Guest guest Posted November 21, 2003 Report Share Posted November 21, 2003 dear Skoggen, i thought by explaining a little more you might discover a new angle on the subject; you know, again the topic of showing my family pics that you raised on " sangha " maybe a year ago, and my ego and narcissic tendencies... please don't think i am isolating you in this position because i think it is shared with others; ....yet i never had a doubt no once did i stop and wonder, am i showing too much of myself? my worries are on the other side: (some of you can see the issue raised on NDS right now) what are them guys doing? don't they have the fun of exchanging without thinking? don't they feel it's like the greek agora and every body has a different view and all get enriched? not even 5% of the members come and discuss? why are people not giving pictures of themselves, their kids their dogs? aren't we becoming friends along the months? maybe get together once a year in Paris or New York or London? isn't it the way human works? Skoggen, now you can gear on the next argument: yes eric i understand that and i have gregarious instincts too but don't you see that this is not the mode on the net and that you are unusually stubborn by trying to push such behavior here, and this pushyness of your 'is' your narcicism??? then i would'nt know what to answer Skoggy, and for the first time in a long long time i'd start to hate myself... (here i lower my head and sigh heavily) .... eric Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Mon ami Eric, eric paroissien <vertvetiver wrote: i thought by explaining a little more you might discover a new angle on the subject; you know, again the topic of showing my family pics that you raised on " sangha " maybe a year ago, and my ego and narcissic tendencies... please don't think i am isolating you in this position because i think it is shared with others; ...yet i never had a doubt no once did i stop and wonder, am i showing too much of myself? sk: Decide for yourself Eric and do, what you really want to do, no matter what guys like me say about it. my worries are on the other side: (some of you can see the issue raised on NDS right now) what are them guys doing? don't they have the fun of exchanging without thinking? don't they feel it's like the greek agora and every body has a different view and all get enriched? not even 5% of the members come and discuss? why are people not giving pictures of themselves, their kids their dogs? sk: I don't know but, I also don't care about, if they show pictures of themselves, their kids or dogs. I don't know too, what's going on NDS. I'm not listed. aren't we becoming friends along the months? sk: Sure. maybe get together once a year in Paris or New York or London? isn't it the way human works? sk: I used to that with a group of friends from college and school. Was nice and much fun. We have not met the last 2 years. The social contacts I have now are more than enough for me and, furthermore contacts would detract to much of the time I can spend with my family. Skoggen, now you can gear on the next argument: yes eric i understand that and i have gregarious instincts too but don't you see that this is not the mode on the net and that you are unusually stubborn by trying to push such behavior here, and this pushyness of your 'is' your narcicism??? sk: It's completely Ok for me, if you are looking here for friends to meet and spend perhaps a weekend together, have some nice conversations or go together to some interesting event, or so. A charming idea, indeed. I see you don't become so upset anymore like in former times when someone teased you a little. skoggy-baby Free Pop-Up Blocker - Get it now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Nisargadatta , skogen <skoggman> wrote: > Mon ami Eric, > > > eric paroissien <vertvetiver@a...> wrote: > > i thought by explaining a little more you might discover a new angle on the subject; you know, again the topic of showing my family pics that you raised on " sangha " maybe a year ago, and my ego and narcissic tendencies... please don't think i am isolating you in this position because i think it is shared with others; ...yet i never had a doubt no once did i stop and wonder, am i showing too much of myself? > > sk: Decide for yourself Eric and do, what you really want to do, no matter what guys like me say about it. > > > my worries are on the other side: > (some of you can see the issue raised on NDS right now) > what are them guys doing? don't they have the fun of exchanging without thinking? don't they feel it's like the greek agora and every body has a different view and all get enriched? not even 5% of the members come and discuss? why are people not giving pictures of themselves, their kids their dogs? > > sk: I don't know but, I also don't care about, if they show pictures of themselves, their kids or dogs. I don't know too, what's going on NDS. I'm not listed. > > > aren't we becoming friends along the months? > > > > sk: Sure. > > > maybe get together once a year in Paris or New York or London? isn't it the way human works? > > sk: I used to that with a group of friends from college and school. Was nice and much fun. We have not met the last 2 years. The social contacts I have now are more than enough for me and, furthermore contacts would detract to much of the time I can spend with my family. > > > > Skoggen, now you can gear on the next argument: > yes eric i understand that and i have gregarious instincts too but don't you see that this is not the mode on the net and that you are unusually stubborn by trying to push such behavior here, and this pushyness of your 'is' your narcicism??? > > > > sk: It's completely Ok for me, if you are looking here for friends to meet and spend perhaps a weekend together, have some nice conversations or go together to some interesting event, or so. A charming idea, indeed. > > I see you don't become so upset anymore like in former times when someone teased you a little. > > > > skoggy-baby i was looking for someone to invite me and my family in denmark for Xmas/new year, just a fortnight, there's only 7 of us, of course i wouldn't arrive empty handed (a little " eiffel tower " perhaps??) :-))) eric Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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