Guest guest Posted January 12, 2007 Report Share Posted January 12, 2007 Hello Rohini, Thank you very much for your reply. It is possibld that I was born earlier. My parents told me it was the time the nurses and doctors noted but 8;57 or before is also a possibility. I'm very surprised at your analysis. Why do you say that I am being perceived at someone who "bad mouths" others? I have always been very very supportive of my advisor, to such an extent that I have encouraged other students to join her lab. It;s just when I saw how unfairly she has been treating me after all that I have done and given to her and in terms of my own efforts I am really hurt. I keep reminding myself that this is not a personal but a professional relationship. I can understand how u conclude that I come across as negative, low self confidence. But bad mouthing others, not being hard working..I sincerely disagree and many will tell you that I am very hardworking. There have been times when I have gone to lab at 5:30am and come home at midnight. All the committee members on my PhD advisory committee recommended that I pass and my own advisor is the only one who refused and said she needs to do more. It;s really unfair. Anyways, I was just a bit shocked to see u saying that. Did you get this my reading my chart or your own conclusion? I appreciate you bringing it to my attention and will be extra careful. Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks, Seema vedic astrology, "Rohiniranjan" <rohini_ranjan wrote: > > Seema, > > Period after August 2007 is better for higher education related > matters. Next several months are not good for picking up fights or > getting involved in legal battles or confrontations with your teachers > (and equivalents). > > You are being perceived by those in power as a person who is > 'negative', does not work 'sharply' -- intelligently or hard and lacks > confidence. You are also perceived as someone who bad mouths others > and all of these impressions, rightly or wrongly have created > problems. Please see if there is anything you can do to reverse the > situation or to improve it at least. You should improve on your > networking skills a bit more. After Ph.D. will come job interviews and > references would be needed and if you do not make changes in how you > express yourself or are perceived by others, particularly in positions > of power, these issues and miseries will continue on and on. > > Also check with your parents to get a better sense about your > birthtime. Could it be possible that you were born a few minutes after > 9 AM? > > RR > > vedic astrology, "Seema" <seema1263@> wrote: > > > > Dear Group, > > I recently took my PhD qualifying exam and > > everyone > > on the committee agreed to pass me except my own advisor. She is > requiring some > > extra > > work on my part. She has also very unfairly scored my performance > very low. I > > find it sadthat my own advisor is doing this. I am fearful about the > future of > > my PhD. > > Please help > > me. > > A little about me in case it is needed: I am currently a PhD student > and I am > > doing research > > in a biomedical > > related field. Ever since 2000 I have I had a very > > difficult time in my studies and have not studied > > properly or received good results. I have had pretty > > serious problems with authority figures and I suffer > > from lack of self confidence. Often I find myself in > > situations where I am being treated unfairly and taken > > advantage of. > > After much struggle I got this admission into the PhD program in April > > 2004. If you could offer me any advice, guidance or > > suggestions on how I can make myself and more > > stronger person and get through these times I would > > really appreciate it. My advisor is also threatening to hinder my > progress and I > > am very > > scared. A few people have actually suggested that I take legal > action. But I > > know they are > > just angry with the way I am being treated. > > Will I be able to get my PhD? If so when? My birth details are December > > 13, 1980 time 9:00am place Long Beach California USA. > > > > Significant events: I am not married,I have a younger brother born Dec > > 8th, 1986 > > I Moved away > > from home August 2002. Got admission into PhD in April 2004. Knee > > surgery at 13 > > years > > of age. > > Thanks for all your help. > > Sincerely, > > Seema > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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