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Dear Friends,

 

When things dont go our way, and when life does not move as per our

wishes,we so many times wish that we were not living, but frankly

speaking if anyone was told to take poison and leave life at that

moment how many will do so ? I dont think anyone in his right mind

would want to take his life. One of the primary fears in a mans

life is serious illness and death. Talking is different and dying is

different, no one wants to do so if things are working okay with him

and he is not physically incapacitataed. We actually all want

to live in Hope, for life has much to offer and so has the world too.

Ask any normal man who is dying suddenly, he would be too happy to be

granted some more years of living.

 

But what about those who are genuinely bogged down by the troubles seen

due to their destiny and so weak of mind that they contemplate and

actually commit suicide? I am sure the fear of death would of course be

no more when they are already dead, but I am sure now such people would

be having fear of not having a body and must be cursing themselves that

I wish I had lived and could have done so much and this much.

 

I think friends, whatever may be the problems,

dissappointments,unhappiness, cpmmplications in ones life, one should

still keep caryying on his appointed duties without any brooding

because since he cannot change so many things, its better to change

ones attitude and approach to circumstances at hand. So being cheerful

and accepting so many things as they are would make much difference in

our mental state in major part of the day. Contentment is the key

and accepting those near us, as they are without expecting change in

them would make matters better for us, if actually not change

the environment. Though better said then done.

 

This may be a waste of your times.,but just wanted to share what

I was thinking.That people wish to die, but it is not very difficult to

live with peace inside if one accepts his own shortcomings and

ignores others and does not try to touch the sky with his ambitions

with feet on ground, then all is well,that is not so gloomy as

we make it out to be.

 

Bhaskar.

[Guest guest]

Bhaskar wrote:

>But what about those who are genuinely bogged down by the troubles seen

>due to their destiny and so weak of mind that they contemplate and

>actually commit suicide?

 

People who want to leave this Earth are in PAIN seeing no way to

find relief except to kill themselves. It really has nothing to

do, IMHO with weakness, but rather a lack of knowledge and skills

to bring themselves to a place where they can connect with

the Highest part of themselves.

 

Once people know and understand how to bring themselves out

of depression that have tools.

 

>I am sure the fear of death would of course be

>no more when they are already dead, but I am sure now such people would

>be having fear of not having a body and must be cursing themselves that

>I wish I had lived and could have done so much and this much.

 

People who are connected to Spirit trust that whatever happens

is for the best Higher Good .... but when anyone becomes emotionally

and spiritually bankrupt, logic no longer applies. The body's chemistry

spirals downward.

 

>That people wish to die, but it is not very difficult to

>live with peace inside if one accepts his own shortcomings and

>ignores others and does not try to touch the sky with his ambitions

>with feet on ground, then all is well,that is not so gloomy as

>we make it out to be.

 

Clinical depression is very complicated and people tend to

isolate themselves when they feel despondent .... a shotgun approach

of getting people moving physically, even if walking for a short distance a

day (which for someone immobilized with depression is a huge

event), finding something to change their mood like music is the

start .... movement and music. Drinking lots of water and eating

healthy food is the next.

 

I believe that if we truly cannot tolerate our life here any longer

that we can ask Spirit to take us home and that we don't have

to kill ourselves if we want to leave.

 

But having a good support system in the way

of *FRIENDS* (or family) who do not allow their friend to be alone when

depressed,

nor allow them to feel unloved nor become too sluggish would replace the need

for mental health centers in the world.

 

I would like to believe that LOVE can conquer all.

 

On a totally different note, sometimes the death of one person

is all about the one who is LEFT here to grieve them and was a contract

agreed to by both before they came to Earth.

 

--

Cheers, Fay

 

Every day in Flagstaff is just another day in Paradise! ©

 

Fay S. Kelley Cell 928.600.1733

[Guest guest]

dear bhaskarji,

I would like to add a few lines. u will have to

classify into 2 categorie.the worst sufferer among

them are the old individuals who have to lead their

life in a solitary environment, for them there willbe

a constant fear of falling sick with incapacitation

and no one to attend to their emergent situation. the

IInd category are those who are suffering from

terminal illness, their desire will be to quit the

world at the earliest than tobe a burden to others. We

should always pray that we dont fall into these 2

categories. Rest is not in our hands.

since diwali is fast approaching maybe this not the

right time to discuss this time to discuss. let the

glow of diwali keep everyone happy and healthy.

 

with diwali greetings,

k.gopu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Dear Gopuji,

 

Very true,

That person was on my mind who is away from his family (I think name

of Venkat)I am not able to get him off somehow. Thatswhy that mail

was formed in my mind. Hope he gets home to bless us all.

 

Bhaskar.

 

 

 

 

 

..com, K Gopu <kgopu_24 wrote:

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> dear bhaskarji,

> I would like to add a few lines. u will have to

> classify into 2 categorie.the worst sufferer among

> them are the old individuals who have to lead their

> life in a solitary environment, for them there willbe

> a constant fear of falling sick with incapacitation

> and no one to attend to their emergent situation. the

> IInd category are those who are suffering from

> terminal illness, their desire will be to quit the

> world at the earliest than tobe a burden to others. We

> should always pray that we dont fall into these 2

> categories. Rest is not in our hands.

> since diwali is fast approaching maybe this not the

> right time to discuss this time to discuss. let the

> glow of diwali keep everyone happy and healthy.

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> with diwali greetings,

> k.gopu

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