Marital discord Shamaa

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Dear Shamaa,

 

I do not see a possibility of a divorce. Therefore I suggest you

talk the matter out with your husband and both of you try to make

the marriage work. Apart from your understanding behaviour do the

following upaya also. Go to the files and read the rules of upaya

before doing them.

 

[ 1 ] Every Thrusday water a Peepal tree during the day and light a

ghee deepak after dark.

[ 2 ] Apply a haldi tilak every day just above your navel { nabhi}

[ 3 ] Bury in a place where grass grows a little juar { millets } in

an iron container, once. Do not bring back home the digging tool.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-- In , " shamaa " <soha.12

wrote:

>

> Namaste ,

> My husband's details are:

>

> Birthdate 27 th October 1957

> Birthtime 5.00 a.m

> Place Mumbai

>

> My details are :

>

> Birthdate 12 th September 1967

> Birthtime 11.45 a.m

> Place Mumbai

>

> I have no faith in my husband I know he has an eye for other women

I

> cant tolerate his behaviour but I find myself helpless. Iwish to

> divorce him.What should I do.

>

[Guest guest]

I have tried talking the matter several times to my husband ,even fought

with him but to no avail he just balantly lies that he has not been doing

anything . I only pull him on his straying ways that I have been present

at.I dont even ask him what he does behind my back.If he doesnt respect or

care for me what then is the point in continuing with the marriage.I am in

the process of trying out all the upaya suggested by you.Thank you very much

for your suggestions and advice.

 

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Dear Shamaa,

 

Just try to be a bit more considerate. I believe it is just a matter

of time. Sooner or later he will realise that you have always meant

his good and well being.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " soha rai " <soha.12

wrote:

>

> I have tried talking the matter several times to my husband ,even

fought

> with him but to no avail he just balantly lies that he has not

been doing

> anything . I only pull him on his straying ways that I have been

present

> at.I dont even ask him what he does behind my back.If he doesnt

respect or

> care for me what then is the point in continuing with the

marriage.I am in

> the process of trying out all the upaya suggested by you.Thank you

very much

> for your suggestions and advice.

>

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[Guest guest]

Dear Shamaa,

 

 

This is not a case of marital discord. It is that both of you have to

live separately because of the circumstances of your jobs.

 

There is no upaya which can bring you together except that your

husband has either to call you to Muscat or he comes back to India to

join you. The only solution is that he starts your Visa proceedings.

 

I wouldn't be able to say when or how you will be able to join him.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " shamaa " <soha.12 wrote:

>

> Dear Sir,

> I have completed all the upayas suggested by yourself.There has been

> no change in our marital troubles.Is there any other upayas that I

> need to do.

> My dob is12/09/67,mumbai,11.45a.m

> My husband's dob is 27/10/57,mumbai,5.00a.m

> My husband is working in Muscat and I am in mumbai.Do you think I

> would join him in the near future or it is better we live our

separate

> lives.

>

[Guest guest]

, " "

< wrote:

>Dear Sir,

 

This is with reference to my earlier pleas for help to you ,recently

my husband has taken up a job abroad ,having settled there he had

come down to visit us .After having done the upayas suggested by you

i have noticed a slight change in his behaviour he makes an effort to

please me but my real problem still remains unsolved in the sense

that i feel he tries to take advantage with my daughter as you are

aware my daughters horoscope shows low moral integrity ,i am totally

fazed how to handle the situation although i got my daughter to do

the moral integrity upayas first i am yet to build trust in her.both

these issues within the house have made me extremely sad and helpless

i look to you for some hope in my present crisis.

As you say there is no chance of a divorce then should i stay back in

India while my husband works abroad will it solve my mental trauma....

Secondly two years back i have given up my job i think i should take

up a job to keep myself independent will you be able to help me here .

Thirdly I have been diagnosed with a malignant growth in my uterus

which is affecting my cycle , could you suggest a remedy for it

Best wishes for the New Year.

Thanking you

 

 

 

> Dear Shamaa,

>

> Just try to be a bit more considerate. I believe it is just a

matter

> of time. Sooner or later he will realise that you have always meant

> his good and well being.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> Priya

>

>

>

, " soha rai " <soha.12@>

> wrote:

> >

> > I have tried talking the matter several times to my husband ,even

> fought

> > with him but to no avail he just balantly lies that he has not

> been doing

> > anything . I only pull him on his straying ways that I have been

> present

> > at.I dont even ask him what he does behind my back.If he doesnt

> respect or

> > care for me what then is the point in continuing with the

> marriage.I am in

> > the process of trying out all the upaya suggested by you.Thank

you

> very much

> > for your suggestions and advice.

> >

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[Guest guest]

Dear Shamaa,

 

[ 1 ] Let the relationship between you and your husband get a little

better. Ultimately you might have to move to be with your husband.

Just tell him that you would want to be with him. It will help you

bond with each other.

[ 2 ] For your Job do the following :

 

[ a ] Offer water to the Sun God every day along with a red flower.

Add a little milk and sugar to the water before offering. On days

when you can't get a red flower, you can offer orange rouli { rouli

is a reddish powder used for tilak } instead.

 

[ b ] Worship Lord Hanuman every day. Go to a Hanuman temple every

tuesday.

 

[ 3 ] For the problem of the uterus :

 

[ a ] Keep with you in your purse a small goli { pea size }of lead {

a metal }

[ b ] Recite the beej mantra of moon as many times a day as you can.

Get the text and the audio from the file section.

 

Sincerely,

 

Priya

 

 

 

 

 

, " shamaa " <soha.12

wrote:

>

> , " "

> <@> wrote:

> >Dear Sir,

>

> This is with reference to my earlier pleas for help to

you ,recently

> my husband has taken up a job abroad ,having settled there he had

> come down to visit us .After having done the upayas suggested by

you

> i have noticed a slight change in his behaviour he makes an effort

to

> please me but my real problem still remains unsolved in the sense

> that i feel he tries to take advantage with my daughter as you are

> aware my daughters horoscope shows low moral integrity ,i am

totally

> fazed how to handle the situation although i got my daughter to do

> the moral integrity upayas first i am yet to build trust in

her.both

> these issues within the house have made me extremely sad and

helpless

> i look to you for some hope in my present crisis.

> As you say there is no chance of a divorce then should i stay back

in

> India while my husband works abroad will it solve my mental

trauma....

> Secondly two years back i have given up my job i think i should

take

> up a job to keep myself independent will you be able to help me

here .

> Thirdly I have been diagnosed with a malignant growth in my uterus

> which is affecting my cycle , could you suggest a remedy for it

> Best wishes for the New Year.

> Thanking you

>

>

>

> > Dear Shamaa,

> >

> > Just try to be a bit more considerate. I believe it is just a

> matter

> > of time. Sooner or later he will realise that you have always

meant

> > his good and well being.

> >

> > Sincerely,

> >

> > Priya

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > , " soha rai " <soha.12@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > I have tried talking the matter several times to my

husband ,even

> > fought

> > > with him but to no avail he just balantly lies that he has

not

> > been doing

> > > anything . I only pull him on his straying ways that I have

been

> > present

> > > at.I dont even ask him what he does behind my back.If he

doesnt

> > respect or

> > > care for me what then is the point in continuing with the

> > marriage.I am in

> > > the process of trying out all the upaya suggested by you.Thank

> you

> > very much

> > > for your suggestions and advice.

> > >

> > >

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