Guest guest Posted October 9, 2006 Report Share Posted October 9, 2006 Dear Seema, [ 1 ] if the temple is closed, place the curds at the door. The upaya would be considered as done. [ 2 ] No. The silver piece is to be worn round the neck. Wearing it on the wrist will be an entirely another upaya. Sincerely, Priya , Adi <adiseems wrote: > > Dear Panditji, > > In the past few emails you have adviced me for > bringing peace aned some positive changes in my > marriage (husband's temper, mood swings etc). I am > forwarding the chain of replies. I had some questions > regarding some of the upaya you had recommended. > > Just for your reference our birth details are: > Mine: 27th January 1980, Bombay > Husband's: 12th January 1976 Thane > > 1) For my curd upaya, the temple is closed on Mondays. > What should I do? I have asked the poojariji to > unclock it for me but in case he isn't able to, I just > wanted to be sure. > > 2) The silver upaya that you had recommended for my > husband, can he wear a silver kada or a bracelet > instead of the chain with the piece of silver? > > Thank you very much and god bless you, > > Seema > > --- " pt.bhooshanpriya " <pt.bhooshanpriya > wrote: > > > Dear Seema, > > > > His temper and mood swings are quite understandable. > > He has a vakri > > mars in the lagna which is in debility { neech } in > > the navansh > > chart. Therefore : > > > > [ 1 ] Ask him to wear a square piece of silver in a > > silver chain. > > > > [ 2 ] Keep in his room a little honey in a silver > > dibbi with a > > sqaure piece of silver immersed in the honey. > > > > [ 3 ] Ask him to worship Hanuman ji. > > > > Sincerely, > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , Adi > > <adiseems@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Panditji, > > > > > > Thank you very much for the upayas. My husband is > > > extremely stubborn and short tempered. Sometimes > > it is > > > very difficult for me to try and get him to see my > > > point. Is there any upaya that could also remedy > > his > > > extreme anger. I know that we both have to make > > > efforts towards repairing our relationship but I > > > always feel like I'm the only one trying which > > makes > > > me doubt whether this marriage will work. You > > > mentioned last time that you don't see a split in > > our > > > horoscopes so I want to try my best to save this > > > marriage. If there is any upaya that you could > > > recommend for his anger or mood swings, I would be > > > grateful. This would help us establish some > > effective > > > communication. > > > > > > Thank you for your advice. > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > Seema > > > > > > --- " pt.bhooshanpriya " <pt.bhooshanpriya@> > > > wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Seema, > > > > > > > > I am suggesting a few upaya for his career > > growth > > > > and stability. Ask > > > > him to read the rules of the upaya from the > > files. > > > > You can not do > > > > any upaya on his behalf. > > > > > > > > [ A ] Career : > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] Every Saturday he should offer a little > > > > mustard oil to a > > > > beggar. > > > > > > > > [ 2 ] he should offer water to the Sun God every > > > > day. Add a little > > > > milk and sugar to the water before offering. > > > > > > > > [ 3 ] He must keep with him some thing that his > > > > father had used, > > > > like a watch, a ring or a chain etc. > > > > > > > > [ 4 ] He must offer at a temple 9 mushrooms in > > an > > > > earthen pot once. > > > > > > > > > > > > [ B ] It is in his horoscope that the marital > > > > discord is very > > > > prominently indicated. Therefore those three > > upaya > > > > have to be done > > > > by you. Your husband need not do them. But he > > has to > > > > make a > > > > conscious effort to improve relations. Upaya can > > > > help in building > > > > better relations, but the effort has to be made > > by > > > > both of you; more > > > > so by him as his horoscope indicates. > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , Adi > > > > <adiseems@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Panditji, > > > > > > > > > > I'm so sorry for not mentioning his birth > > details > > > > > again. He was born on 12th january, 1976 at > > 2;50 > > > > pm in > > > > > Thane city. > > > > > > > > > > In addition to upaya for career should he > > also > > > > > perform the same upaya that I am performing > > for > > > > > marital harmony? > > > > > > > > > > Thank you very much, > > > > > > > > > > Seema > > > > > > > > > > --- " pt.bhooshanpriya " <pt.bhooshanpriya@> > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Seema, > > > > > > > > > > > > [ 1 ] I had suggested three upaya for > > marital > > > > > > harmony. You can do > > > > > > all the three upaya. > > > > > > [ 2 ] I can not suggest any remedy for the > > > > career of > > > > > > your husband in > > > > > > the absence of his birth details. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sincerely, > > > > > > > > > > > > Priya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > lalkitabremedies , Adi > > > > > > <adiseems@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Priyaji, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I performed my Kemdrum Yog upaya today. I > > > > > > appreciate > > > > > > > your advice. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My husband has had problems in his career > > and > > > > in > > > > > > his > > > > > > > family (siblings etc) as well. Our > > marriage > > > > has > > > > > > been > > > > > > > through a lot of turmoil. We both are > > mentally > > > > > > very > > > > > > > stressed. Although he has once asked me > > for a > > > > > > divorce > > > > > > > he hasn't pursued that direction so far. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Panditji, can you recommend any upayas > > that > > > > could > > > > > > help > > > > > > > him better his career? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Also which one of the upayas that you had > > > > > > recommended > > > > > > > for our marriage (such as Sita Ashok root, > > > > curd, > > > > > > > copper snakes upaya) should he perform? > > Since > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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