Opposite poles or complementary pair?

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OOPS for the last attempt that was premature! Today, I am using a

friend's laptop and not being very facile with this glidepoint mouse,

mistakes will occur! Please be kind to and bear with the battered old

guy :-(

 

The koota and guna nirnaya which for many seems to be the staple for

marital relationships and kundali matching generally remains

unquestioned. It is based on the natal moon and sun and their

ramifications (tithi, nakshatra etc). A few individuals have taken it

also to examine business relationships and potentials. The moon,

truth be told, is indeed a very significant indicator in a chart and

essentially captures the perceived reality for if you think for a

minute, our entire lifetime is really experienced and lived in IN OUR

MIND! Death does not terminate some lives, but total loss of memory,

amnesia, does! At least in the movies and popular novels!

 

But why then this plague of Jyotish_remedies, this Rohini Devi

person, the nemesis of my soul -- not recognize that the moon is

really important in conjugal relationships. I mean for some of us (I

am being careful and going by divorce statistics!)

incompatability/incompatibility of minds and inner nature is what

brings the house of cards known as a happy marriage down and it is

Kramer vs Kramer all over again, with the child getting the shaft and

not so much the warring parents! But ask an orphan, if he will prefer

a dysfunctional (but not abusive) family over living with half the

parent unit and only visiting the other half on some weekends.

 

Moon the significator of mind permeates and perfuses through the

sponge of our carnate existence. The milk of human kindness or the

vitriole of selfish jealousy that eats away the sponge (the body) is

indeed important -- NAY critical! Little wonder that Sages gave it so

much importance when determining marital compatibility and well-

being. However, life has gotten complex and just as moon alone will

not make one tall, with or without jupiter's blessing -- so also moon

alone will not make or break a modern marriage!

 

A modern marriage has a lot of give and take. Roles are not as

clearly defined as was the case for our parents' (in the case of many

of you, grandparents') generation! Mom does not just cook meals, take

care of children and do homework with them and teach them culture,

she also works a full 9-5 in many cases! The roles of dad's has not

changed much. They still remain responsible for the real IMPORTANT

stuff, such as who will be the next mayor, or the next president, or

why the people in middle-east are still fighting and why did we get

rid of the communist regime and why is it so bloody important to

first finish watching the football game or finish the chess game

before making and taking the garbage out!

 

Only a mother can forgive such a brattish husband! Hmm, so maybe MOON

is very important in a marriage! And hey, was it not the modern sage

Freud who said, that men generally marry the woman who resembles

their mothers!

 

What was so upsetting when I said: Is the querrent looking for a wife

or a mother?

 

I better stop here -- this Rohini Devi person has made enough

trouble!! I do not even want to be associated with her. Maybe I

should change my ID or something (that is identity, you freudian

folks and not ID!)

 

RR

 

 

 

 

 

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> > > > > > , "krishnan2804"

> > > > > > <krishnan2804@> wrote:

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Dear Members & experianced Jyotishis (Ashutoshki,

> > > Prashantiji,

> > > > > > > Rohini Devi )

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > This is probably a very elementary query but it's

> > causing me

> > > > > some

> > > > > > > confusion.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Astrologers often recommended that one should not

marry

> > a

> > > > person

> > > > > of

> > > > > > > the opposite rising sign/ Chandra rasi. For example a

> > native

> > > > > with

> > > > > > > the Moon in Capricorn should not marry someone with

the

> > Moon

> > > in

> > > > > > > Cancer/Cancer ascendant and vice versa, or a Taurus

> > > ascendant

> > > > > > should

> > > > > > > avoid marriage with a Scorpio ascendant.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > However would not the 7th house from the

ascendant/Moon

> > > > > represent

> > > > > > > the partner type of person one is attracted to?)

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Comments would be appreciated.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Thanks.