Guest guest Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Dear Panditji, Wish you and your family a very happy diwali. Today on this auspicious day when I had hoped to have some joy, I am extremely lonely and sad. I have performed the kemdrum yog upaya and am in the process of performing the curd upaya that you had suggested. I am waiting for the copper snakes to be delivered. My relations with my husband are still strained and hope is diminishing with every passing day. I wish there was something I could do to keep myself cheerful. But when I look around and see other happy couples, it reminds me of my own troubles. Our birth details are in the chain of emails following this mail. Could you please reccommend any upaya to give me strength and patience during this extremely difficult time? Is there happiness in marriage indicated on our horoscopes? Is there any upaya I can do on his behalf to improve his temper or attitude? Having him do the upaya is very difficult. Thank you very much for all your help, Seema --- < wrote: > Dear Seema, > > This request is already in the archives at # 432 and > the answer at > # 435.Read the answer. > > Sincerely, > > Priya > > > > > , Adi > <adiseems wrote: > > > > Dear Panditji, > > > > I wasn't sure if my email had reached you so I > thought > > of resending my message since for some reason i > > couldn't find it in my sent messages. I had posted > > this following message yesterday... > > > > Dear Panditji, > > > > In the past few emails you have adviced me for > > bringing peace aned some positive changes in my > > marriage (husband's temper, mood swings etc). I am > > forwarding the chain of replies. I had some > questions > > regarding some of the upaya you had recommended. > > > > Just for your reference our birth details are: > > Mine: 27th January 1980, Bombay > > Husband's: 12th January 1976 Thane > > > > 1) For my curd upaya, the temple is closed on > Mondays. > > What should I do? I have asked the poojariji to > > unclock it for me but in case he isn't able to, I > just > > wanted to be sure. > > > > 2) The silver upaya that you had recommended for > my > > husband, can he wear a silver kada or a bracelet > > instead of the chain with the piece of silver? > > > > Thank you very much and god bless you, > > > > Seema > > > > --- " pt.bhooshanpriya " <pt.bhooshanpriya > > wrote: > > > > > Dear Seema, > > > > > > His temper and mood swings are quite > understandable. > > > He has a vakri > > > mars in the lagna which is in debility { neech } > in > > > the navansh > > > chart. Therefore : > > > > > > [ 1 ] Ask him to wear a square piece of silver > in a > > > silver chain. > > > > > > [ 2 ] Keep in his room a little honey in a > silver > > > dibbi with a > > > sqaure piece of silver immersed in the honey. > > > > > > [ 3 ] Ask him to worship Hanuman ji. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , Adi > > > <adiseems@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Panditji, > > > > > > > > Thank you very much for the upayas. My husband > is > > > > extremely stubborn and short tempered. > Sometimes > > > it is > > > > very difficult for me to try and get him to > see my > > > > point. Is there any upaya that could also > remedy > > > his > > > > extreme anger. I know that we both have to > make > > > > efforts towards repairing our relationship but > I > > > > always feel like I'm the only one trying which > > > makes > > > > me doubt whether this marriage will work. You > > > > mentioned last time that you don't see a split > in > > > our > > > > horoscopes so I want to try my best to save > this > > > > marriage. If there is any upaya that you > could > > > > recommend for his anger or mood swings, I > would be > > > > grateful. This would help us establish some > > > effective > > > > communication. > > > > > > > > Thank you for your advice. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Seema > > > > > > > > --- " pt.bhooshanpriya " <pt.bhooshanpriya@> > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Seema, > > > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few upaya for his career > > > growth > > > > > and stability. Ask > > > > > him to read the rules of the upaya from the > > > files. > > > > > You can not do > > > > > any upaya on his behalf. > > > > > > > > > > [ A ] Career : > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every Saturday he should offer a > little > > > > > mustard oil to a > > > > > beggar. > > > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] he should offer water to the Sun God > every > > > > > day. Add a little > > > > > milk and sugar to the water before offering. > > > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] He must keep with him some thing that > his > > > > > father had used, > > > > > like a watch, a ring or a chain etc. > > > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] He must offer at a temple 9 mushrooms > in > > > an > > > > > earthen pot once. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [ B ] It is in his horoscope that the > marital > > > > > discord is very > > > > > prominently indicated. Therefore those three > > > upaya > > > > > have to be done > > > > > by you. Your husband need not do them. But > he > > > has to > > > > > make a > > > > > conscious effort to improve relations. Upaya > can > > > > > help in building > > > > > better relations, but the effort has to be > made > > > by > > > > > both of you; more > > > > > so by him as his horoscope indicates. > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > === message truncated === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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