Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Would porn/masterbation addiction be grounds for divorce? the situation is so severe there is no affection given to the wife. husband spends days alone deeply engulfed in his addiction and is very rude to wife then after 3 to 4 days of this he will come back to her as if all is good. she is ready to flee the marriage. she has also experienced physical abuse on two occasions slapping and punching in the face the marriage began May 4, 2007. The wife blames herself for marrying someone so young and wants to know if she should escape this marriage or try to deal with it. Wife Details May.16.1970 time: 22:41 ie 10:41 PM place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N Husband Details May.7.1985 4:44 ie 4:44 AM place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N thank you with all my heart for your help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 The remedy would be deep and intensive (and sincere) and perhaps long- term marriage counselling and other therapies should perhaps follow! Then after stabilization and after a certain level of insight has been achieved, gentler remedies such as jyotish-related or spiritual remedies may be pursued...! Good luck and May Her Blessings shower upon your troubles... RR , " Mary " <mary913 wrote: > > Would porn/masterbation addiction be grounds for divorce? the situation is so severe there is no affection given to the wife. husband spends days alone deeply engulfed in his addiction and is very rude to wife then after 3 to 4 days of this he will come back to her as if all is good. she is ready to flee the marriage. she has also experienced physical abuse on two occasions slapping and punching in the face the marriage began May 4, 2007. The wife blames herself for marrying someone so young and wants to know if she should escape this marriage or try to deal with it. > > Wife Details > May.16.1970 > time: 22:41 ie 10:41 PM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > Husband Details > May.7.1985 > 4:44 ie 4:44 AM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > thank you with all my heart for your help. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 dear mary Is this lady is married b4 ?too, if so can u giv an idea what happend ?? Any way i dont think this one will work out ,in her case sani aspecting venus in the 7th H , lagna Lord and 7th Lord ( conjoined ) dasa is also not good . marriage time also was not auspicious . so astrologicaly i dont think any kind of medical or phychological counselling can b of any help . his chart and dasa also shows not a good period for marriage point of view venus -sani dasa is this lady faty and living near some water bodies regrds prashanth Nair , " Mary " <mary913 wrote: > > Would porn/masterbation addiction be grounds for divorce? the situation is so severe there is no affection given to the wife. husband spends days alone deeply engulfed in his addiction and is very rude to wife then after 3 to 4 days of this he will come back to her as if all is good. she is ready to flee the marriage. she has also experienced physical abuse on two occasions slapping and punching in the face the marriage began May 4, 2007. The wife blames herself for marrying someone so young and wants to know if she should escape this marriage or try to deal with it. > > Wife Details > May.16.1970 > time: 22:41 ie 10:41 PM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > Husband Details > May.7.1985 > 4:44 ie 4:44 AM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > thank you with all my heart for your help. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Dear Mary The husbands horoscope says that he is addicted to masturbation, & also a wife beator. He also has a insecured mind & is also very abusive in speech. This will go on till sept 2013 after that it will reduce to some extent. Masturbation & watching porn is something which one cannot do anything about it as ur husband has exhalted venus in first house & its main period is going on & venus being the significtor for sexual urge & desire being exhalted will always increase its intensity. Saturn & Mars aspecting each other, both being violent planets that too in the house of hand & mars being the significtor for hands makes a person very violent & use of hand beating is obvious. The husband has a strong sex desire & if he does not gets it from his wife & if is not able to satisfy his desire outside marraige will obviously get violent. Over here the wife needs to do some counselling with her husband, try & understand his needs, make him understand, allow him to fulfill his sexual desires, & over a period of time wife will see changes in him. This being a love marriage &  wife being senior in age, I am certain she will be able to do it. Escaping marraige does not solves the problem unless the stage of blown lids or uncontrollable situation is reached. If need arises u can call me up & talk to me.  GOD BLESS YOU WITH WARM REGARDS HARESH(HARRY)NATHANI VEDIC ASTOLOGER VAASTU CONSULTANT INSURANCE ADVISOR +919867214103 (MUMBAI,INDIA) http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database ________________________________ Mary <mary913 Friday, 28 November, 2008 5:17:14 AM Addiction in Marriage Would porn/masterbation addiction be grounds for divorce? the situation is so severe there is no affection given to the wife. husband spends days alone deeply engulfed in his addiction and is very rude to wife then after 3 to 4 days of this he will come back to her as if all is good. she is ready to flee the marriage. she has also experienced physical abuse on two occasions slapping and punching in the face the marriage began May 4, 2007. The wife blames herself for marrying someone so young and wants to know if she should escape this marriage or try to deal with it. Wife Details May.16.1970 time: 22:41 ie 10:41 PM place:opelousas. louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N Husband Details May.7.1985 4:44 ie 4:44 AM place:opelousas. louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N thank you with all my heart for your help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Namaste Mary, The husband was born under the sign of Pisces, and the Moon was in the nakshatra of Jyestha. The man has a malefic yoga in the navamsha chart. Mars and Ketu are in conjunction in the 6th house in the navamsha. According to Jaimini, this conjunction is not good for the health or welfare of the wife. Considering the abusive behaviour he has shown, it's a good indication that this yoga is in effect. The wife should leave this man as soon as possible. Regards, John R. , " Mary " <mary913 wrote: > > Would porn/masterbation addiction be grounds for divorce? the situation is so severe there is no affection given to the wife. husband spends days alone deeply engulfed in his addiction and is very rude to wife then after 3 to 4 days of this he will come back to her as if all is good. she is ready to flee the marriage. she has also experienced physical abuse on two occasions slapping and punching in the face the marriage began May 4, 2007. The wife blames herself for marrying someone so young and wants to know if she should escape this marriage or try to deal with it. > > Wife Details > May.16.1970 > time: 22:41 ie 10:41 PM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > Husband Details > May.7.1985 > 4:44 ie 4:44 AM > place:opelousas.louisiana - long/lat 92:05W 30:32N > > > thank you with all my heart for your help. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 Is this lady is married b4 ?too, if so can u give an idea what happend ?? yes she married at 17 years old, she found herself having problems being intimate with her first husband. She wasn't attracted to him anymore. He was a good man the first husband but he lied a lot about little things and this caused her to look at him in a different light. she felt she was too young to know how to a wife, and ended the marriage within a year, is this lady faty and living near some water bodies?? if you mean " fat " yes she is overweight, she has gained a lot of weight since the marriage, using food to cope with her lonelyness and pain she does not live close to water She has been able to save a good deal of money and is ready to move away but she cannot decide on which state to move to. She still lives in her childhood home town. Her biggest fear if that her husband will do something really bad, his addiction is so severe that he even masterbates on there trips out the home. If they go to a shopping mall he will see a woman who excites him and leave his wife to go into the store bathroom for 15 - 20 mins to masterbate. This has caused the wife so much pain, she feels like she's ugly and unwanted so she eats. She does not fear the husband but is unsure of what he is really capable of. thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 Dear Mary ji Thanks for ur feed back ,I am not a professional astrologer but just a student who is exploring astrology as a hobby . So ur and likely minded persons feed backs giv me more confidence and more fire to our determination as i approachs any subjuct with some amnt of doubts and caution . as advised by many astrologers i think this will not work out and his chart nor her chart has such combinations too .I can say this is a period of romance than marriage . also the matching is v v less , so i blv she shud part her ways and try to do some thing for the cause of poor woman and ladies which can take away lot of bad karmas in past births and will help her in finding a suitable match . Till then she has to wait thanking u once again regrds Prashanth Nair Dear group pls dont sent me any personal requests either for paid or free reading ,pls post in this august grp and i will reply u when ever i find time .otherwise also many many learned astrologers r here too , " Mary " <mary913 wrote: > > Is this lady is married b4 ?too, if so can u give an idea what happend > ?? > > yes she married at 17 years old, she found herself having problems being intimate with her first husband. She wasn't attracted to him anymore. He was a good man the first husband but he lied a lot about little things and this caused her to look at him in a different light. she felt she was too young to know how to a wife, and ended the marriage within a year, > > > > is this lady faty and living near some water bodies?? > > > if you mean " fat " yes she is overweight, she has gained a lot of weight since the marriage, using food to cope with her lonelyness and pain > > she does not live close to water > > > She has been able to save a good deal of money and is ready to move away but she cannot decide on which state to move to. She still lives in her childhood home town. Her biggest fear if that her husband will do something really bad, his addiction is so severe that he even masterbates on there trips out the home. If they go to a shopping mall he will see a woman who excites him and leave his wife to go into the store bathroom for 15 - 20 mins to masterbate. This has caused the wife so much pain, she feels like she's ugly and unwanted so she eats. She does not fear the husband but is unsure of what he is really capable of. > > thank you > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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