Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 Respected sirs, My mother in law is staying with us for more than a decade, even though her other children and in laws are nearby. None of them takes her to their home because of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and wife and need money. From the last ten years she has looted all our savings and even now she is doing the same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide me and wife and do the same thing with children to fight each other . But now children knew her habits and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a chance. Please advise me how can we overcome from her black magic and get back our savings and to solve the misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both of these are important for the future of our children. Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... Best regards, Parvathanath ______________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 dear friend we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many children these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children. one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy. with best wishes and blessings pandit arjun www.rudraksharemedy.com , Parvatha Nath <parvathanath wrote: > > > Respected sirs, > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a > decade, even though her other children and in laws are > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide > me and wife and do the same thing with children to > fight each other . But now children knew her habits > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a > chance. > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black > magic and get back our savings and to solve the > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both > of these are important for the future of our children. > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... > > Best regards, > > Parvathanath > > > > > ____________________ ______________ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2007 Report Share Posted December 13, 2007 Dear Arjun ji, Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing* parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others of similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders up!). In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I think it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than the first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies where the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya, I hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not create a Munnabhai III sequel! Sorry for the intrusion! Rohiniranjan , " panditarjun2004 " <panditarjun2004 wrote: > > dear friend > > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many children > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children. > > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy. > > with best wishes and blessings > pandit arjun > www.rudraksharemedy.com > > > , Parvatha Nath > <parvathanath@> wrote: > > > > > > Respected sirs, > > > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a > > chance. > > > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both > > of these are important for the future of our children. > > > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... > > > > Best regards, > > > > Parvathanath > > > > > > > > > > > ____________________ > ______________ > > Be a better friend, newshound, and > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2007 Report Share Posted December 13, 2007 dear RRji nice to hear from you after a long time. the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in several movies in several angles. the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the private lives of their married children is often taking several victims even today. the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all daily routine things are taken care. with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the joint family system is becoming a gone era system. astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a happy solution to both parties. with best wishes and blessings pandit arjun www.rudraksharemedy.com , " Rohiniranjan " <rohini_ranjan wrote: > > Dear Arjun ji, > > Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s > (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing* > parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much > social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others of > similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being > used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders > up!). > > In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I think > it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the > second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than the > first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies where > the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya, I > hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not > create a Munnabhai III sequel! > > Sorry for the intrusion! > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > , " panditarjun2004 " > <panditarjun2004@> wrote: > > > > dear friend > > > > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the > > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many > children > > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some > > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes > > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children. > > > > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is > > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy. > > > > with best wishes and blessings > > pandit arjun > > www.rudraksharemedy.com > > > > > > , Parvatha Nath > > <parvathanath@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Respected sirs, > > > > > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a > > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are > > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because > > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and > > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has > > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the > > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide > > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to > > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits > > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has > > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… > > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a > > > chance. > > > > > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black > > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the > > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both > > > of these are important for the future of our children. > > > > > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > > > Parvathanath > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________________ > > ______________ > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and > > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 13, 2007 Report Share Posted December 13, 2007 This is the first time I am replying to any of the posts here...I am not an astrologer but just being a girl, and being a daugther and a daughter in law..i was wondering about the kind of complaint someone raised about their mother in law....I have always seen people infact myself too blaming others for whatever happens in our own life...its easy to put the whole blame or responsibility on someones head and feel better or feel we cant fix or resolve any of our issues as the other person is bad.... since past few days i have been observing the kind of responses someof the members have given to the complaint raised ..and really felt happy so just wanted to add my 2 cents whether it matters or not... lets all try to understand one and only one thing...all of us will grow up one day and all of us will also be old...god forbid our own daughter inlaws and son inlaws shouldnt feel the same as to what we feel about our in laws now..whether they are good or bad....we should try to set an example for ourselves and for our kids by handling things....all this black magic thing etc if there is any kind of effect really...i am sure by this time the couple might have been separated....and if its not happened and if you are just feeling the effects best possible thing is try to understand why your mother inlaw is doing allthis? some insecurity problem? problem in receiving love and affection ? problem in getting some kind of attention or recognition?.....i know all this sounds quiet emotional...but in this fast pace world these days no one has got time for no one....we have a problem we blame on someone and get away withit by either avoiding or getting rid of that person ....and if your wife doesnt understand you and understands her mother only well...then first clear that communication gap with your wife first..go to a counsellor who is a 3rd party and they will tell you their perspective....but please stop blaming elders....they have seen much more than what we have and atleast in this age they need some one who cares for them...am sure no one asks for more than that... am sorry if i had hurted anyones feelings!! panditarjun2004 <panditarjun2004 wrote: dear RRji nice to hear from you after a long time. the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in several movies in several angles. the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the private lives of their married children is often taking several victims even today. the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all daily routine things are taken care. with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the joint family system is becoming a gone era system. astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a happy solution to both parties. with best wishes and blessings pandit arjun www.rudraksharemedy.com , " Rohiniranjan " <rohini_ranjan wrote: > > Dear Arjun ji, > > Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s > (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing* > parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much > social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others of > similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being > used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders > up!). > > In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I think > it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the > second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than the > first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies where > the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya, I > hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not > create a Munnabhai III sequel! > > Sorry for the intrusion! > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > , " panditarjun2004 " > <panditarjun2004@> wrote: > > > > dear friend > > > > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the > > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many > children > > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some > > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes > > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children. > > > > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is > > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy. > > > > with best wishes and blessings > > pandit arjun > > www.rudraksharemedy.com > > > > > > , Parvatha Nath > > <parvathanath@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Respected sirs, > > > > > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a > > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are > > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because > > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and > > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has > > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the > > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide > > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to > > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits > > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has > > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… > > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a > > > chance. > > > > > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black > > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the > > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both > > > of these are important for the future of our children. > > > > > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > > > Parvathanath > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________ > > ______________ > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and > > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > > > > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Its easy to say such things if someone is not in such kind of a problem. I too used to give similar lectures....but i will tell u my mother in law doesnt want be to do anything for my parents, which is impossible...i have been trying to keep her haapy thinking that she might let me do it, but it hasn't helped...that's why i am saying it's easy to say, but the one who faces the problem only knows... MS Chikaaku <mschikaaku wrote: This is the first time I am replying to any of the posts here...I am not an astrologer but just being a girl, and being a daugther and a daughter in law..i was wondering about the kind of complaint someone raised about their mother in law....I have always seen people infact myself too blaming others for whatever happens in our own life...its easy to put the whole blame or responsibility on someones head and feel better or feel we cant fix or resolve any of our issues as the other person is bad.... since past few days i have been observing the kind of responses someof the members have given to the complaint raised ..and really felt happy so just wanted to add my 2 cents whether it matters or not... lets all try to understand one and only one thing...all of us will grow up one day and all of us will also be old...god forbid our own daughter inlaws and son inlaws shouldnt feel the same as to what we feel about our in laws now..whether they are good or bad....we should try to set an example for ourselves and for our kids by handling things....all this black magic thing etc if there is any kind of effect really...i am sure by this time the couple might have been separated....and if its not happened and if you are just feeling the effects best possible thing is try to understand why your mother inlaw is doing allthis? some insecurity problem? problem in receiving love and affection ? problem in getting some kind of attention or recognition?.....i know all this sounds quiet emotional...but in this fast pace world these days no one has got time for no one....we have a problem we blame on someone and get away withit by either avoiding or getting rid of that person ....and if your wife doesnt understand you and understands her mother only well...then first clear that communication gap with your wife first..go to a counsellor who is a 3rd party and they will tell you their perspective....but please stop blaming elders....they have seen much more than what we have and atleast in this age they need some one who cares for them...am sure no one asks for more than that... am sorry if i had hurted anyones feelings!! panditarjun2004 <panditarjun2004 wrote: dear RRji nice to hear from you after a long time. the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in several movies in several angles. the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the private lives of their married children is often taking several victims even today. the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all daily routine things are taken care. with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the joint family system is becoming a gone era system. astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a happy solution to both parties. with best wishes and blessings pandit arjun www.rudraksharemedy.com , " Rohiniranjan " <rohini_ranjan wrote: > > Dear Arjun ji, > > Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s > (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing* > parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much > social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others of > similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being > used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders > up!). > > In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I think > it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the > second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than the > first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies where > the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya, I > hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not > create a Munnabhai III sequel! > > Sorry for the intrusion! > > Rohiniranjan > > > > > , " panditarjun2004 " > <panditarjun2004@> wrote: > > > > dear friend > > > > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the > > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many > children > > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some > > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes > > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children. > > > > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is > > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy. > > > > with best wishes and blessings > > pandit arjun > > www.rudraksharemedy.com > > > > > > , Parvatha Nath > > <parvathanath@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Respected sirs, > > > > > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a > > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are > > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because > > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and > > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has > > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the > > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide > > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to > > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits > > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has > > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife… > > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a > > > chance. > > > > > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black > > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the > > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both > > > of these are important for the future of our children. > > > > > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected... > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > > > Parvathanath > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________ > > ______________ > > > Be a better friend, newshound, and > > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. > > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ > > > > > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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