Guest guest Posted April 13, 2009 Report Share Posted April 13, 2009 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. /database?method=reportRows & tbl=6 ________________________________ senorita <jyothi_100 Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2009 Report Share Posted April 14, 2009 Respected Sir, I am a housewife. My mother-in-law too is at home the entire day. She does not do anything for my daughter and she does not have any affection towards her. It is just that since my daughter runs to her room, and sits and play, she spends some time with my daughter. Sir, please tell me that will my daughter change. Has my mother-in-law done some vash on her? My daughter has told me also that my mother-in-law told her to beat me. I do not want mybaby to get into bad manners. I want to keep my daughter against her. But my husband insists on her meeting my mil. Please advise. Thanking you ________________________________ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar Monday, 13 April, 2009 10:41:58 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow s & tbl=6 ____________ _________ _________ __ senorita <jyothi_100 > Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2009 Report Share Posted April 14, 2009 Kyoti well let children be children even if bad but u can tell them dont do this to ppl older to u, u need not be surprised some day if ur MIL herself scolds ur daughter she will beat hear also so it is a inevitable thing what u sow u reap but if u canrecord this on ur phone next time and keep it safe some time ina good mood u can show ur husband and also tell him if she beats anyone whoever it be u must know from where it has come. all i can do ask her not to do so ans beating or forcing a child to do this or that is not right instructing, cajoling only is best option prashant ________________________________ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100 Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:11:02 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, I am a housewife. My mother-in-law too is at home the entire day. She does not do anything for my daughter and she does not have any affection towards her. It is just that since my daughter runs to her room, and sits and play, she spends some time with my daughter. Sir, please tell me that will my daughter change. Has my mother-in-law done some vash on her? My daughter has told me also that my mother-in-law told her to beat me. I do not want mybaby to get into bad manners. I want to keep my daughter against her. But my husband insists on her meeting my mil. Please advise. Thanking you ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Monday, 13 April, 2009 10:41:58 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow s & tbl=6 ____________ _________ _________ __ senorita <jyothi_100> Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2009 Report Share Posted April 14, 2009 Respected Sir, You wont believe I have recorded and shown this to my husband. Affter asking his mother, he told me that my daughter is telling lies as told by his mother. Children never lie. and my baby does not know how to tell lies. His mother is not normal. She tells my daughter to keep saying sorry in front of God's idol contiously for 10 min. and my mil has weird imaginations ( she sometimes imagines that I have told something about her to some relative and passing on to another relative. she imagines a lot of things and tries to create misunderstandings between me and my husband. ) MY HUSBAND understands that she is wrong but fails to tell her and protects her when she is wrong< trying to interpret what is there in her mind ( WHICH IS TOTALLY WRONG). I do not know what to do. Please tell about my husband's future. For how long still will he be a mama's boy and be blind folded. Please also tell about my husband future Om Prakash DOB - 8th Nov 1976 Place - Chennai Time 9:00 pm Thanking you Jyothi ________________________________ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar Tuesday, 14 April, 2009 4:57:55 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Kyoti well let children be children even if bad but u can tell them dont do this to ppl older to u, u need not be surprised some day if ur MIL herself scolds ur daughter she will beat hear also so it is a inevitable thing what u sow u reap but if u canrecord this on ur phone next time and keep it safe some time ina good mood u can show ur husband and also tell him if she beats anyone whoever it be u must know from where it has come. all i can do ask her not to do so ans beating or forcing a child to do this or that is not right instructing, cajoling only is best option prashant ____________ _________ _________ __ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100 > Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:11:02 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, I am a housewife. My mother-in-law too is at home the entire day. She does not do anything for my daughter and she does not have any affection towards her. It is just that since my daughter runs to her room, and sits and play, she spends some time with my daughter. Sir, please tell me that will my daughter change. Has my mother-in-law done some vash on her? My daughter has told me also that my mother-in-law told her to beat me. I do not want mybaby to get into bad manners. I want to keep my daughter against her. But my husband insists on her meeting my mil. Please advise. Thanking you ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Monday, 13 April, 2009 10:41:58 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow s & tbl=6 ____________ _________ _________ __ senorita <jyothi_100> Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2009 Report Share Posted April 14, 2009 Jyotti, Am approaching this topic purely as a counselling job which is part o an astrologer when we have face to face sittings as this helps reasure people in need of guidence, help, support now u must split the apparent problem u state into smaller one and u will BE BETTER OFF look at the +ves here 1st u said ur husband has seen the vedio version and he has not said why r u doing this.... 2 u say he understands his mother is a problem and is trying to give it some interpretation [u may not like it] 3 DONT EXPECT ANY CHILD TO ABUSE THEIR PARENTS irrespective of the age after a point we must forgive them as we were forgiven in our childhood by them as u may be doing with ur daughter even now. at old age many may become senile, loose their discrenatioing power or some r prone to sudden insecurity that their soon won't care for them etc but he is doing pretty well with both of u so allow time to pass and expect him to be as he is it is in ur interest he treats his mother at least like this anyone who doesnt care for a mother like that will someday even neglect his wife also caring must be wide spread not limited, or conditional etc if u got the message in the right spirit and will do as hinted I can move into astrological reasoning if I have not done so already? the prayers I think I have already suggested just keep it going will give u the mental strenght tosee this phase off well Best wishes Prashant ________________________________ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100 Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:44:53 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, You wont believe I have recorded and shown this to my husband. Affter asking his mother, he told me that my daughter is telling lies as told by his mother. Children never lie. and my baby does not know how to tell lies. His mother is not normal. She tells my daughter to keep saying sorry in front of God's idol contiously for 10 min. and my mil has weird imaginations ( she sometimes imagines that I have told something about her to some relative and passing on to another relative. she imagines a lot of things and tries to create misunderstandings between me and my husband. ) MY HUSBAND understands that she is wrong but fails to tell her and protects her when she is wrong< trying to interpret what is there in her mind ( WHICH IS TOTALLY WRONG). I do not know what to do. Please tell about my husband's future. For how long still will he be a mama's boy and be blind folded. Please also tell about my husband future Om Prakash DOB - 8th Nov 1976 Place - Chennai Time 9:00 pm Thanking you Jyothi ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Tuesday, 14 April, 2009 4:57:55 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Kyoti well let children be children even if bad but u can tell them dont do this to ppl older to u, u need not be surprised some day if ur MIL herself scolds ur daughter she will beat hear also so it is a inevitable thing what u sow u reap but if u canrecord this on ur phone next time and keep it safe some time ina good mood u can show ur husband and also tell him if she beats anyone whoever it be u must know from where it has come. all i can do ask her not to do so ans beating or forcing a child to do this or that is not right instructing, cajoling only is best option prashant ____________ _________ _________ __ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100> Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:11:02 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, I am a housewife. My mother-in-law too is at home the entire day. She does not do anything for my daughter and she does not have any affection towards her. It is just that since my daughter runs to her room, and sits and play, she spends some time with my daughter. Sir, please tell me that will my daughter change. Has my mother-in-law done some vash on her? My daughter has told me also that my mother-in-law told her to beat me. I do not want mybaby to get into bad manners. I want to keep my daughter against her. But my husband insists on her meeting my mil. Please advise. Thanking you ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Monday, 13 April, 2009 10:41:58 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow s & tbl=6 ____________ _________ _________ __ senorita <jyothi_100> Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2009 Report Share Posted April 14, 2009 Respected Sir, I am thankful to you for being my counsellor and explaining the positivity even in difficult times. But Sir, my husband is more towards his mother. I do not say that he must not take care of his mother, but in the midst of doing that he ignores his wife and children. My husband is like if his mother says it is night, it is night and if she says it is day, it is day. his life does not move beyond his mother. Thank you for suggesting me prayers. I will follow them and pray to lord Vishnu to give me mental strength to go through this phase of life. Thanking you Jyothi ________________________________ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar Tuesday, 14 April, 2009 6:03:32 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyotti, Am approaching this topic purely as a counselling job which is part o an astrologer when we have face to face sittings as this helps reasure people in need of guidence, help, support now u must split the apparent problem u state into smaller one and u will BE BETTER OFF look at the +ves here 1st u said ur husband has seen the vedio version and he has not said why r u doing this.... 2 u say he understands his mother is a problem and is trying to give it some interpretation [u may not like it] 3 DONT EXPECT ANY CHILD TO ABUSE THEIR PARENTS irrespective of the age after a point we must forgive them as we were forgiven in our childhood by them as u may be doing with ur daughter even now. at old age many may become senile, loose their discrenatioing power or some r prone to sudden insecurity that their soon won't care for them etc but he is doing pretty well with both of u so allow time to pass and expect him to be as he is it is in ur interest he treats his mother at least like this anyone who doesnt care for a mother like that will someday even neglect his wife also caring must be wide spread not limited, or conditional etc if u got the message in the right spirit and will do as hinted I can move into astrological reasoning if I have not done so already? the prayers I think I have already suggested just keep it going will give u the mental strenght tosee this phase off well Best wishes Prashant ____________ _________ _________ __ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100 > Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:44:53 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, You wont believe I have recorded and shown this to my husband. Affter asking his mother, he told me that my daughter is telling lies as told by his mother. Children never lie. and my baby does not know how to tell lies. His mother is not normal. She tells my daughter to keep saying sorry in front of God's idol contiously for 10 min. and my mil has weird imaginations ( she sometimes imagines that I have told something about her to some relative and passing on to another relative. she imagines a lot of things and tries to create misunderstandings between me and my husband. ) MY HUSBAND understands that she is wrong but fails to tell her and protects her when she is wrong< trying to interpret what is there in her mind ( WHICH IS TOTALLY WRONG). I do not know what to do. Please tell about my husband's future. For how long still will he be a mama's boy and be blind folded. Please also tell about my husband future Om Prakash DOB - 8th Nov 1976 Place - Chennai Time 9:00 pm Thanking you Jyothi ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Tuesday, 14 April, 2009 4:57:55 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Kyoti well let children be children even if bad but u can tell them dont do this to ppl older to u, u need not be surprised some day if ur MIL herself scolds ur daughter she will beat hear also so it is a inevitable thing what u sow u reap but if u canrecord this on ur phone next time and keep it safe some time ina good mood u can show ur husband and also tell him if she beats anyone whoever it be u must know from where it has come. all i can do ask her not to do so ans beating or forcing a child to do this or that is not right instructing, cajoling only is best option prashant ____________ _________ _________ __ jyothi mutreja <jyothi_100> Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:11:02 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Respected Sir, I am a housewife. My mother-in-law too is at home the entire day. She does not do anything for my daughter and she does not have any affection towards her. It is just that since my daughter runs to her room, and sits and play, she spends some time with my daughter. Sir, please tell me that will my daughter change. Has my mother-in-law done some vash on her? My daughter has told me also that my mother-in-law told her to beat me. I do not want mybaby to get into bad manners. I want to keep my daughter against her. But my husband insists on her meeting my mil. Please advise. Thanking you ____________ _________ _________ __ Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > Monday, 13 April, 2009 10:41:58 PM Re: Respected Sir 13/4 Jyothi, be patient and more affectionate to her inspite of what she does as kids r too small and impressionable by whom they r close to may be u r working and ur MIL is at home in the day? so this is happening or she is pampering her and doing it if u r not around otherwise but as her Budha starts in June 15, 2015 she will change for the bestter academically, socially, family wise also till then be patient and prayers to any form of Vishnu say Vishnu sahasranamam, Anjeneya will help U best wishes Prashant I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS. http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow s & tbl=6 ____________ _________ _________ __ senorita <jyothi_100> Monday, April 13, 2009 7:07:40 PM Respected Sir Sir, My daughter Nandini ( DOB - 8th April 2004 ; time - 7.30 pm, place - chennai) is now 5 years old. sir, sometimes she behaves very rudely with me. This is due to my mother-in-law. She does mantras on my daughter and put s vibuthi on her forehead and does her under her vash. My daughter is nice and sweet, but when she goes to my mother-in-law ( Brinda Chandrulal ) room and comes to me, she behaves very adamantly and hits me ( she says my mother-in-law asks her to hit me). Please tell me what to do. Thanking you Jyothi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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