Guest guest Posted June 10, 2008 Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 Pranam. Why are we (common people & even sadhaks) afraid of death? 1.> Death pains. 2.> Donot know what happens at the time of death and what will happen after death? 3.> Pain of detatchment from this world - both materialistic & sentimental ? 4.> My sadhna is wasted in this birth and.. 5.> Donot know if we can continue the sadhna, in our next birth? Will we have a position to continue our Sadhna in our next birth or is it the end or road to sadhna and will never make it to the ultimate? Why are we afraid of death??? LUV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2008 Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 , " Senthil " <senthil_sym wrote: Dear Senthilji, Namaste! You have raised a very important question on DEATH. Actually i am in a hurry to go to my yoga class further i have to attend a function to a far off place and by the time i return it will be very late but be assured all your queries will be answered tomorrow. With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) > Pranam. > > Why are we (common people & even sadhaks) afraid of death? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , " Senthil " <senthil_sym wrote: > > Pranam. > > Why are we (common people & even sadhaks) afraid of death? > > 1.> Death pains. > > 2.> Donot know what happens at the time of death and what will happen > after death? > > 3.> Pain of detatchment from this world - both materialistic & > sentimental ? > > 4.> My sadhna is wasted in this birth and.. > > 5.> Donot know if we can continue the sadhna, in our next birth? Will > we have a position to continue our Sadhna in our next birth or is it > the end or road to sadhna and will never make it to the ultimate? > > Why are we afraid of death??? > > LUV. > Dear senthil, for a true sadhaka 4 & 5 do not matter, as a true sadhka knows that shri Krishna confirmed in Gita that any sadhna/yoga done never goes wasted and in next birth we start from where we left. for common herds all other reasons are true. Fear of the unknown, unfulfilled desires, attachment to relatives and material things ... all make fear of death. love Aum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 Dear Senthilji, Namaste! As promised yesterday herewith my answers to all your queries on Death. We are afraid of death because we do not know exactly what happens at that time. Majority of human beings 99.9% refuse to talk on death. 1. Yes, death pains - Sant Kabir says that it is like thousand scorpions stinging you all together at the same time. For majority of humans it is painful but not for all. 2. At the time of Death - majority of the people who are not initiated into the doctrine of death by a true living master will be taken away by Kal/Satan/Yamaraj's henchmen. They are beings of light and you are in most cases taken away straight to Yamaraj. The court is always in session. Your deeds are read out and their is no Perry Mason or Batliwalla or Jethamalani to rescue you. Strangely you do not argue also but accept the judgement because you know it the Damn truth. 3. Yeah! pain of detachment from this world - both materialistic and sentimental is very very " mentally " painful. 4. No your sadhana is not wasted. It is definitely carried forward but it depends on your next birth whether it is human/animal or anything else. And after wandering when you return to human birth you will be able to carry on from where you left. 5. In the next birth the carryover may take place from childhood itself or maybe when you are middle age or maybe in your oldage. So there is no guarantee. It all depends upon your karma. -------------- This answers the 5 queries posed by you ----------- Now what exactly happens at the time of death. Your extremity starts going numb. i.e. first the feet then the ankle and in this way the numbness rises, so also it starts at the hands and it rises to reach shoulder and then neck, meantime from lower extremity i.e. feet the numbness reaches neck and now the whole body is paralysed but you are Conscious. You do not know what to do. You know the end is near but you cannot communicate. This numbness rises up till......... contd.....tomorrow With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) HELLO FELLOW SPIRITUAL TRAVELLERS! I AM NOT SUPERSTITIOUS AND NOR A COWARD. OFCOURSE I AM NOT COMPUTER SAVVY ALSO BUT TWICE I HAVE POSTED THE ABOVE AND IT HAS NOT MATERIALISED ...THE WORDINGS YOUR MESSAGE HAS BEEN POSTED DID NOT APPEAR. BUT AS I SAID ABOVE IN GREAT DISCOMFORT I HAVE TYPED ''THIRD TIME'' THE ABOVE POSTING AND NO POWER ON EARTH IS GOING TO STOP ''THAT MUCH WHICH I WANT TO CONVEY'' COME WHAT MAY - SO WATCH OUT FOR THE FINAL POST TOMORROW. ...Ciao... > , " Senthil " <senthil_sym@> wrote: >> > Pranam. > > > > Why are we (common people & even sadhaks) afraid of death? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote: > > 5. In the next birth the carryover may take place from childhood > itself or maybe when you are middle age or maybe in your oldage. > Dear brother Sudhakar Could you elaborate on number 5 please? What exactly is carried over? With love Farah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 > Why are we afraid of death??? Senthilji, fear of death is pre-programmed into us. The Yoga Sutras say it is one of hindrances to Yoga(along with Raga-Dvesha or attraction-repulsion). Patanjali says even the wise people, who have knowledge of scriptures, & may have risen above attraction/repulsion to the world , may still be afraid of death. The only way to rise above this fear is to rise above the body- as long as you identify with the body, you will be scared of death, no matter how much knowledge you have. Our inner being is immortal- as long as we dont identify with that, we always have to live with pain & fear of death. love Shantnu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote: Dear spbyoga9 Namaste! Thanks it was quite understandable reply. Please tell me 1- Why we dont remember past lives 2- Can human beings take re-birth as animals? jaya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , shanracer <no_reply wrote: > Senthilji, fear of death is pre-programmed into us. The Yoga Sutras > say it is one of hindrances to Yoga(along with Raga-Dvesha or > attraction-repulsion). Patanjali says even the wise people, who Dear Shanracer, How this fear is pre-programmed ? Who is really afraid of Death ? It cant be body as body does not take rebirth. We have no recollection of past memories hence mind and buddhi can not recall previous deaths. so who exactly fears death and why? Aum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , " janfarah_strongspirit " <janfarah_strongspirit wrote: Hello Farahji, Namaste! The meaning of item no. 5 - carry over is, suppose i have done say any sadhana, for example sake, gayathri devi sadhana and before completion i die. When i am reborn in human birth again i will instinctively take up that sadhana. It won't be an alien concept to me. It will be more like a duck taking to water. But before we are born all our memories of previous life is rubbed off so we do not recall it. Exception to the rule is always there. So my gayathri devi sadhana which is incomplete is stored and carried forward in this birth in a suspended state and anything can trigger it off - like reading a book, or attending yagya somewhere, or a wondering monk who can look into the past and future can initiate and vanish which will lead to triggering off and i will start from there where i left off in my previous birth though for record sake i may go thru preliminaries but unlike other people who are new to the path for me it will a piece of cake or as they say walkover and then i will restart and progress faster than others who might be on this path before me in this birth and then they can feel very envious about me because for them i am a new person and how come i progressed so fast which is nothing but carry over from previous birth. This specially applies to child prodigies. I hope this clears your doubt but if still cannot make head or tail of it ask. With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) > , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9@> wrote: > > > > 5. In the next birth the carryover may take place from childhood > > itself or maybe when you are middle age or maybe in your oldage. > > > > Dear brother Sudhakar > > Could you elaborate on number 5 please? What exactly is carried over? > > With love > > Farah > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 > How this fear is pre-programmed ? Who is really afraid of Death ? It > cant be body as body does not take rebirth. We have no recollection > of past memories hence mind and buddhi can not recall previous deaths. > > so who exactly fears death and why? Aumji, the infinite conciousness identified with the body is scared of death. It remembers its immortal state, but that memory is vague & clouded by Karma & Sanskaars. So it wrongly identifies the physical/astral body with that immortal state. Just intellectually knowing about this isnt enough- as this fear goes to th depth of our conciousness, well beyond the mind. Until we clear our conciousness of deeply hidden sanskars, & experience the deathless state while alive(which happens in Samadhi), we cannot go beyond our fear of death. with love Shantnu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 Yes Shatnuji, Can also say it this way... " The Fear of Death can be overcome only by Experiencing Death, which is the Entry Door to SAMADHI " . shanracer <no_reply > wrote: Aumji, the infinite conciousness identified with the body is scared of Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , Anupam Shil <anupamshil wrote: > " The Fear of Death can be overcome only by Experiencing Death, which >is the Entry Door to SAMADHI " . Yes Anupamji that is perfect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote: > > Now what exactly happens at the time of death. Your extremity > starts going numb. i.e. first the feet then the ankle and in this > way the numbness rises, so also it starts at the hands and it rises > to reach shoulder and then neck, meantime from lower extremity > i.e. feet the numbness reaches neck and now the whole body is > paralysed but you are Conscious. You do not know what to do. > You know the end is near but you cannot communicate. This numbness > rises up till......... > > contd.....tomorrow > Dear Sudhakarji, wow such vivid explanation at the time of death !! How did you get this information...did u ever went through NDE? regards Aum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , jaya_sundram <no_reply wrote: Hello Jayaji, Namaste! 1. According to what i have read, it has been purposefully kept by Dharmaraj/Yamaraj so that if you know what sins you have committed in previous life you will refrain from committing the same again, in which case you will attempt to escape from this 84 lakhs yoni birth and rebirth (cycle of birth and rebirth) and this Kalpurush/Yamaraj/Dharmaraj certainly does not want to happen. 2. Most definitely, though many argue that from human birth rebirth will take place only in humans and no chance of going downward towards animals. I have read many such tales where Brahmins are born as pigs and cows but most interesting is about Lord Indra - King of Gods. Once to a query Lord Krishna says to Udhava, Look at that ant scurryinhg off in a hurry, it was lord Indra in its previous birth but because of his KuKarma, look at the state he is fallen into. I hope this answers your two questions. With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) > , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9@> wrote: > > Dear spbyoga9 > > Namaste! > > Thanks it was quite understandable reply. Please tell me > > 1- Why we dont remember past lives > > 2- Can human beings take re-birth as animals? > > jaya > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 Pranam & thanks to everyone. Yes the fear of death leads one to rise above the body and think about our innerself. ..> why does it takes a lot of time for many to get back into path of sadhna in their next birth? is this coz of the quantity & quality of sadhna we did in our past or is it coz of the karma ( karma done in the life prior to sadhana ) ..> is there any yoga/sadhna path which can be followed/adopted so that in the future birth we can take up sadhna in a early stage? ..> Does the karma of our parents, wife, children, Guru affect in postponing or preponing the spark/commencment of sadhna in next birth? ..> I had a strange experience queit a few time, while in sleep, suddenly i will not be able to move any of my body parts, it will be like numbness all thro the body, then i feel to speak / shout /screeem, but could not... after a few minutes ( i donot know minutes or hours ) i will wake up and ask my wife or children did you hear my scream, but none of the time they heard anything.... IS THIS A NDE? Thanks every one. LUV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 , jaya_sundram <no_reply wrote: > 1- Why we dont remember past lives Jayaji, Nature wants to work towards our spiritual progress, not waste time in fixing last lives problems. A story illustrates this: Once a Sadhu was walking on a road, when he saw a rich man builidng a house. The rich man said " This will be the best house in town, everyone will be jealous of me! " The Sadhu laughed loudly. The next day he was walking on same road, when he saw the rich man playing with his baby son. The son urinated on the father, but the father just wiped it & kissed his son. At this the Sadhu laughed again. The 3rd day, again the Sadhu was passing when the rich man said to his son " Son, 1 day you will make me proud " . At this the Sadhu laughed so loudly he fell on the floor. This time the rich man couldnt take it any more, & asked the Sadhu why he had laughed. The Sadhu said, 1st, you are happy for this house, yet you will die in 6 months, & never get a chance to live in it. 2nd, this boy is your wifes lover from your previous life, whom you had brutally murdered. This life he has come to take revenge on you, & he even peed on you, yet you kissed him. 3rd, this son will destroy all your wealth, as he has only come to take revenge " . The rich man was in tears. He asked if he could do anything. The Sadhu said, spend the last 6 months of your life praying & chanting, as even a minutes meditation doesnt go waste. Do you think we would treat our friends, relatives as we do if we knew why they had come to us, especially if they have come to take revenge? A more deep answer is- each of our lives is built by our causal body taking up some Karma & creating a body with it. As such, there is no necessary connection between lives. So to try to study your past life would only distract you. The only exception is great Yogis, who use this knowledge to figure out which Karma are stopping them from Moksha, & then finish those karmas. But for normal people, this knowledge would be a burden & a curse, so its kept hidden. > 2- Can human beings take re-birth as animals? Yes, in extreme rare cases. But its always a temporary stay. with love Shantnu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2008 Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 Babaji , This description fits into SHAVASANA & nbsp; which I had practised several times. My doubt is " Does one experience pain or any other unpleasant sensation? " Thanks sir ijswamy ~SWAMY http://gjnanaswarup.spaces.live.com/blog/ Dear Sudhakarji, wow such vivid explanation at the time of death !! How did you get this information. ..did u ever went through Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote: > suppose i have done say > any sadhana Dear Sudhakar Thats great thankyou, these are all very interesting posts... if others have had NDE's it would be so interesting to share them too... With love Farah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 , " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote: Dear Senthilji, Namaste! here is the balance instalment... This numbness rises up till the third eye/shivnetra/tisra til etc., etc., as it is called. This is in between the two eyebrows where women usually make a tikka - apply kumkum or where males apply gopi chandan or sandalwood paste. Now here the soul passes either from the head in which case we cannot make out. It may mass pass thru the eyes in which case your eyes remain open. It may pass thru mouth and that will also remain open. Ofcourse sometimes both may remain open but it goes thru either one of them, in which case again we cannot make out. It may pass thru ear in which case you cannot make out. Further the learned say that if the soul is going to be born in Neech Yoni, i.e. lower strata of animals/reptiles/insects you may urinate or defecate and that will be an indication that the soul has travelled into the lower region. Sometimes the soul separates from the body and you have OOBE (i.e. out of body experience) specially when you are under anaesthesia or extremely tired or in pain. Ofcourse every night when you sleep also you have oobe but you are hardly ever conscious. So what is the solution. Practically every religion has it. In Bible St. Paul said: I DIE DAILY. (it is another thing majority of the christains have never read it and those who preach do not know what is means and to avoid embarassment say vague things to escape from such query - so much for being a ordained priest) In other religion specially sufis and zen master they talk of JEETE JI MARNA, i.e Dying while leaving. It is a meditation technique i had mentioned in passing to Farahaji and she did not show interest nor others who read about it so i am not suppose to tell it but yours was a genuine query which i felt all our Sadanaa group people will benefit so i opened my mouth. I hope nobody will ask me my experience which i am sworn to secrecy nor will i talk about my path, for i seek no publicity or anything else. I hope this will satisfy your doubts which i have answered fully to my capacity. If you read Garuda Purana you will will come to know further about what happens. It is rarely read accept during BHOG ceremony. With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) > Dear Senthilji, > > Namaste! > > As promised yesterday herewith my answers to all your queries > on Death. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 > I DIE DAILY. > JEETE JI MARNA, SudhakarJi, thanks for all your informations. But people advise not to read Garuda Purana at home and should be read only at temple / ashram, is it so? Thanks. Luv. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 , " Senthil " <senthil_sym wrote: Dear Senthilji, Namaste! That again proves the unnecessary fear which is planted in our minds. Do you think by reading Garuda Purana, you will invite your death or those listening to you in the house, will they die? No, but if they are destined at that time, you cannot take that example as the authority or the truth. For instance, i found one person swallowing his food and when i asked him - why don't you chew, he made a face of astonishment and explained that rice is Goddess Laxmi and further at this instance the lady of the house started explaining to me for 5 minutes on importance of not chewing the rice. After she finished her explanation i asked when you wash the rice you are drowning goddess laxmiji and you usually wash it three times so at that time your laxmiji is definitely dead and then you put her in the pressure cooker to cook and at that time your goddess Laxmiji is completely certified DEAD then what difference it makes whether you chew it or swallow it. Such a questioning was a slap to that lady who thought she was very well versed with such matters. She just could not answer and then i asked her WHO TOLD YOU THIS and she said the priest told her. I am having hard time in telling people to chew the food. So please do not worry - you will not die if you read garuda purana at home but please read it in mind otherwise other sensitive people in the house will object and will think of you as VINASH KALE VIPARIT BUDDHI. I hope i have made it clear if still in doubt do ask. With warm wishes, Sudhakar HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! ) > > I DIE DAILY. > > JEETE JI MARNA, > SudhakarJi, thanks for all your informations. But people advise not to > read Garuda Purana at home and should be read only at temple / ashram, > is it so? > Thanks. > Luv. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 , " J.SWAMY IRAGAVARAPU " <jiragavarapu wrote: > > Babaji , This description fits into SHAVASANA & nbsp; which I had practised several times. My doubt is > " Does one experience pain or any other unpleasant sensation? " > Thanks sir > ijswamy Dear Swamiji, Pain is quite common at the time of death, as Sudhakarji told a pain equal to 100s of scorpion bite... but this pain vanishes before the final moments of death. The pain remains till the Brain is active and when pranas are drawn out of brain and subtle body separates from physical body, all pains vanish. Death is a wonderful experience and there is nothing to be afraid of from death. Painful death is also due to Karmas. Those who have less negativity and lesser bad karma, die peacefully too. love Aum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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