Guest guest Posted February 6, 2007 Report Share Posted February 6, 2007 To Rohini Ranjan, I wrote to you a while back...I would really appreciate a reply from you. Thanks! Sincerely Seema > Hello Rohini, > > Thank you very much for your reply. It is possibld that I was born earlier. My parents told > me it was the time the nurses and doctors noted but 8;57 or before is also a possibility. > I'm very surprised at your analysis. Why do you say that I am being perceived at someone > who "bad mouths" others? I have always been very very supportive of my advisor, to such > an extent that I have encouraged other students to join her lab. It;s just when I saw how > unfairly she has been treating me after all that I have done and given to her and in terms > of my own efforts I am really hurt. I keep reminding myself that this is not a personal but a > professional relationship. I can understand how u conclude that I come across as > negative, low self confidence. But bad mouthing others, not being hard working..I > sincerely disagree and many will tell you that I am very hardworking. There have been > times when I have gone to lab at 5:30am and come home at midnight. All the committee > members on my PhD advisory committee recommended that I pass and my own advisor is > the only one who refused and said she needs to do more. It;s really unfair. Anyways, I was > just a bit shocked to see u saying that. Did you get this my reading my chart or your own > conclusion? I appreciate you bringing it to my attention and will be extra careful. > > Hope to hear from you soon. > > Thanks, > > Seema > > > vedic astrology, "Rohiniranjan" <rohini_ranjan@> wrote: > > > > Seema, > > > > Period after August 2007 is better for higher education related > > matters. Next several months are not good for picking up fights or > > getting involved in legal battles or confrontations with your teachers > > (and equivalents). > > > > You are being perceived by those in power as a person who is > > 'negative', does not work 'sharply' -- intelligently or hard and lacks > > confidence. You are also perceived as someone who bad mouths others > > and all of these impressions, rightly or wrongly have created > > problems. Please see if there is anything you can do to reverse the > > situation or to improve it at least. You should improve on your > > networking skills a bit more. After Ph.D. will come job interviews and > > references would be needed and if you do not make changes in how you > > express yourself or are perceived by others, particularly in positions > > of power, these issues and miseries will continue on and on. > > > > Also check with your parents to get a better sense about your > > birthtime. Could it be possible that you were born a few minutes after > > 9 AM? > > > > RR > > > > vedic astrology, "Seema" <seema1263@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Group, > > > I recently took my PhD qualifying exam and > > > everyone > > > on the committee agreed to pass me except my own advisor. She is > > requiring some > > > extra > > > work on my part. She has also very unfairly scored my performance > > very low. I > > > find it sadthat my own advisor is doing this. I am fearful about the > > future of > > > my PhD. > > > Please help > > > me. > > > A little about me in case it is needed: I am currently a PhD student > > and I am > > > doing research > > > in a biomedical > > > related field. Ever since 2000 I have I had a very > > > difficult time in my studies and have not studied > > > properly or received good results. I have had pretty > > > serious problems with authority figures and I suffer > > > from lack of self confidence. Often I find myself in > > > situations where I am being treated unfairly and taken > > > advantage of. > > > After much struggle I got this admission into the PhD program in April > > > 2004. If you could offer me any advice, guidance or > > > suggestions on how I can make myself and more > > > stronger person and get through these times I would > > > really appreciate it. My advisor is also threatening to hinder my > > progress and I > > > am very > > > scared. A few people have actually suggested that I take legal > > action. But I > > > know they are > > > just angry with the way I am being treated. > > > Will I be able to get my PhD? If so when? My birth details are December > > > 13, 1980 time 9:00am place Long Beach California USA. > > > > > > Significant events: I am not married,I have a younger brother born Dec > > > 8th, 1986 > > > I Moved away > > > from home August 2002. Got admission into PhD in April 2004. Knee > > > surgery at 13 > > > years > > > of age. > > > Thanks for all your help. > > > Sincerely, > > > Seema > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2007 Report Share Posted February 6, 2007 Seema, if you are talking to me (Mr. Rohiniranjan, btw!), I did not receive any of these emails you talk about or seen your replies! Internet can be quite confusing, I know! RR , "Seema" <seema1263 wrote: > > Dear Ms. Ranjan, > > I have tried to email you several times and have posted on the group a reply to you but it's > been weeks now and haven't received a reply. Please kindly give me a response. > > Seema > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2007 Report Share Posted February 8, 2007 Since the header carries my name, I must respond! It is sad that in this story, Jesus was portrayed as being limited to use his limited (human) arm span to show the extent of his love to this kid mentioned in the story! <<This much>> as he spread his arms and got crucified (no disrespect intended -- please read on, devout reader!) If only the "kid" who asked, had taken the time to focus more on his comprehension and to work within instead of taking the short lazy cut and asking around for easy answers, sometimes asking many times (similar to POST 15 COPIES and you will GET IT! OR gimme a reading posted on 17 forums!!) and many more times over many many more lifetimes. I am sure Jesus would have given a different answer if it was not a *kid* that asked him the question that many a bhakta asks his or her God: How much do You love me? This is serious folks! Each time we ask innocently and recklessly this question like a kid, it seems God ends up suffering human pain! Like Jesus did in this story, and THAT story! Now, if the kid/bhakta in this internet story had really loved God, he would have waited patiently for the answer, without prematurely asking it -- Like Buddha did not ask I am sure and who knows maybe Jesus did not too! All a matter of perspective! Think about it patiently! Patience = Trust really! Without TRUST the ripples do not die and the churning ocean of perception does not settle down enough to really become TRANSPARENT! RR , varsha shukla <info4912 wrote: > > do this for me? A kid asked Jesus... how much do u love me? Jesus replied," I love you this much." and he stretched his arms to the cross and died for us. If you believe in God, you will send this to everyone on your list. If you delete this, you will have a cold heart in 2007. I treat you as a true friend. But if I don't get this back, I get the hint. Send this to all people in your list within 30min after u read this and something good will happen to you NOW. This is not a fake...apparently...copy and paste this to 15 people in the next 10mins and you WILL have the best day of your life tomorrow > > > Seema <seema1263 wrote: Dear Ms. Ranjan, > > I have tried to email you several times and have posted on the group a reply to you but it's > been weeks now and haven't received a reply. Please kindly give me a response. > > Seema > > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > Try the Mail Beta. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2007 Report Share Posted February 8, 2007 Thank You Sir! That was a very beautiful and, more importantly, useful reminder - "Patience = Trust". Thanks again! From all of us in this group - for being here! Regards, Nandini. , "Rohiniranjan" <jyotish_vani wrote: > > Since the header carries my name, I must respond! > > > It is sad that in this story, Jesus was portrayed as being limited to > use his limited (human) arm span to show the extent of his love to > this kid mentioned in the story! <<This much>> as he spread his arms > and got crucified (no disrespect intended -- please read on, devout > reader!) > > If only the "kid" who asked, had taken the time to focus more on his > comprehension and to work within instead of taking the short lazy cut > and asking around for easy answers, sometimes asking many times > (similar to POST 15 COPIES and you will GET IT! OR gimme a reading > posted on 17 forums!!) and many more times over many many more > lifetimes. > > I am sure Jesus would have given a different answer if it was not a > *kid* that asked him the question that many a bhakta asks his or her > God: How much do You love me? > > This is serious folks! Each time we ask innocently and recklessly > this question like a kid, it seems God ends up suffering human pain! > Like Jesus did in this story, and THAT story! > > Now, if the kid/bhakta in this internet story had really loved God, > he would have waited patiently for the answer, without prematurely > asking it -- Like Buddha did not ask I am sure and who knows maybe > Jesus did not too! > > All a matter of perspective! Think about it patiently! Patience = > Trust really! Without TRUST the ripples do not die and the churning > ocean of perception does not settle down enough to really become > TRANSPARENT! > > RR > > > , varsha shukla > <info4912@> wrote: > > > > do this for me? A kid asked Jesus... how much do u love me? Jesus > replied," I love you this much." and he stretched his arms to the > cross and died for us. If you believe in God, you will send this to > everyone on your list. If you delete this, you will have a cold heart > in 2007. I treat you as a true friend. But if I don't get this back, > I get the hint. Send this to all people in your list within 30min > after u read this and something good will happen to you NOW. This is > not a fake...apparently...copy and paste this to 15 people in the > next 10mins and you WILL have the best day of your life tomorrow > > > > > > Seema <seema1263@> wrote: Dear Ms. Ranjan, > > > > I have tried to email you several times and have posted on the > group a reply to you but it's > > been weeks now and haven't received a reply. Please kindly give me > a response. > > > > Seema > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > > Try the Mail Beta. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2007 Report Share Posted February 8, 2007 Shri RR ji, Good post by You and agree with you. I feel to respond and share my small thoughts. At times I feel its better to talk with God when alone (Alone because the others in the family may find this stupid, insane or abnormal behaviour,if they have not reached this stage of devotion or Bhakti) but only if one believes that God is listening can one do this,at such times instead of asking bounties,its better to share with HIM, your joys and aorrows and thank Him for being with you (If One believes this), and also acknowledge gratitude for whatever good one has, be it family members, or matters solid or liquid.At all such times its better to take the role of a son, younger brother,or just a Bhakta, but these conversations are to be carried in innocence and humility without any smartness enveloping our words and language, for He can certainly see through our intentions. One can ask His father for pleasantries, but this would be giving trouble to His Father, for one may not be worth deserving or enjoying those pleasantries asked for, and in that case The father cannot break the laws of nature in providing what we have begged for, unless we are saints, Yogis or men of supernatural goodness,which most of us are not. So its better to take a role of a passive silent lover, of Him, and try to just give like a true lover, our love devotion and thanks to Him,instead of asking, cause He has already given us enough and His iving is a continous process.Its high time that we too start giving, If we are too evil and cannot face Him out of fear for sins committed, then we always have Him in the manifestation and role of the Divine Mother the feminine form of Him, Maa Kaali-Nav Durga, and the more Saumya Forms, which is always ready to forgive a son and caress Him, however bad a son may be. Per chance a Father may get angry, but never does a Mother towards his son, It would be only momentary even if she does. Sorry for the long post. Bhaskar. , "Rohiniranjan" <jyotish_vani wrote: > > Since the header carries my name, I must respond! > > > It is sad that in this story, Jesus was portrayed as being limited to > use his limited (human) arm span to show the extent of his love to > this kid mentioned in the story! <<This much>> as he spread his arms > and got crucified (no disrespect intended -- please read on, devout > reader!) > > If only the "kid" who asked, had taken the time to focus more on his > comprehension and to work within instead of taking the short lazy cut > and asking around for easy answers, sometimes asking many times > (similar to POST 15 COPIES and you will GET IT! OR gimme a reading > posted on 17 forums!!) and many more times over many many more > lifetimes. > > I am sure Jesus would have given a different answer if it was not a > *kid* that asked him the question that many a bhakta asks his or her > God: How much do You love me? > > This is serious folks! Each time we ask innocently and recklessly > this question like a kid, it seems God ends up suffering human pain! > Like Jesus did in this story, and THAT story! > > Now, if the kid/bhakta in this internet story had really loved God, > he would have waited patiently for the answer, without prematurely > asking it -- Like Buddha did not ask I am sure and who knows maybe > Jesus did not too! > > All a matter of perspective! Think about it patiently! Patience = > Trust really! Without TRUST the ripples do not die and the churning > ocean of perception does not settle down enough to really become > TRANSPARENT! > > RR > > > , varsha shukla > <info4912@> wrote: > > > > do this for me? A kid asked Jesus... how much do u love me? Jesus > replied," I love you this much." and he stretched his arms to the > cross and died for us. If you believe in God, you will send this to > everyone on your list. If you delete this, you will have a cold heart > in 2007. I treat you as a true friend. But if I don't get this back, > I get the hint. Send this to all people in your list within 30min > after u read this and something good will happen to you NOW. This is > not a fake...apparently...copy and paste this to 15 people in the > next 10mins and you WILL have the best day of your life tomorrow > > > > > > Seema <seema1263@> wrote: Dear Ms. Ranjan, > > > > I have tried to email you several times and have posted on the > group a reply to you but it's > > been weeks now and haven't received a reply. Please kindly give me > a response. > > > > Seema > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > > Try the Mail Beta. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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