Respected Gurus, please advise on this, bit urgent

[Guest guest]

Hi,

 

I have just started taken more interest in astrology as I am about

to get married, its a love affair and we trying to bride side ready

for it, so nowadays reading lot of books on Kundli match and so on.

Recently what caught my eyes is a mention of 8 basic exceptions where

Kundli match is not required, these basic rules are written by

mahrishi yagavlakya and are as follows

 

1. In case of love marriage.

 

2. If there is a condition associated with marriage, e.g. the way

Rama and Sita, Arjun and Draupadi got married.

 

3. If the girl is kidnapped and subsequently married.

 

4. If the girl's father gives away his daughter willingly and

lovingly.

 

5. If the girl herself proposes to a guy then it is not necessarily

required to match the charts for Manglik Dosha.

 

6. In case of remarriage.

 

7. If the girl has crossed the age of 30 years, then a lot of

attention should not be given to manglik dosha.

 

8. For a man above 50 years of age and for a woman 45 and above.

 

Please guide me about existence of these and in which book i can

found these exceptions and publisher if anyone knows. This will be a

turning point for us and i am sure as well as so many others who

getting into wedlock.

 

Thanks and Regards

 

Charul Shukla

[Guest guest]

Dear Charul,

 

Since You have seen this mention somewhere,

its You who have to guide us,

where you have got the mention in which book,

magazine or paper,and written (Posted in such place

where mention is made) by whom ?

 

Because you would help me a lot,

cause I have someone very close to me,

a girl and boy who love each

another very much, both religious and from

ggod families with good cultures,

but unfortunately their Kundli does not

match for marriage purposes. We have

tried all approaches, systems and also met

the best astrologers in India, but none

of them said to go ahead.

Now when I see this couple who are doing

pooja regularly for hours, waiting for some miracle

it really pains my heart to see them thus.

 

If the Maharishi has written thus, I will take

note of the first point,invoke his blessings by

doing a yagna and havan,take his permission by

some spiritual methods, and then ask the couple

to go ahead,but first need authentic shastra

where,I can read this personally, before we

try to take help from these ethereal beings,

or enter apact which is not understood to be

proper astrologically.

 

regards,

Bhaskar.

 

 

 

 

 

jyotish-vidya, "Charul Shukla"

<charul_shukla20 wrote:

>

> Hi,

>

> I have just started taken more interest in astrology as I am about

> to get married, its a love affair and we trying to bride side ready

> for it, so nowadays reading lot of books on Kundli match and so on.

> Recently what caught my eyes is a mention of 8 basic exceptions

where

> Kundli match is not required, these basic rules are written by

> mahrishi yagavlakya and are as follows

>

> 1. In case of love marriage.

>

> 2. If there is a condition associated with marriage, e.g. the way

> Rama and Sita, Arjun and Draupadi got married.

>

> 3. If the girl is kidnapped and subsequently married.

>

> 4. If the girl's father gives away his daughter willingly and

> lovingly.

>

> 5. If the girl herself proposes to a guy then it is not necessarily

> required to match the charts for Manglik Dosha.

>

> 6. In case of remarriage.

>

> 7. If the girl has crossed the age of 30 years, then a lot of

> attention should not be given to manglik dosha.

>

> 8. For a man above 50 years of age and for a woman 45 and above.

>

> Please guide me about existence of these and in which book i can

> found these exceptions and publisher if anyone knows. This will be

a

> turning point for us and i am sure as well as so many others who

> getting into wedlock.

>

> Thanks and Regards

>

> Charul Shukla

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Shukla

You may find the book 'MARS AND MAGALIK IN ASTROLOGY" by Pt.Inderji Kaushal and Dr. Gian Singh Mann, published by Pankaj Publications, Cambridge Book Depot 3 Regal Building New Delhi 110001.

hope this helpd

 

Charul Shukla <charul_shukla20 > wrote:

Hi,

 

I have just started taken more interest in astrology as I am about

to get married, its a love affair and we trying to bride side ready

for it, so nowadays reading lot of books on Kundli match and so on.

Recently what caught my eyes is a mention of 8 basic exceptions where

Kundli match is not required, these basic rules are written by

mahrishi yagavlakya and are as follows

 

1. In case of love marriage.

 

2. If there is a condition associated with marriage, e.g. the way

Rama and Sita, Arjun and Draupadi got married.

 

3. If the girl is kidnapped and subsequently married.

 

4. If the girl's father gives away his daughter willingly and

lovingly.

 

5. If the girl herself proposes to a guy then it is not necessarily

required to match the charts for Manglik Dosha.

 

6. In case of remarriage.

 

7. If the girl has crossed the age of 30 years, then a lot of

attention should not be given to manglik dosha.

 

8. For a man above 50 years of age and for a woman 45 and above.

 

Please guide me about existence of these and in which book i can

found these exceptions and publisher if anyone knows. This will be a

turning point for us and i am sure as well as so many others who

getting into wedlock.

 

Thanks and Regards

 

Charul Shukla

 

 

 

 

 

alternate email is raichurar :Location Bombay India

 

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[Guest guest]

>

> 1. In case of love marriage.

 

Why not?

 

> 2. If there is a condition associated with marriage, e.g. the way

> Rama and Sita, Arjun and Draupadi got married.

 

I dont think this happens in 20th century. Even if it did, still need

Kundli check.

 

> 3. If the girl is kidnapped and subsequently married.

 

What!!?! You are kidding right?

 

> 4. If the girl's father gives away his daughter willingly and

> lovingly.

 

In all marriages, father does that, at least in India(& Christian

tradional marriages too).

 

> 5. If the girl herself proposes to a guy then it is not necessarily

> required to match the charts for Manglik Dosha.

 

Again, where did u get this from?!

 

> 6. In case of remarriage.

 

If 1st marriage failed, means some problem, u shud see astrologer.

 

> 7. If the girl has crossed the age of 30 years, then a lot of

> attention should not be given to manglik dosha.

>

> 8. For a man above 50 years of age and for a woman 45 and above.

 

Obviouly not true.

[Guest guest]

Mr. Charul Shukla,

There are Ashta-vidha Vivaahaas upto Dwapara Yuga and you can find many examples in Ramayana/Bharata and Bhagavatha. Even upto middle of 19th century AD, marrying more than one woman was common. After Independance, Democracy is the day of order and the laws of the land prevail.

In olden days Hindu Dharma Sastras are followed in marriages and intervention of Rulers was not there. Dharma Sastras rules are also amended to take into account the prevailing circumstances - example: Ashta-varsha's bhaveth Kanya - in medival times due to foreign rulers invading India - at that time the Invaders also have some regard to marriage institution - hence they did not touch the married ladies. In British rule also, they did not touch our marriage institution, except Sarada Act and gave respect to our Sastras.

After Independance, our Governments have made Hindu Marriage Act with so many amendments, applicable only to Hindus. These provisions do not apply to other communities, who follow the rules as per their Dharma Sastras and our democratic government is not empowerd to amend them.

We have to follow the rules in the Hindu Marriage Act.

1. Male should cross 21 years and Female should cross 18 years for marriage.

2. If both cross the above age, nobody can stop you marrying, provided both mutually agree.

3. Nobody can stop the above marriage on the basis of caste/creed etc.

4. Parental permission is not required for the above.

This is the present position of Love Marriage.

5. Arranged marriages by Parents of both Male and Female partners.

Regarding your doubt:

1. In Love Marriage without the consent of Parents, they are not bothered about the happenings of tomorrow. Hence no question of compatability etc. If it is with the consent of parents (very few will have that luck), the Parents will take care of those things, and if any thing happens latter, they come forward and look after them.

2. Conditions attached to Marriage: There are no such marriages now a days.

3. Kidnapping and marrying. without consent of the girl and without fulfilling the 1st condition is a crime now a days and the kidnapper will be behind the bars.

4. If the Father of the Bride gives away her as a gift: 1st age condition should be met and without girl's consent even father cannot perform her marriage.

5. If the girl proposes herself to the Boy: Eventhough the Boy agrees and the 1st condition is met by the both, it is a love marriage and if it is accepted by boy's parents it is OK, orelse problems start.

6. In case of Re-marriage: Now a days, without a Divorce decree, 2nd marriage is not possible either to Boy or Girl. These people are frequently consulting astrologers.

7.If the girl crosses 30 years, no much impoortance for Mangalik dosha: These days 1st marriage for most of the people - females - between 25-35 years and males - 30 - 40 years.

They are taking more care than the youngsters.

8. It is not necessary for those males crossed 50 and females crossed 45 - OK. They passed their prime youth and the female will be in menopause stage.

I understand from your question that you are in love with a girl and your parents are not accepting that. If both of you fulfil the age condition, nobody can stop your marriage.

If you want to know how your married life with the proposed bride, you can consult an astrologer orelse you should go ahead and get married and face what ever comes either good or bad and you should never leave her hand. That is Love.

May God Bless You,

Sastry.

 

Charul Shukla <charul_shukla20 > wrote:

Hi,

 

I have just started taken more interest in astrology as I am about

to get married, its a love affair and we trying to bride side ready

for it, so nowadays reading lot of books on Kundli match and so on.

Recently what caught my eyes is a mention of 8 basic exceptions where

Kundli match is not required, these basic rules are written by

mahrishi yagavlakya and are as follows

 

1. In case of love marriage.

 

2. If there is a condition associated with marriage, e.g. the way

Rama and Sita, Arjun and Draupadi got married.

 

3. If the girl is kidnapped and subsequently married.

 

4. If the girl's father gives away his daughter willingly and

lovingly.

 

5. If the girl herself proposes to a guy then it is not necessarily

required to match the charts for Manglik Dosha.

 

6. In case of remarriage.

 

7. If the girl has crossed the age of 30 years, then a lot of

attention should not be given to manglik dosha.

 

8. For a man above 50 years of age and for a woman 45 and above.

 

Please guide me about existence of these and in which book i can

found these exceptions and publisher if anyone knows. This will be a

turning point for us and i am sure as well as so many others who

getting into wedlock.

 

Thanks and Regards

 

Charul Shukla

 

 

 

 

 

 

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