Guest guest Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 since this group focuses on vedic wisdom, and have seen learned dsicussions by Narasimha and others, thought I send this out seeking the right (vedic) way to remediate .. for the past few years i am remembering my past how people have influenced me badly and made me a weaker person. by lack of guidance, these people who are very close to me (relatives, friends) have made me choose wrong choices etc. i am in a mess, psychologically and spiritually. I believed in god all along, did my japam etc. why did i fall prey to these people? i realize now that after many years, these people are ignorant. I wanted to say 'ignorant fools' but there are some elders involved here. i can assume this as karma phala, but the past is hindering me. there is so much pent up anger, that i want to go back and kick these people who have mis guided me. how do I forigve these people and forget? even gita, or homam etc are not any reprive. the soul is frustrated ... what does god get out of this drama? any thoughts, wise men and women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 Hare Krishna Dear friend. The fact you are feeling this way shows your inclination to take the high road. Not a blade of grass moves without the sanction of the Lord. Everything is happening according to his will. Surrender, and accept. Our karmas are so entangled , it is hard to understand them. Personally, as Ive gotten older it is easier to " let go " of things. Also, in the whole scheme of things, better to devote our energy to positive things. One can expend our energy holding onto apparent wrongs and injustices, but best to take the high road and look around and see others who are must worse off than ourselves. My mother used to say " I used to complain about no shoes until I saw a man with no feet " . So my next words are that, for me, each day , I count my blessings. Instead of counting my complaints, I count my fortune, my blessings. Look around and see all the animals and peoples who are oblivious of Gods divine creation. Give thanks, remember - Pray to the Lord that he also stays by your side even when you forget him. With your human birth , take option to serve God. Whatever your mind is fixed on determines your next birth, so do you want to be thinking of these things with family members and injustice? Mantra- Engage your mind in mantra, and your body in service. With a sincere heart, God cleans your heart of impurities, Just chant and clean the dust from your heart, clean the dirt from many lifetimes, chant the names of the Lord with love and faith, all will fall in place. Best wishes Lakshmi --- " sri3440 " <sri3440 wrote: > since this group focuses on vedic wisdom, and have > seen learned > dsicussions by Narasimha and others, thought I send > this out seeking > the right (vedic) way to remediate .. > > for the past few years i am remembering my past how > people have > influenced me badly and made me a weaker person. by > lack of guidance, > these people who are very close to me (relatives, > friends) have made > me choose wrong choices etc. i am in a mess, > psychologically and > spiritually. I believed in god all along, did my > japam etc. why did i > fall prey to these people? > > i realize now that after many years, these people > are ignorant. I > wanted to say 'ignorant fools' but there are some > elders involved > here. > > i can assume this as karma phala, but the past is > hindering me. there > is so much pent up anger, that i want to go back and > kick these > people who have mis guided me. > > how do I forigve these people and forget? even gita, > or homam etc are > not any reprive. the soul is frustrated ... what > does god get out of > this drama? > > any thoughts, wise men and women? > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Dear Sri,I try to understand the frustrated feeling you have of your past. As you understand upto some extent it is the " Neej Dosha " which has given you the karm phala through the people around you. In order to forget and forgive you need to take resort to one of the shakti's of 'das mahavidhya'. Shakti is Maa " Maatangi " and the beej akshara is " Gaum " . Standard practice is you do Gaum Beej for -40- days regularly. Only take " maha prasad " daily after " Gaum " beej Matangi saadhana. And then after 40 days look for a new begining. I am sure you will find a new light at the end of the 'sadhana'. It will make your soul / mind pure and clean and you will not have any grief on the past history. Easier said then done. Kindly search for more rituals and praction on " matangi " sadhana and " Gaum " beej through a Guru. Hari Om tat satt.Jitu On Wed, Jan 28, 2009 at 9:21 AM, sri3440 <sri3440 wrote: since this group focuses on vedic wisdom, and have seen learned dsicussions by Narasimha and others, thought I send this out seeking the right (vedic) way to remediate .. for the past few years i am remembering my past how people have influenced me badly and made me a weaker person. by lack of guidance, these people who are very close to me (relatives, friends) have made me choose wrong choices etc. i am in a mess, psychologically and spiritually. I believed in god all along, did my japam etc. why did i fall prey to these people? i realize now that after many years, these people are ignorant. I wanted to say 'ignorant fools' but there are some elders involved here. i can assume this as karma phala, but the past is hindering me. there is so much pent up anger, that i want to go back and kick these people who have mis guided me. how do I forigve these people and forget? even gita, or homam etc are not any reprive. the soul is frustrated ... what does god get out of this drama? any thoughts, wise men and women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 thanks lakshmi ji. yeah, i have started getting more detached with surroundings, and focusing more on work and prayer. but once in a while the memories surge back. regards sri , Lakshmi Kary <lakshmikary wrote: > > Hare Krishna > Dear friend. > The fact you are feeling this way shows your > inclination to take the high road. > Not a blade of grass moves without the sanction of the > Lord. > Everything is happening according to his will. > Surrender, and accept. > Our karmas are so entangled , it is hard to understand > them. > Personally, as Ive gotten older it is easier to " let > go " of things. > Also, in the whole scheme of things, better to devote > our energy to positive things. > One can expend our energy holding onto apparent wrongs > and injustices, but best to take the high road and > look around and see others who are must worse off than > ourselves. > My mother used to say > " I used to complain about no shoes until I saw a man > with no feet " . > So my next words are that, for me, each day , I count > my blessings. > Instead of counting my complaints, I count my fortune, > my blessings. > Look around and see all the animals and peoples who > are oblivious of Gods divine creation. > Give thanks, remember - > Pray to the Lord that he also stays by your side even > when you forget him. > With your human birth , take option to serve God. > Whatever your mind is fixed on determines your next > birth, so do you want to be thinking of these things > with family members and injustice? > > Mantra- Engage your mind in mantra, and your body in > service. > With a sincere heart, God cleans your heart of > impurities, > Just chant and clean the dust from your heart, clean > the dirt from many lifetimes, chant the names of the > Lord with love and faith, all will fall in place. > > Best wishes > Lakshmi > --- " sri3440 " <sri3440 > wrote: > > > since this group focuses on vedic wisdom, and have > > seen learned > > dsicussions by Narasimha and others, thought I send > > this out seeking > > the right (vedic) way to remediate .. > > > > for the past few years i am remembering my past how > > people have > > influenced me badly and made me a weaker person. by > > lack of guidance, > > these people who are very close to me (relatives, > > friends) have made > > me choose wrong choices etc. i am in a mess, > > psychologically and > > spiritually. I believed in god all along, did my > > japam etc. why did i > > fall prey to these people? > > > > i realize now that after many years, these people > > are ignorant. I > > wanted to say 'ignorant fools' but there are some > > elders involved > > here. > > > > i can assume this as karma phala, but the past is > > hindering me. there > > is so much pent up anger, that i want to go back and > > kick these > > people who have mis guided me. > > > > how do I forigve these people and forget? even gita, > > or homam etc are > > not any reprive. the soul is frustrated ... what > > does god get out of > > this drama? > > > > any thoughts, wise men and women? > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2009 Report Share Posted January 31, 2009 Dear Friend, Every person is destined as per his own past Karmas. Bad period and bad dasha misguides us. Your frustation is right but you are victim of your own planets who were not in your favour at that time. God's planetary work is supreme. Ashwin Rawal--- On Wed, 1/28/09, sri3440 <sri3440 wrote: sri3440 <sri3440 how to forgive and forget? Date: Wednesday, January 28, 2009, 5:21 AM since this group focuses on vedic wisdom, and have seen learned dsicussions by Narasimha and others, thought I send this out seeking the right (vedic) way to remediate ..for the past few years i am remembering my past how people have influenced me badly and made me a weaker person. by lack of guidance, these people who are very close to me (relatives, friends) have made me choose wrong choices etc. i am in a mess, psychologically and spiritually. I believed in god all along, did my japam etc. why did i fall prey to these people? i realize now that after many years, these people are ignorant. I wanted to say 'ignorant fools' but there are some elders involved here.i can assume this as karma phala, but the past is hindering me. there is so much pent up anger, that i want to go back and kick these people who have mis guided me.how do I forigve these people and forget? even gita, or homam etc are not any reprive. the soul is frustrated ... what does god get out of this drama?any thoughts, wise men and women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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