Guest guest Posted July 20, 2007 Report Share Posted July 20, 2007 Respected group members and Gurujan, A great debate on 2nd marriage is going on this platform of astrology. I will be highly obliged by the learned members if they can help me. I am fed up of my marriage life since 9 yrs. no issue due to wife's sickness.she also want to live separate. " Is 2nd marriage promised to me or not. If yes when " Kindly reply me. My birth details are DOB 15.08.1971 Time 15.45 Place Dholpur (India) I am giving the horary no.143 to cast a kp cart. Thanks with Regards Arun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2007 Report Share Posted July 20, 2007 Dear Arun kumarji, You had written to me on my personal e mail too , of this enquiry, and I did not reply you for the reason given below. For us Indians, it sounds very sad, when one wants to re-marry simply because one is fed up of his wifes sickness.It may not be easy for you to decide, why you have no issue. Is it because of you or her. Your wife would never like to live seperate if you are taking proper care of her in her sickness and trying to comfort her with your warm presence. I do not understand how would you be able to enjoy another womens arms, when the women who was wedded to you, and with whom so many promises have been taken around the sacred fire,would be left alone, primarily for the reason that she is sick. We just have to think by replacing her with ones own self, and then observe how it feels when your wife would have left you. had you fallen sick. It would be better to wait till her sickness gets over, and then take your decesion when she becomes strong,to face this, otherwise she would become more sick. I understand that you have your own physical needs to be quenched, but You have chosen your wife, and she was not forced on you, so now its your duty to take care of her till either of you breathe last. I am sorry, but your mail could not touch my heart. regards, Bhaskar. www.shrikrishnajyotish.com , " Arun kumar chhonkar " <arunchhonkar wrote: > > > > Respected group members and Gurujan, > > A great debate on 2nd marriage is going on this platform of astrology. I will be highly obliged by the learned members if they can help me. > I am fed up of my marriage life since 9 yrs. no issue due to wife's sickness.she also want to live separate. > > " Is 2nd marriage promised to me or not. If yes when " > > Kindly reply me. My birth details are > > DOB 15.08.1971 > Time 15.45 > Place Dholpur (India) > > I am giving the horary no.143 to cast a kp cart. > Thanks > with Regards > Arun > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 dear bhaskarji, ur reply was excellent. I concur with every line u had written. I jus want to add that if the wife gives her consent on her own without any pressure from any quarter the person can remarry purely on one condition that wife is terminally sick and the wife gives her consent even without the husband asking for it. well such a lady shud be treated as god. good wishes, k.gopu ______________________________\ ____ Take the Internet to Go: Go puts the Internet in your pocket: mail, news, photos & more. http://mobile./go?refer=1GNXIC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 this guy's mail was indeed very repugnant. It really made me wonder where the world is headed...it was so sick...you leave your wife simply because she is ill...so much for the sanctity of marriage... --- Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > Dear Arun kumarji, > > You had written to me on my personal e mail > too , of this enquiry, and I did not reply you > for the reason given below. > > For us Indians, it sounds very sad, when one > wants to re-marry simply because one is fed > up of his wifes sickness.It may not be easy > for you to decide, why you have no issue. > Is it because of you or her. Your wife would > never like to live seperate if you are taking > proper care of her in her sickness and trying > to comfort her with your warm presence. > > I do not understand how would you be able to > enjoy another womens arms, when the women who > was wedded to you, and with whom so many promises > have been taken around the sacred fire,would > be left alone, primarily for the reason that she > is sick. We just have to think by replacing her > with ones own self, and then observe how it > feels when your wife would have left you. > had you fallen sick. > > It would be better to wait till her sickness gets > over, and then take your decesion when she becomes > strong,to face this, otherwise she would become more > sick. > > I understand that you have your own physical needs > to be quenched, but You have chosen your wife, > and she was not forced on you, so now > its your duty to take care of her till either of > you breathe last. > > I am sorry, but your mail could not touch my heart. > > regards, > Bhaskar. > www.shrikrishnajyotish.com > > > > , " Arun kumar > chhonkar " > <arunchhonkar wrote: > > > > > > > > Respected group members and Gurujan, > > > > A great debate on 2nd > marriage is going > on this platform of astrology. I will be highly > obliged by the learned > members if they can help me. > > I am fed up of my marriage life since 9 yrs. no > issue due to wife's > sickness.she also want to live separate. > > > > " Is 2nd marriage promised to me or not. If yes > when " > > > > Kindly reply me. My birth details are > > > > DOB 15.08.1971 > > Time 15.45 > > Place Dholpur (India) > > > > I am giving the horary no.143 to cast a kp cart. > > Thanks > > with Regards > > Arun > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Dear Gopuji, I agree with you fully. Good to hear from you after a long time. I too have been occupied these days. regards, Bhaskar. , K Gopu <kgopu_24 wrote: > > dear bhaskarji, > ur reply was excellent. I concur with every line u had > written. I jus want to add that if the wife gives her > consent on her own without any pressure from any > quarter the person can remarry purely on one condition > that wife is terminally sick and the wife gives her > consent even without the husband asking for it. well > such a lady shud be treated as god. > > good wishes, > k.gopu > > > > > > > ______________________________\ ____ > Take the Internet to Go: Go puts the Internet in your pocket: mail, news, photos & more. > http://mobile./go?refer=1GNXIC > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2007 Report Share Posted July 22, 2007 Even in the terminally-ill scenario you describe, Gopu-jee, should the husband at least wait before remarrying, until such time when the kind and generous wife is in better hands? Of GOD?? These are difficult realities ... , K Gopu <kgopu_24 wrote: > > dear bhaskarji, > ur reply was excellent. I concur with every line u had > written. I jus want to add that if the wife gives her > consent on her own without any pressure from any > quarter the person can remarry purely on one condition > that wife is terminally sick and the wife gives her > consent even without the husband asking for it. well > such a lady shud be treated as god. > > good wishes, > k.gopu > > > > > > > ____________________ ______________ > Take the Internet to Go: Go puts the Internet in your pocket: mail, news, photos & more. > http://mobile./go?refer=1GNXIC > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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