Request for my dad who is hospitalized and for me regarding my future

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Respected Guruji's and members,

 

This is Ramkumar, my dad was hospitalized since 30th Nov

2006. He is a heart patient, got attack twice and undergone by-pass

surgery in 1998. He is now 61 years old, and admitted now since he

suffered from suffocation. It was found frm the test later that his

heart stopped its function for 3 seconds, and we really thankfull to

God for saving his life.

 

But yet, his health is not good, he is too weak. He used to

vomit daily and we need to bring him to chennai to admit him in a good

hospital which is too far from my home town. We are so confused

because we doubt whether he can travel such a long distance.

 

Doctor says like his the function of the heart is only 42%. I

dont have his birth details, can plz. suggest what can we do in this

tough time. I can post my birth details.

 

Place: Rajapalayam [Rajapalaiyam]

24/08/1982

Time: 17:25 [5.25 pm]

 

Also for the last two years he is under mental stress and

heavy work load cause of debt he bought due to my elder brother. I

have two brothers, first one is married and the second one is studying

MCA 2nd year, and i am working for a small software concern. My health

is also bad, i hav High blood pressure and other physical problems

too.. this is also a worry for my father. For now he is getting

hiccoughs for 1 week. Plz. advice. Please tell me when my family

problesm will be under control. we are not living together, my parents

are at one place and my elder brother and his wife dont have good

relation with us for the last two years, they started to speak with us

since my father is hospitalized, yet they are complaining about my mom.

 

And finally a note about me, i am 25 years old like to live

honestly but doing lot of hidden sins. I dont like me, am frustrated a

lot. I like to act like am living happily till my parents lifetime.

Can i adopt orphanages? and like to support few ppl. who needs help in

life. Can i start doing it, is that possible. Am worrying to do so

bcoz if i adopted any orphans and if i too passed[cause, am already BP

patient] they cant really accept this.

 

Plz. help me by analyzing what are the strong areas in my life and

on what aspect i have to concentrate.

 

Many thanks,

 

Regards,

Ramkumar