Guest guest Posted February 24, 2009 Report Share Posted February 24, 2009 ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). Dear Riaz, I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic. Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just as we can say for all the other communities, that all are not good. I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations and not meant for evey individual of that group. I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us. blessings, Bhaskar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 24, 2009 Report Share Posted February 24, 2009 Dear Bhaskar Sir,Appreciate this mail from you.....to Mr. RiazIn my opinion, there is only two category 1. GOOD and HUMANE and 2. BAD and INHUMANE.We Indians, more so, believe that all religions are Pious and ultimate aim for all the Religion is ONE and that is ONENESS with HIM.People who kill in the name of religions or spread hatred are Non-believers for me whether they are Hindus, Muslims, Christians, Sikhs, Buddhist or any other religion . No religion preaches terrorist activities. We are there whenever and wherever you need us, Sir.Warm RegardsChandraBhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Sent: Tuesday, 24 February, 2009 8:58:29 PM Apology mail to Mr. Riaz ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). Dear Riaz, I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic. Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just as we can say for all the other communities, that all are not good. I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations and not meant for evey individual of that group. I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us. blessings, Bhaskar Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Invite them now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 24, 2009 Report Share Posted February 24, 2009 WELL SAID .--- On Tue, 24/2/09, chandrasekhar sahal <chandrasekharsahal wrote: chandrasekhar sahal <chandrasekharsahalRe: Apology mail to Mr. Riaz Date: Tuesday, 24 February, 2009, 4:07 PM Dear Bhaskar Sir,Appreciate this mail from you.....to Mr. RiazIn my opinion, there is only two category 1. GOOD and HUMANE and 2. BAD and INHUMANE.We Indians, more so, believe that all religions are Pious and ultimate aim for all the Religion is ONE and that is ONENESS with HIM.People who kill in the name of religions or spread hatred are Non-believers for me whether they are Hindus, Muslims, Christians, Sikhs, Buddhist or any other religion . No religion preaches terrorist activities. We are there whenever and wherever you need us, Sir.Warm RegardsChandra Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish@ .co. in>Tuesday, 24 February, 2009 8:58:29 PM Apology mail to Mr. Riaz ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). Dear Riaz, I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic. Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just as we can say for all the other communities, that all are not good. I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations and not meant for evey individual of that group. I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us. blessings, Bhaskar Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Invite them now. Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Invite them now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2009 Report Share Posted February 25, 2009 DEAR BHASKARJI, I am sure all of us ,or to be more correct ,MOST of us appriciate your wise gesture...because when we react in the way someone wants us to,by provoking us, we let him win......SO you have proved now ,by apologising and putting an end to the whole episode , that YOU are the ULTIMATE WINNER ...--- On Tue, 2/24/09, Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Apology mail to Mr. Riaz Date: Tuesday, February 24, 2009, 10:28 AM ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). Dear Riaz, I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic. Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just as we can say for all the other communities, that all are not good. I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations and not meant for evey individual of that group. I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us. blessings, Bhaskar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2009 Report Share Posted February 25, 2009 Dear Kiranji, Woh aadmi kya joh jameen par pade hue ko aur giraave, woh mard kya joh apnese kamjor ko maare. I do not like to fight anybody who is weak. I want even my enemies to be well fed before I confront them. There is no greatness to fight anyone who is below you by any standards. In this case, the boy was mis-leaded by certain bad elements, and he surrendered out of good sense prevailing due to evidence and proof mounting and piling against him which could land him ins erious legal trouble. I do not enjoy this type of surrenderances. I enjoy surrender from the heart. Which is why I thought it proper to leave some respect with the boy too, and I dont mind apologising if I have committed a mistake. OF COURSE THE CRIME COMMITTED BY THIS BOY DOES NOT MATCH MY CRIME WHICH BILLIONS ARE COMMITTING ALL OVER THE WORLD DUE TO HAVING SUFFERED AT THE HANDS OF THIS COMMUNITY,. but hurting a boy who was not responsible for crimes committed by others from his community, is not right, and so I wanted to clear the poisons affecting his system due to my utterances. Also he has along way ahead in Life. We do not wish to allow any poisons in his personality to remain from our side, otherwise they will come up at every stage of his Life till he lives. So I thought that the better option is to become eqally quits rather than leaving him with a sense of total defeat and a feeling of being crushed. As I have mentioned previously,the boy just did not ask me an apology, but when he spoke to me on phone for length of about 45 minutes, I could sense his hurt at my statements, and his repentance at having hurt me. Anyways, I had read a book many many years ago by Dale carnegie " How to win............... " I remembered one advice vividly. That one does not win even if he wins apparently in any argument or any duel. Because the feeling of defeat resting with the person defetaed in any duel of any kind, will never allow him to be a friend to the person who was instrumental in defeating him. So its always better to play any game and if you defeat anybody, still respect the opposite person for what he is and very graciously uplift him so that he enjoys in your win, rather than sulks at his own defeat. best wishes, Bhaskar. , kiran dasaur <kirandasaur wrote:>> DEAR BHASKARJI, I am sure all of us ,or to be more correct ,MOST of us appriciate your wise gesture...because when we react in the way someone wants us to,by provoking us, we let him win......SO you have proved now ,by apologising and putting an end to the whole episode , that YOU are the ULTIMATE WINNER ...> > --- On Tue, 2/24/09, Bhaskar bhaskar_jyotish wrote:> > Bhaskar bhaskar_jyotish Apology mail to Mr. Riaz> > Tuesday, February 24, 2009, 10:28 AM> > > > > > > > ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). > > Dear Riaz,> > I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for> religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic.> > Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your > community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, > yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just > as we can say for all the other communities, that all> are not good.> > I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, > and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured > my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure> that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations> and not meant for evey individual of that group. > > I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step> forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us.> > blessings,> Bhaskar> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2009 Report Share Posted February 25, 2009 wellsaid bhaskarji...but U didn;t tell me if I can send my contact details for learning astrology on UR personal ID....I wouldn't like to give my address and phone no. for everybody and anybody to use.--- On Wed, 2/25/09, Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Re: Apology mail to Mr. Riaz Date: Wednesday, February 25, 2009, 1:19 AM Dear Kiranji, Woh aadmi kya joh jameen par pade hue ko aur giraave, woh mard kya joh apnese kamjor ko maare. I do not like to fight anybody who is weak. I want even my enemies to be well fed before I confront them. There is no greatness to fight anyone who is below you by any standards. In this case, the boy was mis-leaded by certain bad elements, and he surrendered out of good sense prevailing due to evidence and proof mounting and piling against him which could land him ins erious legal trouble. I do not enjoy this type of surrenderances. I enjoy surrender from the heart. Which is why I thought it proper to leave some respect with the boy too, and I dont mind apologising if I have committed a mistake. OF COURSE THE CRIME COMMITTED BY THIS BOY DOES NOT MATCH MY CRIME WHICH BILLIONS ARE COMMITTING ALL OVER THE WORLD DUE TO HAVING SUFFERED AT THE HANDS OF THIS COMMUNITY,. but hurting a boy who was not responsible for crimes committed by others from his community, is not right, and so I wanted to clear the poisons affecting his system due to my utterances. Also he has along way ahead in Life. We do not wish to allow any poisons in his personality to remain from our side, otherwise they will come up at every stage of his Life till he lives. So I thought that the better option is to become eqally quits rather than leaving him with a sense of total defeat and a feeling of being crushed. As I have mentioned previously,the boy just did not ask me an apology, but when he spoke to me on phone for length of about 45 minutes, I could sense his hurt at my statements, and his repentance at having hurt me. Anyways, I had read a book many many years ago by Dale carnegie " How to win......... ...... " I remembered one advice vividly. That one does not win even if he wins apparently in any argument or any duel. Because the feeling of defeat resting with the person defetaed in any duel of any kind, will never allow him to be a friend to the person who was instrumental in defeating him. So its always better to play any game and if you defeat anybody, still respect the opposite person for what he is and very graciously uplift him so that he enjoys in your win, rather than sulks at his own defeat. best wishes, Bhaskar. , kiran dasaur <kirandasaur@ ...> wrote:>> DEAR BHASKARJI, I am sure all of us ,or to be more correct ,MOST of us appriciate your wise gesture...because when we react in the way someone wants us to,by provoking us, we let him win......SO you have proved now ,by apologising and putting an end to the whole episode , that YOU are the ULTIMATE WINNER ...> > --- On Tue, 2/24/09, Bhaskar bhaskar_jyotish@ ... wrote:> > Bhaskar bhaskar_jyotish@ ...> Apology mail to Mr. Riaz> > Tuesday, February 24, 2009, 10:28 AM> > > > > > > > ( Dear freinds, Though it must be said to credit of Mr. Riaz, that he did not ask for any apology, but since he got wounded initially due to my commenting on his religion, I believe he is entitled to receive an apology, to set matters in proper perspective. I prefer justice to both sides involved ). > > Dear Riaz,> > I did not mean to hurt your sentiments towards your love for> religion, for which my comments offered too, I feel apologetic.> > Not withstanding the worldwide hate developing for your > community due to constant attacks in india, on innocents, > yet it goes without saying , that Not all Muslims are bad, just > as we can say for all the other communities, that all> are not good.> > I can write essays on the Moslem saints I adore and respect, > and the few Muslims whom I know among many who have captured > my heart, but thats not needed. I know you can understand for sure> that when we say something for anybody, its all generalisations> and not meant for evey individual of that group. > > I wish you all the best in Life, and appreciate that you took a step> forward towards resolving this misunderstanding between us.> > blessings,> Bhaskar> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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