feelings were genuine and not an 'illusion'. In future you might have intense feelings for some one, but do not expect the same from the other person. If that happens the relationship might work out beautifully. Sincerely, Priya , " aol_gautam " <aol_gautam wrote: > > Dear Guruji, > > I am very much thankfull to you for your help. I have completed the > upaya of dropping 121 paneer pieces in a lake today at around 3 p.m.. > I will be completing the upaya of immersing Ghara within two days (as > required bu the rules of doing next upaya after few days). The rule of > doing upaya in the day light is now deeply engraved in my mind. I will > never forget. > > I don't know whether I am right or wrong in asking this question. Is > it possible to know whether my affair with girl I was saying was real > thing or an illusion. > > Whenever I think by intellect and logic its seems the whole > circumstance was so artificially created. I had never ever gone after > any girl before. I never had any heart or courage. Now in this case > also there seems to be nothing real and I must come out of all > emotions and feelings. > > On the other side, my asthma problem was cured from the time I first > came close to her. My luck used to turn around in favour of me. Even > the last time when I met her after around two years (she seemed to be > the same as ever) many of my problems (including accomodation problem) > got solved. > > Every time I met her I was fully aware of the hard facts (that was > against our relationship. Also according to one of your files since > Venus is in 3rd house I should marry by parent's choice and > blessings). But still I used to get some justification to meet her. I > feel really sad to know that I should never even try to meet her. When > I see her with some other guy I really feel something very sad happens > to me. > > If you have some time please tell me some upaya so that everything > becomes just fine. > > Sincerely > > Gautam > > , " " > <@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > Since the kaudi upaya was started well before the sun set, the upaya > > was done well. I had suggested feeding the goat because you had some > > apprehensions about this upaya being completed well. Since you do > > not have any such apprehension, you need not feed sabut moong to a > > goat. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > Sorry for so many questions. This will be most probably last > > query. > > > > > > Should I do the upaya of feeding goat because the upaya of burning > > > kaudi went till night. Because I do not have any apprehensions if > > Pitr > > > Rin upaya that I did (inspite of it getting till night) was okay. > > > > > > I was only concerned because I had written you all the details of > > the > > > Pitr Rin upaya except for the timings. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > , " " > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > If you feel apprehensive about the upaya whether it was done > > well or > > > > not, in that case you can feed a goat sabut moong { whole moong > > and > > > > not the split dal form} on three wednesdays in a row. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , " aol_gautam " > > > > <aol_gautam@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Guruji, > > > > > > > > > > I am a bit apprehensive about kaudis that I burnt on the banks > > of > > > > > Ulhas river for the upaya of Pitr Rin. Actually everything > > > > happened as > > > > > adviced, except that I started burning them around 4 p.m. and > > the > > > > > process continued till 11 p.m. (that is, after sunset). > > > > > > > > > > Kindly let me know if I can do some other upaya as > > compensation. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely > > > > > > > > > > Gautam > > > > > > > > > > --- In , " " > > > > > <@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Gautam, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Jau is a food grain with husk { chhilka }intact. > > Therefore > > > > buy > > > > > > the one with chhilka intact. Yes you can keep it in the > > shelf. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Ghara can be of any size. You could have a small ghara > > > > also. > > > > > > [ 3 ] The upaya have to be done during the day light hours > > i.e. > > > > > > after the sunrise and before the sun set. > > > > > > [ 4 ] Ask your friend to log in and seek advice. i do not > > answer > > > > > > proxy queries i.e. queries asked on some body elses behalf. > > Yes > > > > you > > > > > > can suggest your friends to log in and seek advice if they > > need. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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