Guest guest Posted August 4, 2008 Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 Hi all, Due to my inlaws,me and my husband got seperated after our one month of marriage life.i am undergoing ezhara sani for the past three and half years.jenma sani started after one month of my marriage and we both got seperated at that time.i faced lots of troubles in my marital life.But i want my husband to come back to me.please let me know when he will come back.i am dying daily because of this.I know that committing sucide is the major paabam.thats y i keep quiet.Here are my details: DOB:March 9,1982 Time:5.50 PM lagnam:Simmam moon sign:Simmam natchatharam:pooram place of Birth:Dharmapuri/Tamilnadu/India My husband's details: DOB:April 9,1979 raasi:magaram natchatharam:uthiraadam place of Birth:Dharmapuri/Tamilnadu/India I dont know his birth time. Please help me with your valuable advice.. i request you all.please consider me as your sister and give me a solution. i am in high depression now.i dont want to go for second marriage like how my inlaws expect.i want to continue my marriage life with my husband.I am in US now.i want to travel back to India coz i am not happy in US and always crying here bcoz of loneliness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Dear friend, As no birthplace and time given, I give the readings on the basis of prasna only. In navamsa chart of prasna, 7th lord saturn in lagna leo aspecting 10th lord venus placed in 10th. So ego conflict is the main problem. So break the silence on your part. Be brave, polite and communicative, non-criticising of your husband and in laws. Avoid seeing other's fault. Pray to Goddess Tulsi (tulsi plant) offering lamps in the evening. If not available there you can mentally recite the name of Gauri telling her of your problems. She might offer a solution to you. With best wishes, Mrutyunjay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Dear Sakthi, I'll begin with congratulating you on your levelheadedness, few are able to keep their discretion in the face of such adversities. When you said suicide is a biggest paap, you said it all. To tell you the truth your problem is not untreatable, but it may not go away completely, Jyotish remedies here have to be complemented by behavioral changes. You are in US, presumably there is a limit to what all you can do in the way of remedies. I advise you to do the things that are of essence. To begin with, Surya Argha, (imp). I hope you know what that is. See if you can also donate red things on tuesdays and dark color things on saturdays to the needy. If nothing, feed birds. If possible do it this way, keep the dole a day in advance by your bed side, and donate it after bath, before breakfast. At a later stage or whenever possible, wear a clear yellow sapphire. Having done it all for a couple of weeks try getting in touch with you in laws again. You might see some changes, positive ones. One more thing, I only have your chart here, all this thus is to allay your pain. While pride is a must, as a matter of fact your pride is your strength, excess of it can safely be dispensed with, here in your case as a cost for sustenance of your relationship. I believe things would be fine with you. Om Namah Shivay Tat Sat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Dear Sir, I am currently learning astrology and would kindly appreciate if you could elaborate what combinations show pride in her chart? thanks for your time. Shakti, I pray your problesm get alleviated. regards. N , " Bheshm " <bheshmaksh wrote: > > Dear Sakthi, > > I'll begin with congratulating you on your levelheadedness, few are > able to keep their discretion in the face of such adversities. When > you said suicide is a biggest paap, you said it all. > > To tell you the truth your problem is not untreatable, but it may not > go away completely, Jyotish remedies here have to be complemented by > behavioral changes. > > You are in US, presumably there is a limit to what all you can do in > the way of remedies. I advise you to do the things that are of essence. > > To begin with, Surya Argha, (imp). I hope you know what that is. > See if you can also donate red things on tuesdays and dark color > things on saturdays to the needy. If nothing, feed birds. If possible > do it this way, keep the dole a day in advance by your bed side, and > donate it after bath, before breakfast. > > At a later stage or whenever possible, wear a clear yellow sapphire. > > Having done it all for a couple of weeks try getting in touch with you > in laws again. You might see some changes, positive ones. > > One more thing, I only have your chart here, all this thus is to allay > your pain. > > While pride is a must, as a matter of fact your pride is your > strength, excess of it can safely be dispensed with, here in your case > as a cost for sustenance of your relationship. > > I believe things would be fine with you. > > Om Namah Shivay > Tat Sat > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2008 Report Share Posted August 6, 2008 Please sir somebody look into my husband chart and analyse it and let me know why he is behaving like this?why he doesnt love his wife ?why he doesnt want to live with his wife?will he come back to me?what i heard is his family is trying to arrange second marriage for him but we have not yet divorced and i am not going to give divorce.i dont know about him.For me, husband and wife relationship is a divine relationship which i am not ready to break at any cost.But everybody is criticising me to be like this.Though i am in modern world and working in a software firm,i am very conservative in my heart and love to read pathiviradha's stories.Is something wrong in me?i dont know his birth time.this is his Rasi chart and navaamsa chart which i got at the time of our marriage.sorry for bothering you all.Both hands should join together to make a clap.i want to know about his future also.nobody is letting me to talk to my husband.No phone calls,no replies for my mails,nothing.i went to his office and returned back without seeing him after my six hours waiting.He insulted me through his office security without having any pity on me.He has disconnected his mobile,office phone and told his operator not to connect any lines to him.i dont know what makes him to behave in this way.My only prayer is i want him to come back and love me.He is not a bad guy.he was loving me before our marriage.did he really love me or wearing masks and am i not enough intelligent to understand him?i am not able to accept that he is a cruel person.He loves everyone in his family and will do anything for them.he is not a selfish person. This is the probelm between us.he loves them very much and ready to throw me away for them.please brothers and sisters,have a kind look into my husband horoscope also. His details: Name:Murugan DOB:April 19,1979 Raasi:Magaram Natchatharam:uthiraadam 3rd quarter My details: DOB:March 9,1982 Time:5.50 PM lagnam:Simmam moon sign:Simmam natchatharam:pooram place of Birth:Dharmapuri/Tamilnadu/India Thanks in advance, Sakthi Murugan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 Dear friend, Pride in good habits and doing good things and taking positive self interest in material as well as spiritual developmenti s always welcome. This shows from lagna/lagna lord, 10th/10th lord strong and influenced by benefics. Weakness and affliction to these factors show energies flowing in wrong and wasteful channel. With best wishes, Yours astrologically, Mrutyunjay , " jyotishlearner " <jyotishlearner wrote: > > Dear Sir, > > I am currently learning astrology and would kindly appreciate if you > could elaborate what combinations show pride in her chart? > > thanks for your time. > > Shakti, I pray your problesm get alleviated. > > regards. > N Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2008 Report Share Posted August 8, 2008 Hare ramakrishna dear sakthi ji I checked ur hubbys chart based on ur given day and nakshtra padas ,so i blv he is nite birth and lagna is sagitarious ,but if the chart is made by tamil vakya panchanga may b i am wrong too as i am using diffrnt panchanga . so his rahu dasa which is placed in 8th frm Moon sign ( his moon sign is more stronger ) dasa is going on and its assosiated with sani too ,so giving a sort maraka effect and afflicting 2nd ( kutumbha ) and 8th ( deergha mangalya stanam ) . in ur case also ezhara sani is going on frm lagna and moon and the dasa is of mars ( who is 4th L of family happiness ) and 9th L ( dharma and bhagya ( ladies this decides marriages too ) also he is afflicting 7th L of marriage sani who is also 6th L of obstacles and disputes and here also both are placed in 2nd House thus afflcting 8th House too .also giving effct of agni marutha yoga in 2nd house of family speach etc . so this is a case of wrong matchting i blv as even moon signs r in shatashtama and dasa also shud b scrutinised for which is coming immdtly after marriage . but some nimittas ( omens ) showing good ,also he has jup in 7th frm moon ,so a ray of hope is there . so pray to Lord shiva and recite mahamrityunjaya mantra min 108 times and pray to siva parvathy and try to do archana on ur janma nakshtra days atleast ,also try to fast on mondays .(uma maheswari vratam ) . all the best to u .Dont worry and leav all tensions to Lord and proceed in ur life . hope this helps feed back expected regrds sunil nair om shreem mahalaxmai namah . , " sakthi " <sakthim wrote: > > Please sir somebody look into my husband chart and analyse it and let me > know why he is behaving like this?why he doesnt love his wife ?why he > doesnt want to live with his wife?will he come back to me?what i heard > is his family is trying to arrange second marriage for him but we have > not yet divorced and i am not going to give divorce.i dont know about > him.For me, husband and wife relationship is a divine relationship which > i am not ready to break at any cost.But everybody is criticising me to > be like this.Though i am in modern world and working in a software > firm,i am very conservative in my heart and love to read pathiviradha's > stories.Is something wrong in me?i dont know his birth time.this is his > Rasi chart and navaamsa chart which i got at the time of our > marriage.sorry for bothering you all.Both hands should join together to > make a clap.i want to know about his future also.nobody is letting me to > talk to my husband.No phone calls,no replies for my mails,nothing.i went > to his office and returned back without seeing him after my six hours > waiting.He insulted me through his office security without having any > pity on me.He has disconnected his mobile,office phone and told his > operator not to connect any lines to him.i dont know what makes him to > behave in this way.My only prayer is i want him to come back and love > me.He is not a bad guy.he was loving me before our marriage.did he > really love me or wearing masks and am i not enough intelligent to > understand him?i am not able to accept that he is a cruel person.He > loves everyone in his family and will do anything for them.he is not a > selfish person. This is the probelm between us.he loves them very much > and ready to throw me away for them.please brothers and sisters,have a > kind look into my husband horoscope also. > > His details: > > Name:Murugan > > DOB:April 19,1979 > Raasi:Magaram > Natchatharam:uthiraadam 3rd quarter > > > > My details: > > DOB:March 9,1982 > Time:5.50 PM > lagnam:Simmam > moon sign:Simmam > natchatharam:pooram > place of Birth:Dharmapuri/Tamilnadu/India > > Thanks in advance, > > Sakthi Murugan > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2008 Report Share Posted August 8, 2008 Dear Shri Sunil Sir, Even I was on the chart and find his venus exalted with debilitated mercury and mars.As he is uttirdam 3rd(3.57deg),taurus will be his 7th with lord in the comapny of mars and mercury. Rasi lord with rahu in simham is a defienete hurdle in the family life.sun in ketu too involves in litigations and difficult temeperment.In saturn dasa influenced by ketu(2nd from moon) makes him unapproachable.Beningn grace of Guru may help after nov2008 vrkrishnan --- On Fri, 8/8/08, sunil nair <astro_tellerkerala wrote: sunil nair <astro_tellerkerala Re: please save me and my marriage life. Friday, August 8, 2008, 12:32 AM Hare ramakrishna dear sakthi ji I checked ur hubbys chart based on ur given day and nakshtra padas ,so i blv he is nite birth and lagna is sagitarious ,but if the chart is made by tamil vakya panchanga may b i am wrong too as i am using diffrnt panchanga . so his rahu dasa which is placed in 8th frm Moon sign ( his moon sign is more stronger ) dasa is going on and its assosiated with sani too ,so giving a sort maraka effect and afflicting 2nd ( kutumbha ) and 8th ( deergha mangalya stanam ) . in ur case also ezhara sani is going on frm lagna and moon and the dasa is of mars ( who is 4th L of family happiness ) and 9th L ( dharma and bhagya ( ladies this decides marriages too ) also he is afflicting 7th L of marriage sani who is also 6th L of obstacles and disputes and here also both are placed in 2nd House thus afflcting 8th House too .also giving effct of agni marutha yoga in 2nd house of family speach etc . so this is a case of wrong matchting i blv as even moon signs r in shatashtama and dasa also shud b scrutinised for which is coming immdtly after marriage . but some nimittas ( omens ) showing good ,also he has jup in 7th frm moon ,so a ray of hope is there . so pray to Lord shiva and recite mahamrityunjaya mantra min 108 times and pray to siva parvathy and try to do archana on ur janma nakshtra days atleast ,also try to fast on mondays .(uma maheswari vratam ) . all the best to u .Dont worry and leav all tensions to Lord and proceed in ur life . hope this helps feed back expected regrds sunil nair om shreem mahalaxmai namah . , " sakthi " <sakthim > wrote: > > Please sir somebody look into my husband chart and analyse it and let me > know why he is behaving like this?why he doesnt love his wife ?why he > doesnt want to live with his wife?will he come back to me?what i heard > is his family is trying to arrange second marriage for him but we have > not yet divorced and i am not going to give divorce.i dont know about > him.For me, husband and wife relationship is a divine relationship which > i am not ready to break at any cost.But everybody is criticising me to > be like this.Though i am in modern world and working in a software > firm,i am very conservative in my heart and love to read pathiviradha' s > stories.Is something wrong in me?i dont know his birth time.this is his > Rasi chart and navaamsa chart which i got at the time of our > marriage.sorry for bothering you all.Both hands should join together to > make a clap.i want to know about his future also.nobody is letting me to > talk to my husband.No phone calls,no replies for my mails,nothing. i went > to his office and returned back without seeing him after my six hours > waiting.He insulted me through his office security without having any > pity on me.He has disconnected his mobile,office phone and told his > operator not to connect any lines to him.i dont know what makes him to > behave in this way.My only prayer is i want him to come back and love > me.He is not a bad guy.he was loving me before our marriage.did he > really love me or wearing masks and am i not enough intelligent to > understand him?i am not able to accept that he is a cruel person.He > loves everyone in his family and will do anything for them.he is not a > selfish person. This is the probelm between us.he loves them very much > and ready to throw me away for them.please brothers and sisters,have a > kind look into my husband horoscope also. > > His details: > > Name:Murugan > > DOB:April 19,1979 > Raasi:Magaram > Natchatharam: uthiraadam 3rd quarter > > > > My details: > > DOB:March 9,1982 > Time:5.50 PM > lagnam:Simmam > moon sign:Simmam > natchatharam: pooram > place of Birth:Dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India > > Thanks in advance, > > Sakthi Murugan > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2008 Report Share Posted August 8, 2008 Hare rama krishna dear Krishnan ji pranam and namaskar yes ,thanks for ur reading and good words ,Let us hope best for her .May lord bless her with all happiness . I realy feel blessed to communicate with such a gr8 scholar like u tru this august forum ,I am happy sir .consider me as ur young brother also i dont hav ur knowledge , exprnce or education in every respect . Pls help nativ s who ever coming here even in ur busy official life . with regrds and respects sunil nair om shreem mahalaxmai namah . , vattem krishnan <bursar_99 wrote: > > Dear Shri Sunil Sir, > Even I was on the chart and find his venus exalted with debilitated mercury and mars.As he is uttirdam 3rd(3.57deg),taurus will be his 7th with lord in the comapny of mars and mercury. > Rasi lord with rahu in simham is a defienete hurdle in the family life.sun in ketu too involves in litigations and difficult temeperment.In saturn dasa influenced by ketu(2nd from moon) makes him unapproachable.Beningn grace of Guru may help after nov2008 > vrkrishnan > > --- On Fri, 8/8/08, sunil nair astro_tellerkerala wrote: > > sunil nair astro_tellerkerala > Re: please save me and my marriage life. > > Friday, August 8, 2008, 12:32 AM > > Hare ramakrishna > > dear sakthi ji > > I checked ur hubbys chart based on ur given day and nakshtra padas ,so > i blv he is nite birth and lagna is sagitarious ,but if the chart is > made by tamil vakya panchanga may b i am wrong too as i am using diffrnt > panchanga . > > so his rahu dasa which is placed in 8th frm Moon sign ( his moon sign is > more stronger ) dasa is going on and its assosiated with sani too ,so > giving a sort maraka effect and afflicting 2nd ( kutumbha ) and 8th ( > deergha mangalya stanam ) . > > in ur case also ezhara sani is going on frm lagna and moon and the dasa > is of mars ( who is 4th L of family happiness ) and 9th L ( dharma and > bhagya ( ladies this decides marriages too ) > > also he is afflicting 7th L of marriage sani who is also 6th L of > obstacles and disputes and here also both are placed in 2nd House thus > afflcting 8th House too .also giving effct of agni marutha yoga in 2nd > house of family speach etc . > > so this is a case of wrong matchting i blv as even moon signs r in > shatashtama and dasa also shud b scrutinised for which is coming immdtly > after marriage . > > but some nimittas ( omens ) showing good ,also he has jup in 7th frm > moon ,so a ray of hope is there . > > so pray to Lord shiva and recite mahamrityunjaya mantra min 108 times > and pray to siva parvathy and try to do archana on ur janma nakshtra > days atleast ,also try to fast on mondays .(uma maheswari vratam ) . > > all the best to u .Dont worry and leav all tensions to Lord and proceed > in ur life . > > hope this helps > > feed back expected > > regrds sunil nair > > om shreem mahalaxmai namah . > > , " sakthi " sakthim@ > wrote: > > > > Please sir somebody look into my husband chart and analyse it and let > me > > know why he is behaving like this?why he doesnt love his wife ?why he > > doesnt want to live with his wife?will he come back to me?what i heard > > is his family is trying to arrange second marriage for him but we have > > not yet divorced and i am not going to give divorce.i dont know about > > him.For me, husband and wife relationship is a divine relationship > which > > i am not ready to break at any cost.But everybody is criticising me to > > be like this.Though i am in modern world and working in a software > > firm,i am very conservative in my heart and love to read > pathiviradha' s > > stories.Is something wrong in me?i dont know his birth time.this is > his > > Rasi chart and navaamsa chart which i got at the time of our > > marriage.sorry for bothering you all.Both hands should join together > to > > make a clap.i want to know about his future also.nobody is letting me > to > > talk to my husband.No phone calls,no replies for my mails,nothing. i > went > > to his office and returned back without seeing him after my six hours > > waiting.He insulted me through his office security without having any > > pity on me.He has disconnected his mobile,office phone and told his > > operator not to connect any lines to him.i dont know what makes him to > > behave in this way.My only prayer is i want him to come back and love > > me.He is not a bad guy.he was loving me before our marriage.did he > > really love me or wearing masks and am i not enough intelligent to > > understand him?i am not able to accept that he is a cruel person.He > > loves everyone in his family and will do anything for them.he is not a > > selfish person. This is the probelm between us.he loves them very much > > and ready to throw me away for them.please brothers and sisters,have a > > kind look into my husband horoscope also. > > > > His details: > > > > Name:Murugan > > > > DOB:April 19,1979 > > Raasi:Magaram > > Natchatharam: uthiraadam 3rd quarter > > > > > > > > My details: > > > > DOB:March 9,1982 > > Time:5.50 PM > > lagnam:Simmam > > moon sign:Simmam > > natchatharam: pooram > > place of Birth:Dharmapuri/ Tamilnadu/ India > > > > Thanks in advance, > > > > Sakthi Murugan > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2008 Report Share Posted August 11, 2008 Sakhti Beta, You shall have to post a few more details here before analysis of any credence could be made for your husband. The info your provided gets me close but not quite there. I advise you to look into his chart, and see if you can find what Lagna is indicated there, some info from Navamamsha chart would be of immense help, if nothing, the Navamamsha rising. Beta, the problems your have mentioned here are grave, but as it seems rememedies, as I suggested earlier should help your cause. Also as this year ends especially after September, you should see some silver linings to these clouds. God is great, and human effort and dedication never goes wasted. Take care of yourself. Om Namah Shivay Tat Sat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2008 Report Share Posted August 11, 2008 Dear Bhesmji, I am under depression.Lots of good people are in this world who treats me as their daughter and wants to help me really.but Why God has tied my relationship to such a bad family.it might be coz of the paabam what i did in last jenma.pithaji,i am crying while i am writing this.I had enough sufferings.If God still decides to make me to suffer more ,i dont have stamina to withstand it.why i got married and why i got seperated within a month?i dont have answers.i am giving true values to our culture.i dont have even second thought to go for another marraige.but people who want to go in dharma path is the one who is facing sufferings in the kaliyug.I get only negative signs.If i put manjal in my mangalasuthra by praying to god by making us to reunite,air blows out the kamatchi lamp.if i talk to my parents about our reunion,power gets disonnected.if God doesnt want me to have marriage life why did let me to get married?even in my fifth place i have kethu which is supposed to be for child birth.I am surrounded by doshas.i am good for nothing..i have been travelling to almost all temples in TN.God wants me to come and see him.He is giving me such bhakiyam but he doesnt want me to have marriage life it seems.i went to Rameshwaram,palani,thirupathi,thirunallaru(saturn) everywhere.God has given me such lovely parents who is ready to take me to all temples.After coming to India,i plan to travel to kaasi.But still all these doesnt reduce my paaba bag weight.wherever i go,i will light lamp in that temple.i dont knwo when god will do favour for me?I was a very true devotee to Lord Muruga and he kept me happy.He will do whatever i wish.I wanted to marry my husband because of his name.his name is Murugan.but i started forgetting him after this saturn period started.I am not able to pray him now.if he simply let the poisonous people to win how they plan whats the use of praying him?He cheated me.He knows very well about me.I have cooked up my hubby's chart .Here's the right chart. Thanks, Sakthi Bheshm <bheshmaksh Monday, August 11, 2008 8:05:15 AM Re: please save me and my marriage life. Sakhti Beta, You shall have to post a few more details here before analysis of any credence could be made for your husband. The info your provided gets me close but not quite there. I advise you to look into his chart, and see if you can find what Lagna is indicated there, some info from Navamamsha chart would be of immense help, if nothing, the Navamamsha rising. Beta, the problems your have mentioned here are grave, but as it seems rememedies, as I suggested earlier should help your cause. Also as this year ends especially after September, you should see some silver linings to these clouds. God is great, and human effort and dedication never goes wasted. Take care of yourself. Om Namah Shivay Tat Sat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2008 Report Share Posted August 12, 2008 Sakhti Beta You seem to have His guidance already. Our sanchit karmas of past lives have to balanced out in one way or the other. There is no escaping them. You escape them here, they'll catch in the next one. I recommend people to see their troubles as opportunities. That you have troubles indicates deficits that you are carrying forward in this life. Things you had to do, but you didnt do in past lives. Our karma however is free from all this. Everyone's lifetime is made of the two things only, your soul and your moment. Your soul always knows whats the right thing to do and your moment, defined by one breadth, is all yours. Everyone's free, absolutely free to make use of the moment to do the right thing. Keep doing it and this frees your from the wories of results, as you are already making the best use of things in your capacity, the results, then, can safely be left for Him to look after. Your chart indicates your husband himself is not having a great time right now. Your husband as seen from your chart seems to be a good person though. Whatever charities you would do right now would help you two see this bad thru. This time however is not good and would stay this way, its only your deeds with which you would get the blessings of people, creatures and Gods, that will help you, your husband and your equation with him. Do the charities that I suggested you, whichever of them are possible, do Surya Argha and other things I suggested you. Wear a clear Yellow Saphire. You talked of bad omens when you worship, I advise you to chant Dasharath Stotram and Mahamtrityunjay Mantra every morning and ask your mother to do those homely remedies for casting out evil eye. With my lord's blessings and your efforts, your time would start getting better within three weeks itself, take my word for it. Om Namah Shivay Tat Sat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2008 Report Share Posted August 16, 2008 Dear sir, Thanks a lot for your help.Now I have gained confidence in life.what happened is happened.i cannot go back and change it.I should ask the almighty to keep me happy atleast in future with my husband.So I am going to entrust everything to god.But i have few questions.It will be really great if you answer me. 1. I have got lots of suggestions for wearing gemstones.Since i have mars in 2nd place i am told to wear red coral.similarly i am told to wear cat's eyes.sir i am confused now.Which one should i wear red coral or cat's eyes or yellow sapphire or ruby since my raasi lord is sun. 2.I am asked to recite Gayathri Mandra to strengthen my sun.Can women recite Gayathri Mantra?I hope Mantras will have negative impacts if it doesnt be chant properly.What is the procedure of chanting Gayathri Mantra? How many times per day? hope not disturbing you.I am seeking elder's blessings and great soul's advice.I believe our thoughts decide our life.Before our marriage we both threatened each other to stop the marriage though neither of us is having 1% willing to do.similarly after our third day of our marriage i threatened him like " i cannot bear your family pressures. we both are not suitable to each other.we will get seperated " .I read and believe " dhadasthu " angels.it happened.i used the words just to threaten him so that his family will stop their tortures.but they seperated us permenantely.thats why we are supposed to speak sweet words.Even words are having power.i realise it very well now.I am going to believe in god again and seek elder's blessings.Hope all the efforts will bring our reunion. Thanks, Sakthi Bheshm <bheshmaksh Tuesday, August 12, 2008 3:01:08 AM Re: please save me and my marriage life. Sakhti Beta You seem to have His guidance already. Our sanchit karmas of past lives have to balanced out in one way or the other. There is no escaping them. You escape them here, they'll catch in the next one. I recommend people to see their troubles as opportunities. That you have troubles indicates deficits that you are carrying forward in this life. Things you had to do, but you didnt do in past lives. Our karma however is free from all this. Everyone's lifetime is made of the two things only, your soul and your moment. Your soul always knows whats the right thing to do and your moment, defined by one breadth, is all yours. Everyone's free, absolutely free to make use of the moment to do the right thing. Keep doing it and this frees your from the wories of results, as you are already making the best use of things in your capacity, the results, then, can safely be left for Him to look after. Your chart indicates your husband himself is not having a great time right now. Your husband as seen from your chart seems to be a good person though. Whatever charities you would do right now would help you two see this bad thru. This time however is not good and would stay this way, its only your deeds with which you would get the blessings of people, creatures and Gods, that will help you, your husband and your equation with him. Do the charities that I suggested you, whichever of them are possible, do Surya Argha and other things I suggested you. Wear a clear Yellow Saphire. You talked of bad omens when you worship, I advise you to chant Dasharath Stotram and Mahamtrityunjay Mantra every morning and ask your mother to do those homely remedies for casting out evil eye. With my lord's blessings and your efforts, your time would start getting better within three weeks itself, take my word for it. Om Namah Shivay Tat Sat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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