Guest guest Posted June 30, 2009 Report Share Posted June 30, 2009 Anshu surely we can understand the difficulties and pain that comes with so many complications, fortunately u r better placed in terms of qualified and well meaning support for it u can also try taking some courses in dealing with such disabled children for a start and u may know practically how difficult as not all will have the same level of disablities some lessr some more and how they cope with it I'VE ALSO SEEN A FEW PARENTS OF SUCH KIDS NOT HAVING A 2ND CHILD as a insurance to take care of this child aone, surely it is not a rule to do so anyday a mother will take care of any no of children even if one r two r disabled also. with same care attention, and for this child u have other forms of support as well may be another child can lift ur spirits apart ffrom some time with similar kids may u can have some occassional social gatherings of such parents , kids so can help u exchange views, tips about the kids may be also participate in some genetic sampling studies why these disorders do occur. from my own relatives circles i know 2 kids and from cases we see a few more Autism is a big challange how do u rate ur early life, schooling, college time life, marriage as such any upheavels that u can share in public or private is welcome we can find some close walking on this road together. if u can find more data of parents like this can help blend astrology and science to help u and similar parents. Best wishes - G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. /database?method=reportRows & tbl=6 ________________________________ Anu Rich <richanu Tuesday, June 30, 2009 3:56:19 AM Re: Re: Plz help... Dear Hariprasad Ji, Thanks a lot for understanding my situation. Unknowingly all of us always have some dreams abt almost everything in life. With a disabled child its more becoz dreams shatter 1000 times in a day. My life changd for good with my daughter. I am getting sercices from US gov to help my daughter. I am sincerely taking all the possible therapy without thinking abt money and time. But when i do not see the result of any therapy , that is the time when i feel like dying becoz there is nothing else i can do to help my daughter . This feeling of helplessness kills me. I know that god must have some plans for me and my daughter but i do not have that kind of mental ability now to undetstand it. My daughter has Choanl atresia, microcephaly, hemihyperplasia, global developmental delay, partial hearing loss and Autism. She is a peaky eater too and was a totally Ng tube fed baby. For last 4-5 montsh she started eating from mouth. I think i am terribly depressed. Do not know what to do . Thanks Anshu ____________ _________ _________ __ ituramhp <ituramhp (AT) (DOT) co.in> Monday, June 29, 2009 8:48:42 AM Re: Plz help... dear madam, after going through the details you have furnished one can empathize your feelings.though i am not an astrologer i offer my suggestion as a professional dealing with disabilities. from your description it can be inferred that you seem to have a lot of dreams concerning your child however you had to face a lot of hard ships due to the disabilities and hence you are mentally tired and displacing the feelings on to your self. but think for a moment what would happen to that young kid who cannot cope up with out your support and help.if you could spell out the nature of the disability your child is facing the available options can be identified. moreover there are a number of facilities which the American government provides to such children. therefore i earnestly request you to forget the suicidal thoughts and explore the ways in which you can help your child. this would be the purpose of your existence - of helping a child with special needs. may god give you the mental strength to cope with and face your circumstances hariprasad , " richanu " <richanu > wrote: > > Hello All, > > I have a 2.4 year old daughter with special needs. I am currently in US. Since her birth i am trying to cope with her disabilities but some how i am not fully successful. Since her birth thoughts of commiting suicide comes in my mind almost daily. As a person i have changed completely. I want to know when will my favourable time come so that i will be away from these kinds of suicidal thoughts or is there a yog of mental illness (pagalpan ) in my kundali becoz seeing her so many problems and constant struggle i have become mentaly unstable.. > > Plz help. > > My details are > > DOB : 06 oct 1979 > POB : Nowgong Distt Chhatarpur M.P. > TOB : 05:25 am > Name: Anshu > > Thanks > Anshu > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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