Marital Conflicts; Will it be Divorce.....Mr.Tatvamasi

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-- In , Tatvamasi <om_tatsat_om

wrote:

>

> I am still waiting for your reply to my posting about your problem

> Tatvam-Asi

>

> Shripal Doshi <shripal.smart wrote:

> To add some more points.

>

> Sepration with my Wife came out to be more and more positive in

terms

> of spiritualism.Now I can devote more time at Temple in

morning,read

> my Jain Shastras,no bothering or tesion about regular visit to in

> laws house, which I hate most.Just be with yourself and like to be

> philosopher.

>

> Just my Parents are little tense about my future and asking me why

> don't i talk to her blah blah.I like peace and currently am at

> peace.Only when Moon conjucts my Birth SAturn that day is Sad day

for

> me as all past good things that I did to her and still she and her

> parents did these to me,itches me a bit.But I never mind that and I

> believe in moving on.

>

> , " Shripal Doshi "

> <shripal.smart@> wrote:

> >

> > Jai Jinendra,

> >

> > Thanks for Analysis.My MArriage Date is 16th May 2006.12.48 PM

> > Afternoon,Mumbai.

> > Your assumption about I am Libra rising is correct,that is what I

> > tried to convince my parents and parents going to other

astrologer.

> > But they don't belive.

> >

> > I don't from where they found in Libra rising my Marriage Life

very

> > good.As per my analysis too,which matches with yours. 8th Lord in

> 7th

> > and 7th Lord in 11th with Malefics are main curse to my marrriage

> or

> > even looks like i will have many more relationships in my Life,

> which

> > I am trying hard not to get involved with anyone and move towards

> > more spiritual Life.But I guess I don't know I will be able to do

> or

> > not.

> >

> > I wake early 5.15 in morning.Go to Temple, which takes 1 hour and

> 45

> > mins in Temple.Then I come home and have my breakfast and go to

> > office.That's routine of my Life.Since 5months I am getting up so

> > early.Previously since so many years I use to get up at 6.15 AM.

> >

> > So what do you think about future relationship, will it be

divorce

> or

> > will have same girl back,as she told me she is never going to get

> > married again and she is ready to come only if i stay in other

> house

> > and not with PArents, 8th Lord in 7th, causing such a situation

for

> > me.I told her no, and haven't talked to her for last 5 months.She

> > also didn't call.Only once came on 15th July at Temple in

morming,

> as

> > she know my Temple Timings.There again her parents,Maasi and

Mama,

> > blah blah and very over sensitive.I told her and explained her,

> they

> > are boosting your ego, think about yourself and your life, they

are

> > living there.Think sensibily, may be she didn't get that time.

> >

> > She has very hard time now and going ahead for next 2 years.As

> satrun

> > has come to her 7th House and she needs to learn relationship.May

> be

> > she will loose everything and all will left is crying.Her elder

> > sister is not yet go married.Her sister is 1979 born.Very

strange.I

> > care for her in sense if she doesn't want to get married again,

> what

> > she will do whole Life.Just sitting idle at home and gossiping

> cannlt

> > go whole life.That's what she,her elder sister and brother does

all

> > the time.Totally wating time.

> >

> > , " Anup. M " <dalh_1@>

wrote:

> > >

> > > Shripal,

> > >

> > > Can we know date of your marriage.

> > > As you wrote you are not sure abt your TOB,considering

> > > libra lagna reflects the problems in your married life.

> > >

> > > Jupitor is in 11th house,shows the quality of marrriage is

> > > spoiled to some extent as lord of 12th from 7th is in

> > > phalitsthan.Karka of 7th house is also in 11th house

> > > with jupitor,so karka is also spoiled.

> > >

> > > In Drekana, navamsa,Trimsama,it seems you also

> > > were involved in luxurious/enjoyable things besides

> > > putting yourself in disappointment state altogether.

> > > You try to mould the things the way you want desperately

> > > leasing ypu to that state.

> > >

> > > See also 5th and 7th lord relation wih each other.

> > > What does they reflect?

> > >

> > > Venus lost its power in 12th house supporting malefics

> > > and giving them space for effecting your married life badly.

> > >

> > > Jupitor being malefic,aspects 7th house besides 3rd house.

> > > So during jupitor antra,you may suffer separation accordingly

> > > during its aspect on respective house's results.

> > >

> > > Your married life perhaps started giving problems after

> > > Oct2004 onwards.Now this problem is worst after Aug2007

> > > or left you possibly for her parents.

> > >

> > > All the best

> > >

> > > Anup

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Jai Jinendra All,

> > >

> > > After a long time I am writing.Very busy in professional Life.

> > > I have been monitoring Planets Transit.From MAY onwards my Wife

> has

> > > went to her Father's House.She demands for new House and

doesn't

> > want

> > > to live with my parents.And because of this since so many

months

> > till

> > > now she has been making just excuses.Even I ahven't called her

or

> > > talked to her.I have clearly told her demands will not be

> > > fulfilled.If She want's to live with me; then Live or else give

> me

> > > divorce.

> > >

> > > There is no REply yet.She has started some studies.That's again

> > just

> > > lame excuse.Now I doesn't feel her for asking to stay with me,

> > > neither feels like to spend rest of my life with her.Such a ego

> of

> > > her, money that her father has and relatives.I decided she

needs

> to

> > > Learn lesson in Life.I will move on.I will accept her only if

she

> > > comes back committed and of-course I don't fall in love to

> someone

> > > else.

> > >

> > > Seeing current Transit,Venus and Jupiter, I thought issue will

> get

> > > resolved.But Looks Like SAturns effcet is much more powerful

then

> > > this, so she is not able cope up with this.Even I know she

want's

> > to

> > > come, it her home,mother,sister,relatives and brother who are

> > > boosting her ego and avoiding her from coming.She has no sense

> she

> > > might loose everything.

> > >

> > > And she will end in crying,as she always been crying and over

> > > sensitive for everything.I just have soft corner for her, as I

> > don't

> > > want to destroy her life.As she says she Loves me and she is

> never

> > > going to marry again.I don't know to believe that or not.She

just

> > > can't break the boundaries of her Father's house.Let us see

what

> > > happens in coming months.Can you predict something for me.

> > >

> > > I haven't communicated wih her for months.Doesn't feel like,

may

> be

> > > principles or ego or ethics of myself which doesn't allow me

> acept

> > > any unethical demands or agreement.Feels like what the hell, I

> will

> > > move on.

> > >

> > > my Birth Details:

> > > Name:Shripal

> > > Place:Rajkot,Gujarat,India

> > > 70 E 47 and 22 N 18

> > > Time:21:00 hrs or 20:00 (I don't know)

> > > DAte: 16th March 1980

> > >

> > > Her,my Wife Birth Details:

> > > Name:Shailee

> > > Place:Ahamdabad,India

> > > 72 E 37 and 23 N 02

> > > Time:.1.30 AM

> > > Date:3rd June 1983.

> > >

> > > I will be waiting fo your Reply.Am I going to move on and get

> > divorce

> > > or she is going to break her Ego and come back abd stay with me

> > > committed and not run away to her mother's house for

> little,little

> > > things crying.

> > >

> > > Just to mentioned aleast from my point of view,I have a great

> > > relationship with her, Loved her a Lot, we have went to various

> > > places for outin and eah of Saurdays and Sundays we always went

> for

> > > Movies and Diner.It is going to be hard time for her to forget

me.

> > > All my relationship, no one has eve forgetted.Herself and her

> > > relatives knows well time we have, they never had.We have great

> > > Romance and Love life,may be short lived, becuase of her Mother

> and

> > > Relatives and of-course my Mother, as comflicts are b/w these

> > > people.I have gone into Peace mode nad moving on.

> > >

> > > Let me know what do you think about my Relationship.

> > >

> > > --- End forwarded message ---

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Shripal Doshi <shripal.smart wrote:

I guess I have replied that.Check mail please....

 

-- In , Tatvamasi <om_tatsat_om

wrote:

>

> I am still waiting for your reply to my posting about your problem

> Tatvam-Asi

>

> Shripal Doshi <shripal.smart wrote:

> To add some more points.

>

> Sepration with my Wife came out to be more and more positive in

terms

> of spiritualism.Now I can devote more time at Temple in

morning,read

> my Jain Shastras,no bothering or tesion about regular visit to in

> laws house, which I hate most.Just be with yourself and like to be

> philosopher.

>

> Just my Parents are little tense about my future and asking me why

> don't i talk to her blah blah.I like peace and currently am at

> peace.Only when Moon conjucts my Birth SAturn that day is Sad day

for

> me as all past good things that I did to her and still she and her

> parents did these to me,itches me a bit.But I never mind that and I

> believe in moving on.

>

> , " Shripal Doshi "

> <shripal.smart@> wrote:

> >

> > Jai Jinendra,

> >

> > Thanks for Analysis.My MArriage Date is 16th May 2006.12.48 PM

> > Afternoon,Mumbai.

> > Your assumption about I am Libra rising is correct,that is what I

> > tried to convince my parents and parents going to other

astrologer.

> > But they don't belive.

> >

> > I don't from where they found in Libra rising my Marriage Life

very

> > good.As per my analysis too,which matches with yours. 8th Lord in

> 7th

> > and 7th Lord in 11th with Malefics are main curse to my marrriage

> or

> > even looks like i will have many more relationships in my Life,

> which

> > I am trying hard not to get involved with anyone and move towards

> > more spiritual Life.But I guess I don't know I will be able to do

> or

> > not.

> >

> > I wake early 5.15 in morning.Go to Temple, which takes 1 hour and

> 45

> > mins in Temple.Then I come home and have my breakfast and go to

> > office.That's routine of my Life.Since 5months I am getting up so

> > early.Previously since so many years I use to get up at 6.15 AM.

> >

> > So what do you think about future relationship, will it be

divorce

> or

> > will have same girl back,as she told me she is never going to get

> > married again and she is ready to come only if i stay in other

> house

> > and not with PArents, 8th Lord in 7th, causing such a situation

for

> > me.I told her no, and haven't talked to her for last 5 months.She

> > also didn't call.Only once came on 15th July at Temple in

morming,

> as

> > she know my Temple Timings.There again her parents,Maasi and

Mama,

> > blah blah and very over sensitive.I told her and explained her,

> they

> > are boosting your ego, think about yourself and your life, they

are

> > living there.Think sensibily, may be she didn't get that time.

> >

> > She has very hard time now and going ahead for next 2 years.As

> satrun

> > has come to her 7th House and she needs to learn relationship.May

> be

> > she will loose everything and all will left is crying.Her elder

> > sister is not yet go married.Her sister is 1979 born.Very

strange.I

> > care for her in sense if she doesn't want to get married again,

> what

> > she will do whole Life.Just sitting idle at home and gossiping

> cannlt

> > go whole life.That's what she,her elder sister and brother does

all

> > the time.Totally wating time.

> >

> > , " Anup. M " <dalh_1@>

wrote:

> > >

> > > Shripal,

> > >

> > > Can we know date of your marriage.

> > > As you wrote you are not sure abt your TOB,considering

> > > libra lagna reflects the problems in your married life.

> > >

> > > Jupitor is in 11th house,shows the quality of marrriage is

> > > spoiled to some extent as lord of 12th from 7th is in

> > > phalitsthan.Karka of 7th house is also in 11th house

> > > with jupitor,so karka is also spoiled.

> > >

> > > In Drekana, navamsa,Trimsama,it seems you also

> > > were involved in luxurious/enjoyable things besides

> > > putting yourself in disappointment state altogether.

> > > You try to mould the things the way you want desperately

> > > leasing ypu to that state.

> > >

> > > See also 5th and 7th lord relation wih each other.

> > > What does they reflect?

> > >

> > > Venus lost its power in 12th house supporting malefics

> > > and giving them space for effecting your married life badly.

> > >

> > > Jupitor being malefic,aspects 7th house besides 3rd house.

> > > So during jupitor antra,you may suffer separation accordingly

> > > during its aspect on respective house's results.

> > >

> > > Your married life perhaps started giving problems after

> > > Oct2004 onwards.Now this problem is worst after Aug2007

> > > or left you possibly for her parents.

> > >

> > > All the best

> > >

> > > Anup

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Jai Jinendra All,

> > >

> > > After a long time I am writing.Very busy in professional Life.

> > > I have been monitoring Planets Transit.From MAY onwards my Wife

> has

> > > went to her Father's House.She demands for new House and

doesn't

> > want

> > > to live with my parents.And because of this since so many

months

> > till

> > > now she has been making just excuses.Even I ahven't called her

or

> > > talked to her.I have clearly told her demands will not be

> > > fulfilled.If She want's to live with me; then Live or else give

> me

> > > divorce.

> > >

> > > There is no REply yet.She has started some studies.That's again

> > just

> > > lame excuse.Now I doesn't feel her for asking to stay with me,

> > > neither feels like to spend rest of my life with her.Such a ego

> of

> > > her, money that her father has and relatives.I decided she

needs

> to

> > > Learn lesson in Life.I will move on.I will accept her only if

she

> > > comes back committed and of-course I don't fall in love to

> someone

> > > else.

> > >

> > > Seeing current Transit,Venus and Jupiter, I thought issue will

> get

> > > resolved.But Looks Like SAturns effcet is much more powerful

then

> > > this, so she is not able cope up with this.Even I know she

want's

> > to

> > > come, it her home,mother,sister,relatives and brother who are

> > > boosting her ego and avoiding her from coming.She has no sense

> she

> > > might loose everything.

> > >

> > > And she will end in crying,as she always been crying and over

> > > sensitive for everything.I just have soft corner for her, as I

> > don't

> > > want to destroy her life.As she says she Loves me and she is

> never

> > > going to marry again.I don't know to believe that or not.She

just

> > > can't break the boundaries of her Father's house.Let us see

what

> > > happens in coming months.Can you predict something for me.

> > >

> > > I haven't communicated wih her for months.Doesn't feel like,

may

> be

> > > principles or ego or ethics of myself which doesn't allow me

> acept

> > > any unethical demands or agreement.Feels like what the hell, I

> will

> > > move on.

> > >

> > > my Birth Details:

> > > Name:Shripal

> > > Place:Rajkot,Gujarat,India

> > > 70 E 47 and 22 N 18

> > > Time:21:00 hrs or 20:00 (I don't know)

> > > DAte: 16th March 1980

> > >

> > > Her,my Wife Birth Details:

> > > Name:Shailee

> > > Place:Ahamdabad,India

> > > 72 E 37 and 23 N 02

> > > Time:.1.30 AM

> > > Date:3rd June 1983.

> > >

> > > I will be waiting fo your Reply.Am I going to move on and get

> > divorce

> > > or she is going to break her Ego and come back abd stay with me

> > > committed and not run away to her mother's house for

> little,little

> > > things crying.

> > >

> > > Just to mentioned aleast from my point of view,I have a great

> > > relationship with her, Loved her a Lot, we have went to various

> > > places for outin and eah of Saurdays and Sundays we always went

> for

> > > Movies and Diner.It is going to be hard time for her to forget

me.

> > > All my relationship, no one has eve forgetted.Herself and her

> > > relatives knows well time we have, they never had.We have great

> > > Romance and Love life,may be short lived, becuase of her Mother

> and

> > > Relatives and of-course my Mother, as comflicts are b/w these

> > > people.I have gone into Peace mode nad moving on.

> > >

> > > Let me know what do you think about my Relationship.

> > >

> > > --- End forwarded message ---

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with

>

> > Search.

> > >

> > >