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i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this forum,

people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i shud

have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get some

answers around in this place.

 

regards

 

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Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have not got

westernised to get attracted to the boys.

 

But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air, please say

what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

and why were they expected to answer it ?

 

Bhaskar.

 

 

, " viveksiwatch "

<viveksiwatch wrote:

>

> i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

forum,

> people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i shud

> have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get some

> answers around in this place.

>

> regards

>

> vivek

>

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Hello Vivek Ji - I think what happens here that girls get a sort of sympathy

from the members. Well I don't think it's abour attraction. Even I would feel

much sympathized about a girl, than a boy. This is just a psychology. Generally

we consider girls to be softer and unfit to fight problems. Still, all suffer

from problems and feel helpless and broken at some point. Even in a crisis,

ladies and children are given privileges. Not men.

 

Regards

Tanvir

 

 

 

What cannot happen, can never happen.

Which is mine, is forever mine.

 

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Friday, March 23, 2007 11:24 PM

Re: basic psyche

 

 

Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have not got

westernised to get attracted to the boys.

 

But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air, please say

what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

and why were they expected to answer it ?

 

Bhaskar.

 

 

, " viveksiwatch "

<viveksiwatch wrote:

>

> i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

forum,

> people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i shud

> have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get some

> answers around in this place.

>

> regards

>

> vivek

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE

OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

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bhaskar ji

 

i knew such a post will definitely bring replies. I had already

posted the query 4 times earlier. Somehow that is always invisible,

but such posts get a reply within seconds.

 

anyways thanks for your time, it does not matter

 

regards

 

vivek

 

, " Bhaskar "

<bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

>

> Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have not got

> westernised to get attracted to the boys.

>

> But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air, please

say

> what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

> and why were they expected to answer it ?

>

> Bhaskar.

>

>

> , " viveksiwatch "

> <viveksiwatch@> wrote:

> >

> > i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

> forum,

> > people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i

shud

> > have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get

some

> > answers around in this place.

> >

> > regards

> >

> > vivek

> >

>

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Dear vivek,

 

You have replied so sensibly that i wish to gift You.

Tomorrow I shall search for your query and

try to reply you. (Only 2 Important queries)

If i do not reply you, then pl.do not hesitate to remind me.

 

best wishes,

Bhaskar.

 

 

, " viveksiwatch "

<viveksiwatch wrote:

>

> bhaskar ji

>

> i knew such a post will definitely bring replies. I had already

> posted the query 4 times earlier. Somehow that is always invisible,

> but such posts get a reply within seconds.

>

> anyways thanks for your time, it does not matter

>

> regards

>

> vivek

>

> , " Bhaskar "

> <bhaskar_jyotish@> wrote:

> >

> > Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have not got

> > westernised to get attracted to the boys.

> >

> > But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air,

please

> say

> > what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

> > and why were they expected to answer it ?

> >

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> >

> > , " viveksiwatch "

> > <viveksiwatch@> wrote:

> > >

> > > i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

> > forum,

> > > people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i

> shud

> > > have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get

> some

> > > answers around in this place.

> > >

> > > regards

> > >

> > > vivek

> > >

> >

>

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Jai Sri Kishna

Namaste All respected members

 

I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the Indians, but

here in this even males also get queries answered at the earliest and again i

should say it is luck of person. i got my queries answered many a times on the

same day

 

Dont worry Mr Vivek, u also will get answers, when time to get answers is in

your favour

 

 

doulat

 

Jai Shri Krishna

 

 

 

in> wrote:

Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have not got

westernised to get attracted to the boys.

 

But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air, please say

what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

and why were they expected to answer it ?

 

Bhaskar.

 

, " viveksiwatch "

<viveksiwatch wrote:

>

> i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

forum,

> people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i shud

> have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get some

> answers around in this place.

>

> regards

>

> vivek

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't pick lemons.

See all the new 2007 cars at Autos.

 

 

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Doulat Bhai,

 

Jai Shri Krishna,

 

You are so right. On astrology Forums theres no difference

between a querist male or female. Of course attractive names

of ladies on e mail ids does make a reader glance at the

post for few seconds more, its just natural as Shri Tanvirji

mentioned, its quite natural all over the world, for everyone

to have a soft corner for the female factor,which comes from

birth itself lying inside the womb of ones mother,then

getting breast fed from her, then staying in her arms

till one grows strong enough to walk, and always even

during the schooling too one calls so often during the

day " Mummy " " Mama " or whatever. Then one marries, again

the female factor is there. In fact a women is a strong

support in a mans life. And life itself is empty without

any female,be it a wife,mother,sister,or female friend.

No better place than a mothers arms or laps for a small

baby,even when one is a old man, I do not think one can

miss the love from the female factors received.

 

Astrologically, whoever may be the querist, the answers

come only at the right time. meeting a astrologer and a good

one is decided by fate, getting proper replies and advise

is again decided by fate,then working on those remedial measures

thus advised is also decided by your chart. If these work in

ones favour, when the proper dasha is sbout to arrive

(Mostly at the end of the worse dashas when they come to close)

then all the above happens.

 

regards,

Bhaskar.

 

 

, doulat <doulat1 wrote:

>

> Jai Sri Kishna

> Namaste All respected members

>

> I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the

Indians, but here in this even males also get queries answered at

the earliest and again i should say it is luck of person. i got my

queries answered many a times on the same day

>

> Dont worry Mr Vivek, u also will get answers, when time to get

answers is in your favour

>

>

> doulat

>

> Jai Shri Krishna

>

>

>

> in> wrote:

> Yes girls are still attractive for the Indians. We have

not got

> westernised to get attracted to the boys.

>

> But dear Vivek, instead of commenting like this in the air, please

say

> what was your query and why did not anyone answer it,

> and why were they expected to answer it ?

>

> Bhaskar.

>

> , " viveksiwatch "

> <viveksiwatch@> wrote:

> >

> > i have noticed that when a girl asks a general question on this

> forum,

> > people reply it within hours or atleast within a day or two...i

shud

> > have posted my queries from a girl's id if I had wanted to get

some

> > answers around in this place.

> >

> > regards

> >

> > vivek

> >

 

> Don't pick lemons.

> See all the new 2007 cars at Autos.

>

>

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, doulat <doulat1 wrote:

>

> Jai Sri Kishna

> Namaste All respected members

>

> I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the

>Indians, but here in this even males also get queries answered at

the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

 

I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her queries

answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded to by

many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like Vivek

and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got anything to do

with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give preference to

westerners.

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No this is not third world mentality, but third class behaviour and

third grade mentality of third world. You would find mostly Indians

asking for free predictions most of the times and on most of the forums

and multiple postings. Why are the westerners having less of queries to

post? Dont they have any problems in life ? No they do have.

It is because they are more self respecting towards themselves and

toewards others and their times. You find so many ungrateful indian

members who dont give feedback too after recieving replies, and asking

a dozen questions in their postings as if everyone is sitting free for

them.

 

That is why and the strong reason why Westerners are preferred to be

replied rather than the Indian counterparts.

 

Bhaskar.

 

 

, " suresh1511978 "

<suresh1511978 wrote:

>

> , doulat <doulat1@> wrote:

> >

> > Jai Sri Kishna

> > Namaste All respected members

> >

> > I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the

> >Indians, but here in this even males also get queries answered at

> the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

>

> I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her queries

> answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded to by

> many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like Vivek

> and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got anything to do

> with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give preference to

> westerners.

>

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Respected Gurujans,

So much is WIRTTEN in this. let me ask one thing here.

WHY DO WE SEARCH AND FEED KANYAs IN NAVARATAs ONLY TO

FEMALE CHILD. if possible, please give me some

knowledge on this. IT IS NAVARATRA time and female is

in question in this forum put by us in terms of giving

more soft and priority. in my thinking

these are real GOGGESS in this earth taken care in one

hand and when time comes for their self dependence are

thrown for others welfare to make the generation run.

These are alive for others but not for their own.

Kindly bless me with your suggestions.'

Sincerely yours,

--- Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

 

> No this is not third world mentality, but third

> class behaviour and

> third grade mentality of third world. You would find

> mostly Indians

> asking for free predictions most of the times and on

> most of the forums

> and multiple postings. Why are the westerners having

> less of queries to

> post? Dont they have any problems in life ? No they

> do have.

> It is because they are more self respecting towards

> themselves and

> toewards others and their times. You find so many

> ungrateful indian

> members who dont give feedback too after recieving

> replies, and asking

> a dozen questions in their postings as if everyone

> is sitting free for

> them.

>

> That is why and the strong reason why Westerners are

> preferred to be

> replied rather than the Indian counterparts.

>

> Bhaskar.

>

>

> ,

> " suresh1511978 "

> <suresh1511978 wrote:

> >

> > , doulat

> <doulat1@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Jai Sri Kishna

> > > Namaste All respected members

> > >

> > > I agree with the statement that girls are

> attractive for the

> > >Indians, but here in this even males also get

> queries answered at

> > the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of

> person.

> >

> > I think a westerner has better chances of getting

> his/her queries

> > answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has

> been responded to by

> > many people, and that too in quick time, whereas

> Indians like Vivek

> > and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think

> it's got anything to do

> > with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality

> to give preference to

> > westerners.

> >

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

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Yes NavDurga.Nine Forms for the Nau Ratris.

Women are the Storehouses of Love,Affection,Warmth,

Virtous,Patience and care. They are the real Goddesses

on earth.And always to be respected in pure Virgin Form,

small girls who have not attained puberty,

specially.

 

, prasad chandra

<cpgahtyari wrote:

>

> Respected Gurujans,

> So much is WIRTTEN in this. let me ask one thing here.

> WHY DO WE SEARCH AND FEED KANYAs IN NAVARATAs ONLY TO

> FEMALE CHILD. if possible, please give me some

> knowledge on this. IT IS NAVARATRA time and female is

> in question in this forum put by us in terms of giving

> more soft and priority. in my thinking

> these are real GOGGESS in this earth taken care in one

> hand and when time comes for their self dependence are

> thrown for others welfare to make the generation run.

> These are alive for others but not for their own.

> Kindly bless me with your suggestions.'

> Sincerely yours,

> --- Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

>

> > No this is not third world mentality, but third

> > class behaviour and

> > third grade mentality of third world. You would find

> > mostly Indians

> > asking for free predictions most of the times and on

> > most of the forums

> > and multiple postings. Why are the westerners having

> > less of queries to

> > post? Dont they have any problems in life ? No they

> > do have.

> > It is because they are more self respecting towards

> > themselves and

> > toewards others and their times. You find so many

> > ungrateful indian

> > members who dont give feedback too after recieving

> > replies, and asking

> > a dozen questions in their postings as if everyone

> > is sitting free for

> > them.

> >

> > That is why and the strong reason why Westerners are

> > preferred to be

> > replied rather than the Indian counterparts.

> >

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> >

> > ,

> > " suresh1511978 "

> > <suresh1511978@> wrote:

> > >

> > > , doulat

> > <doulat1@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Jai Sri Kishna

> > > > Namaste All respected members

> > > >

> > > > I agree with the statement that girls are

> > attractive for the

> > > >Indians, but here in this even males also get

> > queries answered at

> > > the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of

> > person.

> > >

> > > I think a westerner has better chances of getting

> > his/her queries

> > > answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has

> > been responded to by

> > > many people, and that too in quick time, whereas

> > Indians like Vivek

> > > and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think

> > it's got anything to do

> > > with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality

> > to give preference to

> > > westerners.

> > >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

>

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Dear Mr. Suresh,

 

Jai Shri Krishna,

 

Since I had promised a gift of reading to mr.Vivek today,

I sat down to make Mr.Viveks chart,but something clicked

in my mind, that made me check the Past Messages from

" Jyotish Ganga " , and I noticed that I have already replied

him, and there were 12 postings connected to that thread.

 

Your comments are welcome on above..

In fact I would like you to put your

comments also connected with my reply

to the posting regarding preference being

given to westerners, and affirmations

from your side to my previous reply to you.

 

You should have a word now for the other party too.

 

Kind regards,

Bhaskar.

 

 

 

 

, " suresh1511978 "

<suresh1511978 wrote:

>

> , doulat <doulat1@> wrote:

> >

> > Jai Sri Kishna

> > Namaste All respected members

> >

> > I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the

> >Indians, but here in this even males also get queries answered at

> the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

>

> I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her queries

> answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded to by

> many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like Vivek

> and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got anything to do

> with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give preference to

> westerners.

>

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Dear Bhaskar,

 

Thanks for your mail. I really do understand your sentiments.

 

Whilst I cannot defend Mr. Vivek's actions (cuz I hardly know the

man), I do have a few things to say in defense of Indians whom you

perceive to be ungrateful. See, most Indians who ask questions are

desperate, and in need of help. You can't expect a 'thank you' note

from someone who wants to know if his child is gonna survive, right?

Second, there are many people who find this " thank you culture " a bit

mechanical, to say the least.

 

For instance, I've always felt grateful to the people who've responded

to my queries, but I am not the type of person to show it. That's my

nature, and if you misconstrue this as ingratitude, I am sorry about

that. But I can only assure you and every sincere astrologer that

there are many Indians like me out there, who have tremendous respect

for you, but just don't display it as openly as do the westerners.

 

As to Indians wanting a free ride, well, what do you expect from us

poor folks? If we were rich, do you think we'd be troubling you for

predictions? Suffice it to say we're not in sound condition, financial

or otherwise, which is the reason for this desperation. And this

shouldn't be mistaken for greed. All I am asking is, Please try to see

our side too, particularly when I am willing to see yours. Let's not

fight over this anymore.

 

I hope this mail has cleared things up a little. Let's pray for better

sense to prevail.

 

Warm Regards,

Suresh

 

, " Bhaskar "

<bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

>

> Dear Mr. Suresh,

>

> Jai Shri Krishna,

>

> Since I had promised a gift of reading to mr.Vivek today,

> I sat down to make Mr.Viveks chart,but something clicked

> in my mind, that made me check the Past Messages from

> " Jyotish Ganga " , and I noticed that I have already replied

> him, and there were 12 postings connected to that thread.

>

> Your comments are welcome on above..

> In fact I would like you to put your

> comments also connected with my reply

> to the posting regarding preference being

> given to westerners, and affirmations

> from your side to my previous reply to you.

>

> You should have a word now for the other party too.

>

> Kind regards,

> Bhaskar.

>

>

>

>

> , " suresh1511978 "

> <suresh1511978@> wrote:

> >

> > , doulat <doulat1@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Jai Sri Kishna

> > > Namaste All respected members

> > >

> > > I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for the

> > >Indians, but here in this even males also get queries answered at

> > the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

> >

> > I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her queries

> > answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded to by

> > many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like Vivek

> > and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got anything to do

> > with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give preference to

> > westerners.

> >

>

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Dear Suresh,

 

Jai Shri Krishna.

 

That was indeed consoling for me to, say the least.

 

//I do have a few things to say in defense of Indians whom you

> perceive to be ungrateful. See, most Indians who ask questions are

> desperate, and in need of help. You can't expect a 'thank you' note

> from someone who wants to know if his child is gonna survive, right?

> Second, there are many people who find this " thank you culture " a

bit mechanical, to say the least. //

 

Point well taken and seconded. No one needs a thank you. Nor

a display of such sentiments. But even a show of ingratitude hurts.

After a certain point in a mans life, he stops seeking for his wife

to be lovable, but he certainly would not

wish her to be nagging and sarcastic all the day long.

At the same time I would not say that a Thank You is a

mechancial response.It should be a rightful response which is food

to the soul of the astrologer who has spent his time.

Just like a singer may not get money for singing on the stage

but a standing ovation and sound of claps

is all that he seeks if his song has been sung well enough.

This much is expected and not wrongly so. Yet

no one demands this .Neither do I.

 

//As to Indians wanting a free ride, well, what do you expect from us

> poor folks? If we were rich, do you think we'd be troubling you for

> predictions? Suffice it to say we're not in sound condition,

financial

> or otherwise, which is the reason for this desperation. //

 

In the same vein, if the astrologers who were working for free here,

were rich enough, why would they be here in the first place ?

Certainly something important is missing in their lives, whichj

is the reason they have taken it upon themselves to be here,

to compensate for that soemthing lost, which may be

money, love, affection, need for company,loneliness,

companionship or a sense of being needed,whatever. So

they should also not be targetted unnecessarily.

Even they are tender hearted and need some better

responses,then what was witnessed. Even I am a Indian

and we have common problems -most of them.

 

//Let's not

> fight over this anymore.//

 

I do not fight over trivial matters. But they provoke such things.

And when a person is true then it hurts.

 

// hope this mail has cleared things up a little. Let's pray for

better

> sense to prevail. //

 

Thank You. You have been justice minded and spoken for both the

sides, which is appreciated.

 

regards,

Bhaskar.

 

 

 

, " suresh1511978 "

<suresh1511978 wrote:

>

> Dear Bhaskar,

>

> Thanks for your mail. I really do understand your sentiments.

>

> Whilst I cannot defend Mr. Vivek's actions (cuz I hardly know the

> man), I do have a few things to say in defense of Indians whom you

> perceive to be ungrateful. See, most Indians who ask questions are

> desperate, and in need of help. You can't expect a 'thank you' note

> from someone who wants to know if his child is gonna survive, right?

> Second, there are many people who find this " thank you culture " a

bit

> mechanical, to say the least.

>

> For instance, I've always felt grateful to the people who've

responded

> to my queries, but I am not the type of person to show it. That's my

> nature, and if you misconstrue this as ingratitude, I am sorry about

> that. But I can only assure you and every sincere astrologer that

> there are many Indians like me out there, who have tremendous

respect

> for you, but just don't display it as openly as do the westerners.

>

> As to Indians wanting a free ride, well, what do you expect from us

> poor folks? If we were rich, do you think we'd be troubling you for

> predictions? Suffice it to say we're not in sound condition,

financial

> or otherwise, which is the reason for this desperation. And this

> shouldn't be mistaken for greed. All I am asking is, Please try to

see

> our side too, particularly when I am willing to see yours. Let's not

> fight over this anymore.

>

> I hope this mail has cleared things up a little. Let's pray for

better

> sense to prevail.

>

> Warm Regards,

> Suresh

>

> , " Bhaskar "

> <bhaskar_jyotish@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Mr. Suresh,

> >

> > Jai Shri Krishna,

> >

> > Since I had promised a gift of reading to mr.Vivek today,

> > I sat down to make Mr.Viveks chart,but something clicked

> > in my mind, that made me check the Past Messages from

> > " Jyotish Ganga " , and I noticed that I have already replied

> > him, and there were 12 postings connected to that thread.

> >

> > Your comments are welcome on above..

> > In fact I would like you to put your

> > comments also connected with my reply

> > to the posting regarding preference being

> > given to westerners, and affirmations

> > from your side to my previous reply to you.

> >

> > You should have a word now for the other party too.

> >

> > Kind regards,

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > , " suresh1511978 "

> > <suresh1511978@> wrote:

> > >

> > > , doulat <doulat1@>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Jai Sri Kishna

> > > > Namaste All respected members

> > > >

> > > > I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for

the

> > > >Indians, but here in this even males also get queries

answered at

> > > the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

> > >

> > > I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her

queries

> > > answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded

to by

> > > many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like

Vivek

> > > and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got

anything to do

> > > with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give

preference to

> > > westerners.

> > >

> >

>

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Jai Shri Krishna,

 

Namaste Bhaskar Sir and all repected learned members,

 

Bhaskar Sir, you are really great, that eventhough u replied for Mr Vivek,

earlier in some forum, still u thought for him, but after recalling about the

replies made by u, it really troubled u.

 

Sir, I know only one thing, that whenever the time is in persons favour, the

jatak gets queries replied, remedies done by him properly and things are done in

time. I thankyou Sir that even u replied my query long back, things are normal,

inspite of ur busy schedule.

 

 

Sir, u please forget abt Mr.Vivek, let him/anyone think/say anything, The

Almighty knows the reality. (Sir, main mafi chahta hoon, mai to bahut chhota

hu, mujhe aise nahi bolna chahiye apko, k ap Mr.Vivek k bare mein sochna chhod

dijye).

 

Thankyou Sir

 

doulat

 

Jai Shri Krishna

 

Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

Dear Suresh,

 

Jai Shri Krishna.

 

That was indeed consoling for me to, say the least.

 

//I do have a few things to say in defense of Indians whom you

> perceive to be ungrateful. See, most Indians who ask questions are

> desperate, and in need of help. You can't expect a 'thank you' note

> from someone who wants to know if his child is gonna survive, right?

> Second, there are many people who find this " thank you culture " a

bit mechanical, to say the least. //

 

Point well taken and seconded. No one needs a thank you. Nor

a display of such sentiments. But even a show of ingratitude hurts.

After a certain point in a mans life, he stops seeking for his wife

to be lovable, but he certainly would not

wish her to be nagging and sarcastic all the day long.

At the same time I would not say that a Thank You is a

mechancial response.It should be a rightful response which is food

to the soul of the astrologer who has spent his time.

Just like a singer may not get money for singing on the stage

but a standing ovation and sound of claps

is all that he seeks if his song has been sung well enough.

This much is expected and not wrongly so. Yet

no one demands this .Neither do I.

 

//As to Indians wanting a free ride, well, what do you expect from us

> poor folks? If we were rich, do you think we'd be troubling you for

> predictions? Suffice it to say we're not in sound condition,

financial

> or otherwise, which is the reason for this desperation. //

 

In the same vein, if the astrologers who were working for free here,

were rich enough, why would they be here in the first place ?

Certainly something important is missing in their lives, whichj

is the reason they have taken it upon themselves to be here,

to compensate for that soemthing lost, which may be

money, love, affection, need for company,loneliness,

companionship or a sense of being needed,whatever. So

they should also not be targetted unnecessarily.

Even they are tender hearted and need some better

responses,then what was witnessed. Even I am a Indian

and we have common problems -most of them.

 

//Let's not

> fight over this anymore.//

 

I do not fight over trivial matters. But they provoke such things.

And when a person is true then it hurts.

 

// hope this mail has cleared things up a little. Let's pray for

better

> sense to prevail. //

 

Thank You. You have been justice minded and spoken for both the

sides, which is appreciated.

 

regards,

Bhaskar.

 

, " suresh1511978 "

<suresh1511978 wrote:

>

> Dear Bhaskar,

>

> Thanks for your mail. I really do understand your sentiments.

>

> Whilst I cannot defend Mr. Vivek's actions (cuz I hardly know the

> man), I do have a few things to say in defense of Indians whom you

> perceive to be ungrateful. See, most Indians who ask questions are

> desperate, and in need of help. You can't expect a 'thank you' note

> from someone who wants to know if his child is gonna survive, right?

> Second, there are many people who find this " thank you culture " a

bit

> mechanical, to say the least.

>

> For instance, I've always felt grateful to the people who've

responded

> to my queries, but I am not the type of person to show it. That's my

> nature, and if you misconstrue this as ingratitude, I am sorry about

> that. But I can only assure you and every sincere astrologer that

> there are many Indians like me out there, who have tremendous

respect

> for you, but just don't display it as openly as do the westerners.

>

> As to Indians wanting a free ride, well, what do you expect from us

> poor folks? If we were rich, do you think we'd be troubling you for

> predictions? Suffice it to say we're not in sound condition,

financial

> or otherwise, which is the reason for this desperation. And this

> shouldn't be mistaken for greed. All I am asking is, Please try to

see

> our side too, particularly when I am willing to see yours. Let's not

> fight over this anymore.

>

> I hope this mail has cleared things up a little. Let's pray for

better

> sense to prevail.

>

> Warm Regards,

> Suresh

>

> , " Bhaskar "

> <bhaskar_jyotish@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Mr. Suresh,

> >

> > Jai Shri Krishna,

> >

> > Since I had promised a gift of reading to mr.Vivek today,

> > I sat down to make Mr.Viveks chart,but something clicked

> > in my mind, that made me check the Past Messages from

> > " Jyotish Ganga " , and I noticed that I have already replied

> > him, and there were 12 postings connected to that thread.

> >

> > Your comments are welcome on above..

> > In fact I would like you to put your

> > comments also connected with my reply

> > to the posting regarding preference being

> > given to westerners, and affirmations

> > from your side to my previous reply to you.

> >

> > You should have a word now for the other party too.

> >

> > Kind regards,

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > , " suresh1511978 "

> > <suresh1511978@> wrote:

> > >

> > > , doulat <doulat1@>

wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Jai Sri Kishna

> > > > Namaste All respected members

> > > >

> > > > I agree with the statement that girls are attractive for

the

> > > >Indians, but here in this even males also get queries

answered at

> > > the >earliest and again i should say it is luck of person.

> > >

> > > I think a westerner has better chances of getting his/her

queries

> > > answered, irrespective of gender. " Elaine " has been responded

to by

> > > many people, and that too in quick time, whereas Indians like

Vivek

> > > and Suresh must wait forever! So I don't think it's got

anything to do

> > > with gender, it's a normal third-world mentality to give

preference to

> > > westerners.

> > >

> >

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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