Sadhanas For Marriage from JR Files Section

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SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE from JR Files Section

 

Do you wish for a happy married life?

Can life be full of pleasures?

Can delay in marriages be remedied?

 

The answer is yes!

 

Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps

trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First

everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual

fulfilment.

One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a

very special change in the life of a person. The direction of life

can completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable

and understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and

its pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities

are a part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then

the pain becomes much less.

In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In

the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in which

the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands.

Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more happy.

Married life was not a problem or a burden for them.

But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of

marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many

problems which the couples face to this day. Society became

dominated by males and women came to play only a passive role in

marriages. The fact is that a woman is as important a part of the

society as a man. In married life both are equal. Both supplement

each other. Without one the other cannot contemplate a whole life.

The creation in nature cannot go on without cooperation of both.

Marriage in the present context

Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted.There is

more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be believed

that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and sorrows.

The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the parents

have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further complicated

matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have only

tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after marriage

of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end.

Everyone understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet

paradoxically it continues.

If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not able

to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and

tension for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is

going on is forced to keep mum.

Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in

India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. Today

seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their

marriage. A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same

is the case for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no

true joy it cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden.

In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good

wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a good

husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas are

being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the help of

which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. One

should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for the

success of married life. If desired things do not happen on their

own then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through

Sadhanas?

Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog

For early marriage

Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who can

bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and

comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable age

herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man

can try it for getting a good wife.

Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been

commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is obtained.

In other words chant the Mantra daily.

Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden

seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a

Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four sides

of the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family

deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red flowers.

Pray for the fulfilment of your wish.

Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the

following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess.

|| Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang

Prachodayaat ||

 

After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in a

clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man should

tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left.

Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very

soon.

Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog

For quick marriage of girls

Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By offering

prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's choice.

This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting good

husbands too.

Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In

this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If there

is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be

tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he appears in

a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by the

girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on the

behalf of the prospective bride.

In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a

wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet -

Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one

has a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under

the amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense.

At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to

perform this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do

it in the sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all

offer seven flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O

Gandharvaraaj! You are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your

form. Beauty is your ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish.

Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary.

|| Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih

Labhaami Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav-

sarva Namah ||

 

Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of

chantings must be calculated according to the number of days from

Monday to the full moon day.

In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the amulet

around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of

worship.

There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall

appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type

of Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely

attains to success.

Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog

For happy married life

Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two

different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their

habits might be different but they have to live together and make

the marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and

differences which result in bitterness.

If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things which

one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the person

who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life.

Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable

that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and

one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for

either life partner.

In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a balance

and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made

more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two

persons is in harmony then life surely is peaceful.

Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in

the months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue

chanting one round of Mantra every Monday.

In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana is

accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One

needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a

rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready

before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do

not get up from the seat.

One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp

and red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write

Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in

another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from of

Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life.

Make a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the

following Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one

Maayaa Beej. Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and

Maayaa Beej and throw behind yourself over your shoulder.

Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom Vaagdheeshwaree.

Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham Kuru.

 

Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and

vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each Siddhiphal

put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and place

it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the

Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy.