Sharing my Hurt.

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Dear friends,

The following exchange will give the members an idea, of how people try to take advantage of astrologers today, by intruding in their privacy and asking for readings in the guise of spiritual queries, and when they realise that the astrologer is no fool, then they as this member did, without a word of thanks. He has just d, and this thankless, person did not have the time to acknowledge my reply, in few words even.

You will notice that he has queried yesterday on my personal id, and I have given him a reply last night, though I am very busy and occupied constantly, as I have at least 5-7 relatives calling me daily at any time and taking up my energies for no returns of any sort, and you cannot say No, to any relative..Yet I gave this chap some time.

I hope this mail rings bells in those members ears, who once their motive is met, know their way out of the door, without sayinga single word of " Thanks".

This silence of theirs when they leave, does hurt.

regards,

Bhaskar.

sekhar c <sekhar_ccs wrote:Dear Bhaskar,

Medidation has been my priority and goal in life. I do not think of any problem either it may in family/personal, money or greed for any because of my only thought in meditation.

I am getting disturbed because of thought of women. Diverting myself in watching porn sites, watching women around and loosing hold on meditation which I do regularly.

What are the planets and combinations which are affecting my thought. Please suggest me any remedy to control my thought.

My birth details.DOB: 21-Jan-1979Time: 1.15 AM Place: Rly Kodur (Near tirupati)(Andhra pradesh)Latitude: 14 53 NLongitude: 78 08 E

Regards,chandra

Bhaskar Maheswari <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:Dear Sekhar,

You are not a very old person to get preturbed in not being able to do meditation properly and if you are distracted by women, its but natural.BUT , if you have had some success in meditation ( By success I mean, if you have been able to continue meditations for a length of time, regularly ) then this distraction may be disturbing, as we do not wish to spoil our hard earned "Ojas". In any case at times when a person is doing good meditation, vigourously, then a particular chakra gets loosened, which causes thiese distractions, and you must ignore them, and they will pass by shortly if you learn to supplement these lustful thoughts by positive ones. For instance a person who wishes to leave smoking, has not to remove the urge of smoking, because this is not in his hands, he has to supplement this urge by a more positive thought, that if I drink a glass of carrot juice now, I will become more healthy, or I have just excersised today, and do not wish to spoil my push ups and the power of my muscles, by smoking a cigarette and weakening my chest., etcetra.

So Sekhar, do not fight with these thoughts, but let them come and pass by, in the meanwhile during their stay in your mind, supplement these thoughts with better and more healthy thoughts. If You have read and studied the Patanjali Yoga sutras well, then you must know that at any single moment only 1( One ) though can remain in the mind. Take advantage of this knowledge.This phase is also known as a testing phase where you will have to struggle with your mind which knows what is right and what is wrong.

The knowledge of Which planets are the cause of this thought, will not make any difference to us, because even if you come to know this, you are not Raja Vikramaditya, who can control the planets. Just do the remedies part.

Recite 7 hanuman Chalisas daily, and if possible Sundarkand daily once for one month.

best wishes,Bhaskar.