Guest guest Posted July 13, 2008 Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 Vora, this is a depressing moment for any moderator to pass this message, but it has to be dealt with as quite a few lives r involved in this We can't sit on judgment on u, but sure every action has its reaction and here when u called it extra marital affair [EMA] what about ur wife, parents r they aware, happy on ur achievements here Pl provide her data and [of ur parents for academic interest if possible ur children ur EMA'S official husband orsponseror what is her and his means of livelihood and urs. Will answwer it after I hear from u But strictly speaking what wud u do if somone else posted this about ur wife or daughter has the same deilma , I hope u will remain as large hearted even then to them too. reminder to be useful to ur question we need ur wifes data,m the EMA, women her husband TOO. dates when u were married., children if any pur case] Best wishes Prashant kumar bhachu_103 <vora_arvind Saturday, July 12, 2008 2:34:59 PM Difficult situation Dear Sir, I had been in extra marital affair with one girl for past 7 years Recently she got married to other person with our concern. she wanted to continue with me after her marriage also. The marriage has been done to have her name of the husbund and to please her parents.and I was unable to marry her. Now also during her honeymoon time she is talking to me and she still confirms that she want to be with me and she is mine only. She continuesly compares and thinks about me that if I would have been ther I would have done like this and so on. She says he is totaly not under her liking as he is too unromantic man. she still want to be with me only. You are kindly requested to please let me have guidance on the same as to how should I behave and what should be my action . As I also dn't like if she does no talk to me atleast once in a day. I get disturbed. I have been constantly asking her to go away from me during 5 to 6 years as she wanted to get me fully and which was not possible. I only prepared her to come out of my shadow and go for marriage. This has been done with great difficulites and lot of problems in my house created by her band in her house I informed to take care of her so that she does not come after me but it did not work and they could not control her and she did not left me through out this period. Now when she got engaged I told her that you ahve got some one so you leave me and try your 100 % with him and if any problem is there don't worry I will take care thinking that she will try her best with new man and get settled. But she started crying and urged me not to leave her as she needs me for ever throught her life. And suddenly I got in to a new twist of my life and I accepted her fully and we started meeting every day. Now the situation is that neither of us are able to leave each other but at the same time there is new enterent in her life which is also to be taken in consideration. Please tell me what is better for me from the astro angle. MY DOB 17.11.1956 TOB 21.14 HRS PLACE MUMBAI. Regards. Arvind Vora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2008 Report Share Posted July 15, 2008 Dear Sir, Have u received my reply to this mail? Please acknowledge the receipt of mail and if possible please reply. Thanking you. Arvind , Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar wrote: > > Vora, > > this is a depressing moment for any moderator to pass this message, but it has to be dealt with as quite a few lives r involved in this > > We can't sit on judgment on u, but sure every action has its reaction and here when u called it extra marital affair [EMA] > > what about ur wife, parents r they aware, happy on ur achievements here > > Pl provide her data and [of ur parents for academic interest if possible > ur children > > ur EMA'S official husband orsponseror what is her and his means of livelihood and urs. > > Will answwer it after I hear from u > > But strictly speaking what wud u do if somone else posted this about ur wife or daughter has the same deilma , I hope u will remain as large hearted even then to them too. > > reminder > > to be useful to ur question we need > > ur wifes data,m the EMA, women her husband TOO. > dates when u were married., children if any pur case] > > Best wishes > > Prashant kumar > > > > > bhachu_103 <vora_arvind > > Saturday, July 12, 2008 2:34:59 PM > Difficult situation > > > Dear Sir, > > I had been in extra marital affair with one girl for past 7 years > > Recently she got married to other person with our concern. > > she wanted to continue with me after her marriage also. The marriage > has been done to have her name of the husbund and to please her > parents.and I was unable to marry her. > > Now also during her honeymoon time she is talking to me and she still > confirms that she want to be with me and she is mine only. > > She continuesly compares and thinks about me that if I would have been > ther I would have done like this and so on. > > She says he is totaly not under her liking as he is too unromantic man. > > she still want to be with me only. > > You are kindly requested to please let me have guidance on the same as > to how should I behave and what should be my action . As I also dn't > like if she does no talk to me atleast once in a day. I get disturbed. > > I have been constantly asking her to go away from me during 5 to 6 > years as she wanted to get me fully and which was not possible. > > I only prepared her to come out of my shadow and go for marriage. This > has been done with great difficulites and lot of problems in my house > created by her band in her house I informed to take care of her so > that she does not come after me but it did not work and they could not > control her and she did not left me through out this period. > > Now when she got engaged I told her that you ahve got some one so you > leave me and try your 100 % with him and if any problem is there don't > worry I will take care thinking that she will try her best with new > man and get settled. But she started crying and urged me not to leave > her as she needs me for ever throught her life. > > And suddenly I got in to a new twist of my life and I accepted her > fully and we started meeting every day. Now the situation is that > neither of us are able to leave each other but at the same time there > is new enterent in her life which is also to be taken in consideration. > > Please tell me what is better for me from the astro angle. > > MY DOB 17.11.1956 > TOB 21.14 HRS > PLACE MUMBAI. > > Regards. > > Arvind Vora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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