daughters life?please help!to bhaskarji

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Dear Dharmic ji,

 

I have already given you a

positive reply in Message 45962.

I Cannot make any changes in the

same and nor add anything new there.

 

I can understand what the girl

must be feeling after every rejection,

because I am dealing with such

parents day in and out, whose

daughters are not getting married at

the right age.

 

But i assure you, that marriage is

there for her, and a happy one. You must just

keep some patience and continue with your

efforts. If You read my above message

properly I have also mentioned some period

before which you must not try to get Your

daughter married.

 

And those who reject your daughter, are

not the right ones to think about or talk

about. Why do you let your daughter know about

such rejections ? It is not that they first

come to interview her and then reject her,

because you are already saying that they are

saying no because of her broken engagement.

Surely they say No in the first instance

itself, which cannot be termed as rejections,

in the way you say.

 

When a proposed suitor knows of the

broken engagement and yet says yes and

meets the girl, and then rejects her,

you may call this as rejection, and not

any other No as rejection.

 

Ask your daughter to understand that marriage is

not the be all and the end all of this world.

And there is nothing so great in marriage that

if one is delayed that one should contemplate of dying.

This is utter foolishness and lack of maturity,

which reflects your upbringing too. Make your

daughter strong and worthy.let her know that those who

are not married may be suffering, but even those who

are married, are all not happy.

 

Let her be busy in some hobbies, persuits or

professional engagements.

 

And wait for proper time to come shortly.

Approach through the websites Shaadi.com etc.

And wait for the responses.

 

regards,

Bhaskar.

www.shrikrishnajyotish.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

, Dia Ddd <dharmic13

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> sadar pranam bhaskarji! thanks very much for your reply!

> i have approached many proposals but all say no no and only no

because she had a broken engagement!

> my daughter is totally depressed and vexed and saysbshe wants

to die!

> will some thing nice come her way ?

> if yes when?

> she is tired of facing rejections!

> waiting for your kind relpy!

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