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Respected sirs,

 

My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

decade, even though her other children and in laws are

nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

me and wife and do the same thing with children to

fight each other . But now children knew her habits

and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

chance.

 

Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

magic and get back our savings and to solve the

misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

of these are important for the future of our children.

 

Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

 

Best regards,

 

Parvathanath

 

 

 

 

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dear friend

 

we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the

cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many children

these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some

cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes

than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children.

 

one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is

to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy.

 

with best wishes and blessings

pandit arjun

www.rudraksharemedy.com

 

 

, Parvatha Nath

<parvathanath wrote:

>

>

> Respected sirs,

>

> My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

> decade, even though her other children and in laws are

> nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

> of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

> wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

> looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

> same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

> me and wife and do the same thing with children to

> fight each other . But now children knew her habits

> and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

> done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

> her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

> chance.

>

> Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

> magic and get back our savings and to solve the

> misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

> of these are important for the future of our children.

>

> Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

>

> Best regards,

>

> Parvathanath

>

>

>

>

>

____________________

______________

> Be a better friend, newshound, and

> know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

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Dear Arjun ji,

 

Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s

(latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing*

parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much

social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others of

similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being

used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders

up!).

 

In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I think

it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the

second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than the

first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies where

the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya, I

hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not

create a Munnabhai III sequel!

 

Sorry for the intrusion!

 

Rohiniranjan

 

 

 

 

, " panditarjun2004 "

<panditarjun2004 wrote:

>

> dear friend

>

> we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the

> cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many

children

> these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some

> cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage homes

> than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children.

>

> one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence is

> to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy.

>

> with best wishes and blessings

> pandit arjun

> www.rudraksharemedy.com

>

>

> , Parvatha Nath

> <parvathanath@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > Respected sirs,

> >

> > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

> > decade, even though her other children and in laws are

> > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

> > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

> > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

> > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

> > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

> > me and wife and do the same thing with children to

> > fight each other . But now children knew her habits

> > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

> > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

> > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

> > chance.

> >

> > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

> > magic and get back our savings and to solve the

> > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

> > of these are important for the future of our children.

> >

> > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

> >

> > Best regards,

> >

> > Parvathanath

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

____________________

> ______________

> > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> >

>

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dear RRji

 

nice to hear from you after a long time.

 

the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in

several movies in several angles.

 

the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the

private lives of their married children is often taking several

victims even today.

 

the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws

and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and

creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get

irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial

role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a

good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals

migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to

oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have

no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas

these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all

daily routine things are taken care.

 

with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their

native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the

joint family system is becoming a gone era system.

 

astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation

from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves

to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a

negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a

happy solution to both parties.

 

with best wishes and blessings

pandit arjun

www.rudraksharemedy.com

 

, " Rohiniranjan "

<rohini_ranjan wrote:

>

> Dear Arjun ji,

>

> Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s

> (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing*

> parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much

> social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others

of

> similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being

> used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders

> up!).

>

> In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I

think

> it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the

> second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than

the

> first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies

where

> the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya,

I

> hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not

> create a Munnabhai III sequel!

>

> Sorry for the intrusion!

>

> Rohiniranjan

>

>

>

>

> , " panditarjun2004 "

> <panditarjun2004@> wrote:

> >

> > dear friend

> >

> > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the

> > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many

> children

> > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some

> > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage

homes

> > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children.

> >

> > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence

is

> > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy.

> >

> > with best wishes and blessings

> > pandit arjun

> > www.rudraksharemedy.com

> >

> >

> > , Parvatha Nath

> > <parvathanath@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > Respected sirs,

> > >

> > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

> > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are

> > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

> > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

> > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

> > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

> > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

> > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to

> > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits

> > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

> > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

> > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

> > > chance.

> > >

> > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

> > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the

> > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

> > > of these are important for the future of our children.

> > >

> > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

> > >

> > > Best regards,

> > >

> > > Parvathanath

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

>

____________________

> > ______________

> > > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> > >

> >

>

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This is the first time I am replying to any of the posts here...I am not an

astrologer but just being a girl, and being a daugther and a daughter in law..i

was wondering about the kind of complaint someone raised about their mother in

law....I have always seen people infact myself too blaming others for whatever

happens in our own life...its easy to put the whole blame or responsibility on

someones head and feel better or feel we cant fix or resolve any of our issues

as the other person is bad....

 

since past few days i have been observing the kind of responses someof the

members have given to the complaint raised ..and really felt happy so just

wanted to add my 2 cents whether it matters or not...

 

lets all try to understand one and only one thing...all of us will grow up one

day and all of us will also be old...god forbid our own daughter inlaws and son

inlaws shouldnt feel the same as to what we feel about our in laws now..whether

they are good or bad....we should try to set an example for ourselves and for

our kids by handling things....all this black magic thing etc if there is any

kind of effect really...i am sure by this time the couple might have been

separated....and if its not happened and if you are just feeling the effects

best possible thing is try to understand why your mother inlaw is doing allthis?

some insecurity problem? problem in receiving love and affection ? problem in

getting some kind of attention or recognition?.....i know all this sounds quiet

emotional...but in this fast pace world these days no one has got time for no

one....we have a problem we blame on someone and get away withit by either

avoiding or getting rid of that person ....and

if your wife doesnt understand you and understands her mother only well...then

first clear that communication gap with your wife first..go to a counsellor who

is a 3rd party and they will tell you their perspective....but please stop

blaming elders....they have seen much more than what we have and atleast in this

age they need some one who cares for them...am sure no one asks for more than

that...

 

am sorry if i had hurted anyones feelings!!

 

panditarjun2004 <panditarjun2004 wrote:

dear RRji

 

nice to hear from you after a long time.

 

the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in

several movies in several angles.

 

the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the

private lives of their married children is often taking several

victims even today.

 

the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws

and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and

creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get

irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial

role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a

good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals

migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to

oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have

no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas

these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all

daily routine things are taken care.

 

with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their

native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the

joint family system is becoming a gone era system.

 

astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation

from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves

to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a

negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a

happy solution to both parties.

 

with best wishes and blessings

pandit arjun

www.rudraksharemedy.com

 

, " Rohiniranjan "

<rohini_ranjan wrote:

>

> Dear Arjun ji,

>

> Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s

> (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing*

> parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much

> social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others

of

> similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being

> used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders

> up!).

>

> In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I

think

> it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the

> second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than

the

> first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies

where

> the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya,

I

> hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not

> create a Munnabhai III sequel!

>

> Sorry for the intrusion!

>

> Rohiniranjan

>

>

>

>

> , " panditarjun2004 "

> <panditarjun2004@> wrote:

> >

> > dear friend

> >

> > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the

> > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many

> children

> > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some

> > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage

homes

> > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children.

> >

> > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence

is

> > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy.

> >

> > with best wishes and blessings

> > pandit arjun

> > www.rudraksharemedy.com

> >

> >

> > , Parvatha Nath

> > <parvathanath@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > Respected sirs,

> > >

> > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

> > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are

> > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

> > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

> > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

> > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

> > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

> > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to

> > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits

> > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

> > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

> > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

> > > chance.

> > >

> > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

> > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the

> > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

> > > of these are important for the future of our children.

> > >

> > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

> > >

> > > Best regards,

> > >

> > > Parvathanath

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

>

________

> > ______________

> > > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> > >

> >

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Its easy to say such things if someone is not in such kind of a problem. I too

used to give similar lectures....but i will tell u my mother in law doesnt want

be to do anything for my parents, which is impossible...i have been trying to

keep her haapy thinking that she might let me do it, but it hasn't

helped...that's why i am saying it's easy to say, but the one who faces the

problem only knows...

 

MS Chikaaku <mschikaaku wrote: This is the first time I am

replying to any of the posts here...I am not an astrologer but just being a

girl, and being a daugther and a daughter in law..i was wondering about the kind

of complaint someone raised about their mother in law....I have always seen

people infact myself too blaming others for whatever happens in our own

life...its easy to put the whole blame or responsibility on someones head and

feel better or feel we cant fix or resolve any of our issues as the other person

is bad....

 

since past few days i have been observing the kind of responses someof the

members have given to the complaint raised ..and really felt happy so just

wanted to add my 2 cents whether it matters or not...

 

lets all try to understand one and only one thing...all of us will grow up one

day and all of us will also be old...god forbid our own daughter inlaws and son

inlaws shouldnt feel the same as to what we feel about our in laws now..whether

they are good or bad....we should try to set an example for ourselves and for

our kids by handling things....all this black magic thing etc if there is any

kind of effect really...i am sure by this time the couple might have been

separated....and if its not happened and if you are just feeling the effects

best possible thing is try to understand why your mother inlaw is doing allthis?

some insecurity problem? problem in receiving love and affection ? problem in

getting some kind of attention or recognition?.....i know all this sounds quiet

emotional...but in this fast pace world these days no one has got time for no

one....we have a problem we blame on someone and get away withit by either

avoiding or getting rid of that person ....and

if your wife doesnt understand you and understands her mother only well...then

first clear that communication gap with your wife first..go to a counsellor who

is a 3rd party and they will tell you their perspective....but please stop

blaming elders....they have seen much more than what we have and atleast in this

age they need some one who cares for them...am sure no one asks for more than

that...

 

am sorry if i had hurted anyones feelings!!

 

panditarjun2004 <panditarjun2004 wrote:

dear RRji

 

nice to hear from you after a long time.

 

the typical indian movies present the same situation or problem in

several movies in several angles.

 

the problem of joint families and the intrusion of parents in the

private lives of their married children is often taking several

victims even today.

 

the old retired parents pester upon their busy working daughterinlaws

and daughters alike and expect them to serve like a housewife and

creat rifts. similarly on the part of the children, they get

irritated due to the frequent unwarranted advisory and directorial

role of their parents and resort to live separately and maintain a

good relation. in several cases in india where many IT professionals

migrated to usa, their old parents who live alone have shifted to

oldage homes instead of living in their own residences as they have

no company and medical attention always becomes a problem whereas

these oldage homes have round the clock medical attention and all

daily routine things are taken care.

 

with most young generation migrating to bigger cities outside their

native place and going to various countries for job settlement, the

joint family system is becoming a gone era system.

 

astrologically we cannot fix any single planet for this separation

from children to old parents as in many cases this separation proves

to be very happy to both parties. hence what is perceived as a

negative result arising out of separation is many a time becoming a

happy solution to both parties.

 

with best wishes and blessings

pandit arjun

www.rudraksharemedy.com

 

, " Rohiniranjan "

<rohini_ranjan wrote:

>

> Dear Arjun ji,

>

> Where I live and breathe, in the northern hemisphere north of 50s

> (latitudinally speaking), this phenomenon of putting *willing*

> parents to 'pasture' as some critics lament about is creating much

> social angst particularly amongst transplanted Indians and others

of

> similar but non-indian cultures as well! (Transplanted -- not being

> used perjoratively in case some quickdraw reader gets their danders

> up!).

>

> In fact the other day I saw a bollywood movie on that theme! I

think

> it had all the icons that triggered my interest! I think it was the

> second in the Munnabhai series and I think it had more depth than

the

> first one in the Munnabhai series! Unlike many Hollywood movies

where

> the first one is the best! While on the subject of movies and Maya,

I

> hope the manufacturers of the Munnabhai series stop here and do not

> create a Munnabhai III sequel!

>

> Sorry for the intrusion!

>

> Rohiniranjan

>

>

>

>

> , " panditarjun2004 "

> <panditarjun2004@> wrote:

> >

> > dear friend

> >

> > we shall not paint a person bad only on doubts and fix her as the

> > cause of your problems. in fact this is the reason why many

> children

> > these days are keeping their parents in oldage homes and in some

> > cases even the parents themselves are happily going to oldage

homes

> > than to suffer the treatment meted out by their children.

> >

> > one way to protect oneself from blackmagic or external influence

is

> > to wear a fourteen mukh rudraksha which is a satvik holy remedy.

> >

> > with best wishes and blessings

> > pandit arjun

> > www.rudraksharemedy.com

> >

> >

> > , Parvatha Nath

> > <parvathanath@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > Respected sirs,

> > >

> > > My mother in law is staying with us for more than a

> > > decade, even though her other children and in laws are

> > > nearby. None of them takes her to their home because

> > > of her charactor. she try to separate the husband and

> > > wife and need money. From the last ten years she has

> > > looted all our savings and even now she is doing the

> > > same thing and always playing dirty tricks to divide

> > > me and wife and do the same thing with children to

> > > fight each other . But now children knew her habits

> > > and they are adjusting themselves. I think she has

> > > done some black magic to her daughter ie. to my wife…

> > > her this dividing policy she apply wherever she gets a

> > > chance.

> > >

> > > Please advise me how can we overcome from her black

> > > magic and get back our savings and to solve the

> > > misunderstandings between the husband and wife. Both

> > > of these are important for the future of our children.

> > >

> > > Expecting some helpful advise from the respected...

> > >

> > > Best regards,

> > >

> > > Parvathanath

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

>

________

> > ______________

> > > Be a better friend, newshound, and

> > > know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

> > http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ

> > >

> >

>

 

 

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