MARRY TO A PIPAL TREE??

February 18, 2009

Respected Bhaskar Ji,

Lets do this I had requested her new person a birth detail & please help me out by matching both of there kundali

& tell whether they should get marry or not?

Second thing is since 3rd marriage is with figure 3 like teen bigada kaam

do you think we could do marriage to pipal tree & then 4th time with this man?

let me get detail of both & then please help them ok

thanks

rashmi

Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Sent: Wednesday, February 18, 2009 9:04:32 AM Re: MARRY TO A PIPAL TREE??

DEAR RASHMIJI,

Let us be true to the issue and not unnecessary create a "problem in others" when the problem is with "ones own self ".

Anybody when told about any girl that she is looking for a 3rd marriage would laugh at the girl and consider her only as having problems rather than the husbands she has left. Nobody in his right senses would want to marry the girl who has got 2 Divorces already. Of course this does not mean that we dont have sypmathy for the girl, or that she is not entitled to live a happy married Life. We have sympathies for her. But this is for sure, that the girl would herself have problems either in her persona, personality which of course must be reflected in her Birth Chart, which have to be rectified to thelimits allowed by her destiny, rather than just keep on marrying and divorcing at the drop of a hat.

When Neelamji says that she has " seen it all ", then what wrong has she said I am unable to fathom, because she has seen two husbands, seen married Life multiplied x 2, seen 2 heart breaks, had physical union with 2 different bodies as husband, now looking for a third union in a possible suitable suitor, so HAS SHE NOT SEEN ALL ? or do you mean only those with happy married Lves have seen all ? Then you will find that 99% of the world has not seen anything at all, for this 99% constitues only unhappy mariages.

What is truth, let us say it, instead of defending something which is not truth.

Hope you get my point.

Instead of defending the girl, try setting the things right in her case, and rectify the grey areas in her chart, to the extent allowed by her destiny, and do not try fooling around with she is this, he is that, and the other writer is this or that.

Sorry, but I talk straight.

Bhaskar.

, rashmi patel <rashmihpatel@ ...> wrote:>> Respected guru ji,> You are right she is my niece & I had seen her getting emotional on marriages & this time she had found which he also been divorce 2 times & both of thems 2nd marriage was identically same cause of divorce & since both are scared of getting marring 3rd time they are v concern, conservative, thinking deep, asking family members,pundits in london & ready to do religious things told by panditjis [poojas, sloaks, fasting,wearing gems all]> I think we as a normal person who had not suffered from divorce can think like what neelamji thinks that she had seen all & why she would go for 3rd time but she is only 34 young beautifull very sensible girl,supporting her self > also she dont like to hang arround with any hanky panky person like that since you she is young & alone that some guys

can come & take advantage of her & she some times feels out in world there are bad intational people in our on society you know what i mean,she feel she really needs partner & be succesfull in marriage & built her own family> as she loves kids & she says she wish she would have kid of her own to complet her as women so this time regarless she at 34 would try for kid right away with out awaiting how her marriage is going to be?> She being staying in london seen lots of single girls going in wrong ways & she hates that in her life to even think> she thinks its differnt story my marriage didnt work but religiously she was with her husband not changing man in her life like bad girls, she as women & more cultural,religious wanted to live right life not where some one is going to point her fingure. so please tell whats wrong of her thinking of marrying 3rd time? we as family all support her dicesion to she her

happy & we will for sure because we know her very well.> thanks> rashmi> > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __> bhagvatjee bhagvatjee@. ..> > Wednesday, February 18, 2009 8:14:32 AM> Re: MARRY TO A PIPAL TREE??> > > Dear Neelam Ji> Jaya Siyaa Raam> I am sorry to differ you in this regard that a girl who has seen two > divorces "has seen all". I do not know about that girl that how and > in which circumstances that girl was divirced but it is not necessary > that she has seen all.> > And even if she has seen all, and she is still young, means of 30-40 > years of age, she must get married if she can. Loneliness which comes > with maturity itself is disease. I am not saying that she must get > married and

divorce again, but if she can marry and live with > somebody, it is always better for physical and mental health.> > With regards> Sushma> > , neelam gupta > <neelamgupta07@ ...> wrote:> >> > Dear Bhaskar ji,> > > > You know that was just a dig on marriage, not on any person. Just > shared> > some lighter moments on this. We have victims of so many > calamities, what> > about marital victims?> > > > I was not commenting on the ritual part or the remedial measures to > ward of> > any dosha. I am not competent to comment on that. I was just > concerned about> > the unending desires that we have.> > It is all right if a still unmarried girl is found to have a dosha > and she> > performs remedies to get married.

But after two divorces... one has > seen> > all.> > > > Hope you get my point. And others too... my apologies if I've hurt > anyone.> > > > Best Regards> > Neelam> > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2009/2/17 Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish@ ...>> > > > > My Views -> > >> > > These may differ from those of Neelamji and Gauravji, does not > matter. They> > > are both respected and each has his individual views, and so do I > have> > > mines. In our tradition, certain doshas are removed before > marriage by> > > marrying the girl to a pipala tree or a pot before actual > marriage to a boy,> > > and I do not consider them obselete or non-consequential, because > they are> > >

carried down by traditions and a part of our Heritage, so it does > not matter> > > to me to pay to a Pandit a small amount of money for such rituals > if the> > > dosha is removed ( Or considered to be reomoved ). This is just > like Kala> > > sarpa Pooja for Kala sarpa dosham nivarana. I dont mind spending > personally> > > for removal of such doshas, because at least after paying few > thousand> > > rupees , unncessary suspicions are removed from ones mind and he > stays> > > comfortable that I have done what I could, and rest God knows. I > have> > > personally been witness, and also a part of such rituals and so I > confirm to> > > these rituals.> > >> > > regards/Bhaskar.> > > > > >>

>>

February 18, 2009

Dear Rashmi ji,

1) I do not do Horoscope matchings on "Free Mode" , you may read this mentioned on the Home Page. You may avail my professional services for the same if you wish.This is a intricate issue and not to be taken light advice on Internet forums.

2) talki ng of 3 means bigade hue kaam, do those people who have 3 children, throw the 3rd child away. Dont You eat 3 Phulkas ( Chapattis) anytime ? Dont You eat 3 papads or Khakras any time ? C ' mon this is all bakwaas. Yes one should not go in a group of 3 when going to see a prospective bride or groom, and the number of persons in the group must be even. One should not take 3 Chapattis at a time in the plate. One should not do many other such things....... but dont you know what one card player gets , when he has 3 Aces ? And 3 marriages are not being done together ? So just forget such silly objections.

3) Pipal tree and marriage to a kalash etc is actually done for Mangal dosha as Neelamji rightly said, and not for such matters in todays modern world when one goes for divorce due to ones inherent incapibilities to adjust or bear the hardships which enters ones Life after the initial first 6 months of lovey dovey honeymoon and sensual pleasures is over, and the torn pockets start appearing and recognised by each other.

4) You must take help of a professional astrologer who will give you proper guidance about the new match, and also whether the time is ripe for the girl to enter into a wedlock at this juncture, or when ?

regards/bhaskar.

, rashmi patel <rashmihpatel wrote:>> Respected Bhaskar Ji,> > Lets do this I had requested her new person a birth detail & please help me out by matching both of there kundali> & tell whether they should get marry or not? > Second thing is since 3rd marriage is with figure 3 like teen bigada kaam > do you think we could do marriage to pipal tree & then 4th time with this man?> > let me get detail of both & then please help them ok> thanks> rashmi> > > > > ________________________________> Bhaskar bhaskar_jyotish > Wednesday, February 18, 2009 9:04:32 AM> Re: MARRY TO A PIPAL TREE??> > > DEAR RASHMIJI,> Let us be true to the issue and not unnecessary create a "problem in others" when the problem is with "ones own self ". > Anybody when told about any girl that she is looking for a 3rd marriage would laugh at the girl and consider her only as having problems rather than the husbands she has left. Nobody in his right senses would want to marry the girl who has got 2 Divorces already. Of course this does not mean that we dont have sypmathy for the girl, or that she is not entitled to live a happy married Life. We have sympathies for her. But this is for sure, that the girl would herself have problems either in her persona, personality which of course must be reflected in her Birth Chart, which have to be rectified to thelimits allowed by her destiny, rather than just keep on marrying and divorcing at the drop of a hat. > When Neelamji says that she has " seen it all ", then what wrong has she said I am unable to fathom, because she has seen two husbands, seen married Life multiplied x 2, seen 2 heart breaks, had physical union with 2 different bodies as husband, now looking for a third union in a possible suitable suitor, so HAS SHE NOT SEEN ALL ? or do you mean only those with happy married Lves have seen all ? Then you will find that 99% of the world has not seen anything at all, for this 99% constitues only unhappy mariages. > What is truth, let us say it, instead of defending something which is not truth.> Hope you get my point.> Instead of defending the girl, try setting the things right in her case, and rectify the grey areas in her chart, to the extent allowed by her destiny, and do not try fooling around with she is this, he is that, and the other writer is this or that.> Sorry, but I talk straight.> Bhaskar.> > > , rashmi patel <rashmihpatel@ ...> wrote:> >> > Respected guru ji,> > You are right she is my niece & I had seen her getting emotional on marriages & this time she had found which he also been divorce 2 times & both of thems 2nd marriage was identically same cause of divorce & since both are scared of getting marring 3rd time they are v concern, conservative, thinking deep, asking family members,pundits in london & ready to do religious things told by panditjis [poojas, sloaks, fasting,wearing gems all]> > I think we as a normal person who had not suffered from divorce can think like what neelamji thinks that she had seen all & why she would go for 3rd time but she is only 34 young beautifull very sensible girl,supporting her self > > also she dont like to hang arround with any hanky panky person like that since you she is young & alone that some guys can come & take advantage of her & she some times feels out in world there are bad intational people in our on society you know what i mean,she feel she really needs partner & be succesfull in marriage & built her own family> > as she loves kids & she says she wish she would have kid of her own to complet her as women so this time regarless she at 34 would try for kid right away with out awaiting how her marriage is going to be?> > She being staying in london seen lots of single girls going in wrong ways & she hates that in her life to even think> > she thinks its differnt story my marriage didnt work but religiously she was with her husband not changing man in her life like bad girls, she as women & more cultural,religious wanted to live right life not where some one is going to point her fingure. so please tell whats wrong of her thinking of marrying 3rd time? we as family all support her dicesion to she her happy & we will for sure because we know her very well.> > thanks> > rashmi> > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __> > bhagvatjee bhagvatjee@ ..> > > > Wednesday, February 18, 2009 8:14:32 AM> > Re: MARRY TO A PIPAL TREE??> > > > > > Dear Neelam Ji> > Jaya Siyaa Raam> > I am sorry to differ you in this regard that a girl who has seen two > > divorces "has seen all". I do not know about that girl that how and > > in which circumstances that girl was divirced but it is not necessary > > that she has seen all.> > > > And even if she has seen all, and she is still young, means of 30-40 > > years of age, she must get married if she can. Loneliness which comes > > with maturity itself is disease. I am not saying that she must get > > married and divorce again, but if she can marry and live with > > somebody, it is always better for physical and mental health.> > > > With regards> > Sushma> > > > , neelam gupta > > <neelamgupta07@ ...> wrote:> > >> > > Dear Bhaskar ji,> > > > > > You know that was just a dig on marriage, not on any person. Just > > shared> > > some lighter moments on this. We have victims of so many > > calamities, what> > > about marital victims?> > > > > > I was not commenting on the ritual part or the remedial measures to > > ward of> > > any dosha. I am not competent to comment on that. I was just > > concerned about> > > the unending desires that we have.> > > It is all right if a still unmarried girl is found to have a dosha > > and she> > > performs remedies to get married. But after two divorces... one has > > seen> > > all.> > > > > > Hope you get my point. And others too... my apologies if I've hurt > > anyone.> > > > > > Best Regards> > > Neelam> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 2009/2/17 Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish@ ...>> > > > > > > My Views -> > > >> > > > These may differ from those of Neelamji and Gauravji, does not > > matter. They> > > > are both respected and each has his individual views, and so do I > > have> > > > mines. In our tradition, certain doshas are removed before > > marriage by> > > > marrying the girl to a pipala tree or a pot before actual > > marriage to a boy,> > > > and I do not consider them obselete or non-consequential, because > > they are> > > > carried down by traditions and a part of our Heritage, so it does > > not matter> > > > to me to pay to a Pandit a small amount of money for such rituals > > if the> > > > dosha is removed ( Or considered to be reomoved ). This is just > > like Kala> > > > sarpa Pooja for Kala sarpa dosham nivarana. I dont mind spending > > personally> > > > for removal of such doshas, because at least after paying few > > thousand> > > > rupees , unncessary suspicions are removed from ones mind and he > > stays> > > > comfortable that I have done what I could, and rest God knows. I > > have> > > > personally been witness, and also a part of such rituals and so I > > confirm to> > > > these rituals.> > > >> > > > regards/Bhaskar.> > > > > > > >> > >> >>

February 18, 2009

Respected kotak ji,

its wembley in london & yes it is 13th night & 14th morning at 01;30 am its 14

july 1975

also

the person she sees his detail is 17th july 1969, at 01;30 pm birth place london

uk

his father died when he was 8 yrs old

1st marriage in 1990 n got divorce less then 11 months

2nd marriage in 1998 n got divorce also less then 11 months

so please advise me ok