Reply for Bhaskarji & Prashantji 4/6 p2

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Ashna

 

that is a film story and life is different and marriage without consummation is

no marriage. there must be some physical chemistry exchange to call it one. and

I see those only happen and break as well I wish I fail HERE whole heartedly it

is sad to give such forecasts, I will never do these in public but will prefer

doing it face to face over a period of time, but as u are mentally strong and

inclined towards self realisation I felt u will accept this more maturely and

help ur life growth better.

 

some have already pointed why

 

the 7th lord with 6th lord, 7th lord with rahu etc do have their roles here and

their energy has to dissipate during its period, sub periods and Have said u

will still have a good marriage after these break ups the last one WILL LAST its

distance and also take u higher on ur spiritual journey.

 

 

so there is a lot t o look ahead and don't take this a tragic thing it is a

learning and karmic defict destroying time so do ur best don't post pone

anything it will carry on to next life so u have ur chance now to clear the

deficit so u can do it.

 

best wishes

 

 

 

 

Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

Hi,

Thank you Bhaskarji..and Prashantji. U both are wise, intelligent

and obviously blessed people. The role of God is central in my life.

I've surrendered to Him...he knows my heart well, and i take life

day by day...no more big plans.

Prashantji, you said 2 marriages, well, i had my only love affair

for 5 years...though not married, and not consummated, i considered

him my husband. So ya..u can say that was a marriage. The bond of

love is far bigger than any Saath Pheres.

I don't watch hindi movies much...but i saw this one very old

movie, " Ankahee " ...with Deepti Naval, and Amol Palekar. This movie

was a brilliant movie...no fancy dancing...no songs..etc. A real

movie. Amol's character was in love with a woman....but his father

being a Jyotish, told him that his first wife will die within 9

months of the marriage. Amol being in love with his lover, could not

risk losing her this way, so he inturned married Deepti Naval's

character, who was retarded mentally, had basically child-like

behavior. He married her only to save his lover from this

fate...under the advise of his father who was a great Jyotishi.

He could not live without his lover..the lover was suffering saying

she would have risked death for Amol becus she loved him....she felt

betrayed he married another...and both are now feeling guilty becus

they know Deepti's character is to die, as his father predicted.

Deepti gets pregnant...and all r waiting for her to die

basically....but now Amol has feelings for her. At 9 months, Deepti

goes into labour, and gives birth, surviving, but amol's lover

commits suicide!!!

I tell you this story becus Jyotishi predicted death of his first

wife...well, in his heart, probably the lover was his wife already.

Anyway absolutely wonderful movie to watch.....with a Jyotishi twist.

THanks again for the replies...

 

, Prashant Kumar G B

<gbp_kumar wrote:

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> Ashna

>

> I have covered this aspect too. spirituality is no escape route

and if done in that context never works as the pain of escape haunts

u and is a distraction for spiritual or any other from of life.

>

> but on the other hand i had explained that one can be in the

SAMSARA or world and still be spiritual and if these r not born

early it doesn't help either. and striking a balance is itself great

spiritual path for this u need to read Adi shankara's life and the

part where he did Para Kaya prevesha that is enter the body of

another person - when in a contest of the spiritual plane he was

asked to explain family or worldly based phases which he had no clue

having taken sanyasa at 7 or so and his worldly life begins when

his soul entered a Kiings body on death bead is a strange phase and

in that period did experience a lot of the life of a normal man in

the world and has well documented in his writings and

>

> Swami Vivekananda had extensively quoted Adi shankara in many

speeches, works. so read them find ur path. but U need both pases in

life esp as ur chart shows I said at least 2 marriage and this is

also an experience part of ur karma to go thru and burn ur Karma

deficits before getting to realise ur spiritual sides better and

here too don't get into it as a defeated person but one having

gained by the life lessons have taught you

>

> only defeated person who became a well know spiritual man is Swami

Sukha Bodananada from Madanapalle, lives in Bangalore is a well

known Spiritual Guru for INFOSYS, WIPRO, SATHYAM and many more

corporates has simple message and path u can try his works too [he

was a love failure driven one]. others have not made it may be lead

life as recluses than sanysains he is different so find ur path

after traveling the road in life here 2 quotes I can give from our

vedenta

>

> HAPPINESS IS ALONG THE ROAD not at the end of the road

>

> expectations are not wrong what we expect may be wrong.

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> Best wishes

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> Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002

wrote: Hi,

> Thank you both for making such great points on the topic of

> spirituality....i feel both of you have made wonderful points...i

> agree that taking sanyas, when circumstances have failed you, is

the

> wrong way to go....it is best when comes as a natural progression

in

> life. It should not be pushed.

> Having said that, Prashantji, i fully agree with wot you have

to

> say on this...as i sincerely believe it's never too early to

become

> spiritual. The aim of life is to work out our karmas, and to know

> God. We can be an ordinary householder, and still be one with

> God...i truly believe that. Have you heard of the phrase, " hands

in

> society, head in forest " ? This is Kalyug, but that doesn't mean

that

> we have to go along with the bad of this yug. We can live in

Golden

> Age infact, if we control our minds and live detached. We are wot

> our minds are...and thru spirituality, we can delve into our

inner

> consciousness and be one with God. When you do that, u

automatically

> are rid of the lower atrributes of being human.

> I come from a Christian mother(indian) and Kshtriya father...no

> one in my family is religious..non are vegetarian. But at the age

of

> 6, i asked my dad to get Bhagavad Gita and other spiritual books

for

> me to read. My father thought something was wrong with me....but

i

> had this strong urge for all things religious...so Bhaskarji, we

are

> born with this attribute. I cannot help myself in being the way

that

> i am...and i am thinking abt renunciating since my teenage

> years...not becus my lover is gone. So every case is different.

> You can choose to be ordinary and be in the world....or you can

> choose to follow the path of God. And goin to the forest is not a

> necessity to follow the path of God. You can be married, have

kids,

> work, so long as you keep ur focus on God and leave the fruits of

ur

> actions to Him. It's as simple as that. My favorite quote is " be

in

> the world, not of the world " . Explains everything.

> We are humans...we have desires, wants..etc. But when we run

after

> our senses, we start living like animals....following our bodily

> desires...and pleasing the lower senses. Everything in balance is

> good. Spirituality teaches us to remain detached while doing our

> karmas. And i am happy to tell you that it is possible to do that

in

> this Kaliyug. I know many that do.

> So, it is never to early to start on the path towards

God..infact,

> the earlier the better. It is ok to remain married...procreate,

and

> still have ur goal in mind(God). It is, however, a terrible thing

to

> waste human birth in darkness. Hope this all is taken well. Take

care

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