Dear Rohini Ranjan - Problems in married life

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, "newzade1" <newzade1

wrote:

>

> Dear Rohini Ranjan

>

> Thanks so much for a detail analysis.

> You are right at many things...I do feel that I am paying for old

> karmic debts. I would like my marriage to work. It's my husband

who

> is filing for divorce. I have tried everything to talk to him..but

no

> avail. I will see the 'mother' figure to get involved. I am not

> sure if my husband s even ready to talk about this issue with any

> one.

> Please let me know if you have any advice. Or, if you can predict

> anything..(i want to prepare myself for the worst)

> Thanks

> Satinder

>

>

>

> -- In , "Rohiniranjan"

> <jyotish_vani@> wrote:

> >

> > Though in some circles marriage is taken somewhat lightly and

> > casually, marriage or comparable relationships according to some

> can

> > just not happen willy nilly, even in the case of someone like

> > Brittany Spears!

> >

> > Karmic bonds, writer K.N. Rao wrotes and old debts lead to

creating

> > relationships in this lifetime. The negative earlier

relationships

> > may manifest as difficult relationships in this lifetime, even if

> the

> > relationship may be of a nature where one generally expects love

> and

> > the best of support, such as in a marriage or equivalent

> > relationship. There is nothing light and passing about any of

these

> > relationships and good or bad, easy or difficult, they last as

long

> > as it is needed for the karma to dissipate and the lesson to be

> > learned!

> >

> > When saturn becomes the darakaraka and when it is neecha as in

your

> > case, even with cancellation of same, what gets cancelled is the

> non-

> > jeeva attributes of saturn, but the jeeva attributes, spouse in

> this

> > case would be considered as an encumberance, in most ways other

> than

> > material gains and comfort which please tell me if your marriage

> has

> > made it possible to bring to your life. That kalatrakaraka sits

> right

> > on the 8th and 7th pada in the house of gains, with moon the lord

> of

> > nurturing and emotions in the 12th in exaltation and strength, in

> > exchange with the lord of 2nd makes one wonder how instrumental

has

> > been the matters of raising a family and independence an ISSUE in

> > this marriage that you write about. When mars assumes the role of

> > atmakaraka and enjoys the company of brilliant mercury, there is

> the

> > tendency for emotions to be not utilized intelligently and

> intellect

> > being pushed a bit too harshly, abruptly and militantly!

> >

> > If there is a mother involved, particularly yours, then hopefully

> she

> > will step in in a different way after March 2007. Marriage is on

> the

> > rocks until then and is likely to not improve between now and

then.

> > There are too many stressors on the marriage and too

many "outside"

> > influences -- and not all good or well-intentioned.

> >

> > When saturn sits across from the big vacuum house that I call the

> > fifth (because it pushes one to draw energy through imagination,

> > through creativity and also through infatuations and day-dreams)

I

> > like to caution such nativities. When it comes to decisions that

> > involve emotions and particularly when the situation is about

> > loneliness, real or perceived, it is best to gather some well-

> > intentioned beings, relatives or friends around and seek counsel.

> > When loving planets and strong ones are involved in this

> > configuration, help arrives from strange quarters, from

benevolent

> > beings. However, when the saturn is not appeased or comfortable

or

> is

> > neecha and in the star of ketu, such encounters and beings cannot

> be

> > trusted too much. The strong involvement of the 4th house is why

I

> > ask you to concentrate on seeking help from your mother or a

mother

> > figure. Saturn is in ketu's star and ketu is in the fourth house

> with

> > its lord in lagna and in strength with a strong mars who is the

> > dispositor of saturn.

> >

> > This chart speaks of counsel, counsel, counsel -- begin with your

> own

> > mother, seek her help, then failing that seek the help of a woman

> > teacher, another mother figure that you trust (ketu generally

> points

> > towards an elder sister or maternal uncle's wife etc.).

> >

> > Why counsel and logic and communication, as opposed to some

magical

> > potion. Let us just say that a little messenger in your chart

told

> me!

> >

> > Incidentally, about kuja dosha. It is the other partner who does

> not

> > have a kujadosha or does not have an alternative (saturn) to

cancel

> > kuja dosha that suffers! Since you are suffering in this case, we

> > cannot pin it on the kuja dosha which is not even unchecked! For

> > obvious reasons!

> >

> > Make the most of the best you can do to understand the situation

> and

> > let the outcome evolve and not for whatever reason pre-determine

> the

> > bottom line (I want a divorce and everything will fall in place,

or

> > my second love will be all wonderful and everything will be hunky

> > dory) and then work your life around that improperly thought

about

> or

> > imposed bottom line!

> >

> > I hope you get some meaningful pointers out of this message. Good

> > luck and do not take things lightly.

> > think them through!

> >

> > RR

> >

> >

> >

> > , "newzade1" <newzade1@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide

some

> > > readings for me?

> > > I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget

> divorce?

> > If

> > > so, will

> > > I remaary? and when?

> > >

> > > my TOB : 4:30 AM

> > > gender: female

> > > DOB- Jule 22, 1968

> > > place of birth : New delhi

> > >

> > > Thanks

> > >

> >

>