doubts cleared

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Dear anoo ji,

 

doubts cleared. Answers in bracket after your querries.

 

sincerely,

 

upadhyay

 

 

 

 

lalkitab , " an_jag2000 " <an_jag2000> wrote:

> Respected Sir,

> Thank you very very much.We too suspected something as my

> maternal aunts are also unmarried.Thank you for the upayas.I have a

> few queries.Please solve my doubts.

>

> Where on the roof ,open sky should my father keep saunf. can he keep

> saunf in his room on top of cupboard & is specific coloured cloth

> necessary.

 

{ No, the saunf has to be kept at a place under the open sky , may

be a chhajja or muder etc . any such place,}

 

 

>

> Yes ,our house has door in Southwest direction.In that case also

> should silver piece be fixed,should it be just stuck with adhesive

>

 

{ yes. it will be a very thin piece and drive a nail through it.}

 

 

 

 

 

> should sabut moong { whole moong } soaked in water , and in the

> morning fed to the birds along with little sweet bundi be done once

> or regularly

 

{ It would be better if it could be done regularly for at least 43

days.}

 

 

>

> please clarify about bargad tree

 

 

{ bargad tree is Banyan tree. }

>

> can my mother place river water(instead of ganga jal) in a small

> silver dibbi in room where father will place saunf

 

{ Let her get Ganga Jal for it }

 

>

> what is alternative for keeping rain water as rain water is

> unavailable now

 

{ ganga jal will do till you collect some rain water}

 

>

> Is it ok if only 2 or 3 of us do pitri rin upaya or is it necessary

> for all 5 of us to do upaya.while considering number of cawries

> should maternal uncles & aunties(mother's sisters,brothers & their

> families, mother' cousins,mother's aunts & uncles) & uncles & aunts

> from father's side (chachas,chachis,buas, & their families)also be

> considered.And how many cawries should be considered for those that

> one may have forgotten.Please advice as to how cawries are to be

burnt

> (can the cawries be burnt in any container & that along with ash be

> thrown in water)

 

{ Even one person could go to the river bank and do the upaya, if

others want to accompany him all the better. Count as many as you

want , but every body from your family must be counted. it is just to

have so many cawries , no harm if you have extra. more the better to

take care of those you might have forgotton to count.The cawries

should be burned , if possible, in an earthen pot like a gamala. And

yes the gamala too should be thrown in the water along with the

ashes.}

 

 

 

 

>

> Can we do upayas during the navratri days also since the navratri is

> to be celebrated by us in 2 days.

 

 

{ it is entirely to your convenience }

 

>

> Is there any alternative for neem tree as it very difficult to spot

> neem tree.

 

{ I am afraid there is no alternative to the neem tree }

 

>

>

> Thank you very very much for your valuable time

> Regards

> Anoo