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I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide some

readings for me?

I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget divorce? If

so, will

I remaary? and when?

 

my TOB : 4:30 AM

gender: female

DOB- Jule 22, 1968

place of birth : New delhi

 

Thanks

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Though in some circles marriage is taken somewhat lightly and

casually, marriage or comparable relationships according to some can

just not happen willy nilly, even in the case of someone like

Brittany Spears!

 

Karmic bonds, writer K.N. Rao wrotes and old debts lead to creating

relationships in this lifetime. The negative earlier relationships

may manifest as difficult relationships in this lifetime, even if the

relationship may be of a nature where one generally expects love and

the best of support, such as in a marriage or equivalent

relationship. There is nothing light and passing about any of these

relationships and good or bad, easy or difficult, they last as long

as it is needed for the karma to dissipate and the lesson to be

learned!

 

When saturn becomes the darakaraka and when it is neecha as in your

case, even with cancellation of same, what gets cancelled is the non-

jeeva attributes of saturn, but the jeeva attributes, spouse in this

case would be considered as an encumberance, in most ways other than

material gains and comfort which please tell me if your marriage has

made it possible to bring to your life. That kalatrakaraka sits right

on the 8th and 7th pada in the house of gains, with moon the lord of

nurturing and emotions in the 12th in exaltation and strength, in

exchange with the lord of 2nd makes one wonder how instrumental has

been the matters of raising a family and independence an ISSUE in

this marriage that you write about. When mars assumes the role of

atmakaraka and enjoys the company of brilliant mercury, there is the

tendency for emotions to be not utilized intelligently and intellect

being pushed a bit too harshly, abruptly and militantly!

 

If there is a mother involved, particularly yours, then hopefully she

will step in in a different way after March 2007. Marriage is on the

rocks until then and is likely to not improve between now and then.

There are too many stressors on the marriage and too many "outside"

influences -- and not all good or well-intentioned.

 

When saturn sits across from the big vacuum house that I call the

fifth (because it pushes one to draw energy through imagination,

through creativity and also through infatuations and day-dreams) I

like to caution such nativities. When it comes to decisions that

involve emotions and particularly when the situation is about

loneliness, real or perceived, it is best to gather some well-

intentioned beings, relatives or friends around and seek counsel.

When loving planets and strong ones are involved in this

configuration, help arrives from strange quarters, from benevolent

beings. However, when the saturn is not appeased or comfortable or is

neecha and in the star of ketu, such encounters and beings cannot be

trusted too much. The strong involvement of the 4th house is why I

ask you to concentrate on seeking help from your mother or a mother

figure. Saturn is in ketu's star and ketu is in the fourth house with

its lord in lagna and in strength with a strong mars who is the

dispositor of saturn.

 

This chart speaks of counsel, counsel, counsel -- begin with your own

mother, seek her help, then failing that seek the help of a woman

teacher, another mother figure that you trust (ketu generally points

towards an elder sister or maternal uncle's wife etc.).

 

Why counsel and logic and communication, as opposed to some magical

potion. Let us just say that a little messenger in your chart told me!

 

Incidentally, about kuja dosha. It is the other partner who does not

have a kujadosha or does not have an alternative (saturn) to cancel

kuja dosha that suffers! Since you are suffering in this case, we

cannot pin it on the kuja dosha which is not even unchecked! For

obvious reasons!

 

Make the most of the best you can do to understand the situation and

let the outcome evolve and not for whatever reason pre-determine the

bottom line (I want a divorce and everything will fall in place, or

my second love will be all wonderful and everything will be hunky

dory) and then work your life around that improperly thought about or

imposed bottom line!

 

I hope you get some meaningful pointers out of this message. Good

luck and do not take things lightly.

think them through!

 

RR

 

 

 

, "newzade1" <newzade1

wrote:

>

> I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide some

> readings for me?

> I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget divorce?

If

> so, will

> I remaary? and when?

>

> my TOB : 4:30 AM

> gender: female

> DOB- Jule 22, 1968

> place of birth : New delhi

>

> Thanks

>

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It will take full one year for the divorce to take place. Second marriage will be in June 2008, but there are chances that it will be more unhappy than the present one.

 

 

Regards,

 

Ashutosh

 

 

 

 

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newzade1

Saturday, 18 November, 2006 07:21

Problems in married life

 

 

I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide some

readings for me?

I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget divorce? If

so, will

I remaary? and when?

 

my TOB : 4:30 AM

gender: female

DOB- Jule 22, 1968

place of birth : New delhi

 

Thanks

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Hi,

 

I am not very acurate in the reading but I will say lord of ur 7th house

jupiter (in 3rd house) is hemmed between 2 malefics.

 

And by 22nd oct 2007 you should get divorce.

 

Regards

SG

 

 

On 11/18/06, newzade1 <newzade1 > wrote:

>

> I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide some

> readings for me?

> I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget divorce? If

> so, will

> I remaary? and when?

>

> my TOB : 4:30 AM

> gender: female

> DOB- Jule 22, 1968

> place of birth : New delhi

>

> Thanks

>

>

>

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Dear Rohini Ranjan

 

Thanks so much for a detail analysis.

You are right at many things...I do feel that I am paying for old

karmic debts. I would like my marriage to work. It's my husband who

is filing for divorce. I have tried everything to talk to him..but no

avail. I will see the 'mother' figure to get involved. I am not

sure if my husband s even ready to talk about this issue with any

one.

Please let me know if you have any advice. Or, if you can predict

anything..(i want to prepare myself for the worst)

Thanks

Satinder

 

 

-- In , "Rohiniranjan"

<jyotish_vani wrote:

>

> Though in some circles marriage is taken somewhat lightly and

> casually, marriage or comparable relationships according to some

can

> just not happen willy nilly, even in the case of someone like

> Brittany Spears!

>

> Karmic bonds, writer K.N. Rao wrotes and old debts lead to creating

> relationships in this lifetime. The negative earlier relationships

> may manifest as difficult relationships in this lifetime, even if

the

> relationship may be of a nature where one generally expects love

and

> the best of support, such as in a marriage or equivalent

> relationship. There is nothing light and passing about any of these

> relationships and good or bad, easy or difficult, they last as long

> as it is needed for the karma to dissipate and the lesson to be

> learned!

>

> When saturn becomes the darakaraka and when it is neecha as in your

> case, even with cancellation of same, what gets cancelled is the

non-

> jeeva attributes of saturn, but the jeeva attributes, spouse in

this

> case would be considered as an encumberance, in most ways other

than

> material gains and comfort which please tell me if your marriage

has

> made it possible to bring to your life. That kalatrakaraka sits

right

> on the 8th and 7th pada in the house of gains, with moon the lord

of

> nurturing and emotions in the 12th in exaltation and strength, in

> exchange with the lord of 2nd makes one wonder how instrumental has

> been the matters of raising a family and independence an ISSUE in

> this marriage that you write about. When mars assumes the role of

> atmakaraka and enjoys the company of brilliant mercury, there is

the

> tendency for emotions to be not utilized intelligently and

intellect

> being pushed a bit too harshly, abruptly and militantly!

>

> If there is a mother involved, particularly yours, then hopefully

she

> will step in in a different way after March 2007. Marriage is on

the

> rocks until then and is likely to not improve between now and then.

> There are too many stressors on the marriage and too many "outside"

> influences -- and not all good or well-intentioned.

>

> When saturn sits across from the big vacuum house that I call the

> fifth (because it pushes one to draw energy through imagination,

> through creativity and also through infatuations and day-dreams) I

> like to caution such nativities. When it comes to decisions that

> involve emotions and particularly when the situation is about

> loneliness, real or perceived, it is best to gather some well-

> intentioned beings, relatives or friends around and seek counsel.

> When loving planets and strong ones are involved in this

> configuration, help arrives from strange quarters, from benevolent

> beings. However, when the saturn is not appeased or comfortable or

is

> neecha and in the star of ketu, such encounters and beings cannot

be

> trusted too much. The strong involvement of the 4th house is why I

> ask you to concentrate on seeking help from your mother or a mother

> figure. Saturn is in ketu's star and ketu is in the fourth house

with

> its lord in lagna and in strength with a strong mars who is the

> dispositor of saturn.

>

> This chart speaks of counsel, counsel, counsel -- begin with your

own

> mother, seek her help, then failing that seek the help of a woman

> teacher, another mother figure that you trust (ketu generally

points

> towards an elder sister or maternal uncle's wife etc.).

>

> Why counsel and logic and communication, as opposed to some magical

> potion. Let us just say that a little messenger in your chart told

me!

>

> Incidentally, about kuja dosha. It is the other partner who does

not

> have a kujadosha or does not have an alternative (saturn) to cancel

> kuja dosha that suffers! Since you are suffering in this case, we

> cannot pin it on the kuja dosha which is not even unchecked! For

> obvious reasons!

>

> Make the most of the best you can do to understand the situation

and

> let the outcome evolve and not for whatever reason pre-determine

the

> bottom line (I want a divorce and everything will fall in place, or

> my second love will be all wonderful and everything will be hunky

> dory) and then work your life around that improperly thought about

or

> imposed bottom line!

>

> I hope you get some meaningful pointers out of this message. Good

> luck and do not take things lightly.

> think them through!

>

> RR

>

>

>

> , "newzade1" <newzade1@>

> wrote:

> >

> > I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide some

> > readings for me?

> > I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget

divorce?

> If

> > so, will

> > I remaary? and when?

> >

> > my TOB : 4:30 AM

> > gender: female

> > DOB- Jule 22, 1968

> > place of birth : New delhi

> >

> > Thanks

> >

>

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Dear Rohiniranjanji,

 

I got married on 20th Aprl and I am getting trouble in my marriage life.

As my wife started giving me indication that she doesn't want to continue

the marriage.

Please advice me.

 

My details

 

DOB 26 - 10 - 1976

Time 5:50 am

Place Kanpur (UP)

 

My wife's details

DOB 25 - 6 - 1978

Time 10:15 pm

Place Burnpur (Asansol West Bengal)

 

PLease guide me and how i over come the mental anguish

 

Regards

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