Guest guest Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 Hello Padma, Your 'How to Conquer Anger?" article/message was really good. I appreciate all the members who are posting such good articles and informative messages. Regards, Sasi "" <> Thursday, 22 February, 2007 9:29:35 AM Digest Number 570 Om Namah Shivaya Shivaya Namah Om Messages In This Digest (4 Messages) 1. how to conquer anger? padmahiraskar69 2. upcoming eclipse Vikrant 3. Re: Mount Kailash. Dev Maharaj 4. GLASS OF MILK lordshivabhakta View All Topics | Create New Topic Messages 1. how to conquer anger? Posted by: "padmahiraskar69 " padmahiraskar69 padmahiraskar69 Wed Feb 21, 2007 4:44 am (PST) There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence! It gradually dwindled down as he discovered it was easier to hold temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say "I'm sorry", the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care. Dont kill them with your angry outbursts. You will lament later. Imagine how many friends you have already lost because of little things. ANGER is like nuclear energy. It can be lethal to you if you misuse it. All explosive things can be made to be useful by proper management. Anger is a great form of super energy. The ideal is to harness energy out of anger, which can work to eliminate the cause of your anger. Angry person is the loser always. Don't play with anger. Try from now on, to blame yourself for all your anger - NEVER to others as you are the ONLY one who suffers not the third parties to whom you blame. How to deal with Anger The question still remains in one's mind HOW To express anger. Should we SUPPRESS it or should we programme our mind to train it to use that extra fuel created by energy to do something more creative ? Even if somebody provokes you zillion times, if you knew deep down in your heart, that ANGER is like opening the lid of a living volcano, you will for sure think several times. Because if you remove the lid of the volcano, the lava will flow and guess who is going to get the sensation of BURNING ? The person who provoked you or YOU? If you review it carefully you will see that lava will flow in yourself. The smoke of this lava will keep your mind polluted and the feeling of burn will keep hurting you for days. While you are burning, in reality, you are burning in the fire of repentence. WE all feel very foolish once the lava of anger has finally flown away, drained out. The AFTERMATH of anger is the assessment of loss, the calculation of damage we have done to ourselves. In all this process, you will notice that, the person who provoked you is NEVER there to suffer an iota of what you suffered. WE ARE THE ONLY victims of our own anger. Nobody else. WHO PAYS for the anger? If we connect a 100 watt light bulb with a 4000 voltage source, it would instantly burn the bulb. Similarly the nervous system is not made to withstand the destructive and powerful force of anger - an intense emotion - which does drain away our energy. Dont just take it easy. It is proven that each episode of anger can take our life energy, pran shakti, the divine life energy, out of us. In fact if I told you, that each angry scene cost you 30 days of your life, and if you calculate each time you have gone nuts with anger, many people will have lost many years already. Do your calculation now for yourself and see how much of your life is already gone. Please take note that ANGER is not a force in itself nor it has any shape of its own, but IT is a powerful invisible, earthquake like phenomenon which shakes and stirs the life energy, inherent in your body and soul - which is the real source of force - and in reality drains it out. So in other words, anger is your own life energy which is converted by anger into a negative force. By practice and exercise you can re-convert this negative force into positive energy again. It does work. So we do lose a lot by anger? Suffering ourselves from this enormous loss, is actually diminishing our life energy and consequently reducing our life's duration and stay on this planet with our present name. How do we deal with it? First of all write down on a piece of paper, who makes you angry, what is it that makes you angry, what words and actions, in which way, make you angry. Then meditate and think deeply, about the reasons why you get upset for those words and actions. Each time you get angry, think about and go through the above practice of quick analysis. Think how damaging it is and how much you are going to lose by letting your precious life force go waste as if it was useless. Remember your life force, in question, is in reality a certain fraction of LIFE. If i told you that each time you get angry, you are going to lose 40% of your monthly income, will you not stop and think seriously the causes of anger. Likewise or probably in more ways, you are losing much more than that. You are losing your life force, which is divine and a gift of Nature. Keep it in your life reserve. It is LIFE itself. You will never get back that lost essential life energy. REMEMBER! We are actually forfeiting and losing a part of our LIFE. If you have friends who make you angry, try not to see these friends. If you have anyone around you who is so cruel that he or she is unknowingly robbing of your life force, will you continue to be a victim of their tactic or tantrums and kill yourself gradually just to keep their ego uninflated. If you were smart and alert, you will stop seeing these people or change your attitude. DO NOT Expect THEM To change or amend their ways. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE even if you lose all you have. DO NOT have a head on collision with these people who make you upset. JUST do not get in their way. Take another route. DONT TELL ME there are not many alternate routes always. Find them out. There is always a way out..... Change yourself and save yourself. padma ------------ --------- --------- --- 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with the Search movie showtime shortcut. Back to top Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post Messages in this topic (1) 2. upcoming eclipse Posted by: "Vikrant" free_for_blue free_for_blue Wed Feb 21, 2007 4:44 am (PST) just to make everyone aware..there are 2 eclipse coming up in march2007.. one is lunar eclispe on 3,4march2007. . and then solar eclipse on 19march2007. . eclipse is very very favoured time to do mantra sadhana and acheive mantra siddhi fast..it is also favoured time to special puja's...... i have read and understood that during this time it is easier to get mantra siddhi since the planetary energy is very high..do some online study on this if u wish so... pls check ur local panchag or hindu calender for more details on upcoming eclipse.. tantricks,yogis wait long long for such times to do thier sadhanas and spiritual practise's as they are well aware of its significance of eclipse.. Vikrant ------------ --------- --------- --- Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. Try the Mail Beta. Back to top Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post Messages in this topic (1) 3. Re: Mount Kailash. Posted by: "Dev Maharaj" dev_maharaj dev_maharaj Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:41 pm (PST) Namaskaar Actually the knowledge for the Brahma Astra does exist and will be reactivated in the future, remember when I said Lord Shiva has some interesting plans for Kailash? lol .... Haa Haa Haa.Haa ! As far as I have seen, our Lord will begin an assault on some of these parasites that have come to power. How and when is yet to be seen Namah Sivaya Best Regards Pandit Devindra Maharaj b_jamnadas <b_jamnadas (AT) (DOT) ca> wrote: Dear Pandit Ji, I agree in principle with everything that you say.....but as far as BhramaAstra is concerned, in all likelihood, the knowledge does not exist today for this weapon, if it did, it should have been used some long time ago when the barbaric people first started coming to India for wealth and forcible conversion. The only solution right now seems to be a clean govt in India with an ambition for th country and inspite of being a democracy, the most corrupt people continue to come to power and that is amazing. Are the people in India gone crazy? Bhupendra. om_namah_shivaya_ group@ s.com, Dev Maharaj <dev_maharaj@ ...> wrote: > > Namaskaar > > Is China really stronger than India in a military sense ...... Hmmmmm... ever hear of BrahmaAstra . A weapon than you can't see but whose destructive power is beyond normal comprehension. Seems to me that you in India ,are slacking off ! > Help will come when you least expect it . > > mahadevadvaita <mahadevadvaita@ ...> wrote: > > Namaskaar > > Ok here is a little experiment for you, I would like you to strongly > think that nothing exists, that you are not existing and you have no > ego, that there are no physical and mental boundaries. I would like you > to strongly think that all that you see is pure Maya and mentally deny > (know ??) that these things exist. > > > > Then walk into a wall, then another person, then a moving vehicle. > Then let me know if these things do not exist. > > Namah Sivaya > > Dear Sri Pandit ji, Namah Sivaya ! We cannot really go back to 1962 and > China is much stronger militarily than us. So we can neither regret the > past, nor do anything in the present. For future, it all depends on our > leadership and I am not sure how much control we have over that. > > Baba Bholenath is very kind and he is described as the jagat Guru - he > teaches Brahm Vidya in his Sri Dakshnimurthy form. He will teach us and > we will receive whatever we are fit to receive. > > with best regards and respects, > > Om Namah Sivaya > > > > > > > ------------ --------- --------- --- > Don't be flakey. Get Mail for Mobile and > always stay connected to friends. > ------------ --------- --------- --- Never Miss an Email Stay connected with Mail on your mobile. Get started! Back to top Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post Messages in this topic (44) 4. GLASS OF MILK Posted by: "lordshivabhakta" no_reply lordshivabhakta Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:44 pm (PST) Dear Members I wish to share with you all a story which open door of faith towards god. GLASS OF MILK One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it so slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?" "You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness." He said ... "Then I thank you from the bottom of my heart." As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his f aith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.. Many year's later that same young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to her case. After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words . "Paid in full with one glass of milk" (Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly. Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You God, that Your love has spread broad through human hearts and hands." There's a saying which goes something like this: Bread cast on the waters comes back to you. The good deed you do today may benefit you or someone you love at the least expected time. If you never see the deed again at least you will have made the world a better place - And, after all, isn't that what life is all about?! 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