Guest guest Posted July 18, 2008 Report Share Posted July 18, 2008 Respected Sir, I am a new member in this group .I need all your inputs and advise for me because i am going through a very bad phase in my life in all ways. In Personal life,I am engaged to a guy and we like and respect each other very much and so decided to get married next year. Now when our horoscopes r matched..his parents said that its a bad match and he(Boy) will suffer the most if we get married. After this,I am shattered and though its INCOMPATIBILE astrologically ,but we feel that we are compatible in understanding each other's thoughts, mind, souls. Plus, in addition to it,from last few months...both me and him are also having a very bad time in other ways and also he is down financially.My marriage is only after i complete my graduation fully next yr...but sad part is I couldnt clear fully all the papers in the exams this year.This has md me down that all the worst things are happening with me now. Following are the birth details: ******************************* Boy: 18-sep-1979, 05:35 PM, Hatikira( Nearest Town- KARIMGANJ,ASSAM) Girl: 06-mARCH-1985, 07:15 pm, SHILLONG--MEGHALAYA ****************************************************** So need your advise and would be very much grateful.When will our condition improve and my exams clear off fully? I have heard that horoscope matching is not required in love marriages. So, if we go for Love marriage , will it be successful and happy or any remedies if its bad? Please correct me if i am wrong.It really feels a lot when we r told that....we would be bad for the person..we like. I ask God Sometimes ---that if we human beings like each other as our life partners ,then why does life mk such situations that we would be bad for each other.I feel if it is to be bad,then its better that GOD doesnt mk us meet people for whom u r going to be bad later on.This is just one of my thoughts and view. Best Regards and Thanks S.Choudhury Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2008 Report Share Posted July 19, 2008 Heelo friend, This is sheer misconception and God never interferes.we only view God from our personl views. If you want to come up and work hard God will not prevent from your succeeding ..Like wise you want to be good life apartner and like each other why regret.Old beliefs and faiths need respect as they indicate problems and the guidance to overcome.Certainly not otherway.I know well whose horoscopes matched perfectly and score well seperated from one another.Also with low score in matching are good life partner enjoying life.Inyour case Iam sure if at all you decide to marry: Be ready_ to weather financial problems.satbility in occupation of your friens is not much in case if at all he gets attarcted to easy ways of overcoming life problems by way of some booze or some drugs,help him to boost his confidence in future. Jupiter certainly helps you to protect your relationship and over come problems in life. Even your studies too will improve,set backs/failures are due to your getting deviated to other isssues than important issue of your studles vrkishnan --- On Fri, 7/18/08, shona.choudhury <shona.choudhury wrote: shona.choudhury <shona.choudhury Please have a look at my queries --very important Friday, July 18, 2008, 4:01 PM Respected Sir, I am a new member in this group .I need all your inputs and advise for me because i am going through a very bad phase in my life in all ways. In Personal life,I am engaged to a guy and we like and respect each other very much and so decided to get married next year. Now when our horoscopes r matched..his parents said that its a bad match and he(Boy) will suffer the most if we get married. After this,I am shattered and though its INCOMPATIBILE astrologically ,but we feel that we are compatible in understanding each other's thoughts, mind, souls. Plus, in addition to it,from last few months...both me and him are also having a very bad time in other ways and also he is down financially. My marriage is only after i complete my graduation fully next yr...but sad part is I couldnt clear fully all the papers in the exams this year.This has md me down that all the worst things are happening with me now. Following are the birth details: ************ ********* ********* * Boy: 18-sep-1979, 05:35 PM, Hatikira( Nearest Town- KARIMGANJ,ASSAM) Girl: 06-mARCH-1985, 07:15 pm, SHILLONG--MEGHALAYA ************ ********* ********* ********* ********* ****** So need your advise and would be very much grateful.When will our condition improve and my exams clear off fully? I have heard that horoscope matching is not required in love marriages. So, if we go for Love marriage , will it be successful and happy or any remedies if its bad? Please correct me if i am wrong.It really feels a lot when we r told that....we would be bad for the person..we like. I ask God Sometimes ---that if we human beings like each other as our life partners ,then why does life mk such situations that we would be bad for each other.I feel if it is to be bad,then its better that GOD doesnt mk us meet people for whom u r going to be bad later on.This is just one of my thoughts and view. Best Regards and Thanks S.Choudhury Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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