Marital Conflicts; Will it be Divorce.....Mr.Shripal

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I am still waiting for your reply to my posting about your problem

Tatvam-Asi

 

Shripal Doshi <shripal.smart wrote:

To add some more points.

 

Sepration with my Wife came out to be more and more positive in terms

of spiritualism.Now I can devote more time at Temple in morning,read

my Jain Shastras,no bothering or tesion about regular visit to in

laws house, which I hate most.Just be with yourself and like to be

philosopher.

 

Just my Parents are little tense about my future and asking me why

don't i talk to her blah blah.I like peace and currently am at

peace.Only when Moon conjucts my Birth SAturn that day is Sad day for

me as all past good things that I did to her and still she and her

parents did these to me,itches me a bit.But I never mind that and I

believe in moving on.

 

, " Shripal Doshi "

<shripal.smart wrote:

>

> Jai Jinendra,

>

> Thanks for Analysis.My MArriage Date is 16th May 2006.12.48 PM

> Afternoon,Mumbai.

> Your assumption about I am Libra rising is correct,that is what I

> tried to convince my parents and parents going to other astrologer.

> But they don't belive.

>

> I don't from where they found in Libra rising my Marriage Life very

> good.As per my analysis too,which matches with yours. 8th Lord in

7th

> and 7th Lord in 11th with Malefics are main curse to my marrriage

or

> even looks like i will have many more relationships in my Life,

which

> I am trying hard not to get involved with anyone and move towards

> more spiritual Life.But I guess I don't know I will be able to do

or

> not.

>

> I wake early 5.15 in morning.Go to Temple, which takes 1 hour and

45

> mins in Temple.Then I come home and have my breakfast and go to

> office.That's routine of my Life.Since 5months I am getting up so

> early.Previously since so many years I use to get up at 6.15 AM.

>

> So what do you think about future relationship, will it be divorce

or

> will have same girl back,as she told me she is never going to get

> married again and she is ready to come only if i stay in other

house

> and not with PArents, 8th Lord in 7th, causing such a situation for

> me.I told her no, and haven't talked to her for last 5 months.She

> also didn't call.Only once came on 15th July at Temple in morming,

as

> she know my Temple Timings.There again her parents,Maasi and Mama,

> blah blah and very over sensitive.I told her and explained her,

they

> are boosting your ego, think about yourself and your life, they are

> living there.Think sensibily, may be she didn't get that time.

>

> She has very hard time now and going ahead for next 2 years.As

satrun

> has come to her 7th House and she needs to learn relationship.May

be

> she will loose everything and all will left is crying.Her elder

> sister is not yet go married.Her sister is 1979 born.Very strange.I

> care for her in sense if she doesn't want to get married again,

what

> she will do whole Life.Just sitting idle at home and gossiping

cannlt

> go whole life.That's what she,her elder sister and brother does all

> the time.Totally wating time.

>

> , " Anup. M " <dalh_1@> wrote:

> >

> > Shripal,

> >

> > Can we know date of your marriage.

> > As you wrote you are not sure abt your TOB,considering

> > libra lagna reflects the problems in your married life.

> >

> > Jupitor is in 11th house,shows the quality of marrriage is

> > spoiled to some extent as lord of 12th from 7th is in

> > phalitsthan.Karka of 7th house is also in 11th house

> > with jupitor,so karka is also spoiled.

> >

> > In Drekana, navamsa,Trimsama,it seems you also

> > were involved in luxurious/enjoyable things besides

> > putting yourself in disappointment state altogether.

> > You try to mould the things the way you want desperately

> > leasing ypu to that state.

> >

> > See also 5th and 7th lord relation wih each other.

> > What does they reflect?

> >

> > Venus lost its power in 12th house supporting malefics

> > and giving them space for effecting your married life badly.

> >

> > Jupitor being malefic,aspects 7th house besides 3rd house.

> > So during jupitor antra,you may suffer separation accordingly

> > during its aspect on respective house's results.

> >

> > Your married life perhaps started giving problems after

> > Oct2004 onwards.Now this problem is worst after Aug2007

> > or left you possibly for her parents.

> >

> > All the best

> >

> > Anup

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Jai Jinendra All,

> >

> > After a long time I am writing.Very busy in professional Life.

> > I have been monitoring Planets Transit.From MAY onwards my Wife

has

> > went to her Father's House.She demands for new House and doesn't

> want

> > to live with my parents.And because of this since so many months

> till

> > now she has been making just excuses.Even I ahven't called her or

> > talked to her.I have clearly told her demands will not be

> > fulfilled.If She want's to live with me; then Live or else give

me

> > divorce.

> >

> > There is no REply yet.She has started some studies.That's again

> just

> > lame excuse.Now I doesn't feel her for asking to stay with me,

> > neither feels like to spend rest of my life with her.Such a ego

of

> > her, money that her father has and relatives.I decided she needs

to

> > Learn lesson in Life.I will move on.I will accept her only if she

> > comes back committed and of-course I don't fall in love to

someone

> > else.

> >

> > Seeing current Transit,Venus and Jupiter, I thought issue will

get

> > resolved.But Looks Like SAturns effcet is much more powerful then

> > this, so she is not able cope up with this.Even I know she want's

> to

> > come, it her home,mother,sister,relatives and brother who are

> > boosting her ego and avoiding her from coming.She has no sense

she

> > might loose everything.

> >

> > And she will end in crying,as she always been crying and over

> > sensitive for everything.I just have soft corner for her, as I

> don't

> > want to destroy her life.As she says she Loves me and she is

never

> > going to marry again.I don't know to believe that or not.She just

> > can't break the boundaries of her Father's house.Let us see what

> > happens in coming months.Can you predict something for me.

> >

> > I haven't communicated wih her for months.Doesn't feel like, may

be

> > principles or ego or ethics of myself which doesn't allow me

acept

> > any unethical demands or agreement.Feels like what the hell, I

will

> > move on.

> >

> > my Birth Details:

> > Name:Shripal

> > Place:Rajkot,Gujarat,India

> > 70 E 47 and 22 N 18

> > Time:21:00 hrs or 20:00 (I don't know)

> > DAte: 16th March 1980

> >

> > Her,my Wife Birth Details:

> > Name:Shailee

> > Place:Ahamdabad,India

> > 72 E 37 and 23 N 02

> > Time:.1.30 AM

> > Date:3rd June 1983.

> >

> > I will be waiting fo your Reply.Am I going to move on and get

> divorce

> > or she is going to break her Ego and come back abd stay with me

> > committed and not run away to her mother's house for

little,little

> > things crying.

> >

> > Just to mentioned aleast from my point of view,I have a great

> > relationship with her, Loved her a Lot, we have went to various

> > places for outin and eah of Saurdays and Sundays we always went

for

> > Movies and Diner.It is going to be hard time for her to forget me.

> > All my relationship, no one has eve forgetted.Herself and her

> > relatives knows well time we have, they never had.We have great

> > Romance and Love life,may be short lived, becuase of her Mother

and

> > Relatives and of-course my Mother, as comflicts are b/w these

> > people.I have gone into Peace mode nad moving on.

> >

> > Let me know what do you think about my Relationship.

> >

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