Reply for Bhaskarji & Prashantji 4/6 p3

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Ashna

 

I am sure ur mother will be unhappy no mother wants her child to suffer in a

marriage that is 1st breaks and then the 2nd is a tough thing to imagine for

mothers

 

but I am sure the pulls of karma ur KARMIC PARTNER is not yet in ur Karmic

horizon till then WE FEEL WE CAN BEAT nature [ifeel the same in my case]

 

WELL I HAVE DONE SO TILL NOW AT 46 I give same answer to ppl and did my best not

to earn, as that is the main pillar to even dream of a family so only now do

feel may be will not resist any1 turning up nos as sure children will almost

diminish with any1 if I find now [if they do]

 

the way I choose not to earn has helped me in astro-line max pp don't pay and

but for the support of my siblings wont have the luxury of net and PC etc. only

now some ppl pay for readings v few may be 1 in 500 but is ok if some months i

pay my expenses of these BUT it doesn't matter, till I am married if at all so

must be ready for doing it myself than support from siblings even they do the

women will never respect me for it but as of now I can't afford her sure.

 

u di see me when free do post many cases here but now tithe construction at home

taking my attention will do in bits till Nov end then may be back to normal

readings.

 

but in ur case when i aid 2 marriages it is some karmic relationship that u need

to pass this is part of ur spiritual progress so lets see how it goes keep in

touch.

 

u must see all i posted intotality and make a picture. I am not cynical or

pesimistic by want u not not to feel dejected when these happen and u know U

will come out of a crisis whenit comes and happens.

 

 

 

Best wishes

 

 

 

 

Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

Hi Prashantji,

Thanks for ur observations....but this is the first time anyone's

mentioned 2 marriages...i won't even go for one, so a second one is

impossible...i say this with complete respect to you sir. And ur

saying " u will still have a good marriage after these break

ups " ...now i don't date...i don't go out to meet people...now how

will this happen?? Infact i stopped leaving my house since i get too

many offers for marriage....so where does this fit in? It won't

happen! But i apreciate the reply.

I guess i am goin to be exhibiting my freewill completely....i may

even turn my chart upside down...God knows. My mother will be happy

if i have 2 marriages...this news will make her happy as she wants

me to

get married ATLEAST. I've already told them i won't marry!

Thank you Prashantji for ur time and observations!!

 

, Prashant Kumar G B

<gbp_kumar wrote:

>

> Ashna

>

> that is a film story and life is different and marriage without

consummation is no marriage. there must be some physical chemistry

exchange to call it one. and I see those only happen and break as

well I wish I fail HERE whole heartedly it is sad to give such

forecasts, I will never do these in public but will prefer doing it

face to face over a period of time, but as u are mentally strong and

inclined towards self realisation I felt u will accept this more

maturely and help ur life growth better.

>

> some have already pointed why

>

> the 7th lord with 6th lord, 7th lord with rahu etc do have their

roles here and their energy has to dissipate during its period, sub

periods and Have said u will still have a good marriage after these

break ups the last one WILL LAST its distance and also take u higher

on ur spiritual journey.

>

>

> so there is a lot t o look ahead and don't take this a tragic

thing it is a learning and karmic defict destroying time so do ur

best don't post pone anything it will carry on to next life so u

have ur chance now to clear the deficit so u can do it.

>

> best wishes

>

>

>

>

> Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002

wrote: Hi,

> Thank you Bhaskarji..and Prashantji. U both are wise,

intelligent

> and obviously blessed people. The role of God is central in my

life.

> I've surrendered to Him...he knows my heart well, and i take life

> day by day...no more big plans.

> Prashantji, you said 2 marriages, well, i had my only love

affair

> for 5 years...though not married, and not consummated, i

considered

> him my husband. So ya..u can say that was a marriage. The bond of

> love is far bigger than any Saath Pheres.

> I don't watch hindi movies much...but i saw this one very old

> movie, " Ankahee " ...with Deepti Naval, and Amol Palekar. This

movie

> was a brilliant movie...no fancy dancing...no songs..etc. A real

> movie. Amol's character was in love with a woman....but his

father

> being a Jyotish, told him that his first wife will die within 9

> months of the marriage. Amol being in love with his lover, could

not

> risk losing her this way, so he inturned married Deepti Naval's

> character, who was retarded mentally, had basically child-like

> behavior. He married her only to save his lover from this

> fate...under the advise of his father who was a great Jyotishi.

> He could not live without his lover..the lover was suffering

saying

> she would have risked death for Amol becus she loved him....she

felt

> betrayed he married another...and both are now feeling guilty

becus

> they know Deepti's character is to die, as his father predicted.

> Deepti gets pregnant...and all r waiting for her to die

> basically....but now Amol has feelings for her. At 9 months,

Deepti

> goes into labour, and gives birth, surviving, but amol's lover

> commits suicide!!!

> I tell you this story becus Jyotishi predicted death of his

first

> wife...well, in his heart, probably the lover was his wife

already.

> Anyway absolutely wonderful movie to watch.....with a Jyotishi

twist.

> THanks again for the replies...

>

> , Prashant Kumar G B

> <gbp_kumar@> wrote:

> >

> > Ashna

> >

> > I have covered this aspect too. spirituality is no escape route

> and if done in that context never works as the pain of escape

haunts

> u and is a distraction for spiritual or any other from of life.

> >

> > but on the other hand i had explained that one can be in the

> SAMSARA or world and still be spiritual and if these r not born

> early it doesn't help either. and striking a balance is itself

great

> spiritual path for this u need to read Adi shankara's life and

the

> part where he did Para Kaya prevesha that is enter the body of

> another person - when in a contest of the spiritual plane he was

> asked to explain family or worldly based phases which he had no

clue

> having taken sanyasa at 7 or so and his worldly life begins when

> his soul entered a Kiings body on death bead is a strange phase

and

> in that period did experience a lot of the life of a normal man

in

> the world and has well documented in his writings and

> >

> > Swami Vivekananda had extensively quoted Adi shankara in many

> speeches, works. so read them find ur path. but U need both pases

in

> life esp as ur chart shows I said at least 2 marriage and this is

> also an experience part of ur karma to go thru and burn ur Karma

> deficits before getting to realise ur spiritual sides better and

> here too don't get into it as a defeated person but one having

> gained by the life lessons have taught you

> >

> > only defeated person who became a well know spiritual man is

Swami

> Sukha Bodananada from Madanapalle, lives in Bangalore is a well

> known Spiritual Guru for INFOSYS, WIPRO, SATHYAM and many more

> corporates has simple message and path u can try his works too

[he

> was a love failure driven one]. others have not made it may be

lead

> life as recluses than sanysains he is different so find ur path

> after traveling the road in life here 2 quotes I can give from

our

> vedenta

> >

> > HAPPINESS IS ALONG THE ROAD not at the end of the road

> >

> > expectations are not wrong what we expect may be wrong.

> >

> > Best wishes

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002@>

> wrote: Hi,

> > Thank you both for making such great points on the topic of

> > spirituality....i feel both of you have made wonderful

points...i

> > agree that taking sanyas, when circumstances have failed you,

is

> the

> > wrong way to go....it is best when comes as a natural

progression

> in

> > life. It should not be pushed.

> > Having said that, Prashantji, i fully agree with wot you

have

> to

> > say on this...as i sincerely believe it's never too early to

> become

> > spiritual. The aim of life is to work out our karmas, and to

know

> > God. We can be an ordinary householder, and still be one with

> > God...i truly believe that. Have you heard of the

phrase, " hands

> in

> > society, head in forest " ? This is Kalyug, but that doesn't

mean

> that

> > we have to go along with the bad of this yug. We can live in

> Golden

> > Age infact, if we control our minds and live detached. We are

wot

> > our minds are...and thru spirituality, we can delve into our

> inner

> > consciousness and be one with God. When you do that, u

> automatically

> > are rid of the lower atrributes of being human.

> > I come from a Christian mother(indian) and Kshtriya

father...no

> > one in my family is religious..non are vegetarian. But at the

age

> of

> > 6, i asked my dad to get Bhagavad Gita and other spiritual

books

> for

> > me to read. My father thought something was wrong with

me....but

> i

> > had this strong urge for all things religious...so Bhaskarji,

we

> are

> > born with this attribute. I cannot help myself in being the

way

> that

> > i am...and i am thinking abt renunciating since my teenage

> > years...not becus my lover is gone. So every case is different.

> > You can choose to be ordinary and be in the world....or you

can

> > choose to follow the path of God. And goin to the forest is

not a

> > necessity to follow the path of God. You can be married, have

> kids,

> > work, so long as you keep ur focus on God and leave the fruits

of

> ur

> > actions to Him. It's as simple as that. My favorite quote

is " be

> in

> > the world, not of the world " . Explains everything.

> > We are humans...we have desires, wants..etc. But when we run

> after

> > our senses, we start living like animals....following our

bodily

> > desires...and pleasing the lower senses. Everything in balance

is

> > good. Spirituality teaches us to remain detached while doing

our

> > karmas. And i am happy to tell you that it is possible to do

that

> in

> > this Kaliyug. I know many that do.

> > So, it is never to early to start on the path towards

> God..infact,

> > the earlier the better. It is ok to remain

married...procreate,

> and

> > still have ur goal in mind(God). It is, however, a terrible

thing

> to

> > waste human birth in darkness. Hope this all is taken well.

Take

> care

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