Guest guest Posted May 19, 2007 Report Share Posted May 19, 2007 Hi, I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING MY OLD LOVE. SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME SUDDENLY A FEWS DAYS BACK. Background- I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too loved me and our intensions were to get married in accordance to time, after an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad financial condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but she was harsh to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise for her behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting married to a suitable girl. Though I know there is nothing left between us and its now a total end to the past relationship. But I am unable to forget her and wish to live my life without remebering her and getting married soon. Please help and guide me on this.. My details - 27/01/81 Mumbai 4.24 AM Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 Dear Friend, I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the advice I am giving you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human being . I would just like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy as possible to forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that my remembering her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more time by just thinking about her. Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the one who makes you cry does not love u. This the fact so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A new horizon is waiting for u Best of luck mate. Regards Prashu P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO GOT MARRIED , AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT TO BE HONEST , IT IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL NEVER STAND FOR U . On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed wrote: > > Hi, > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING MY OLD LOVE. > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME SUDDENLY A FEWS > DAYS BACK. > > Background- > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too loved me > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to time, after > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad financial > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but she was harsh > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise for her > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting married to a > suitable girl. > > Though I know there is nothing left between us and its now a total > end to the past relationship. But I am unable to forget her and wish > to live my life without remebering her and getting married soon. > > Please help and guide me on this.. > > My details - > 27/01/81 Mumbai 4.24 AM > > Thanks. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 Hello, everything is fair, everyone is correct. now the problem arise when we dont think abt family when falling in love...we should be enough aware that our family will allow or not and then being matured take a right decision to move ahead. But truly saying i dont believe in Today's love stories...love can happen with anyone, simply anyone who cares for you. who think abt your well being. ITs the damn truth that even if a girl / boy is married to someone other than who he/she loves , he get develop feelings for his/her new partner in few days. Because everyone just need one partner. Because we have a mentality to accept the good and bad both . The problem exists for only those who have big dreams. Regards, Tarun Ps-- Same story with me too....still trying to recover after 2.5 yrs of seperation. At final point the partner refused to tell her family. --- Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote: > Nothing done by way of remedies will help you(in this particular > situation) !!! Believe that!! Meditate...take it day by day. But i > would not totally agree with Prashu. The fact is, some people are > weak spiritually and make bad decisions...also could be the > planetary effects that make one do wot they do. Regret is inevitable > for the other parties, becus love is the most beautiful thing. She > won't ever truly be happy becus she betrayed you. > Now i understand abt guy/girl who cannot fight for their love, > well, have you met some of the parents in such cases?? I HAVE!! They > use their tactics to brainwash their child into believing they are > ruining the family name..etc. It is absolutely difficult for the > guys/girls in the situation. So let's not blame the weak. Blame the > huge egos of the family members, whose main concern is wot society > says. > As long as you have a heart, you will love that person. Becus we > don't love with our eyes or mind, we love with our hearts! > > > , " Prashant Doshi " > <prashuastro wrote: > > > > Dear Friend, > > > > I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the advice I am > giving > > you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human being . I > would just > > like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy as > possible to > > forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that my > remembering > > her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more time > by just > > thinking about her. > > > > Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) > > > > The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the one who > makes you > > cry does not love u. > > > > This the fact > > > > so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A new > horizon is > > waiting for u > > > > Best of luck mate. > > > > Regards > > > > Prashu > > > > P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO GOT > MARRIED , > > AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT TO BE > HONEST , IT > > IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL NEVER > STAND FOR > > U . > > > > On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed wrote: > > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING MY OLD > LOVE. > > > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME SUDDENLY A > FEWS > > > DAYS BACK. > > > > > > Background- > > > > > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too loved > me > > > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to time, > after > > > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > > > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad financial > > > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but she was > harsh > > > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > > > > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise for her > > > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting married > to a > > > suitable girl. > > > > > > Though I know there is nothing left between us and its now a > total > > > end to the past relationship. But I am unable to forget her and > wish > > > to live my life without remebering her and getting married soon. > > > > > > Please help and guide me on this.. > > > > > > My details - > > > 27/01/81 Mumbai 4.24 AM > > > > > > Thanks. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2007 Report Share Posted May 21, 2007 Beautiful, truthful and practical post. regards/Bhaskar. -- In , ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst wrote: > > Hello, > > everything is fair, everyone is correct. > now the problem arise when we dont think abt family when falling in love...we should be enough > aware that our family will allow or not and then being matured take a right decision to move > ahead. > > But truly saying i dont believe in Today's love stories...love can happen with anyone, simply > anyone who cares for you. who think abt your well being. > > ITs the damn truth that even if a girl / boy is married to someone other than who he/she loves , > he get develop feelings for his/her new partner in few days. Because everyone just need one > partner. > > Because we have a mentality to accept the good and bad both . > The problem exists for only those who have big dreams. > > Regards, > > Tarun > > Ps-- Same story with me too....still trying to recover after 2.5 yrs of seperation. At final point > the partner refused to tell her family. > > > > > --- Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote: > > > Nothing done by way of remedies will help you(in this particular > > situation) !!! Believe that!! Meditate...take it day by day. But i > > would not totally agree with Prashu. The fact is, some people are > > weak spiritually and make bad decisions...also could be the > > planetary effects that make one do wot they do. Regret is inevitable > > for the other parties, becus love is the most beautiful thing. She > > won't ever truly be happy becus she betrayed you. > > Now i understand abt guy/girl who cannot fight for their love, > > well, have you met some of the parents in such cases?? I HAVE!! They > > use their tactics to brainwash their child into believing they are > > ruining the family name..etc. It is absolutely difficult for the > > guys/girls in the situation. So let's not blame the weak. Blame the > > huge egos of the family members, whose main concern is wot society > > says. > > As long as you have a heart, you will love that person. Becus we > > don't love with our eyes or mind, we love with our hearts! > > > > > > , " Prashant Doshi " > > <prashuastro@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Friend, > > > > > > I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the advice I am > > giving > > > you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human being . I > > would just > > > like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy as > > possible to > > > forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that my > > remembering > > > her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more time > > by just > > > thinking about her. > > > > > > Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) > > > > > > The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the one who > > makes you > > > cry does not love u. > > > > > > This the fact > > > > > > so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A new > > horizon is > > > waiting for u > > > > > > Best of luck mate. > > > > > > Regards > > > > > > Prashu > > > > > > P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO GOT > > MARRIED , > > > AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT TO BE > > HONEST , IT > > > IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL NEVER > > STAND FOR > > > U . > > > > > > On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING MY OLD > > LOVE. > > > > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME SUDDENLY A > > FEWS > > > > DAYS BACK. > > > > > > > > Background- > > > > > > > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too loved > > me > > > > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to time, > > after > > > > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > > > > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad financial > > > > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but she was > > harsh > > > > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > > > > > > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise for her > > > > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting married > > to a > > > > suitable girl. > > > > > > > > Though I know there is nothing left between us and its now a > > total > > > > end to the past relationship. But I am unable to forget her and > > wish > > > > to live my life without remebering her and getting married soon. > > > > > > > > Please help and guide me on this.. > > > > > > > > My details - > > > > 27/01/81 Mumbai 4.24 AM > > > > > > > > Thanks. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2007 Report Share Posted May 22, 2007 I would just say one thing ,no offence to any one , but in this material world , it is better to listen to your mind then to listen to ur heart.Heartwill make u cry for sure Don't cry for some one who did not love u , If he or she loved u , then she or he would have gather that strength.Ask your self , why do u have strength to fight the whole world , and why don't the other person not have , why ?? Prashu On 5/22/07, Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote: > > Bhaskarji, > did you not read Tarun's last sentence... " Ps-- Same story with me > too....still trying to recover after 2.5 yrs of seperation. " He's > still loves the girl..but is bitter becus the girl betrayed him. She > became too modern and he could not control that. It's good to be > practical, but one cannot just develop feelings for anyone at > anytime, simply becus they become ur spouse....that should happen, > but often, such as in Ganesh's case, it doesn't happen. And it goes > to show that he has a heart. > Tarun dear, if you had the " mentality to accept the good and bad > both " , then why r u still " trying to recover after 2.5 years of > separation " ?? Becus it's not ur mind that loves, it's ur heart. > Take care > > <%40>, > " Bhaskar " > <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > > > Beautiful, truthful and practical post. > > > > regards/Bhaskar. > > > > > > > > -- In <%40>, > ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst@> > wrote: > > > > > > Hello, > > > > > > everything is fair, everyone is correct. > > > now the problem arise when we dont think abt family when falling > in > > love...we should be enough > > > aware that our family will allow or not and then being matured > take > > a right decision to move > > > ahead. > > > > > > But truly saying i dont believe in Today's love stories...love > can > > happen with anyone, simply > > > anyone who cares for you. who think abt your well being. > > > > > > ITs the damn truth that even if a girl / boy is married to > someone > > other than who he/she loves , > > > he get develop feelings for his/her new partner in few days. > Because > > everyone just need one > > > partner. > > > > > > Because we have a mentality to accept the good and bad both . > > > The problem exists for only those who have big dreams. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Tarun > > > > > > Ps-- Same story with me too....still trying to recover after 2.5 > yrs > > of seperation. At final point > > > the partner refused to tell her family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002@> wrote: > > > > > > > Nothing done by way of remedies will help you(in this > particular > > > > situation) !!! Believe that!! Meditate...take it day by day. > But i > > > > would not totally agree with Prashu. The fact is, some people > are > > > > weak spiritually and make bad decisions...also could be the > > > > planetary effects that make one do wot they do. Regret is > inevitable > > > > for the other parties, becus love is the most beautiful thing. > She > > > > won't ever truly be happy becus she betrayed you. > > > > Now i understand abt guy/girl who cannot fight for their > love, > > > > well, have you met some of the parents in such cases?? I > HAVE!! They > > > > use their tactics to brainwash their child into believing they > are > > > > ruining the family name..etc. It is absolutely difficult for > the > > > > guys/girls in the situation. So let's not blame the weak. > Blame the > > > > huge egos of the family members, whose main concern is wot > society > > > > says. > > > > As long as you have a heart, you will love that person. > Becus we > > > > don't love with our eyes or mind, we love with our hearts! > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In <%40>, > " Prashant Doshi " > > > > <prashuastro@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Dear Friend, > > > > > > > > > > I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the > advice I am > > > > giving > > > > > you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human > being . I > > > > would just > > > > > like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy > as > > > > possible to > > > > > forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that > my > > > > remembering > > > > > her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more > time > > > > by just > > > > > thinking about her. > > > > > > > > > > Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) > > > > > > > > > > The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the > one who > > > > makes you > > > > > cry does not love u. > > > > > > > > > > This the fact > > > > > > > > > > so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A > new > > > > horizon is > > > > > waiting for u > > > > > > > > > > Best of luck mate. > > > > > > > > > > Regards > > > > > > > > > > Prashu > > > > > > > > > > P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO > GOT > > > > MARRIED , > > > > > AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT > TO BE > > > > HONEST , IT > > > > > IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL > NEVER > > > > STAND FOR > > > > > U . > > > > > > > > > > On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > > > > > > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING > MY OLD > > > > LOVE. > > > > > > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME > SUDDENLY A > > > > FEWS > > > > > > DAYS BACK. > > > > > > > > > > > > Background- > > > > > > > > > > > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too > loved > > > > me > > > > > > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to > time, > > > > after > > > > > > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > > > > > > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad > financial > > > > > > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but > she was > > > > harsh > > > > > > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > > > > > > > > > > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise > for her > > > > > > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting > married > > > > to a > > > > > > suitable girl. > > > > > > > > > > > > Though I know there is nothing left between us and its now > a > > > > total > > > > > > end to the past relationship. But I am unable to forget > her and > > > > wish > > > > > > to live my life without remebering her and getting married > soon. > > > > > > > > > > > > Please help and guide me on this.. > > > > > > > > > > > > My details - > > > > > > 27/01/81 Mumbai 4.24 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > Thanks. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2007 Report Share Posted May 22, 2007 Lets start one relationship forum...other than astrology --- Prashant Doshi <prashuastro wrote: > I would just say one thing ,no offence to any one , but in this material > world , it is better to listen to your mind then to listen to ur > heart.Heartwill make u cry for sure > > Don't cry for some one who did not love u , If he or she loved u , then she > or he would have gather that strength.Ask your self , why do u have strength > to fight the whole world , and why don't the other person not have , why ?? > > > Prashu > > On 5/22/07, Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote: > > > > Bhaskarji, > > did you not read Tarun's last sentence... " Ps-- Same story with me > > too....still trying to recover after 2.5 yrs of seperation. " He's > > still loves the girl..but is bitter becus the girl betrayed him. She > > became too modern and he could not control that. It's good to be > > practical, but one cannot just develop feelings for anyone at > > anytime, simply becus they become ur spouse....that should happen, > > but often, such as in Ganesh's case, it doesn't happen. And it goes > > to show that he has a heart. > > Tarun dear, if you had the " mentality to accept the good and bad > > both " , then why r u still " trying to recover after 2.5 years of > > separation " ?? Becus it's not ur mind that loves, it's ur heart. > > Take care > > > > <%40>, > > " Bhaskar " > > <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > > > > > Beautiful, truthful and practical post. > > > > > > regards/Bhaskar. > > > > > > > > > > > > -- In <%40>, > > ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst@> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > Hello, > > > > > > > > everything is fair, everyone is correct. > > > > now the problem arise when we dont think abt family when falling > > in > > > love...we should be enough > > > > aware that our family will allow or not and then being matured > > take > > > a right decision to move > > > > ahead. > > > > > > > > But truly saying i dont believe in Today's love stories...love > > can > > > happen with anyone, simply > > > > anyone who cares for you. who think abt your well being. > > > > > > > > ITs the damn truth that even if a girl / boy is married to > > someone > > > other than who he/she loves , > > > > he get develop feelings for his/her new partner in few days. > > Because > > > everyone just need one > > > > partner. > > > > > > > > Because we have a mentality to accept the good and bad both . > > > > The problem exists for only those who have big dreams. > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > Tarun > > > > > > > > Ps-- Same story with me too....still trying to recover after 2.5 > > yrs > > > of seperation. At final point > > > > the partner refused to tell her family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Nothing done by way of remedies will help you(in this > > particular > > > > > situation) !!! Believe that!! Meditate...take it day by day. > > But i > > > > > would not totally agree with Prashu. The fact is, some people > > are > > > > > weak spiritually and make bad decisions...also could be the > > > > > planetary effects that make one do wot they do. Regret is > > inevitable > > > > > for the other parties, becus love is the most beautiful thing. > > She > > > > > won't ever truly be happy becus she betrayed you. > > > > > Now i understand abt guy/girl who cannot fight for their > > love, > > > > > well, have you met some of the parents in such cases?? I > > HAVE!! They > > > > > use their tactics to brainwash their child into believing they > > are > > > > > ruining the family name..etc. It is absolutely difficult for > > the > > > > > guys/girls in the situation. So let's not blame the weak. > > Blame the > > > > > huge egos of the family members, whose main concern is wot > > society > > > > > says. > > > > > As long as you have a heart, you will love that person. > > Becus we > > > > > don't love with our eyes or mind, we love with our hearts! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In <%40>, > > " Prashant Doshi " > > > > > <prashuastro@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Friend, > > > > > > > > > > > > I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the > > advice I am > > > > > giving > > > > > > you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human > > being . I > > > > > would just > > > > > > like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy > > as > > > > > possible to > > > > > > forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that > > my > > > > > remembering > > > > > > her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more > > time > > > > > by just > > > > > > thinking about her. > > > > > > > > > > > > Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) > > > > > > > > > > > > The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the > > one who > > > > > makes you > > > > > > cry does not love u. > > > > > > > > > > > > This the fact > > > > > > > > > > > > so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A > > new > > > > > horizon is > > > > > > waiting for u > > > > > > > > > > > > Best of luck mate. > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards > > > > > > > > > > > > Prashu > > > > > > > > > > > > P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO > > GOT > > > > > MARRIED , > > > > > > AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT > > TO BE > > > > > HONEST , IT > > > > > > IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL > > NEVER > > > > > STAND FOR > > > > > > U . > > > > > > > > > > > > On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING > > MY OLD > > > > > LOVE. > > > > > > > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME > > SUDDENLY A > > > > > FEWS > > > > > > > DAYS BACK. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Background- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too > > loved > > > > > me > > > > > > > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to > > time, > > > > > after > > > > > > > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > > > > > > > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad > > financial > > > > > > > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but > > she was > > > > > harsh > > > > > > > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise > > for her > > > > > > > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting > > married > > > > > to a > > > > > > > suitable girl. > > > > > > > > === message truncated === Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you to download CHAT? http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2007 Report Share Posted May 22, 2007 Hhahahaha no worries cheers Prashu On 5/22/07, ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst wrote: > > Lets start one relationship forum...other than astrology > > --- Prashant Doshi <prashuastro <prashuastro%40gmail.com>> > wrote: > > > I would just say one thing ,no offence to any one , but in this material > > world , it is better to listen to your mind then to listen to ur > > heart.Heartwill make u cry for sure > > > > Don't cry for some one who did not love u , If he or she loved u , then > she > > or he would have gather that strength.Ask your self , why do u have > strength > > to fight the whole world , and why don't the other person not have , why > ?? > > > > > > Prashu > > > > On 5/22/07, Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002<ashna_singh_2002%40>> > wrote: > > > > > > Bhaskarji, > > > did you not read Tarun's last sentence... " Ps-- Same story with me > > > too....still trying to recover after 2.5 yrs of seperation. " He's > > > still loves the girl..but is bitter becus the girl betrayed him. She > > > became too modern and he could not control that. It's good to be > > > practical, but one cannot just develop feelings for anyone at > > > anytime, simply becus they become ur spouse....that should happen, > > > but often, such as in Ganesh's case, it doesn't happen. And it goes > > > to show that he has a heart. > > > Tarun dear, if you had the " mentality to accept the good and bad > > > both " , then why r u still " trying to recover after 2.5 years of > > > separation " ?? Becus it's not ur mind that loves, it's ur heart. > > > Take care > > > > > > --- In <%40> > <%40>, > > > " Bhaskar " > > > <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: > > > > > > > > Beautiful, truthful and practical post. > > > > > > > > regards/Bhaskar. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- In <%40><Jyotish_Rem\ edies%40>, > > > > ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst@> > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Hello, > > > > > > > > > > everything is fair, everyone is correct. > > > > > now the problem arise when we dont think abt family when falling > > > in > > > > love...we should be enough > > > > > aware that our family will allow or not and then being matured > > > take > > > > a right decision to move > > > > > ahead. > > > > > > > > > > But truly saying i dont believe in Today's love stories...love > > > can > > > > happen with anyone, simply > > > > > anyone who cares for you. who think abt your well being. > > > > > > > > > > ITs the damn truth that even if a girl / boy is married to > > > someone > > > > other than who he/she loves , > > > > > he get develop feelings for his/her new partner in few days. > > > Because > > > > everyone just need one > > > > > partner. > > > > > > > > > > Because we have a mentality to accept the good and bad both . > > > > > The problem exists for only those who have big dreams. > > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > > > > > Tarun > > > > > > > > > > Ps-- Same story with me too....still trying to recover after 2.5 > > > yrs > > > > of seperation. At final point > > > > > the partner refused to tell her family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > Nothing done by way of remedies will help you(in this > > > particular > > > > > > situation) !!! Believe that!! Meditate...take it day by day. > > > But i > > > > > > would not totally agree with Prashu. The fact is, some people > > > are > > > > > > weak spiritually and make bad decisions...also could be the > > > > > > planetary effects that make one do wot they do. Regret is > > > inevitable > > > > > > for the other parties, becus love is the most beautiful thing. > > > She > > > > > > won't ever truly be happy becus she betrayed you. > > > > > > Now i understand abt guy/girl who cannot fight for their > > > love, > > > > > > well, have you met some of the parents in such cases?? I > > > HAVE!! They > > > > > > use their tactics to brainwash their child into believing they > > > are > > > > > > ruining the family name..etc. It is absolutely difficult for > > > the > > > > > > guys/girls in the situation. So let's not blame the weak. > > > Blame the > > > > > > huge egos of the family members, whose main concern is wot > > > society > > > > > > says. > > > > > > As long as you have a heart, you will love that person. > > > Becus we > > > > > > don't love with our eyes or mind, we love with our hearts! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In <%40><Jyotish_Rem\ edies%40>, > > > > " Prashant Doshi " > > > > > > <prashuastro@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Friend, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am not a an astrologer, I am a learner only but the > > > advice I am > > > > > > giving > > > > > > > you is not according to your horoscope , but as a human > > > being . I > > > > > > would just > > > > > > > like to tell one thing , Make your self busy , as much busy > > > as > > > > > > possible to > > > > > > > forget her. Also u have to tell Ur mind, body and soul that > > > my > > > > > > remembering > > > > > > > her , it is not going to help you, In fact u will loss more > > > time > > > > > > by just > > > > > > > thinking about her. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Remember this (a very good friend of mine told me) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The person who loves you will never make you cry , and the > > > one who > > > > > > makes you > > > > > > > cry does not love u. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > This the fact > > > > > > > > > > > > > > so be a man and forget all the past , and move ahead . A > > > new > > > > > > horizon is > > > > > > > waiting for u > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Best of luck mate. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Regards > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Prashu > > > > > > > > > > > > > > P.S: i HAVE ALSO HAD AN AFFAIR FOR 4 YEAR , AND MY GF ALSO > > > GOT > > > > > > MARRIED , > > > > > > > AND CAME BACK AND SAID SHE DID A BIG MISTAKE AND ALL , BUT > > > TO BE > > > > > > HONEST , IT > > > > > > > IS ALL CRAP. a PERSON WHO CANNOT STAND FOR U FIRST TIME WILL > > > NEVER > > > > > > STAND FOR > > > > > > > U . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On 5/20/07, emailidundisclosed <emailidundisclosed@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I AM WRITING THIS, BECAUSE I AM VERY UPSET AFTER MEETING > > > MY OLD > > > > > > LOVE. > > > > > > > > SHE HAS GOT MARRIED SINCE LAST 15 MONTHS AND MET ME > > > SUDDENLY A > > > > > > FEWS > > > > > > > > DAYS BACK. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Background- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I was deeply in love with this girl sine I was 19. She too > > > loved > > > > > > me > > > > > > > > and our intensions were to get married in accordance to > > > time, > > > > > > after > > > > > > > > an affair, 4 years old. But due to some reasons she felt > > > > > > > > uncomfortable to stay with me. That was due to some bad > > > financial > > > > > > > > condition in her family. We parted quite smoothly , but > > > she was > > > > > > harsh > > > > > > > > to me, as I would'nt have left her easily. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now she gathered enough courage to face me and apologise > > > for her > > > > > > > > behaviour and suggested me to live my life after getting > > > married > > > > > > to a > > > > > > > > suitable girl. > > > > > > > > > > > === message truncated === > > Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you to download > CHAT? http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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