Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 Respected Sir, Namaskar My details are: Date of Birth- 21-04-1971, Time: 11.55 PM, Place: Dhanbad (Bihar). My wifes date of birth: 08-06-1981, Time: 8. 20 PM. Place: Rourkela (Orissa) Sir, I have been facing constant family tension since my marriage on 25-02-2005. I live in a joint family with my wife, daughter, father , mother & two un married sisters. There is daily tension between two of us due to some reason or the other. I would like to request you to pl. guide me regarding the above. I would like to know when will this problem stop. Will I be able to lead a peaceful life with all family members ever. Is there any chance of seperation between both of us. What should be my present action to minimise the ill effect. I will be very thankful if you can pl. answer the above questions. I am in a very bad mental state. Pl. help me. Thanking U all......... ......... ... Dilip. Explore your hobbies and interests. Go to http://in.promos./groups/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Dear Mukherjee, Did You have a Love marriage ? rgrds/Bhaskar. , dilip mukherjee <dilip.12345 wrote: > > Respected Sir, > > Namaskar > > My details are: Date of Birth- 21-04-1971, Time: 11.55 PM, Place: Dhanbad (Bihar). > > My wifes date of birth: 08-06-1981, Time: 8. 20 PM. Place: Rourkela (Orissa) > > Sir, I have been facing constant family tension since my marriage on 25-02-2005. I live in a joint family with my wife, daughter, father , mother & two un married sisters. There is daily tension between two of us due to some reason or the other. > > I would like to request you to pl. guide me regarding the above. I would like to know when will this problem stop. Will I be able to lead a peaceful life with all family members ever. Is there any chance of seperation between both of us. What should be my present action to minimise the ill effect. > > I will be very thankful if you can pl. answer the above questions. > > I am in a very bad mental state. Pl. help me. > > Thanking U all......... ......... ... Dilip. > > > > Explore your hobbies and interests. Go to http://in.promos./groups/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Dear Mukherjee, I had told you on phone that I normally check only one chart and not two charts for any query on the forums. But in your case, i had to checkboth the charts . Why ? Because Your chart does not show any problems at all from your side.. So i was wondering, howall this is hapenning in Your Life . I am sorry to say, but 90% of the problems are appearing in your family due to your wifes chart.We cannot blame the lady, person or individualbut just the destiny, and try to do the repair part,now, since we cannot go back and re-marry someoneelse with better combinations. ( Now dont usethis knowledge to trouble her or pass any hurtingor sarcasm at her. She as come to you leavingall her family. Whatever she is, however she iswe have to accept her ). She is running deep Shani seadsathi.Saturn in close conjunction of Jupiter, isaspecting the 7th house, the 7th Lord, and thekaraka for wife, Venus.She is running the mahadasha of Chandra itself,which is under Shani sadaesathi now. Chandra is the 8th House Lord and has Rahu seated in its sign. Rahu in the 8th, in a womenschart always creates problems for the husband more or less. She is running Chandra- Rahu dasha as of now. And Chandra in her chart signifies the houses,6, 8 and 10, which are among the worst housesfor marriage compability or relations of any kind,whether marital or any other. Till when will this last ? After August 2008, matters would start movong towards peaceful pastures, but gradually. The Shani would have crossed the important degreesof her Chandra by then, and the seperating effect would bring in the required comforts. Your chart isvery good, so at leash we do not have the clash oftwo identical personalities. From 2016 onwards the matters would have changedconsiderably, because her Chandra Mahadashawould be over, and so would the 6th, 8th and the 10thhouse effects, which are totally negative for yourmarried Life. Remedies to be done. From Your side -Be understanding, sympathetic. remember that trueloving is accepting your partner with all her negatives.true love is sharing, giving, and not demanding. True love is also making the partner remind her deficiencies in her behaviour patterns, in a subtleway, reminding her (again in a subtle manner ) the duties expected by her in the family towards yourfamily members, and not just reminding her BUT tohelp her in removing these, so that she becomes morepurer, appealable and lovable to your family members,and peace is restored in the family. To make yourpartner whole again, acceptable again,is Your duty. If I am a good man, and suppose my wife is bad, then its my duty to make her as good as me or better, because when I leave this body and die,and attain heavens, i would like her tobe with me,and not remain in the other regions. So help her in realising and becoming a better person. For her -Talk sweetly with your mother.Drink milk in silver glass daily.one Mala of " Om Namah Shivaye" daily.Read " Vishnusahasranaam " daily orelse "Gopalasahasranaam ".Eat Tulsi leaves daily.Write 1 page of Ram Rama daily in a new note book.1 Mala of Rahu mantra .( Till january 2009 )" Om Bhraam Bhreem Bhraum Saha Rahve namah ". She must Wear a Pukhraaj. I do not see any seperation between you. I will not take any more queries on these charts. best wishes,Bhaskar. www.shrikrishnajyotish.com > , dilip mukherjee > dilip.12345@ wrote:> >> > Respected Sir,> > > > Namaskar> > > > My details are: Date of Birth- 21-04-1971, Time: 11.55 PM, Place: > Dhanbad (Bihar).> > > > My wifes date of birth: 08-06-1981, Time: 8. 20 PM. Place: Rourkela > (Orissa)> > > > Sir, I have been facing constant family tension since my marriage > on 25-02-2005. I live in a joint family with my wife, daughter, > father , mother & two un married sisters. There is daily tension > between two of us due to some reason or the other.> > > > I would like to request you to pl. guide me regarding the above. I > would like to know when will this problem stop. Will I be able to > lead a peaceful life with all family members ever. Is there any > chance of seperation between both of us. What should be my present > action to minimise the ill effect.> > > > I will be very thankful if you can pl. answer the above questions. > > > > I am in a very bad mental state. Pl. help me.> > > > Thanking U all......... ......... ... Dilip.> > > > > > > > Explore your hobbies and interests. Go to > http://in.promos./groups/> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Dear Bhaskarji, Thank you very much for the advice that you have given. I know U have devoted a lot of time & thought in giving the advice. I thank you again. As adviced & as per decorum of the group, I wont ask any more question in this matter. Thank you again Dilip.--- On Fri, 13/6/08, Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish Re: FAMILY PROBLEM (DILIP) Date: Friday, 13 June, 2008, 2:09 PM Dear Mukherjee, I had told you on phone that I normally check only one chart and not two charts for any query on the forums. But in your case, i had to checkboth the charts . Why ? Because Your chart does not show any problems at all from your side.. So i was wondering, howall this is hapenning in Your Life . I am sorry to say, but 90% of the problems are appearing in your family due to your wifes chart.We cannot blame the lady, person or individualbut just the destiny, and try to do the repair part,now, since we cannot go back and re-marry someoneelse with better combinations. ( Now dont usethis knowledge to trouble her or pass any hurtingor sarcasm at her. She as come to you leavingall her family. Whatever she is, however she iswe have to accept her ).. She is running deep Shani seadsathi.Saturn in close conjunction of Jupiter, isaspecting the 7th house, the 7th Lord, and thekaraka for wife, Venus.She is running the mahadasha of Chandra itself,which is under Shani sadaesathi now. Chandra is the 8th House Lord and has Rahu seated in its sign. Rahu in the 8th, in a womenschart always creates problems for the husband more or less. She is running Chandra- Rahu dasha as of now. And Chandra in her chart signifies the houses,6, 8 and 10, which are among the worst housesfor marriage compability or relations of any kind,whether marital or any other. Till when will this last ? After August 2008, matters would start movong towards peaceful pastures, but gradually. The Shani would have crossed the important degreesof her Chandra by then, and the seperating effect would bring in the required comforts. Your chart isvery good, so at leash we do not have the clash oftwo identical personalities. From 2016 onwards the matters would have changedconsiderably, because her Chandra Mahadashawould be over, and so would the 6th, 8th and the 10thhouse effects, which are totally negative for yourmarried Life. Remedies to be done. From Your side -Be understanding, sympathetic. remember that trueloving is accepting your partner with all her negatives.true love is sharing, giving, and not demanding. True love is also making the partner remind her deficiencies in her behaviour patterns, in a subtleway, reminding her (again in a subtle manner ) the duties expected by her in the family towards yourfamily members, and not just reminding her BUT tohelp her in removing these, so that she becomes morepurer, appealable and lovable to your family members,and peace is restored in the family. To make yourpartner whole again, acceptable again,is Your duty. If I am a good man, and suppose my wife is bad, then its my duty to make her as good as me or better, because when I leave this body and die,and attain heavens, i would like her tobe with me,and not remain in the other regions. So help her in realising and becoming a better person. For her -Talk sweetly with your mother.Drink milk in silver glass daily.one Mala of " Om Namah Shivaye" daily.Read " Vishnusahasranaam " daily orelse "Gopalasahasranaam ".Eat Tulsi leaves daily.Write 1 page of Ram Rama daily in a new note book.1 Mala of Rahu mantra .( Till january 2009 )" Om Bhraam Bhreem Bhraum Saha Rahve namah ". She must Wear a Pukhraaj. I do not see any seperation between you. I will not take any more queries on these charts. best wishes,Bhaskar. www.shrikrishnajyot ish.com > , dilip mukherjee > dilip.12345@ wrote:> >> > Respected Sir,> > > > Namaskar> > > > My details are: Date of Birth- 21-04-1971, Time: 11.55 PM, Place: > Dhanbad (Bihar).> > > > My wifes date of birth: 08-06-1981, Time: 8. 20 PM. Place: Rourkela > (Orissa)> > > > Sir, I have been facing constant family tension since my marriage > on 25-02-2005. I live in a joint family with my wife, daughter, > father , mother & two un married sisters. There is daily tension > between two of us due to some reason or the other.> > > > I would like to request you to pl. guide me regarding the above. I > would like to know when will this problem stop. Will I be able to > lead a peaceful life with all family members ever. Is there any > chance of seperation between both of us. What should be my present > action to minimise the ill effect.> > > > I will be very thankful if you can pl. answer the above questions. > > > > I am in a very bad mental state. Pl. help me.> > > > Thanking U all......... ......... ... Dilip.> > > > > > > > Explore your hobbies and interests. Go to > http://in.promos. / groups/> >> Explore your hobbies and interests. Click here to begin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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