Guest guest Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Dear RRji, a well laid out reply I tried the same and did not get the expected response not sure how this is seen i had said both were wrong and more so a as ualso said aperson who is not fully aware of how groups/internet works in this context i said she can be given a benefit of doubt as much as Pathi ji as there is nothing wrong in offering private help her major blame lies in posting private mail in public and here i said this must be settled mutually by both , both taking a public platform and abusing one another and unfortunately it became one v/s many for solidarity it is goood but if that also happened in public from start some part of it was in private space so they had to go back there resolve it and be back either way I feel ur approach is the right one as u still have offred to read her case inspite of all that happened we must retain a moral higher ground than the ones we r advising. I had also asked the ones who doubted her to test her [hilantrophy side by pointing top some temple or charity and see the action and give her the appropriate treatment it is like for a traffic offence like jumping the signal one gets a life term. prashant ________________________________ Rohiniranjan <rohini_ranjan Thursday, November 20, 2008 5:32:41 AM Re: my health Dear Neelam, Thank you for your explanation and giving us all some more information about why you felt as if your privacy was encroached upon by the astrologer who wrote to you privately. It is very important for each individual member to note carefully the settings and surroundings in any group before joining in. allows two types of settings, one in which private emails can be hidden and the other where this is not the case. Both have their positives and negatives, with the former having potentially more headaches for the moderators because then anyone can join the forum and post all kinds of stuff. It is sad but my sympathies will be with the owner/moderator in this situation. People must realize that when someone posts on a forum with thousands of members, 'privacy' becomes a luxury. This is why many people prefer paid readings. On a public forum that allows emails to be displayed or allows the 'email' option, the given understanding is that anyone can approach you through that portal. If the offer was irrelevant and inflammatory, I would be siding with you but since in this case you had requested astrological help and had not indicated that you do not wish to receive private offers for reading, for which the onus was on you, I see no blame should be put on Mr. Pathi who had simply offered you with his astrological service. If he had been pestering you with emails or so on, then you could have complained. In this case, simply put, you acted in bad faith and with unclear knowledge of where you were posting your request which you wished to remain free but private, Mr. Pathi and not you is the injured party! Please note that I do not know Mr. Pathi from Adam but I do not see what wrong he did if all he did was send you ONE EMAIL offering his astrological services. You or anyone else may disagree with me but what is right is right! Rohiniranjan , " nsenecha " <nsenecha@.. .> wrote: > > respected sir, > pranam. > sir, it is my polite request. plz. don't take it the other way. > > yes, it is true, it was a personal email but my id was taken from the > public forum. i was not knowing that he is allowed to send private > emails like this. i thought he should send it publicly. > i am not sorry for that. > > sir, you have the right to question my intentions for asking questions > here. i simply asked.if replied, thanked. if i wanted to know more, > requested again politely. not answered. no problem. you can confirm > this from forum itself. i never abused anyone & not replied the person > in his language who abused me publicly. i never complained. all > persons are different. we have to maintain our line. > > only thing i want to say is= if we trust you [ or your forum] and give > our personal details on public forum, no member should offer privately > . if he wants to help or give some offer for help, should give here in > this forum only. > > sir, you tried to convince me like some elderly family member. it is > my privilege. but to share my feelings with you is my right. > plz. this time do not question my intentions. i may be wrong. you can > point out my mistakes. > > i am happy to be a silent reader since last few days. i can learn this > way also. > > regards > ns > ---- > , " Rohiniranjan " > <rohini_ranjan@ > wrote: > > > > Neelam, > > > > Perhaps you do not realize but you have posted in public forum Mr. > > Pathi's private message quoting his fees! That is not appropriate. > > > > This forum allows individuals to send private emails to posters, but > > the posters then should not post such emails on the public forum for > > obvious reasons. > > > > And this is not something that happens automatically as in pressing > > the replying to sender button etc. from your emailer. You would have > > to do some copying and pasting and so on. > > > > At first I thought Mr. Pathi posted the promotional message on open > > forum but then it seems that he sent a private email to you. You had > > the right to refuse his advances but it should have been done > > privately and not in this manner. > > > > It makes one question your intentions for posting your original > > request on the public forum :-) > > > > It is a known fact that astrologers charge for readings and many do > > not wish to pay them for their services. This is a clear example of > > what we were discussing a few days ago. In this case, obviously the > > intentions of the reading requester are questionable! > > > > RR > > > > > > > > > > > > , neelam senecha > > <nsenecha@> wrote: > > > > > > respected A V Pathiji, > > > namaskar, > > > thanks for showing interest in answering my queries. > > > i am sure u have already studied my horoscope. but i don't spend > > on such things. i believe in helping poor persons or renovation of > > temples.it reflects in my horoscope. > > > i have some interest in learning jyotish . that's why i gave my > > queries on this forum. > > > i think i know me & myself very well. it will be very helpful in > > understanding process. > > > anyway thanks, > > > regards > > > ns > > > ------------ --------- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > > venkatachala pathi <pathiav@> > > > nsenecha <nsenecha@> > > > Monday, November 17, 2008 4:44:06 AM > > > Re: my health > > > > > > > > > In case you wish to avail my services, I will be pleased attend to > > your requirement. I am in the field for last 46 years (aged 79), and > > widely popular in this field around many countries for many years. > > Please give me your land line address for my records. My charges for > > reading Horoscope is US $ 50/- each, and I will be sending answers > > for 4 questions asked by you over e-mail in four days from date of > > receipt of amount. I will be able to send you the copies of charts > > (North indian/South Indian) with Vimshothri Desa detail for an extra > > charge of US $ 10/- each. On hearing from you. I will inform you the > > mode of remittance. Blessings, > > > > > > > > > A.V.Pathi, > > > North Carolina, 27514, USA > > > 001-919-960- 3833 > > > Please contact me in ID kountinya29@ ) > > > All private readings are chargeable.Disclaim er > > > A.V.Pathi and his Astrology Team want to make it absolutely clear > > that no discipline is absolutely perfect. Hence, any prediction that > > you receive from us is not to be considered as a substitute for > > advice, program, or treatment that you would normally receive from a > > licensed professional such as a lawyer, doctor, psychiatrist, or > > financial advisor. A.V.Pathi and his team provide no guarantees, > > implied warranties, or assurances of any kind, and will not be > > responsible for any interpretation made or use by the recipient of > > the information and data mentioned above. By the Grace of God we can > > only try to give our best and hope that our efforts will improve the > > life of our customers. ~~A.V.Pathi, Astrologer and his team. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > > nsenecha <nsenecha@> > > > > > > Saturday, November 1, 2008 10:36:46 PM > > > my health > > > > > > > > > happy diwali to all members. > > > respected gurujis, > > > pranam to u all. > > > i am having many health problems like acute allergies, > > > hypertension, uterus fibroids [operation recommended] ,fats.can i > > get > > > over them? my DOB=15TH.APRIL1962, POB=MAWANA[ UP], TOB=22:30 [+/ - > > 20MINUTES] . > > > imp. events in life=marriage in feb.1985,son was born in > > > jan.1986,right hand & elbow fracture in nov. 1988, daughter in > > > dec.1989. allergies since childhood[nose pollips].controlled in > > 1984. > > > but from 8-10 years around again activated along with above > > mentioned > > > problems. > > > my husband is a scientist. his DOB=03JULY,1959; POB=PRATAPGARH[ > > RAJ.] > > > TOB=23:22. > > > KINDLY explain my horoscope & suggest me something accordingly. > > > with regards > > > ns > > > ------------ ------ > > > p.s. can i have some knowledge of astrology? > > > ------------ ------ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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