Kaalsarpa Yoga, Grahi Maitri

[Guest guest]

Thank you for such a wonderful and enlightening group. I have

afflictions in decision making power (sun) communication/ love

(mercury) and in success/promotion (saturn). I am manglik in the

12th house with a 4 planet cluster there in 12th house. Sun is in

11th house. I am currently working through upayas and shani sadesati

lifts for me Dec 7th. My jaan is 8,000 miles from me in Bombay and

he also lacks decision making power and has Kaalsarpa yoga and is

Manglik in the 7th house with hot temper and sad countenance.

Worldly success eludes him, it comes in fits and starts and he toils

away much more than most would have to and he suffers a great

frustration. I suffer from Grahi Maitri as our score is 0.5 out of

5. Our ashtkoot was at 26 and 27 respectively from 2 jyotishis and I

am 37 and he is 43. Was told July 10 to August 25th would be

auspicious for us to marry. Our afflictions are in the dusthana

houses that do not improve wth time though. Nonetheless I love the

man. Many other aspects of our chart are very harmonious, the ones

that do not get points in the ashtkoot system... He is very

skeptical of the pujas at the Temples and does not seem willing to

ask local jyotishi for remedies for himself. He has seen many

hypocrites pay pandits for such help. I told him to do the upayas

himself as they carry more power. I do my own upayas. I know he

needs kaalsarpuja and we need navagraha puja and I need something

else (the name eludes me) for the Grahi Maitri problem. I am a

longtime yogini and studying these things for 9 years on my own,

though jyotish is recent addition to meditation, philosophy,

sanskrit, and yoga studies. I am american by birth, but hindu by

every other means of measure. I try to avoid non-veg, my man is

total veg. Little to no alcohol for either one, no tobacco. Worldly

things are keeping us apart (he is in project work that comes in fits

and starts, I am in the final part of bachelor's degree, recently

divorced with 3 kids). This is a complex email! Sorry. So, I am

wondering what upayas there are I can undertake on his behalf?

Already I have 3 malas per day with 2 lakh needed according to

kaliyuga. I double up when I can and try never to miss a day. I

think his decision making power is really hurting us, but this also

strikes me as interfering with free will. I recently had a mala

blessed for him and will send it. It is jade with aventurine for

heart chakra and peace and success in career and self-image and long

life.

 

Can I share my mantra with him for the sun affliction on the decision

making power? It invokes aaditya, but I will not print it here as it

was given by pandit, rahasya. I would never lead someone astray. I

was going to give him Mrityunjaya but thought something more specific

might be good. I do not think he has the wherewithal to do more than

one mala per day. I do Hanuman Chalisa Tuesdays and Saturdays as

well and fast every Monday (Vrata for Shiva - I'm a yogini). Also

undertake Durga Navaratri fast for 9 days every year. Not even any

moriya rice of potatoes this year. Just yogurt, juice, tea, milk,

fruit. Other fasts as the need and opportunity arise.

 

So this complex question may help many others, including the

gentleman who asked about Kaalsarpa yoga. My love's is the Ketu in

2nd house and Rahu in 8th. His moon is ascendant so it is true

kaalsarpa karkotak, and he is Cancer with Scorpio moon. Anuradha.

Temper only assuaged if he really loves me. I am Taurus (Aries cusp)

with Libra moon and Gemini rising. Hasta.

 

If you just need birthdata and this is not sufficient I will check

mail frequently and get back. I would like to send privately to you

and not on the board if you don't mind. Thank you so much. Vedic

jyotish is so powerful and complex. I really trust in it because it

has shown so many truths to me.

 

Janet B.