Need All of yours valuable advise-Please Help-Urgent

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Respected All,

 

 

First of all, i really appreciate all of you for the valuable inputs that you

have provided in the past.

Our earnest Thanks and regards for this help.

Now also,We need your valuable advise again regarding things which are happening

in

our personal and professional life.

 

I work as a Software Engineer from last 4 years in the same company

where i first joined.

SINCE last 6 months,things are just going from bad to worse.

 

***FINANCIALLY ITS MORE WORSE NOW BECAUSE I HAVE LOST ALL MY earnings.

I JUST CANT CONTROL MY EXPENSES AT ALL NOW BECAUSE OF SO MANY PROBLEMS AND

UNEXPECTED expenses COME UP OFTEN.

ALSO,I AM IN GREAT DEBT FROM ALL SIDES...BANK LOAN,BORROWED MONEY FROM

COLLEAGUES,ETC.

 

ALSO,the saddest part is my Manager had assured me about a year

ago(Feb-March'-2007) with 100% surety that I would be going for a 6 months work

assignment abroad either by the end of 2007 or max by January 08.

 

But my luck is so bad that even after getting things ready,--One day later on, i

am informed that I would not be going for this assignment and thats it.

In this bad time,this was another shot towards me.

 

All these issues are just happening one after the other and i feel like i am a

looser and wont get anything even though

i always give the best in my work of what i do,but still all problems.

 

I feel really very very sad and just think THAT why am i still going through

such a crunch period?

will i not be able to live a somewhat settled life at least

financially. But i don't have any answers for me ,its just silence and

sadness.

 

WHENEVER I THINK OF RETURNING THE AMOUNT OF MONEY I BORROWED,I FEEL LIKE SO LOW

THAT WHY AM I IN SUCH A TERRIBLE CONDITION now. These money issues were never so

bad till now in my life.

Also recently MANY unexpected work related issues

come up often,and as a result i am in great problem solving them.

 

SO NEED YOUR ADVISE THAT IS MY PRESENT TIME VERY BAD and how will my

career life be and financial condition will improve or not ?I wanted to shift

my job put not getting good options also.YOUR ADVISE IS VERY MUCH

VALUABLE FOR US,IF YOU ALL COULD TAKE OUT SOMETIME to give your inputs

please.

 

And in personal life,i am engaged to a girl who is presently giving

her 2nd Year B.Science exams and we

have planned to get married by ALMIGHTY GOD and all your blessings --

next year-2009.Even things are not going any good with her.Recently,Her health

is not well and suffering, for which she wasnt able to study.

and hence the exams dint go well.

Everything about our future plans of marriage is only AFTER she

completes her graduation Studies by March-April-2009.

 

Thats why we are really very sad,tensed and worried that the time

isn't going good,nor to say ok,with us.Specially she is very worried

about how will her exams go since she wasn't well,so no preparation?

 

Even regarding our marriage fix,we were facing problems from our

Family side .As these marriage problems were getting

little lesser,but after that..all the other problems in the above

paragraphs have started in our life.

 

So NEED ALL YOUR ADVISE THAT when will my Professional life and financial

condition improve a little at least?

Also we want to humbly request you all to PLEASE GIVE any INPUTS on the

personal marriage life for both of us?

 

 

We would always be very grateful to you all for your advise and

suggestions

 

Thanks and Have a great day

--rohit

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Personal Details

 

Gender Male

Birth Date 18 September, 1979

Birth Time 17:35

Birth Place HATIKIRA(Nearest Town--KARIMGANJ (STATE-ASSAM))

 

Gender Female

Birth Date 06 March, 1985

Birth Time 19:15

Birth Place SHILLONG,MEGHALAYA

 

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